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NessaFresh: Is this how u kiss?

Eww that is so nasty

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RedBenson: But i just said the guy wants to end d relaationship cos his mind is not cleared wit her in a marrital perspective and here she is trying to hold d guy for ransom. He doesnt want her again.

You cant blame her for being upset. You should have told.her right from the beginning that you had no Intentions of marrying her so that she could use that time to start another relationship.

Cheap no, desperate yes.

The same clothes I wear to work each day...business casual

then why are you still with her?

lefulefu: If u sweat then take a shower.A lady is supposed to have her showers at least twice in a day but maany naija girls of today even find it hard to bath once in a day.they wash their face and their legs and they call tht bathing .[b]white girls dont joke with their hygiene[/b]and even my white girl friend has her showers at least thrice in a day

who told you that? have u ever tried living with them? Some white people can look really nice on the outside but if u live with them they hardly take a shower or brush their teeth. they just use mouth wash and lots of body spray. Thats been my experience with the ones ive had to live with.

Dipwater: As long. As u are willing to share the financial responsibility with him 50-50.then washinh will not be a problem to him .trust me I know how it works.

Okay if you say so then that shouldnt be a problem

Umm...only if we're role playing

Mindependent: He got me a diamond ring for valentines day

Are you sure? Lol congrats

lying about small things

chiyex: When you talk to them here, they want to know if you got a degree or business. Materialistic questions are what they start of with. When you show interest, they give u a hard time and play with ur mind. If you go with white girls or african americans they get mad at u. What do they want? When they get close to 30, they become desperate..smh

I dunno...maybe they feel like they have more options so they dont need to settle

To me if a guy is nice it means he's not a jerk

Are you stil gonna wash the dishes when we get married?

Adetayo100: Distance relationship does'nt work, even if the two involved are ready to compromise.

It depends on how the relationship started. My boyfriend and I started at a close distance of about fifteen minutes and then after six months of dating the distance grew to fifty minutes away because we both moved to different cities. We take turns driving to see each other every weekend and we are a very happy couple. During the week we just skype, call and text. So I guess it depends on how the distance started and what resources you have.

seedord247: why would you be in a long distance relationship in the first place?

What's wrong with a long distance relationship?

Idriswhite: I have money but don't have someone so dear to my heart to buy something special for. I know funful places to go but have no body to accompany me there. What should we singles do on Valentine day?

live....like the rest of us

Ivynwa: Ada Nwaubani made it sound like her parents didn't teach her and her siblings to respect and appreciate everybody whether maid or not. She is writing about a good topic but spoilt it by bringing in her family upbringing and relationship with maids therein. She said that it is in recent years that she learnt to accord due respect to maids (the "thank you" and "smiles" ), like was she treating them less than that before? Some of us lived with maids while growing up and still appreciated and respected them. One of the househelps I grew up with was getting same stuffs, dresses etc parents bought for me, it was as if we were twins. We were taught to treat them like our own siblings too so it isn't every family that looked down on maids as nobodies.

^^^

Defense mechanism that people use when you expose their privilege to them.

In a relationship but am sooo tired of hearing all this Valentine's Day stuff

This video is so funny


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJUZDTlr5T8&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Tell Him by Lauryn Hill

He looks confused

190: this valentine thingy don begin give me headache

Hmm tell me about it

A ring would be nice

[quote author=#80million]*speechless*
What is it with all these Valentine wahala sef,it's starting to get BORING. Valentine this, Valentine that,u just dey remix d topic,abi na thread. What's ur business sef?

By the way,someone should pls tell me that i came 3rd![/quote]Lol

At least she got a man

[quote author=~vicky~]@ Topic
not enough money breaks up most marriages, having an excess of money breaks up most marriages too
because it creates enormous problems in judging assets or purchases of the other.
You just need enough to both be happy

Having money can definitely make things easier and there's a lot less arguing, but most of all a relationship needs a good foundation.[/quote]How much is enough though because for some people enough is never enough.

SniperInADiaper: Be my valentine?

It depends...

SniperInADiaper: Hmm My message: I hate you all ... There are no loved ones on NL.. Just fake people hiding behind anonymity.

Aww not nice

.... Blu Cantrell "I cant Believe"

Oh and TLC "Creep"!!

Amy Winehouse "Back to Black", "Just Friends" "Between the Cheats", "me and mr. Jones," "wake up Alone", "To know him is to love him" "Tears Dry on their own" and Donell Jones "Where I wanna be"