Suicide has no boundaries

kazyhm:



Again what determines doing something out of love..........is the recipient the determining factor ?

Because going by your opinion.....giving the money to hubby is out of intimidation...while coveting the money and the hand it over to a grandchild as a gift is loving.

You really don't understand the statement...."happy ever after"

And beside is the grandchildren from a different blood other than the grandpa ?

Did you read the post? Grand pa got his own
share, i repeat he got his own share. The greed in him won't allow him allow her keep hers. This thing has been happening for years now, she can't keep any money of her own even though he has his own



I thank God for sparing me from a relationship that could have ended this way. Guy always kept his money but never failed to manipulate me to spend mine.

Take down these pictures! I repeat,this is child porn, take it down!

vincentjk:
I can boldly tell you that my mum is the that woman-type

Since I was little and grew with my parents all my life I've never heard my mum exchange words with my dad not even once, my dad nags a lot with hot temper yet she knows how to follow him and calm his nerves down

But today feminists are everywhere and wouldn't allow someone to hear word. The best way to handle a feminist as a wife, gf or a female friend is to start ignoring her

Your mum's pain is stored in her heart, from keeping silent over issues that she wished she can express herself. It's her daughter in law that she will unleash everything on

kazyhm:


Something is really wrong somewhere........at what age are you expecting grandma to be giving money to her grand kids ?

Even if grandparents are mandated to still be catering for their third generation....does it exclude the grandpa ? Must they compete about who gave the bigger amount ?

She's doing it out of love and not necessity. If you have been around such age groups you will understand that they easily spoil kids unlike how they brought up their own. No woman, living free of intimidation will hand over her own share like that when she's no longer working. There's something wrong in that marriage, I'm sure of it.

Mamma is suffering from Stockholm syndrome. There's no sane woman, living a happy and fulfilled life that won't want even a bit of indepence when it comes to money. Mamma still has grandkids that she may want to give money occasionally plus at that age they derive joy in helping people, so it seems Mamma is clueless about her need to do the above things? sadly, Mamma's Stockholm syndrome has gone unnoticed for decades

I didn't see any stray Dogs in Calabar on my recent trip, somebody tell me why?

Onyi22:
Nairalander go carry this matter for their head lik gala

Haha especially Igbo nairalanders

frugal:

You have only 10 years to make it; 20-30. Don't waste it.

Please discard this advice. KFC was in his 50s when he created the business. Your whole life is ahead of you, you can still make it at 60, no go do yahoo to hammer by force, slow and steady wins the race.

Time waits for no one, make yours count

DexterousOne:


Gender discrimination is silly

Blaming the woman is even more silly

But na Naija we dey

I don't know why you carry this issue for head like Gala. Most people want both boys and girls in their family, especially the unlearned ones, when one of the gender is missing they will continue giving birth to more kids. An Aunt of mine has 8 boys, she lives in the village, she didn't come to nairaland to cry like this lady has done but she continued giving birth despite poverty of her husband. Did she discriminate against her existing sons? I dunno but she still didn't get a girl. Despite poverty she continued. The heart will desire what it wants and make excuses for it, abeg face your life and leave people to make their mistakes. You feel this thing deeply but na one woman matter una de discuss for days like this, just move on abeg, let her discriminate if she wants to, she will learn in future.

Chizuru01:
Seun Mynd44 lalasticlala You see how your Nairaland Children the call Schizophrenia as if they know what they are saying.

Op, This is an early sign of Madness. Those soldiers you see will later start pursuing you, If you fail to control them with your mind. Never talk to them.

For the voices, Carefully listen to it. Channel your focus on a positive voice, Many great men you see today do have a quiet room where they go to know what next step to make.

Its all in your head, Control it don't let it control you.

Take note, Schizophrenia is a form of madness, see how you're contradicting yourself

goderlist44:



Thank u for responding to me. But is that true?

Check his profile

cococandy:
Tell your wife anyway. From your story, it doesn’t seem like you’ve done anything wrong to your wife so tell her the truth. It will be easier to manage once both of you are on board.

Happy birthday!

blackpanthar:


See, at your current age having admirers may look like a blessing.... but as you grow older it will become a nightmare that may make any responsible lady insecure around you.

Guy, go and get reach. Focus and dont entangle yourself with opposite sex else it will distract you from achieving so many things early.

Get rich, build steadily increasing income before you consider ladies.

Once you entangle yourself with ladies... Like king solomon they will take your heart through different unnecessary paths and waste your TIME.

Dare to be different, get busy and focused. See, saying NO politely to ladies makes them like you more. And makes more responsible ones notice you. Keep pushing and raising your standards so high that common slay queens and jobless ladies wont be interested in you because they know you are not a sextoy.


Make your life so excellent, then find a lady who is also doing the same and being focused on her path with good moral values then be her friend and grow into a strong relationship. Then marry. This is how to live a good life without regrets.

The fun you are trying to have now will rob you of a whole lot more than you can imagine.


I DO NOT EXPECT YOU TO TAKE MY ADVICE BECAUSE YOUR CURIOSITY SEEMS BLINDLY STRONG. BUT IF YOU DO, YOUR FUTURE WILL BE SO STRONG AND SECURE, EVERYONE WILL COME TO YOU TO LEARN HOW YOU BECAME SO DISCIPLINED AND YOUR CHILDREN WILL GIVE YOU PEACE

Mature advice

I was usually beaten black and blue by my mum as a kid. I wouldn't have it any other way

This is the reason why self control is best. Now you have fathered offsprings that you know nothing about. Go for DNA test and if the child is yours, take charge and be a good Father. Female offspring will remember you in old age, take note. Your wife is not barren, she already has three children I don't think she will have a big issue with your daughter, if proved.

Glory to Jesus!

Lalasticala
Dominique

This thread is FP worthy, we need to call this people to order

So you're calling your own mother a LovePeddler?

justnock:


He should not worry. Life begins at 40

morgan100:


I took picture of the cage, but I don't have any voice recording yet, the day the fight broke out, my mind never went there to record anything because I was very angry, for now he does not shout many name any how, but with the cage things, maybe the madness is coming back, so am at alert too. That's the picture of the cage..

Good , request for a meeting with your Care taker or Landlord so that you will table these issues and make sure he is invited. Don't wait for another incident to occur, do it before another incident rears its ugly head.

Smh just one of many dissapointments she will have to face in life

So you're still waiting for the day he will attack you again? when you saw the cage, you should have taken pics, record the way he talks to you, get all these things as evidence then request a meeting with either the Care taker or the Landlord, make sure he is also invited, that is where you should show those evidences for the case to be judged amicably. When he knows that you report him regularly, he too will adjust because the house is not his own

How come only males tend to complain sheepishly like this but females are supposed to be the weaker sex?

Some people want to sell market here contact them and your problem in life will become worse. Genuine ones like us don't decieve people to sell market. Genuine travelers only

kolaaderin:
The right question is what business made you that 20m at 25. I think you should keep doing that same business why asking what business to do when you already mawde 20m.

Is everyone thinking what I'm thinking. I stopped reading when we requested what business to do in Nigerian when he already made 20m from one

Lol, he made it in his mind

cococandy:


I have many fetishes.
Why? are you interested?

Just wondering, have you given him milk that way before though?

This is what you stand to gain if you train them well, show your in laws this photo and make sure you use your husband's money to invest in their education

cococandy:

I’m confused.
Why fight when they can share?

The man should be ready to provide HEAVILY though. Can’t be breastfeeding a grown man and still go to work to get money for him.

Breastfeeding a grown man with milk? is that your fetish?

All I see is an overfed woman and a healthy looking child. She looks depressed though, it might simply be mental illness, take her to a health care center, she's not lacking food in my opinion