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(Nigerian) born again Christians should follow the sexual advice in the bible. Which is, if you can't marry, then hold off sex until you can. Non Christians are free to enjoy themselves as they like, and have anyone they choose as their role models. |
If you noticed ategun also doesnt have consonants together, then note the n at the end which is not followed by a verb. It's just some rules of Yoruba semantics, not necessarily always consistent. |
Your posts are too lengthy for me to want to analyze in detail, so I just pick points here and there to respond to. Similarly, if your assiciation of the Yoruba word "Ofurufu" to the Yoruba word "Afefe" is anything to go by, then it will be making my point rather than yours because it will be showing that this word is cognate with another Yoruba word, and hence always part of the Yoruba language.Afefe is recent because an older Yoruba word for wind is ategun. One easy way to guess which words are recent and which are not likely to be loaned are break it down into it's constituent parts and see if it still has a meaning. Afefe (fluff) is difficult to explain in Yoruba because it's a whole word and has vowels inserted between the consonants, meaning it could be a loan word from another language. Ategun on the other hand, is descriptive (remember this is important because most subsaharan Africans do not have a written language therefore they store their history via oratory, among other things. You can analyze ategun (wind) by breaking it into smaller units and it still makes sense. Ate could be to step or we step (on), referring to the far reaches of the wind which goes everywhere. Long refers to the same. Te can mean spread as in a long or wide spread. The clusters of ofurufu, afefe, efulefu and fluff which all have similar descriptive contexts (wind, emptiness, etc), indicates the Yoruba words are recent additions. Recent could mean anything up to 200 years, minus or plus. |
When they WERE ASKED TO LEAVE in 1960, all those places you see infrastructure today were BUSH. No road led to your village. It was a bush path that led there. Go and ask your elders if you don't know.Note the bolded. |
Was it not Nigerian leaders who built EVERYTHING we see around us today? All the infrastructure, airports, flyovers, roads, expressways, bridges, 200 universities, power plants. WE BUILT THEM, not the white colonialists.With what expertise were they built? My point is, it's western technology which many Nigerians are uncomfortable with anyway. Nigerians don't plan on a general level but a tribal or ethnic one, meaning anything involving a unitary backing, is most likely foreign. |
The colonialists that your dumb heads are praising, what did they do with the TRILLIONS OF DOLLARS (in today's money) they looted from Nigeria?I think you mean pounds, not dollars. And it probably wasn't in the trillions, there wasn't even any oil then except for palm oil. The oil boom didnt come until the seventies. As per what they did, much of Lagos was developed by them, other parts by the Brazilian returnees. eg they (colonialists) sandfilled many parts of Lagos, thus increasing the landmass and creating more places for people to move to. They also built many towns and cities for freed and returning slaves. They established agricultural development (also assisted by black Nigerians), forming a base for wealth creation. They engaged native peoples in cultural dialogue in order to save rejects and outcasts who then became productive members of society. Some of these dialogues involved hard cash or wealth generating opportunities in exchange for people's freedom. Remember many Nigerian peoples saw no reason to end the slave trade or unconventional practices of population control. They brought an uneasy and difficult peace to the country of Nigeria. This was not done easily or for free. And they took the peace with them after leaving. |
The colonialists that your dumb heads are praising, what did they do with the TRILLIONS OF DOLLARS (in today's money) they looted from Nigeria? Or your dull head doesn't know they ruled for 100 years and built near zero of anything? |
ie what advice would a male likely give, and what type of advice would often come from a female . Minimize sex talk please. |
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![]() Especially Nigerians abroad. |
Your question should be why was it important they leave the garden permanently? |
Be civilized without being told. |
Its annoying when you do that. Where are the ones preaching about turning a new leaf in 2020? Nowhere? |
and then, you just have to leave them to their self aggrandizement because it's simply not fruitful calling them out for their behaviour, it's entrenched in them and very exhausting for you. |
especially when the other people are the ones with the problem but they blame it all on you while ignoring theirs. Meaning they never apologize because they call you crazy. And they believe you deserve everything you're going through. |
You could always try to apologize if you read a woman wrongly. As long as that's all it was. |
The Nigerian books about travel to every part of Nigeria, |
Around the world in 80 days, |
Blefuscu, Glubbdubdrib, etc. |
I haven't been to a lot of islands but I like the concept of being different from the continents. It seems strange to those of us from inland Africa but not so strange to the people on the coasts who have islands close to them. |
@ topic Clarify further if a girl mentions money, so you can actually know if she is asking you for money or not. |
Also, just for the record (and offtopic), if you sound like someone else here and I ask if you are the other moniker, a simple yes or no is ok. I am not asking in order to besmirch you, I'm asking because I want to know if you are that person. Please take note, @ the supporters et al. If I am called another moniker, I make the effort to let people know if it is or isn't me. Shouldn't be a big deal unless I'm missing something. Sometimes it's very hard to interact with Nigerians or perhaps nairalanders, they take offence at just about everything if you arent in their clique. Permanent "fight" mode. |
I like the idea. |
I don't believe asking for further clarification on a post means the asker is a troll. It simply means they dont understand and would like it explained. |
Robert1da:Explain in clearer language please, just so we know what you're saying. |
When a guy also is not that financially buoyant, he would have money worries of his own. This could lead to an unwitting or inadverdent reaction when a female mentions something pertaining to money. |
Most of the males here do give the impression they are not used to seeing females who work and have their own money. They say all the women they meet ask them for cash. |
It's possible people don't realise women work just as hard as men and also have expenses of their own which they attend to. So, discussing money or finances is not only a man's domain. My opinion. |
I think sometimes context matters, but it's always advisable to clarify further before assuming. I know the general consensus here is Nigerian females are after a man's money and prefer he carries all expenses. |
Talk. |
What advice do you need on how to cope? |
Just think and appreciate, dont type. - Are you single? Thank God for your health - Are you sick? Thank God for healing even if it's yet to manifest - Are you facing challenges getting married? Thank God for your job, your friends, etc - Do you have personal challenges? Thank God for being there for you even if you dont know it -Are you unemployed? Thank God for opening a place for you and keeping you all the while -Have you had problems that placed you in a difficult position? Thank God for providing succour no matter how insufficient it might seem |
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