Whom you've just described here is nothing but a selfcenterd person.
I understand that some elites and affluent men are responsible for the upkeep of both parties, however, all fingers aren't equal and our mindsets are different hence, the reason for shared responsibilities in some relationships.
To be honest, I am not aware of the melon causing acne on sensitive skin (mine is but thank goodness melon soup has never been my thing) but other ones you asked are quite reasonable and nothing logical about them.
You both are different is many ways so I would suggest you part ways as well if she is bent on being unreasonable. If one is not of the opinion that one party has to take some responsibility or one isn't affluent then sharing is a must although it can't be equal and of course, the woman should come through for the man when he's down, that's why it's a relationship.
All the best bro, there are better and more supportive ladies out there. You'll meet one soon. Enjoy your bachelorhood to the fullest for now.

akanbiaa:
He needs to let her husband know what happened and also stop using her car henceforth.

Of course he does, however, there is need for him to thread carefully so as not to cause rifts between husband and wife which might later boomerang or something.
In my opinion, I suggest he keeps mute till the husband discovers what's wrong.
The next time he and the lady have a convert with regards what had happened, he should ensure he records the conversation.
In all, he should just let her be.

maikbanj:
Good evening fam. I just want to drop this here even though I feel it's not the right thread. I like the romance forum.

I have a colleague at the office and she lives not too far from me. I have a good relationship with her husband as he's a Yoruba man. It happens she's still a learner and isn't too good driving. Although,she tries and I kinda supervise her but she never listens. She just wants to do her own thing. I end up driving almost every time

On our way back from work today she drove and she wanted to branch at a market to purchase some grocies so she was looking for where to park her car. I showed her a place and she said no that the place was too deep. But cars were parked there. I left her alone and she parked close to a bus stop. When she left,I was just in the car pressing my phone and Task force came and impounded the car. I tried pleading but to no avail. They asked if I was the owner of the car and I said no that it's for a colleague and she was going to be with us soon. The plea fell on deaf ears and they drove me and the car to the police station close by.

I tried calling my dad to know if he knew anyone there as he usually have lil connect but he said no. So I tried going back to where we parked so I could tell her what happend and where the car was. Fortunately, before I got to the gate of the station she was walking like a soldier angry saying why did I let them carry the car and all. And I told her how I pleaded and how they wanted to lessen the tire if I didn't give them the key. Still she was furious and was talking plenty things that got me annoyed that if it was my car would I have allowed them carry it that wasn't I a man to handle them.

The people said for violating I was going to pay 120k. And I just didn't know what to say. So I was like let's call Baba(her husband ), just to know if he had a connect. And she flared up saying what kinda talk was that and all like I was her baby or something. She said things that got me angry and I told her it's indeed not her fault and I kept quiet.

In the end I did some transfers and she gave some amount too.

I have made my decision not to drive her again because I was really hurt with the kind of things she said. And when we were heading home I called her attention to it gently. Yet she was saying why would I have allowed them carry the car that if it was my car nko. And lots of things.

I don't want to ruin the relationship I have with her husband

Please I need to be advised because I have crossed my mind not to drive nor go with her anymore

I'm sorry for what you had to experience.
If I were in your shoes, I would definitely quit riding with her, I'll forgive her but make she dey her dey with her car and make I dey my dey with either Uber or public transport, I don't have energy for toxic, incorrigible and hot-headed people. However, I will not fail to greet her, if she likes, she responds, otherwise make we both dey our dey.
Do not tell the husband unless he calls to ask what really happened.
Don't worry, God will give you your own car ehn.

No, I have always looked younger than my age and do believe I ways will (a mindset I have always had). However, I am forever conscious of the fact that death is inevitable.
I am constantly (if not everyday) reminded that I am a day closer to the grave. I wish death didn't exist, regardless, having Christ in my life gives me great hope that eternity will be blissful for me.

Give your life to Christ if you haven't.
Shalom.

You have tried, you cannot do more than yourself. I am a lady but whatever happened to being able to do some things myself?
Let her be if that's what she wants but you can act better than her by sending the gift you had intended to give her as well as some cash for her to run her birthday, send her a happy birthday text as well. Be the better person.

How sad!

chiiraq802:


Nothing like feminist in Nigeria my man.
Na just Olosho's glamouring for equal right .....

'Clamouring', you mean?

Mhimi007:
even you sef have mad

I was tempted to reciprocate your insult, but no, I won't .
Do have a great day.

Where is Scorpio?

Oh, I follow him on IG, he's an intersex.

Zendinho:
I learnt most menstrual pains are caused by infection.....


Don't know how true it is....

It isn't true.

Nuel4:
Take your tears to mother nature. We all have our struggles.

Yes we do, but this is an extra load for us!

ignis:
Action film

You didn't mean to comment this, did you?

Uyi168:
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The Muslims too are divided..
Haven't u heard about the Shia and the sunni group??

You're correct!

What will this girl be charged with now?

Elegant!

Insensitive of them!

Eeeeeeeeeeewwwwwww.

Bluezy13:
He is not an intelligent SugarSon.
And intelligent SugarSon always let his SugarMummy know that he is free to get married whenever he wills to.
This he does not necessarily by saying it but by acting that way and at the same time showing the SugarMummy that he cherishes and admires her and perhaps loves her. Make her understand that the fact remains that he must have a separate life someday or somewhere...if he doesn't already have it.

Always define the relationship honestly, Some SugarMummies are understanding and would even cherish the SugarSon more for his honesty.
Let there always be an understanding from the onset and things like this would be avoided.
An angry SugarMummy can do "anything".

Heheheiiii, it's like you're a sugar baby or you once were. Lol

Omg!!! Please stay safe y'all!

If you really love her then you'll look for a Bible believing church where they conduct deliverance, take her there and ensure she fasts, prays and gets delivered. Like you said ,she's been supportive of you and she doesn't intentionally have this spirit.

Raydos:


Well, It's all as a result of extreme poverty, People are too poor in this part of the world to bother about skin care or SPFs, They've got bunch of other things to attend to!!

It's not always about poverty, lack of knowledge is also a cause. There are rich people who are ignorant of proper skincare routine. On the other hand, some people have great skin no matter how they tear themselves up! They're just lucky!

Opperwezen:

Na guilty conscience dey worry you wetin I talk wey require all this insults?

I never insulted you, neither is there any show of guilty conscience. You can read up on what I wrote if you need more enlightenment.
By the way, there's something called subtle labelling, that's what you did in your first response to my comment.
Have a great day.

Opperwezen:


Na dem be this

Ignorance is a terrible thing. Rather than appreciate the information given, you concluded on something else. By the way, I am dark in complexion, not even on bit light skinned so excuse me!

Please free her!
What if she was just pretending?