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I just keep on wondering why in spite of all the crimes they suffered at the hands of these illiterate Northerners, you Igbos keep flocking to their land in large numbers! Is there an ancestral curse in Igboland that is pushing you towards settling in the North?
Even though you have your problems, (nobody is perfect afterall) you're still better educated than them, wealthier than them and more cosmopolitan than they will ever be.
So what is the mysterious cord that keeps drawing you to the North?
If Igbos or any other Christian settles in the North you should expect this kind of nonsense to keep repeating itself. Northerners can't help being themselves.

But this cannot be shoki

sinaj:
Lol Shebi I b minister for women affair?

Yes na

Na you carry licence plate and portfolio as Minister of Women's Affairs.

deyemia:
The Person I Intend To Marry Just Told Me This!!!


Dear Nairalanders,

I've come again to hear your views about this issue.... especially married "Egbons"

So it all started like this, My new fiancee and I just finished a sunday service and I was about going to drop her at home when one of her single friends asked if she could join us which we agreed.

On our way they started talking all wife stuffs sharing their views on a marriage and shii, then one thing led to a financial topic where my fiancee started saying she can never support a husband financially, that a man should be a man and take all responsibilities of every penny to be spent, that the reason she's working is to be able to afford all the things she wants that all the responsibilities of the household is for the husband . I acted cool at first.

Her friend was even saying that she doesnt like to be a liability that at least it should not be the man's responsibility 100% that the wife should be able to support financially, My fiancee outrightly disagreed with her saying support doesnt have to be financial from the wife, that it could be through prayers.

I couldnt keep mute anymore I had to ask her "what does it mean when people say supportive wife? " she replied she doesn't know, that she's sure it doesnt have to be financial.

At some point when the friend had already alighted, I asked what if the man is building a house and needs immediate support for just window frames, she said never!

She even said if she has money in the bank and their is no food at home, we will all drink Garri.

Now here are the facts,
-We got introduced through match making,
-there are some good things about her that is worth consideration.
-I dont think she has dated before because she obviously has no experience whats so ever when it comes to relationship behaviours. she's "efikko" kind of.
-This her ideology seems deep rooted in her upbringing and family., her mum is rich.

My Challenge is,
Should I stick around and try to change that ideology or just move on because I am sure it's a destructive ideology.

Sadly, your bae has just waved a red flag in front of you, and normally when that sort of thing happens, a guy should simply take to his heels. It is better to go on foot-patrol than to enter one-chance.

If however you are deeply in love with her and you are willing to make the sacrifice, then go for it.

sinaj:
*yawns*

Sinaj you fall my hand o! Shey na only yawn you go take respond to this topic? I was expecting you to make a firm rebuke from the feminist angle

DeathStroke007:
I don't expect you to understand because your IQ is so low..


but, I will help you..


go read my post on the gospel of Barnabas account on crucifixion..

you will see the loopholes in the Bible account and you will realize gospel of Barnabas is truth..

First of all, Let me say that I have read the so-called fiction of Barnabas, which was written 400 years after the crucifixion took place.

Any one with even a modicum of basic intelligence would know at once that a document which was written about an event which happened 400 years before such document came into existence cannot be relied upon as an accurate REAL-TIME account of that event.

Sadly, only you Abeeds with your low IQs would fall for such stu.pidity.

Speaking of which, an American company recently organised a training event for some Saudi Arabian pilots. Part of the training involved mandatory IQ tests and these poor muslims failed woefully. Maybe the real reason why the Saudi pilots in the 9/11 terror attacks crashed their planes is not because they were terrorists but because they were idi.ots. Sigh. Read the following article and learn:

Muslims suffer insanity, low IQ, recessive disorders from 1400 years inbreeding
Biological fallout from 50 generations of first cousin marriages

from a Lockheed employee in Saudi Arabia.

During the pilot transition program with the KV-107 and C-130 with Lockheed, we found that most Saudi pilot trainees had very limited night vision, even on the brightest of moonlit nights.

Their training retention rate was minimal including maintenance personnel. Some had dim memories and had to be constantly reminded of things that were told to them the day before. An American, British or any other western instructor is burned out pretty quick. It actually took Muslim C-130 pilots years before they could fly in the dark safely and then would be reluctant to leave the lights of a city.

Ask any Marine, Air Force or Army guy who’s been trying to train Iraqis, and especially Afghans. Islam is not only a religion; it’s a way of life all the way around. Yet another set of revealing facts about Muslim beliefs and traditions and ways of life. 1400 years of inbreeding.

Nikolai Sennels is a Danish psychologist who has done extensive research into a little-known problem in the Muslim world: the disastrous results of Muslim inbreeding brought about by the marriage of first cousins. This practice, which has been prohibited in the Judeo-Christian tradition since the days of Moses, was sanctioned by Muhammad and has been going on now for 50 generations (1,400 years) in the Muslim world.

This practice of inbreeding will never go away in the Muslim world, since Muhammad is the ultimate example and authority on all matters, including marriage.

The massive inbreeding in Muslim culture may well have done virtually irreversible damage to the Muslim gene pool, including extensive damage to its intelligence, sanity, and health. According to Sennels, close to half of all Muslims in the world are inbred. In Pakistan, the numbers approach 70%. Even in England, more than half of Pakistani immigrants are married to their first cousins, and in Denmark the number of inbred Pakistani immigrants is around 40%.

The numbers are equally devastating in other important Muslim countries: 67% in Saudi Arabia, 64% in Jordan, and Kuwait, 63% in Sudan, 60% in Iraq, and 54% in the United Arab Emirates and Qatar.

According to the BBC, this Pakistani, Muslim-inspired inbreeding is thought to explain the probability that a British Pakistani family is more than 13 times as likely to have children with recessive genetic disorders. While Pakistanis are responsible for three percent of the births in the UK, they account for 33% of children with genetic birth defects.

The risks of what are called autosomal recessive disorders such as cystic fibrosis, spinal muscular atrophy is 18 times higher, and the risk of death due to malformations is 10 times higher. Other negative consequences of inbreeding include a 100 percent increase in the risk of stillbirths and a 50% increase in the possibility that a child will die during labor.

Lowered intellectual capacity is another devastating consequence of Muslim marriage patterns. According to Sennels, research shows that children of consanguineous marriages lose 10-16 points off their IQ and that social abilities develop much slower in inbred babies. The risk of having an IQ lower than 70, the official demarcation for being classified as "retarded," increases by an astonishing 400 percent among children of cousin marriages. (Similar effects were seen in the Pharaonic dynasties in ancient Egypt and in the British royal family, where inbreeding was the norm for a significant period of time.)

In Denmark, non-Western immigrants are more than 300 percent more likely to fail the intelligence test required for entrance into the Danish army. Sennels says, "The ability to enjoy and produce knowledge and abstract thinking is simply lower in the Islamic world." He points out that the Arab world translates just 330 books every year, about 20% of what Greece alone does.

In the last 1,200 years of Islam, just 100,000 books have been translated into Arabic, about what Spain does in a single year. Seven out of 10 Turks have never even read a book. Sennels points out the difficulties this creates for Muslims seeking to succeed in the West. "A lower IQ, together with a religion that denounces critical thinking, surely makes it harder for many Muslims to have success in our high-tech knowledge societies."

Only nine Muslims have ever won the Nobel Prize, and five of those were for the "Peace Prize." According to Nature magazine, Muslim countries produce just 10 percent of the world average when it comes to scientific research measured by articles per million inhabitants.

In Denmark, Sennels’ native country, Muslim children are grossly over represented among children with special needs. One-third of the budget for Danish schools is consumed by special education, and anywhere from 51% to 70% of retarded children with physical handicaps in Copenhagen have an immigrant background. Learning ability is severely affected as well. Studies indicated that 64% of schoolchildren with Arabic parents are still illiterate after 10 years in the Danish school system. The immigrant dropout rate in Danish high schools is twice that of the native-born.

Mental illness is also a product. The closer the blood relative, the higher the risk of schizophrenic illness. The increased risk of insanity may explain why more than 40% of patients in Denmark’s biggest ward for clinically insane criminals have an immigrant background. The U.S. is not immune. According to Sennels, "One study based on 300,000 Americans shows that the majority of Muslims in the USA have a lower income, are less educated, and have worse jobs than the population as a whole."

Sennels concludes: There is no doubt that the wide spread tradition of first cousin marriages among Muslims has harmed the gene pool among Muslims. Because Muslims’ religious beliefs prohibit marrying non-Muslims and thus prevents them from adding fresh genetic material to their population, the genetic damage done to their gene pool since their prophet allowed first cousin marriages 1,400 years ago are most likely massive. This has produced overwhelming direct and indirect human and societal consequences.

Bottom line: Islam is not simply a benign and morally equivalent alternative to the Judeo-Christian tradition. As Sennels points out, the first and biggest victims of Islam are Muslims.

Simple Judeo-Christian compassion for Muslims and a common-sense desire to protect Western civilization from the ravages of Islam dictate a vigorous opposition to the spread of this dark and dangerous ideology.


http://cairnsnews.org/2015/09/30/muslims-suffer-insanity-low-iq-recessive-disorders-from-1400-years-inbreeding/

facheux:
Crucifiction. The 3 headed xtian so called god is a weak pathetic joke. A few rusty nails can kill it. So funny.

If a few rusty nails can kill it, why is it still alive and well after 2000 years Abeed?

DeathStroke007:
you prefer historians to eye witness...



you can see that there's contradiction on Jesus last word.. gospel of Barnabas cleared it all ..




like I said, it's your choice

First of all Abeed, Christians do not recognise the gospel of barnabas.

Secondly, the crucufixion was a public event. Even if the apostles fled, thousands of ordinary inhabitants of Jerusalem witnessed it.

Thirdly, the islamic version of Jesus is a myth and fabrication invented by MUMUhaMAD because he thought Christians would be grateful to him for it. The man was such a f.0.0.l. With all his sexual stamina he should have concentrated on servicing his 13 wives and intimacy slaves and left Christianity alone. Afterall even you abeeds admit he was a stark illiterate.

I don't get it. Why's there a picture of Nancy Reagan on this post?

Wow.

bashsani:
so which are you,best or worst christian

Either way, I'm better than you will ever be.

bashsani:
it seems you will never understand, you are not just a problem to Mankind but also to your self,look within yourself and strive to make yourself a better christian

The worst Christian is a better human being than the best MUMUslim.

bashsani:
so u mean poverty illetracy and backwardness is a monopoly of islam. Truly! Is that how you think, this is exactly what the op was trying to address, im a muslim but I say no to all islamic extremism so goes to christian hypocrisy. That what we all need to work on religious tolerance .i swear by Allah I feel closer to a christian-Op than any religion fanatic and that's how it ought to be

You should be ashamed as a muslim to make such an admission. Afterall the koran warned you not to make friends with Jews and Christians:

Quran (5:51) - "O you who believe! do not take the Jews and the Christians for friends; they are friends of each other; and whoever amongst you takes them for a friend, then surely he is one of them; surely Allah does not guide the unjust people."

Sasuwa:
and u who is lalasticala

Lalasticlala is the name of an exotic South American plant from whose leaves an intoxicating type of weed is produced.

"Wired" or "Weird"

Silent104:
Sex slaves? Where re u guys readin all these 4rm? D way u guys think & d way u hear & blieve things is embarrassing & hypocritical

Muhammad was married to thirteen women, including eleven at one time. He relegated them to either consecutive days or (according to some accounts) all in one night. He had sex with a 9-year-old girl and married his adopted son's wife (after arranging a quick divorce). On top of that, Muhammad had a multitude of slave girls and concubines with whom he had sex - sometimes on the very days in which they watched their husbands and fathers die at the hands of his army.

http://www.thereligionofpeace.com/pages/quran/muhammads-sex-life.aspx

This whole CBT (Computer Based Test) by JAMB is a good idea but Nigeria is the wrong country for it.

A backward, illiterate, "paki" country like Nigeria has no business involving itself in any IT related endeavour. They'll simply mess it up.

Silent104:
Dat's y it's very hard 4 u 2 knw d truth, ur mind & thoughts re far away 4rm it. U hv been mislead. U keep seeing Islam as a threat, bt dat's nt wat it is.
ISLAM, THE TRUE RELIGION OF GOD

If you like you can follow MuhamMAD and his 9 wives and sex slaves. I have chosen Jesus and HE gives me peace, joy and tranquility. That is more than enough for me.

truly:
Who took away the sins of those who died before Jesus came to the World?
You are also being lied to

God is merciful
Yet he could not just tell Abraham - "go, I forgive you"
God had to kill an innocent third party for the sin of Jesus
pure lie!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oang5Lr76fM

The truth is that the day I decide to set low standards for myself is the day I become a muslim. Being a muslim is absurdly easy. You can gratify your lust by marrying 4 wives and keeping concubines. You are even allowed to have intimacy slaves.

A Christian however can only have one wife and even looking at another woman with lust is considered adultery.

Matthew 5:28

But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Islam promotes vindictiveness and victim mentality (us against everyone else). It advocates the killing of one's enemies.

The Bible on the other hand asks us to love our enemies:

Matt 5:44

But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them that persecute you.

Which religion has set higher standards? Judge for yourself.

Christianity is the Religion of the Logos (the Greek for "word", "reason", "meaning", or "intelligence."

From the beginning, Christianity has understood itself as the religion of the Logos, as the religion according to reason... It has always defined men, all men without distinction, as creatures and images of God, proclaiming for them...the same dignity.

In this connection, the Enlightenment is of Christian origin and it is no accident that it was born precisely and exclusively in the realm of the Christian faith....It was and is the merit of the Enlightenment to have again proposed these original values of Christianity and of having given back to reason its own voice...

Today, this should be precisely [Christianity's] philosophical strength, in so far as the problem is whether the world comes from the irrational, and reason is not other than a 'sub-product,' on occasion even harmful of its development—or whether the world comes from reason, and is, as a consequence, its criterion and goal.

Silent104:
D thing is u dnt even undstnd wat u re serving. U re a Christian jst bcox u were born in it. *Hypocrisy*

Here are 25 interesting but important differences..
1.
Jesus says; "Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself." (Matthew 5:14)
Muhammad said "I will cast terror into the hearts of those who
disbelieve. Therefore strike off their heads and strike off every
fingertip of them." (Qur'an 8:12)
" Fight everyone in the way of Allah and kill those who disbelieve in
Allah." Muhammad (Ibn Ishaq 992)
2
Jesus says God loves everyone.(John 3:16)
Muhammad said Allah does not love those who reject Islam. (Qur'an
30:45, 3:32, 22:38)
3
Jesus says "He who lives by the sword will die by the sword." (Matthew
26:52)
Muhammad said "I have been commanded to fight against people till
they testify that there is no god but Allah, and that Muhammad is the
messenger of Allah" (Muslim 1:33)
4
Jesus stops the stoning of an adulterous woman and says “Let he who is
without sin cast the first stone."(John 8:7)
Muhammad said Stone women for adultery.(Muslim 4206)
5
Jesus and God, the father says "Thou shalt not steal." (Matthew 19:18)
(Exodus 20:15; Deuteronomy 5:19)
Muhammad allows stealing from unbelievers. (Bukhari 44:668, Ibn Ishaq
764)
6
Jesus says "Thou shalt not bear false witness." (Matthew 19:18)
Muhammad Permitted lying, deceit and al taqyyiah. (Sahih Muslim 6303,
Bukhari 49:857)
7
Muhammad Owned and traded slaves. (Sahih Muslim 3901)
Jesus neither owned nor traded slaves.
8
Muhammad beheaded 600 to 900 Jewish men and boys (Sahih Muslim
4390)
Jesus healed the sick, feed the hungry and gave life to the dead.
9
Jesus preached forgiveness and peace. (Matthew 18:21-22, 5:38) and
says "If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other
also." (Matthew 5:39)
Muhammad preached retaliations and murdered those who insulted him.
(Bukhari 56:369, 4:241) and said "If then anyone transgresses the
prohibition against you, Transgress ye likewise against him" (Qur'an
2:194)
10
Jesus says "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called Sons of
God" (Matthew 5:9)
Muhammad said Jihad in the way of Allah elevates one's position in
Paradise by a hundred fold. (Muslim 4645)
11
Jesus was celibate. He conquered this carnal human body.
Muhammad Married 13 wives and kept numerous sex slaves.
(Bukhari 5:268, Qur'an 33:50)
12
Muhammad slept with a 9-year-old child. (Sahih Muslim 3309, Bukhari
58:236)
Need I say more
13
Jesus saved a woman from being stoned for adultery, he also healed
several women from sickness etc
Muhammad ordered the murder of women. (Ibn Ishaq 819, 995)
.
14
Jesus says "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
"(Matthew 5:5)
Muhammad said "O you who believe! Fight those of the unbelievers who
are near to you and let them find in you hardness." (Qur'an 9:123)
15
Jesus ordered no military campaigns, nor offered any approval of war or
violence.
Muhammad Ordered 65 military campaigns and raids in his LAST 10
years. (Ibn Ishaq )
16
Muhammad Killed captives taken in battle.(Ibn Ishaq 451),-hope u
remember about the 900 jews boys and women who opposed him etc
Jesus never killed anyone nor asked for the killing of anyone.
15
Muhammad encouraged his men To Molest enslaved women. (Abu Dawood
2150, Qur'an 4:24)
Jesus never encouraged rape and never enslaved women.
16
Muhammad lived like a king and demanded captured slaves and a fifth
of all other loot taken in war.(Qur'an 8:41)
Jesus says "The Son of Man came not to be served, but to
serve." (Matthew 20:28)
17
Muhammad was never tortured, but tortured others. (Muslim 4131, Ibn
Ishaq 436, 595, 734, 764)
Jesus suffered torture, but never tortured anyone.
18
Muhammad said "And fight them until there is no more persecution and
religion is only for Allah" (Qur'an 8:39)
Jesus says "Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute
you" (Matthew 5:44)
19
Jesus healed a blind man (Mark 8:28)
Muhammad blessed the brutal murder of a half-blind man (al-Tabari
1440)
20
Muhammad Ordered a slave to build the very pulpit from which he
preached Islam. (Bukhari 47:743)
Jesus washed his disciples feet. (John 13:5)
21
Jesus says the Greatest Commandment is "Love God and love thy
neighbor as thyself." (Matthew 22:34-40)
Muhammad’s greatest Commandments? "Belief in Allah and Jihad in His
cause" (Muslim 1:149)
22
Muhammad demanded the protection of armed bodyguards, even in a
house of worship (Qur'an 4:102)
Jesus chastised anyone attempting to defend him with force. (John
18:10-12)
23
Jesus demanded nothing for himself and Died without possessions.
Muhammad got fat, was poisoned by a woman whom he collected her
goat meat and ate, suffered for 4 years and then died, a wealthy man
from what was taken from others in war or demanded from others in
tribute.
24
Jesus was crucified himself.
Muhammad advocated crucifying others.
(Qur'an 5:33, Muslim 16:4131)



and finally,


25
I want you to recall their dying words…..who looks like he died with hate
in his heart and who looks like he died with love in his.
Lets take a look;
Jesus said , “Father forgive them, for they know not what they are
doing.” Luke 23:34:

While Muhammad spoke the following words while dying, “ May Allah
curse the Jews and Christians.” Sahih Bukhari, Volume 1, Book 8, Number
427:
Narrated ‘Aisha and ‘Abdullah bin ‘Abbas: When the last moment of the
life of Allah’s Apostle came he started putting his ‘Khamisa’ on his face
and when he felt hot and short of breath he took it off his face and
said , “May Allah curse the Jews and Christians for they built the places
of worship at the graves of their Prophets.”


Muslims don't believe that Jesus paid the price for the sins of those who
accept his message and also accept him as lord and savior (Christians)
but yet their hadith teaches them this;
Sahih Muslim 6666--Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said: No
Muslim would die but Allah would admit in his stead a Jew or a Christian
in Hell-Fire.
And this,
Sahih Muslim 6668--Allah's Messenger [said]: There would come people
amongst the Muslims on the Day of Resurrection with as heavy sins as a
mountain, and Allah would forgive them and He would place in their
stead the Jews and the Christians.

I have to warned Muslims that Christians and Jews can't take away their sins. . We don't have that power. they were lied to.
Only Christ can do this, only he can take sins away.

Preach the gospel and highlight these differences(if it is safe to todo so) when u interact with Muslims. .

binsanni:
End time relligion. Am proud being a muslim

You mean you're proud of terrorism, poverty, illiteracy and backwardness?


A female professor from the renowned Al-Azhar University in Cairo, Egypt, says that Muslim men are allowed by Allah to rape non-Muslim women in order to “humiliate” them. Professor Suad Saleh made the bold claims while being interviewed on Al-Hayat TV. The professor says that the rape is allowed during times of “legitimate war” between Muslims and their enemies.



http://www.inquisitr.com/2713829/female-islamic-professor-says-allah-allows-muslims-to-rape-non-muslims-in-order-to-humiliate-them-video/

Typical razz Nigerian who wears sunglasses at night

MrCork:
...when did I ever edit yorrr post....why?..you parranioddic pandagrostully...issit out fault you ain't lightskin & no man want you on nairaland?...iiissit our fault all guys prefffa kashybaby (lightskin babe) to you ( dakkkskin bane)...PLS GROW UP & ACT YOUR AGE MENNN!!! ((No ofeense)

Cork has crawled out of his hole again. Cork why you dey call Kashybaby's name after you insulted her by calling her a man?

Ishilove:
Eyah, a sensible post from MrCork. What a rare event

You took the words out of my mouth.

Why do you have to mock them by putting quotation marks on "perfect?"

SomaliGuy7:
LOL

I'M HAWIYE.

SHE'S DEFINITELY NOT SOMALI.

Oh so she's related to you? That makes a lot of sense. But why are you Somalis so dumb?

On July 20, 2015, a fighter in Syria called Abu Anas Somali advised men to come to the Islamic State and buy a slave instead of taking a wife in the West.

SomaliGuy7:
HAHAHAHA

THAT WOMAN DON'T LOOK SOMALI

THEY DEFINITELY ARE NOT ETHIC SOMALIS.

THEY ARE CALLED SOMALI BANTU. THEY CLAIM TO BE SOMALI BUT THEY BELONG TO YOU GUYS OF WEST AFRICA.

She is from the Hawiye Clan.

cy22me:
Greetings all, pls i need matured and reasonable idea/advice on this based on experience ; i and me fiance always having it raw whenever we are together, though we dn't live together, we usually meet occasionally, spend few days in a month, there is every possibility that she will take in when we meet, we are not yet ready for a child, i detest abortion, is the any pill without side effect regarding to that


thanks

Stop living in sin.

That woman CANNOT be 30 years old.

SomaliGuy7:
YEMENIS ARE SEEKING REFUGEE IN SOMALIA.

OVER 70,000 YEMENIS HAVE CROSSED THE GULF OF ADEN IN SMALL BOATS TO GET TO SOMALIA

THERE ARE NOW IN MOGADISHU, SOMALIA.

SOMALI AND YEMENIS ARE BROTHERS.

YOU LOT NIGERIANS BANTU AKA NEGROIDS SHOULD MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.


http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-32152698

Somalian sex slave in Saudi Arabia and the son she had for her Arabian master

SomaliGuy7:
WHY DID YOUR PEOPLE (NEGROIDS) SELL SLAVES TO WHITES?


IS IT BECAUSE YOUR FOREFATHERS FORESAW THE CRIMINALITY OF THESE PEOPLE LONG AGO THROUGH VODOO MAGIC?


IF YOUR FOREFATHERS SOLD THEM BASED ON THIS, DID THEY ALSO SEE NIGERIANS AS BECOMING THE NUMBER 1 SCAM ARTISTS IN THE WORLD PER CAPITA?


IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME WOULD YOU CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT THE HISTORY OF SLAVERY?

[size=24pt]“In Yemen there is a social class of people called ‘the servants,’ who have usually come from Somalia or other African countries, [/size]who live in a stage of bondage and are very widely disregarded in society,” said Christoph Wilcke, a senior researcher at Human Rights Watch’s Middle East and North Africa Division.

“It has to do with dark skin, being foreign and living in poverty or in debt.”

http://www.jpost.com/Features/In-Thespotlight/Hundreds-of-slaves-discovered-in-Yemen