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if you're busy, you wont have too much time to focus exclusively on haters.

if however, the hatred is getting too much and interfering with your peace of mind, then pray (not fetish prayer), and find out what they hate you for, try to see if its something that can be modified and if you can meet them halfway.

all this is assuming you're not intentionally causing offence.

satanism is really struggling to gain a stronghold in nigeria.

i suppose you're in some sort of covenant which precludes you from marrying.

@ universal

thanks, i think.

he's actually of italian ancestry as well, not sure why its only the german part people are seeing.

he doesnt even look german, imo.

he's more of a meditterranean(sp) appearance.

Sex and the Christian II

I do not intend to dwell too long on this topic, but will add a few more words and move on.



Much of today's culture is sex oriented- sex is everywhere, and selling sex is considered the norm. Sex is sold through various means- p.orn, dressing, internet, suggestion, what have you.

Can a christian escape this constant barrage of sex being thrown at him or her? Not unless you move to a different planet or cut off all communication with the outside world.

Its up to you what you want to feed your mind on, ie if you want to focus ONLY on sex, or if you want to give the holy spirit a chance to purify your mind and deliver you from diverse lusts.

11 In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus.

12 Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires.

13 Do not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness.

14 For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.

sex within marriage is not sin, but diverse lusts which expressly encourage things like fornication and adultery, is.



And, as in all things, remember satan's plan is to destroy you. Therefore, enjoying any pleasures which cut off communication with God, are all aiming towards this goal.


heb 11:25b

than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;

the pleasures of sin are for a season, not forever. The consequences though, are forever.


All in all, the point here is we do not run as one beating the air but rather we discipline our bodies for a cause, whatever controls you, is your master. If sex controls you,then sex is your master. However, our master is supposed to be God.


heb 13

Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral

oftentimes you find outsiders people eager to give solicited or unsolicited advice on how sex should be performed within a marriage. People with varying opinions, some christian, some anti-christian, some married, some unmarried, all seem to "know" exactly how others should have s.ex, and are very vocal in telling them so.

My opinion is, as i mentioned before, there is plenty of christian literature which discuss sex. The bible also discusses sex. Any advice you receive, should still be viewed within the context of the word of God, and likewise, within the context of what you want and are comfortable with, as a person. Combine these two factors, and proceed from there.

As i said, my opinion.

lastly, i have been in christian seminars where sex was discussed, including times when i was very young (as a teenager), and not once did I hear anybody mention the "sex is supposed to be dull and boring" allegation which is flying round these parts. As with most other imaginary boogeytales non-christians tend to come up with when thinking of their own fears, the myth is based on half truths, outright untruths, and/or joblessness or amebo.

If, however, you are frigid (most or some of us can identify with that), then find out the root of the problem, if its due to a medically treatable condition, inexperience or some other factor.

Sex and the Christian

had a series about this last year, which kept being moved to sexuality section, i guess the mods werent comfortable with the subject matter, or my moniker posting on the subject matter.

However, I'm not that much of a stranger to sexuality section anyway. Used to spend some time there [others too] for reasons related to the brazenness on display, what a racket, certainly not for the faint of heart or immature christian. Please do not copy me btw. Some of these things are dangerous and will not help your faith.

in summary, will just say sex within christian guidelines, ie marriage, can be structured along the examples found in songs of solomon.

victorian era attitudes to sexuality are from centuries ago, when practically the whole world was the same way [african culture included].

however, its encouraged for the christian to do what they are comfortable doing, not what others [mostly anti-christian unbelievers] feel they should be comfortable doing.

there's way too much pokenosing and amebo gbeborun going on anyway.

if you need help in this area, christian based books abound on the subject.

may God guide us in Jesus name, amen.

see if we can draw some possitives from Pope Bernedict the XVI decision to step down and what our expectations are for the next pontiff.

i was going to jot something down on the implications and likely scenarios as a result of the pope's resignation, but i think i got distracted with some other things.

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one of the reasons why the following is such an erroneous statement:

simply put it that lagos apart,all other sw states are slow in development due to many internal and external factors, not that the people like it that way.

Antivirus92: simply put it that lagos apart,all other sw states are slow in development due to many internal and external factors, not that the people like it that way.

actually most of them do.

might be occult related.

^well, good for you.

just go easy on the chest beating before they cook some stew for you.

although it seems that thing no dey affect single men sha.

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there are only two people in that photo.

put your wedding outfits back on and take the pictures again.

why all the unnecessary drama and spamming, gosh.

the minute anyone saw "swivelled", it should have removed any lingering doubt as to the fantasy aspect of the write up.

assuming there was some gullibility to begin with, on the part of the reader.

btw make una no spam the forum o, @ op.

let me just rewrite what i posted on the other thread.

hmm, history has been made.

a generation seeing what generations before them never saw.

oh well, God is on his throne.

mostly nice

the minute anyone saw "swivelled", it should have removed any lingering doubt as to the fantasy aspect of the write up.

assuming there was some gullibility to begin with, on the part of the reader.

^ obviously, you hate women.


and forgot you have a mother.

and yes, you're gay.

does he by any chance dislike his black relatives?

this is getting a bit much.

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why is that person following me?

God punish devil o.


nightime being no dey show face for day o, father look into this matter.

both high and low.

Omg, is the next pope going to be asian?

I looked up pictures of castel gandolfo, it looks nice, very stately, but seems quite smaller than the vatican.

Na him sabi.

May God forgive him and those who fed him the jazz, because satan most certainly wont.

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