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Since when did taking birth control make you promiscuous? How about responsible?

hmm

liberalism

k2039: [color=crap] [size=13pt]Pathetic[/size][/color]

Very

Im sorry but you sound like a complete asswipe and I don't know if the word will be edited or comeout as I wrote it.

[quote author=Mynd_44]"Free Madness" Terry G[/quote]I thought you said your heart doesn't break?

Aggrippa: my lady please come wear my boxers on ya head to recover your senses...i can see that you have long lost your sense of reasoning. wear it always to act as a shock-absorber when you relapse into fits of MAD...... the woman from CNN who was the original author of this thread is trying to drag all women folks back to stone AGE? 1945 if you consider modern trends. most women today like to flex in and out of college for some years before marrying their Mr RIGHT

Umm, how could I be the woman from CNN and also the original writer of this thread? What, you don't believe that NL actually has people who can write?

[quote author=Libra-kid]I think one can handle both education and a healthy relationship while in school. That doesn't mean ur throwing yourself @campus guys bcs in as much as there are all these itty-bitty guys with sharp mouths on campus, there are also a number of good ones. Its all abt mingling with the right people and setting your priorities straight as a girl. I have bn able to handle a healthy relationship with my studies and thank God,we are gradutes now planning on the next phase of life. Marriage isn't all about making babies....i thnk companionship is the word! Babies are jara frm God![/quote]I agree with you but then again what works for one may not work for another.

[quote author=A-ZeD]Suitors that came for your sister are either married or engaged and you say your sister should have an open mind. Can't you respect her wish i.e she is not ready? Assuming the married ones had proposed to your sister what should she have done?[/quote]I do respect her wish. Just because I don't agree doesn't mean I don't respect it. Afterall she knows what's best for herself whether or not I agree. I'm happy for her regardless.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I beleive there is not "appropriate" time jorh. A lady can decide she does not want distractions cos she cannot handle two things at the same time and give them maximum attention. There are people like that. They would rather make something of themselves first than chase some guy around campus[/quote]It's not a matter of chasing guys around campus. Its about being opened minded. My older sister is 28 and is doing her medical residency at a very prestigious medical school. When she was in college and working on her medical degree she had many suitors come her way. She ignored many of them, some of which were very nice, and her excuse was that she wasnt ready for a relationship. But now many of those guys have gotten older and are between the ages of 28-33 and are married or engaged to much younger women in their mid twenties. Now I love my sister and want to her to be happy but even now she is still saying she's not ready for a relationship because she's focusing on her career. By the time she's done with residency she'll be 30, and might settle for a much older guy who still cant find a wife. There's no formula for how to live your life but being open minded can take you far.

Or these could be signs that he's on the down low

k2039: [color=crap] [size=13pt] I had a girl like that, I chased at a point, she wasn't ready, all she wanted was career first.

Of course I know she will later come back to daddy but it's going to be too late.[/size][/color]

Aww I'm sorry. People just have different priorities and I guess you have to find someone on the same page as you.

I don't know what to say

mmm smh

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k2039: [color=crap] [size=13pt]I hope she watched the program.[/size][/color]

who's she?

Nothing...they make a 10

I don't know...it takes a lot of energy to be infatuated with two people at once.

It's been a minute since I was last heartbroken but when I was I had Amy Winehouse's "I Wake up Alone" on replay all night long.

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[color=RED]Shes tasted an outside KONDO [/color]

Geez I really wanna know what this kid saw that scared him so much

I was watching CNN and they were talking about how women plan their lives in terms of marriage. Well there was a woman on the show who was saying that the best time for a woman to look for a spouse or a potential spouse is while she's In college because it's at that age and environment that you're most likely to find a man who is, what she called, on the same social and intellectual level as you. According to her, women of this generation have been taught to use their twenties to futher themselves academically and professionally. Marriage should be something you seek after later in your thirties once you've achieved all or most of your professional goals. But then the problem with such an approach, again according to her, is that women end up marrying a lot later because of their careers and by the time they're well settled professionally they're in their early to mid thirties and have nothing but their careers; and not only that, but they have a limited pool of men from with they can chose from because the men they could have dated, and maybe married, when they were in college are already married and probably with their first child by their early thirties. Some people called this woman's advice sexist and regressive because if taken out of context, it sounds as if she's telling college women that they should be preoccupied with getting married instead of furthering themselves.

Me on the other hand I agree with her. I think that while you're young and in school you should keep your eyes open and see what's out there. I don't think that you should rush into marriage right away; afterall, you're not going to school just to walk straight into marriage and start making babies. I'm all for women developing themselves while they're young, but It's also wise not to shut out every guy that comes your way all in the name of advancing yourself in your career. What good is money and a dream job if you have no one to share it with? What's your opinion? Do you agree with the woman's argument? Why or why not?

Maybe it means just that "I love you"

psycho

nikkyshyne: I don't want to think or imagine such.

Me neither.

She needs to see a speech therapists, they would be better qualified to help. All you can do is encourage her and let her know you have faith in her despite the fact that she stammers.

Kiss her in the rain

The ones that you don't find yourself attracted to but make really good friends.

Sheesh, some women... smh

Huh?

How about in a relationship and satisfied?

REALITY101: Shame on you dude

Yeah, @op I feel no pity for you. You made one dumb choice after the other. How old are you btw, because the whole situation makes you sound very immature.