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Busy_body:
Heaven helps that airline thats sprays the aircraft after I have boarded They will have enormous cost of forced emergency landing, inconvenience to other passengers, disruptions to their other flights, fines and landing cost paid to host airport authority, compensation, amongst other things to contend with

bronx_dog:
bronx_dog is sorry case.

bronx_dog:
This bush person don come again.

ladoma:
well.you are not crazy.you are blessed.
i forgive your ignorance.to you, the word forgiveness does not exist.it is eye for eye ,tooth for tooth. but come to think of it,if GOD were to punish us for iniquities,who shall stand.none.for the holy book says--''for all have sin and come short of the glory of god'' and the wages of sin is death. but thank GOD.GOD IS NOT MAN,IF MAN WERE TO BE GOD,THEN THE WORLD IS DOOMED.
''FOR GOD SO MUCH LOVE THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER BELIEVE IN HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE''.
THAT SON JESUS CHRIST SHED HIS PRECIOUS BLOOD FOR THE REMISSIION OF OUR SIN.
SINCE I AM NOW BORN AGAIN--OLD THINGS HAVE PASSED AWAY AND ALL THINGS HAVE BECOME NEW.
I AM A NEW CREATURE IN CHRIST.ALL MY SINS FORGIVEN.THANKS

netotse:
umm let me tell a story(its all i can doi don't hv enough 'experience' to talk about closure)it might be long i warn y'all

somewhere bak i mentioned the gel i marked for 2yrs(i prefer that to toastedits not as conclol)
anyway sha we got together the 1st time then i needed space and told her but i made the mistake of saying and i quote 'i dnt how long it could be one week, one month, one yeai cnt say'(i kno it was watching too much american film that caused thati think i jst liked the way it sounded). . .anyway sha to cut the long story short she cut me off as in emotionallyoh yeah this was a week before her birthday and it was a couple of days after i couriered her vals gift to her(she was in yobe i was in lagos)she didnt expect it and she was mad tripped about itanyway four months later we sha managed to get back on track as in level of closeness(can u imagine someone was trying to usurp my positioni'm smooth i must confess )anyway we sha talked things over and a month later we were officially going out i must admit i clda been the happiest man on earthi even improved on the sturvs she didnt like before the 1st split anyways sha d normal relationship sturvs happend and she one broke up with meone my friends called her and heaven know wot he sed and she apologised (about that friend we even quarelled because i didnt like her and her calling each other unnecessarily behind my bak) long story short we finally broke up and the reason that came out once we talked it over was that i stifled her as in i made her feel 'like some dumb blonde' (her exact words- well i admit i'm forcefull when it comes to gettng a point across) u can imagine how stunned i was because we used to both promise ourselves that we wont hold bak when it comes to communicating(musta sed it like 100times) it made me remember one thing we talked about as in how relationships turn sour and she was like its because they can't put the other person first(i disagreed then but i can't rem how it went sha) anyway wot led to the talking things over was me noticing that she became argumentative and wondering that this wasnt the gel i fell in love withthe whole breakup thing was sha messy as in now she wont call me but if i text she'll text bak, i once called and mentioned i was stressed as per school and she started mothering me like before but she never reveals anything about herself and wots bin going on with her so the way we relate is strained(its bin a bit over a year). . .now its xmas we're in the same town but i hvnt called her because i know its going to be awkwardand if i try to talk things over with her it wont end wellso i'm left wondering wot miracle is going to happen that will enable us to relate like normal friends whether its the closure that comes from within or the one that comes from outside. . .

thats wot my experience has been when it comes to closure. . .
hope its coherent enough for people to read tho

am going to delete this soon tho because the ex in question is on NL (no it wasnt a cyber toasting i introduced her to it o)

tope2000:
in my sexy voice - can imagine what it’s going 2 be once we get inside
And you put that ooh wee on me ooh I can’t wait
I’m tired of thinkin about it, typing about it , baby turn off the lights, tear off your
clothes, jump in the bed, and let it flow.  
The Squeezing, holding, biting, scratching, spanking, screaming, pulling my hair when you need me everything goes

how wet are you going to get?
dripping or

*Toyinrayo:
Love oshi wo?  
If I'm dating a guy for more than a month, he's automatically my "captain", if he respects me and most importantly, himself.
NL automatic changing thingy. I think he put "of c.os" as "of course"

presido1:
Not captain of their woman but his family.

@Topic
Of because, what matters is the love, any relation based on material things don't last long.

Busy_body:
lol You also started your sentence with a small letter as opposed to a capital letter preceding your first word, and this is so grammatically wrong

*Toyinrayo:
exactly. . . .
But if a dude is smart and poor, abeg, I no want am.
A working/stable man is better than one that carries a diploma around with debts shackled to his feet.

Generally, men should not worry about it, because they're supposed to be the "captain" (as they scream so on NL) of their woman. If she's poor, why should it really matter since you're the primary source of bacons in the r/ship?

Now if the "captain" of the house is poor, it might generate a big problem, such as disrespect in the r/ship.

*Toyinrayo:
lol, you should NOT have a problem with it

*Toyinrayo:
True that. But not in all situation.
Some spouse "respect" their partner by they mixing up a little lie in there to prevent hurting their partner's feelings. Knowing that some people can't handle the truth.

Respect is so ambiguous, many people still finds it hard to comprehend

*Toyinrayo:
what use is communication if honesty no dey? do I sit there and listen to lies?

davidylan:
yemium the problem is squarely you.

When a girl feels too afraid to talk to you about issues then you need to do plenty of introspection not blaming her.
She tells her friends stuff because she is too weak to tell you. She cries her eyes out because she genuinely loves you but it seems you don't and are looking for any excuse to dump her.

Seriously if this is her only problem then i think you'd be losing your mind to let a good girl go.

olanajim:
Hmmm, irresponsible parents!

Her first instinct would be to beat the poor girl.

I have not seen this type of problem before, so whatever I am going to give is what I would do if I were the parents.

I think the girl must be withdrawn from the school where she picked up the bad trait. And the mother should inform the school authority if possible.

The girl should be put in another school must be closely monitored for the rest of her teenage years.

Parents had got to understand why they have to get closer to their children. Most of the bad manners exhibited by kids were picked up through innocent programming. They saw, crammed, and then practice!

The bad news is that most kids never practice what they saw until they are well outside the prying eyes of their parents.

That kid must be urgently reformed. The bad programming can only be removed by replacing it with a good one.

Kids brains are like empty tapes. If you record something bad in it, you cannot completely format the bad habit unless you record another one there.