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Acidosis: "Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaining? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes? Those who tarry long over alcohol; those who go to try mixed alcohol"

Not everyone who drinks is an alcoholic. Its called moderation.

[quote author=Mynd_44]That works? I have to try it out next time I wanna forget a friend[/quote]Not really but its a starting point.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Seems tome like everyone has sex as an importsnt reason[/quote]You cant blame us. Unless you're cohabitating we live in a society that makes it difficult for unmarried couples who are in committed relationships to have unlimited sex shamelessly.

Oh wow you got a deadline and everything

Sagamite: You are not helping your case, mate.

The repetition of posts is slightly getting to the creepy level of psycho.

lol

Thats how love (or infatuation) is when its young. When you get used to her she won't be so much of a distraction. Just try to control your feelings.

^^^
I second that.

nobniger: Can lift me up without asking

Lord...every time I see that picture hmm

I dont know how because I'm the stubborn one in my relationship...unfortunately

Cut your coat according to your size. Dont ask for more than you can handle.

Mmmm I have a feeling this thread is going to stay on the front page for a really long time

Delete his number, delete his emails and texts, get rid of his pictures, spend time with your girlfriends and do you. Keep yourself busy. Get drunk, not alone of course, make it fun.

PTBNaija: I hardly think women would start flocking to dump their men because artificial sperm is available. You forget that most women want to find a loving relationship and only turn to adoption and artificial sperm banks when that's not really an option or the husband is infertile, etc. I see this being a big breakthrough yes, maybe for women who wanted to have more children (or had no children) with a husband that died. Or women who are afraid that they might never have their own biological kids because they have not gotten married yet and still want the chance. Sperm banks exist out there right now, but has that completely changed the way that our society operates? We still have the same socially constructed norms . . . with just a few outliers now.

So men, rest assured that you're women will most likely NOT abandon you. They are still going to prefer to raise their children in a two parent household.

This is the smartest and most well written post I've read on NL so far.

I heard that it takes at least half of the amount of time you were together to totally move on from a relationship. So if you were together for four years, at least two years to heal. But then again everyone's different.

1. Sex
2. Companionship
3. Combined incomes
4. Oh and children!!

Hmm my ideal man is a combination of all of the good qualities of my exs and my current boyfriend placed in one man minus all of their flaws. Thats my ideal.

Mindependent: Happy Sunday y'all , 11 more days.Im hoping most of you guys already have your girls gifts packaged and ready

Wow you seem really excited for Val's day and its not even here yet. I hope your guy doesn't disappoint you though after all this anticipation.

ladunsky: of cause no one wants to be the 'other woman' in his life.. Buh in most cases it is always inevitable

If you know you are dont settle.

channel 190: we all know the power of money, yes, but my topic is saying, how do we sustain it in times of no money!.

But how can you even sustain yourself if you dont have any money? Its better to sustain yourself financially to some extent first, before trying to sustain a relationship that way you dont run into so many problems along the way. If your girlfriend visits you every weekend think about the costs in that. It cost money to have a car, to buy gas, you guys need food in the house if you want her to cook whenever she comes over, so you need money for groceries. And if you go on dates like to a restaurant or even the movies thats not free. Its just that both partners need to be understanding and be willing to split the costs that come with sustaining the relationship.

dandadee: please how can i post a comment on nairaland?..do i need money to do that?

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No but I think you need money to have access to the internet.

Cut your coat according to your size and date a girl within your means.

One man's trash is another man's treasure.

Not

Metalgoong: Single ladies? . . You mean the feminists??
well, most single guys are now running away from you feminists as fast as they can, especially those living in US and UK.

Wow so since when did being single become synonymous with being a feminist?

Hahaha

So cheesy

John Dumelo, Will Smith and Idris Elba

How will you ever know?

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I agree. I dont want to say that my boyfriend isn't romantic because he just has a different way of showing it. To him calling me and checking on me each night, being faithful, and spending time with me (watching soccer) is romantic. I dont complain because I know its sincere. At least he rubs my feet and always tells me he loves me That's as far as it'll get.