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 Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by TR1212: 3:57pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
debbie:Hi everyone. Debby posted this some days ago and I applied. I have an interview with them tomorrow and I need some info. Their website isn't helpful and the guy above doesn't seem to be helping either. Can someone tell me if it's a scam? If theres any other reason why is shouldn't go, I'd like to know so I can decide for myself if it's worth it or not. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by TR1212: 9:04pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
apollo13:I'm asking if it's gnld or scam or whatever. There should be a reason why it's not worth the stress. I got the same invite and i'd like some info. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by TR1212: 7:55pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
apollo13:Why please? |
| Family › Re: Should My Friend Marry Her? by TR1212: 8:16pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Why do people do this all the time? The girl was open enough to say she can't cook. The man heard her loud and clear when she said it and he understood. It is his life and his choice. Why is he pushing this major life changing choice unto his friend to help him make a decision? If he fears that you'll feel bad if he dumps the girl, please assuage those fears. You have to tell your colleague the truth and make him understand you won't judge or hold grudges. The girl has a big problem. If the problem was just lack of skills, then he could enrol her in a catering school to learn or employ a cook while she picks up. But in this case, she is LAZY! She hates to cook, knows it and isn't ready to learn! Now if your friend isn't ready to do the cooking like she said, please, tell him to find his way. Frankly, if you like that your colleague who's turned a friend, this could be the best thing you'd do for him. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Matured Guys From 35 And Above Needed For Advice by TR1212: 6:47pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
gentlemafia:What's your point? Does it matter? Chat her up if you want to and stop looking for amebo gist. 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: In A Dilemma, Advice Please by TR1212: 7:56pm On Aug 10, 2017 |
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| Family › Re: In A Dilemma, Advice Please by TR1212: 7:55pm On Aug 10, 2017 |
johnsonpal:Lol... Abeg, I'm a sister Biko. |
| Family › Re: In A Dilemma, Advice Please by TR1212: 2:41pm On Aug 10, 2017 |
| Family › Re: In A Dilemma, Advice Please by TR1212: 4:03pm On Aug 09, 2017*. Modified: 2:41pm On Aug 10, 2017 |
johnsonpal:There are no short cuts here, uncle and no secret too, so you need not fret over how to tell her. Whatever is going on, she already knows and even caused. Just tell her your true intentions and that in light of all whats happening, you think it's best she takes time away to figure out what she wants. But remember, the babe is no longer what who you remember her to be. You really really need to see some changes before you believe her. If she comes back tomorrow and says she's left the other guy and now wants you alone, take it with a pinch of salt. She's been lying to you from the beginning about her boyfriend, I dont know what makes you think she's not lying about her feelings for you now, or that she won't lie again in future on such serious things. All the best brother, I hope you've learnt your lessons to value what you have. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: In A Dilemma, Advice Please by TR1212: 10:25pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
When you were a player, she was a nice girl. Now you are the nice guy, she's a slay queen. What makes you think she's not slaying with you now given that she's changed from what you remembered? You need to distance yourself uncle. Give her some very goooood space. It's certain you want her for the right reasons, but it's not certain she feels same. Free her, allow her to fly, if she's yours, she'll sort things out with the other guy(s) and find her way back to you. 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: War Room Movie: Not As 'perfect' As It Sounds? by TR1212: 2:22am On Aug 08, 2017 |
bukatyne:I do not know how to argue the bibile. To each his understanding according to the will of the Holy Spirit. So i'll let that slide. However, for someone who could barely say graces before meals, to suddenly start casting and binding demons, makes me kinda wonder why there are satanic influences and manipulations if it is that easy. The movie should probably have centered on God's graces and mercies upon us when we call on him, instead, it spoke more about some Instant power you receive to CHANGE THINGS as you wish upon being born again. Don't know if i'm making sense, but somehow, I still think the message(s) in that movie didn't come out as strong as I'd have expected. I'm inclined to agree with @Darkrebel69 and many other posters on this thread. A redeemed pastor I knew years back once told his church members during service that "marriage is 99% physical". I don't know what it is exactly. Haven't been able to place hands on it, but I still maintain that the movie lacked in some aspects. Maybe it is because it is one of a kind and a great opportunity for the entire production crew to pass a wonderful message about marriage and its challenges. Maybe I have to watch it again and then come back and criticize better. But it is a good movie still. God be praised |
| Family › Re: War Room Movie: Not As 'perfect' As It Sounds? by TR1212: 8:55pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Hmmmm.... Can't believe I read this whole epistle. Longest post I've had to read on nairaland. Well constructed, although this critic has way too much time. In any case, take away his "out of home" criticism(which I believe to be arrant gibberish), he made some sense. I dont know what It is but when I watched the movie, I kinda felt my Nollywood brothers and sisters would've done better. The rate at which the lead actress turned to a stunch spiri-koko, so much so that she was even commanding the devil...  Plus a couple of other things.... Oh well, what do I know? Na feem... It is a good movie though. Rating: 3.5 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Ladies: If He Hasn't Bought You A Gift After 3months Of Dating Do This... by TR1212: 4:25pm On Jul 15, 2017 |
emzeezlee:Read well before you quote people. Didn't you notice that SHAKUE there is in quote? Or didn't you see that I was quoting the op and pointing out her mistake? Next time, Pls ask for explanations if you do not understand my comment. Otherwise, desist from quoting me. |
| Romance › Re: Men Give Love For Sex: Women Give Sex For Love; True Or False by TR1212: 10:58pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Men give sex for sex...women give sex for love |
| Romance › Re: Ladies: If He Hasn't Bought You A Gift After 3months Of Dating Do This... by TR1212: 10:53pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
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| Romance › Re: Ladies: If He Hasn't Bought You A Gift After 3months Of Dating Do This... by TR1212: 10:42pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Caustics:Lol, are you surprised? Or what more do you expect from someone who's in sambisa chilling with "shekue" |
| Romance › Re: Ladies: If He Hasn't Bought You A Gift After 3months Of Dating Do This... by TR1212: 10:17pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Which kind post be this abeg? Wetin person no go read on nairaland? Hian!!!! 2 Likes |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Partially New In Lagos, Need New Friends... by TR1212(op): 1:48pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Chuzzyone:Basic level. Just friends. For whatever level one wishes you attain in a relationship, you must start from somewhere. You dont jump the process. I dont need a next level anything with strangers. So what I want, are friends. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Partially New In Lagos, Need New Friends... by TR1212(op): 11:18pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Chuzzyone:Thanks for your comment, but i'm not sure I understand you pls |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Partially New In Lagos, Need New Friends... by TR1212(op): 5:29pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Thank you... |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Partially New In Lagos, Need New Friends... by TR1212(op): 6:17pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
kudoxs:Hmm... I dont think anyone here has that fear more than I do, but I'm here taking the risk. I can't live my life for others neither will I let their wrong perceptions define me. People will think what that want regardless of where or how you met. As for the "big cassava" crew, oh well, I honestly pray they dont worry me, but if they do, hmm... Make I no talk too much sha, but it's not hard to use their story to keep the thread alive. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by TR1212: 4:57pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
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| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Partially New In Lagos, Need New Friends... by TR1212(op): 4:51pm On Jul 08, 2017*. Modified: 5:24pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Hi everyone!! Happy weekend to us all. So I posted this in the family section months back, but it was if I opened my doors to married men. So here I am... OK, so I not-so-recently relocated to Lagos and would love to meet good people around. I work and live a couple of minutes away from Ikeja, but not in the heart of town. Both sexes of mature mind and age are welcome, preferably men 33+ years and ladies 30+ years Pls, I don't need married men I beg you in God's name, stay away if you are married. If all you talk about is your big cassava, stay away. If u have nothing of value to discuss, stay away. I don't have strength for gossip. I need people of great minds and dreams. People I can share ideas with and learn from. Oh, and people with good sense of humour and fun ideas. Just pm me and I will reply you Ehen, Pls o, people that insult and derail, I can't stop you guys but Pls, keep it on a low key. Thanks everyone, I look forward to making new friends!!! 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: What Could Be Wrong? ManMen by TR1212: 6:04pm On Jul 06, 2017 |
I guess most responses above have said it all. What do you want to confront him with? His social life online? It's childish to ask him about the girl IMO, because he hasn't done anything visibly wrong other than chat with a friend. And if you ask him why the distance, I'm sure he will give the "busy at work excuse". So my opinion is, move on. There's a good chance he'll be back though, then you can decide to ask him whatever you want to and then tell him it's late. He messed up, you've moved on. |
| Family › Re: My Friend Is Sneaking Out Of Her Matrimonial Home. by TR1212: 4:42pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
ANDREW2EIC:Thank you!! oshe11:Thank you too!! Op said "...marriage is for better for worse right... "? Auntie op, did you tell your friend that? You are praying for her abi? So that God will extend his hands from heaven and help her? Doesn't God use people to help people? What if God placed you in her life for a time like this? But you have conveniently decided to keep mute and pray. Yes, you may not know why she's leaving but did you ask? You're partly to blame if that marriage falls apart o, because she told you in confidence that she wants to leave and you did nothing!!! Not even saying the said prayer together with her. Anyway, since there's no obvious reason why she's leaving, and her husband has been nice to her even lately, she will be back. By the time she realises that she's not missing out on anything out there, she will come back to her senses. I only pray it's not too late by then... |
| Family › Re: What’s The Best Age Gap In A Relationship? by TR1212: 4:28pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Whatever works for you. Sorry op, I didn't read your epistle, I only answered the question as posted by your topic. Bye... |
| Family › Re: Would You Tolerate Your Wife on this issue? by TR1212: 4:24pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
eyinjuege:Thank you.... Op, I wouldn't have bothered replying with an advice but this poster just spilled my "second thought" so I'll just concur. This ish just happened today nah Oga, it's not even a problem!! This is nothing serious o jare. Not worth coming here IMO. People have their mood ish once a while, maybe your wife was having one. I'm not saying your wife did well o, but you should learn to handle some things in YOUR marriage or just ignore! This does not require external advices abeg! 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: .. by TR1212: 2:11pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Ha... My sister, see you see where you dey enter one chance o. You come online to ask STRANGERS AND FACELESS PEOPLE to accommodate you? Better be careful. My hand no dey o I wish you well sha. Nothing God can't do |
| Family › Re: . by TR1212: 2:06pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Hian!!! Oh!!! Wahala dey o. My sister, let me ask you. Are all your friends your age mates? Do you address everyone older than you by some "title" like aunty/uncle? FYI, in most communities in igbo land, you and your younger brother's wife are in the same AGE GRADE. If I hear say somebody 4 years my junior is calling me aunty. Shoo? I reach to born you? #yeye dey smell 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Is It Wrong To Stay In Your Own Lane When Newly Married? by TR1212: 1:49pm On Jun 23, 2017*. Modified: 11:21am On Jun 24, 2017 |
Hehehheeh, wahala dey o. My sister, this is Nigeria, Africa. Time shall come when you will need those family members. If might not necessarily be to settle issues in your home because we dont pray for such and like you said, you dont even intend involving a third party. However, for the sake of other inter relational activities that might occur now and then in the extended family or community, I suggest you try and be in their good books. Keep up with the eye service Biko. Laugh when they laugh, smile when they smile, but NEVER indulge them when it comes to private issues, whether yours, theirs or others. And like someone said, follow your husband's cue, they're his people, but wisely too. Good luck. 5 Likes |
| Family › Re: Asking Your Wifes Father For Financial Help? by TR1212: 1:36pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
babythug:How sure are we it was even a loan and not some free will dash money? babythug: 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Asking Your Wifes Father For Financial Help? by TR1212: 1:21pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
First of all, this op has no sense of pride, respect and self esteem. Although when it comes to marriage, there aren't any laid down rules. A person's meat might be another's poison, so what apeals to you might not to another. However, I dont think I can tolerate Someone like you, OP. You should discuss and agree with your wife before you do things, especially, when it concerns her family and not yours. You borrowed from her dad the first time, she was angry and forgave, yet you went again. You didn't care about her feelings or opinion, even though you were going to HER father. Why in God's name should you borrow money to buy a car? Was she complaining? You no get pride? Dont you know how to manage or live within your means? Must you have two cars? If it's absolutely important that she has a car, you no fit enter bus so she can use the available car pending when you can buy another? What were you hoping to achieve by posting this? That people will crucify her? And I'm sure the stories you said she "made up" are actually true, that's if she didn't tone the stories down to cover your shameless behind. The poster above sounds right. You seem to perceive her dad as some money vending machine. Better go and look for a way to mend fences with your wife and restore her image and respect that you have destroyed in her family, since obviously, you care little about yours. On a serious note, there might be nothing wrong in collecting money from your in-laws, but please, let them offer it to you, let it be ABSOLUTELY necessary or better still, send your wife to collect for you. She knows her family better and knows how and when best to present such requests if at all. 4 Likes |
