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wow, hoti tima has really improved herself.


before and after pictures, or the metamorphosis.

or is it the lighting.

@ cold

i think you have a deep seated fear which needs to be addressed or else you'll always be lonely with or without any female partner.

any dl tendencies?

as far as i know, people are generally advised, when seeking accommodation in lagos, to do so during the rainy season.



that way  you can find out where the flood areas are.

[img]http://commongoodpolitics.files./2008/06/cedar-rapids-flood.jpg[/img]


https://www.city-data.com/disaster-photos/photos/3458.jpg


https://farm4.static.flickr.com/3116/2589916825_f8407c86eb.jpg



https://i.imwx.com/web/news/2010/august/ia-flooding8-081110-439x330.jpg

is that lagos?

@ topic

another problem is most cheaters wouldnt know what to do with themselves should they not cheat.

some men are conditioned to switch partners regularly. They'd consider it the work of their enemies and a bad situation if they were unable to cheat.

cheating is part and parcel of their lifestyle and to them, cheating is like breathing and eating.

coogar:
well, the truth must always prevail. in these days of dna matching and stuffs, enough married women in nigeria have been ditched by their husbands after several years of deception. i know a man who never knew his children were biologically made by another man until recently. he's now old and gray and might not be able to father a child again!

^^so he should have let sleeping dogs lie.

same way the women do.

why did he give himself hypertension.

the crying fellow in the popeyes photo looks somali or ethiopian.

those people [especially the men] are black americans?

would never have guessed they were anything but african.

^^


1. there's no 75 year old on nl, imo.

2. those statistics would vary depending on race and ethnicity.

blacks, for example, would consistently rank lower on these types of indices.

coogar:
i disagree. . . .
a woman can raise a bastard child and claim the husband as the father. men don't have this opportunity. . . .so there's a difference between a man cheating and a woman cheating. . . . .if men get pregnant too, it would have been even stevens, but as it is. . . .a cheating woman is more dangerous, disgraceful and grotesque.

like i said, as long as nobody knows whatever, all is well.

if the basstard child becomes a billionaire tomorrow, its for the common good.

the thing with sex is its a soulish connection.

so, once you enter the lifestyle of cheating [before or after marriage], you're joining your soul to the person you cheat with. [and every other person he/she has slept with as well].

so, you're in a network of bonds/chains with a vast number of people, most of whom you've never met. That's the addiction factor.

if that works for you, kudos until you seek Jesus.




the other thing about casual sex is it's very easy to cultivate that habit in others who arent promiscuous as you. That's why you have so many men and women insisting there are no men who dont cheat. Just display your butt, bosom or whatever is considered s.exual- after a while the man may be conditioned to get excited whenever he sees these things. Re: pavlov's experiments, video vixens, culture of n.udity, etc.

it's because they know how easy it is to make a non-cheater fall. It's like spreading a virus- very easy to acquire but not easy to discard after you have it.


soulish things usually operate that way.

semid4lyfe:
THIS is exactly what I mean by regular posters in this section deliberately flouting forum rules and posting topics that should be in other sections here. . ._{just cos the thread will get more responses}

When/If the thread is moved to the Education board, the OP will then start a thread to ask why the thread was moved.

and you dont feel like explaining why the thread was moved to wherever you deem fit?

the ikorodu flooding from last year, was due to dams being opened elsewhere.

@ topic

anyway, no sweating.

if the man cant stop cheating, then the woman can also do the same.

as long as nobody brings stds home or spills the beans, everybody's happy.

In this overly sexualized world all men are tempted but few survive the temptation. Not all men are cheaters, but majority have given it a thought

thank you.




@ topic

so, if we assume all men cheat, will these same men start shouting that products of broken homes always expect a man to cheat.

yet see the thread where it came straight from the horses' mouth.

shouldnt rccg have it's own bank by now?

i suspect all four are relatively new converts, going by the names.

three mohammeds- obvious. Many new converts choose or are given this name.

adam [not adamu?]- two of them are called adam, rather unusual imo. Signifying the new beginning?


the names sound like they were given them. Root names used to identify particular sets of people.

just guessing of course.

saudis themselves tend to have long names consisting of up to or more than five phonemes and often including  "al" or "bin".


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080302022246AAAQuk1

@walala or what do you call yourself

your posts count as some of the daftest on nl.

when you have time and arent in a drug induced haze, ask yourself if you arent downlow or turning downlow, like the ones who were before you.

eni ri nkan he to fe ku tori e.

ikooko:
maybe i should just add another dimension to this issue for d sake of our friends outside d country.
This days in naija, if a lady wants a man. she go all out to achieve this to d extent of jazzing him up and to think that married men and comfortable guys are their target for whatever reasons.

its not only naija.

even overseas you'll be amazed to find ladies jumping on any man they see wearing a ring. Some totally ignore any man without one.

Look at this scenario, how many men can bost that they have not backslidden in their commitment God talkless of humans like themselves in this context their wives, what is d % and how many wives are lucky enof to be in this category? often times some of them end up in disaster of a lovechild or 2nd wife.
I am not saying there are no exceptions but in my opinion as naija is concerned, it is a matter of time. funny enough those women will be too preoccupied with marrital issues to share their true life experience on NL.

you do not have to be religious to be committed to your wife.

some non-religious people are more disciplined than religious ones when it comes to relationships.

it all boils down to personal choice.

and why should anyone feel obliged to share anything with nl?

those who want to share, should do so, but do you get paid for sharing something or why the imperative tone.

the key thing when it comes to cheating is your prior experiences while unmarried are what determine the way you react to women after marriage.

for those who are religious, then it takes the grace of God to be delivered from temptation, while others who arent religious, might not struggle in that manner since they werent inclined like that anyway.

OAM4J:
But I will admit that most men do and giving the chance most men will marry more than 1 wife.

it's majorly an african male attitude to assume all males would prefer to marry more than one wife.

why is it so hard to believe there are men who do not want that?

not all men like the thought of carrying different women on their heads all roped to their [the men's] down below.

I think black men have the tendency to cheat and be polygamous  more  than any race

all the downlow ones proudly affirming their right to cheat - kindly marry hookers and spare us the sob stories.