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ikooko:
Guy, stop there. No make me vex ooo. Try and be on the stance of reality, 6 years into marriage is not enough to brand yourself a sincere husband: no offense intended though.

If you must know, I sincerely dated my wife for 13 good years before marriage and i have spent more years in marriage than you; simply put, I and my wife have been together for more than 20 years. To me, that is the short-run, but as time fly by it just started happening, truth is I cant say exactly how or when it started. In my case it just started flowing naturally not on a regular basis though ( 2wice a year at most and av done some years without it) and at most a couple of weeks max. I can never be a victim of any love child nor 2nd wife palava because i know the odds and my ladies understand and are ok with it. My strength is: keep it very brief and simple.

The irony is that if you are opportuned to meet me and my family and you are single, you may wish for a committed husband like me, and if you are married, you'll recommend me as a role model to your husband not to add that my wife would kill you if you dare connect her wonderful husband to infidelity.

Please ladies, don't crucify me on this, am only responding to the thread from a realist point of view. I no dey deceive myself.

1. dating 13 years.

2. people like this are the reason why nigeria does not progress. They have no integrity and are extremely unreliable. Zero credibility as well.

ikooko:
my mouth - aproko.

you dont say.

wow, from "all men will cheat" to "all men will participate in t.hreesomes".


where are those pretenders who lied that 98% of nl males arent gaay?

keep the exposes coming folks!

dedicate time meaning?

yes, one would expect there to be a journal of some kind but i doubt there's one.

journal keeping is a white thing.

nigerians back then went by word of mouth.

@ full lips

you made a mistake on another thread.

And your handle indeed suggests you're male.

She might have changed the name or left fb.

The page was there before.

I wouldnt say women are more virtuous than men but they tend to be more religious than men, generally speaking.

I think it has something to do with emotions.

It would seem the poster is male.

Seriously, you people are starting to get on my nerves with all your nagging.

Divorce rates among nigerians are at an all time high so get with the program, face the reality and quit moaning everywhere.

Abroad where many of you run to, sees broken homes as a normal part of life so stop fronting as if its something you never heard of before. Broken home doesnt stop you from marrying for green card so lets end the fronting.

My point is enough whining and use the search function.

If anybody refuses to date or marry you because you're from a broken home, thank the person and keep moving.

Rin si waju as they say back home.

No need to get clinically depressed over it unless you dont want to hear word.

What's yorusa.

hope there's a mod who can lock this repetitive thread and post the link to the other one.

@ op

use the search function before starting silly topics.

mkmyers45:
Actually its a welcome development but it wont stop the embarrassment when you try to enter america abi?

it wont stop the embarassment when you try to enter anywhere.

easy to leave nigeria, hard to return to nigeria.

kind of hard to be tripped about marriage when the divorce rates are so high.

govts in poorer countries need to start doing something both culturally and infrastructurally to alleviate the plight of the common man.

people will stop fleeing if they have jobs and opportunities in their own countries. And it will stem the flow of emigration as well.

this type of rampage was too deadly.

May God help us.

could also be they're all fake or sneaky?

@ topic

true.