₦airaland Forum

Godmother:
Yes the OP is a very bitter person which is why I'm so glad this is coming from her. At least it shows change is on the way

Godmother:
So... I noticed that whenever I visit any of my male friends or even a chiker, they always insist on paying my fare back. Me I always refuse the money, especially if its the first time I'm visiting. Wanna ask, is it like a norn now to give money to a girl when she visits? And I'm I in the wrong for rejecting the offer.

tpia5:
^ someone suffering from IBS needs to see a doctor and modify his or her diet.

Putting on a happy face is not what is relevant here.

Attend to your health, not be the life of a party or keep hoping others dont smell your gas.


let's stick to topic plz.

This is how you people keep missing it because you just cant focus on a topic but everything you see is always coloured by your insecurities.

go to health section if you need to discuss IBS, and stop making fun of someone who has an illness, jeez. You think you can never fall sick or die suddenly?

iry5648:
I once listened to a motivational speak about happiness and one thing I picked out from his speech was about not allowing ourselves to be ruled by other peoples judgement. That shouldn't determine our fate . Sometimes we are covered by our blue print which is the way we expect life to be .The secret to happiness lies in our blueprint. If you change your blue print life changes.

For example I know of someone who suffers from an illness known as IBS (Irritable bowel Syndrome) with frequent bloating and indigestion symptoms. People complain about the way she smells due to the excessive flatulence issue but she doesn't let that bother her. She trys as much as possible to ignore people comments and be happy and smile even though it doesn't come from her heart (thats what she said) but she still maintains that smile and positivity and thats because she has changed her blue print about life in this case ignoring what people say and telling herself it doesn't matter what people say or think because that not who she is.

In summary it boils down to maintaining a positive outlook even in impossible/difficult situations(not so easy I must say). You definitely have control over whether to be happy or sad/depressed.

wristwatch:
God will show us.

IamOdin:
Just as one Bae told me moments ago,"i don't have ur time" buh she's stalking me.

Basildvalour:
Becoming bad because of a lady

MrsChima:
Yes...my inlaws are igbo. I am sure other Nigerian men are skilled talkers...but Yoruba men created the lead! IMO.

Sex isn't a romance but quality time together is romantic. I don't care for flowers as gifts.

Sing me a song on key or off key is romantic to me!

babacha:
The position is a matured position of 4 to 5 years experience and is more of supervising. Is an engineering field and he answer 85% of the technical question correctly

Dannylux:
A person's physical appearance (phenotype) had little or nothing to contribute in determination of the person's progeny's complexion. It's all about the genes, skin colour determination is hugely genotypical.

These things skip generation. It depends on heterogeneity or homogeneity likewise the dominance or recessiveness of either of the genes (light skin and dark skin genes). It's even possible for you two to birth an albino!

If two of you are carriers(Cc) of dark skin gene.. you'd have a 3:1 ratio of fair to dark skin. If CC.. then you'd have all fair kids but when the recessive gene is homogeneous (cc), in this case, there's only one possibility.. Dark skinned kids all through but does it matter?

There shouldn't be discrimination amongst Africans on the bases of skin colour. Educate your Mum on this.

This is Africa.