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funmisticqueen:
Do you see your life outside, do you think your wife will be truly happy to raise your child by another woman, just leave the babymama alone. I knew there was more to it the way you sound so innocent

my child is path of me I can't just forget him like dat,its. Not gonna happen,my child need me as mush as I do

funmisticqueen:
i agree you are both at fault.how are you sure she got pregnant out of desperation. Dont ever insult the mother of your child again. Did your father teach you to date a woman when you are not ready to marry? Did you two have a good talk like responsible adults about the fate of the child when she was pregnant? Ok fine you didnt marry her or deny the pregnancy, where you there for her during the pregnancy, who paid her hospital bills,did you follow her for any antenatal care appointment, trying to make pregnancy easier? were you there when she was in labor? If your answer to any of this is no. She has every reason to hate you. And while i think she should forgive you, it doesnt mean she can still let you see her child. I can only date someone who is ready to marry, not someone who wants to play around especially when i am ready to get married.

answer is capital NO cus she relocated wit her family,she changed her digit I couldn't track her for over six month before I was transfered to anoda state by d company I work wit

justiniyke29:
Well op call her nd talk 2 her gently,if necessary apologise. If she still refuse go nd seek out a lawyer advise abt joint custody,nd u made mention of her travelling out with d child,well file a case in court nd prevent her 4rm travelling out until d case is settled. my 2cent

the truth is dta this gal is so Damn crazy, I don't know were she currently stay,she changes location like criminal,moreover I don't want my wife to know dat am eager to av my son back to avoid trouble,those re d reasons am so relunctant to go to court.

funmisticqueen:
A relationship is not for playing around, how could u date someone you had no intention of marrying that is fvcked up. I wash my hands off your case. If you like go to court like those airheads are advising you to

I wonder why u keep blaming me,the fault came from both parties,she wanted to get marry ASAP but I wasn' ready for that,she became pregnnt cus she was so desperate,I didn't deny pregnancy but I wasn't ready to settle down,I got Marry after six years,I don't knw her wereabout for over two years before I got married,so how was dat all my fault?

funmisticqueen:
What courts, those places that cant give justice to the oppressed and are only good for settling divorce cases, by the time the Op is finished with court, he wont be able to pay childsupport. I laugh in swahili

oh dat sound scary

lafean20:
Must every relationship end in marriage?...f**k!! Ds is so myopic..i hate dat most women still think like ds... Wat if he had married her out of pity, and months later the marriage bcms unbearable for both of them. A broken engagement is far better than a pathetic broken marriage.. Bt in ds case they were nt engaged, which is even better. We should learn to let go sometime, it's nt easy bt it's doable.

God bless u bro

Rukkydelta:
The child belongs to the mother
Or op are the one that carried the baby in the womb, breast feeds him?
Op say the truth what did u do to your child's mother that made her to hate you this much?

absolutely nothing dats d whole truth

Headlesschicken:
@ 26 u did not know bout condom,why won't she hate you,here u are sounding lk d good guy,whereas maybe u are d wolf in sheep's clothing, n!gga Carry yuh cross n stop complaining....

I only need ur advise thanks anyway

daylyt:
Go to court. You have the right to be a part of your son's life.

yes thanks bro

DieBuhari:
The VP knows the true age of BUHARI.
If not a 60 year old man will not be talking about bring the son of a 74 year old

so 14years old child has never giving birth in your family,ask ur mother if u don't know

sarrki:
When Akintola's killers got to his house, they couldn't enter because, Akintola was doing it fire for fire, they retreated. His killers now went to get his best friend who he never doubted his loyalty, Fani Power father of that rabble rouser. Fani Power pretended as if he came to visit Akintola and that he was alone, no one was with him. Akintola opened the door for his friend but he was brutally knocked down by the bullets of his enemies......

Pls Ffk, continue your friendship with GEJ, Osinbajo doesn't need you!

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pocohantas:
I really don't see how he ruined her life, the only life I have pity for...is that of the innocent baby.

As long as it isn't rape or sex with a minor, they both had it coming.

Two adults have sex without protection, what were they expecting? An iPhone? Let's face facts, some women can't keep campaigning for the right to express their sexuality, then come playing victims when pregnant. Women have to wake up and realise when push comes to shove, it's their bodycount that'll be judged pass, it's them that will be stuck with a baby, if they decide to take the abortion route...still their body. I have never heard any one call Davido a babydaddy, but the babymamma tag sticks like a second skin.

Babymamma reserves the right to be angry, but if the dad isn't irresponsible...I think he should get visitation rights.
Also, no child should be taken away from the mother, it's a mother that has a child, paternity is secondary...

@OP, how is she poisonous? You think you love that child more than the mother or what? I'm sorry, that's the price to pay for reckless sex, I wonder when youths will learn...after orgasm comes reality.

she might turn my child against me

funmisticqueen:
After ruining someone's life and chances at marriage, you came to write an epistle which i read by the way, infact hate is a mild word for what she feels towards you, imagine if someone did what you did to your daughter. Please leave her with her child since he is the only consolation she has from the life you ruined for her and now you want to take that child away, you are wicked person and nothing more than a sperm donor. Baby mama wherever you are find a way to leave the country with your son and leave him to God. Cut off all contact with him. Nonsense you want to eat your cake and have it abi. Radarada

jesus christ, y are u so mean,it could happen to anybody+f cus dat ws d past I was so immature den so pls advise me

Emmanuel Macron who won the French presidential election. (Photo: AFP) Emmanuel Macron, 39, who won the second round of the French presidential election on Sunday, according to estimates, will be one of the world's youngest leaders. Here is a look at those who were still a little wet behind the ears when they attained high executive office: Young leaders

Hungary: Viktor Orban became prime minister in 1998 at the age of 35. He left office in 2002 but took over again in 2010.

Belgium: Charles Michel became prime minister in 2014 at the age of 38 to become the country's youngest leader since 1840

Estonia: Juri Ratas became prime minister in late 2016 at the age of 38. Ukraine: Volodymyr Groysman was appointed prime minister in 2016 at the age of 3n

Greece: Alexis Tsipras was named prime minister in 2015 at the age of 40, the youngest Greek leader in 150 years
. Tunisia: Prime Minister Youssef Chahed was 40 when he took office in 2016, the youngest since Tunisian independence in 1956

Canada: Prime Minister Justin Trudeau was 43 when he took office in 2015.

Poland: President Andrzej Duda won election in 2015 at the age of 43.

Georgia: President Giorgi Margvelashvili took the oath of office in 2013 at the age of 44. Those no longer in power Some young leaders have recently left or lost office
: Estonia: Taavi Roivas was just 34 years old when he became prime minister in 2014. He left office in 2016. Kosovo: Atifete Jahjaga became president in 2011 when she was 36 years old. She left office in 2016.

Italy: Matteo Renzi ran the government from early 2014, when he was 39, until late 2016. Britain: David Cameron was 43 when he became prime minister in 2010. He left office last year after the shock referendum to leave the EU. Looking back Felipe Gonzalez was head of the Spanish government in 1982 at the age of 40. Tony Blair became the British premier in 1997 at the age of 43. Benazir Bhutto was Pakistan's premier in 1988 at the age of 35, and Laurent Fabius was French premier in 1984 at 37. US president Theodore Roosevelt was 42 when he took office, and John F. Kennedy was 43. In France, Louis Napoleon Bonaparte was previously the youngest leader, at 40 years old in 1848 and under a different political regime, followed by Valery Giscard d'Estaing, the youngest under the current system, at 48 in 1974. Excluding democratic governments, notable young leaders at the moment include North Korea's Kim Jong-un, 34, and the emir of Qatar Sheikh Tamim bin Hamad Al-Thani, 36. And not forgetting Moamer Kadhafi, who came to power in Libya in 1969, aged 27.

talk2alabama:
I continue paying for child support

renenber she hate u n ur money,hw will u do dat without her consent

talk2alabama:
Rubbish... I won't be part of all that emotional trauma.. She should face life.

and wat about d child

The truth is, your relationship never worked. You were so incompatible in every aspect of life, it is a miracle that you even dated for a year, made worse by the fact that you even went on to have a child. The boy turned out to be the most beautiful child, and you have heard from his kindergarten teacher that he looks bright and poised for big things in life. The mother loves the kid like crazy and you do love the boy, since he is an exact chip off the old block. But you have irreconcilable differences with the mother. You have tried to be reasonable, but the mother is the most unreasonable human being. And this hurts you. She hates you. She hates your balls. She hates your money. She hates the wife you finally settled with. She hates your step-daughter. She does not want anything to do with you. To her, you are as good as dead. You wonder why some women like this.
Truth be told, you made mistakes when you were dating. And she was not exactly a saint. You dilly- dallied when she so much wanted a marriage, but you were a still young boy, aged 26 and you were still experimenting. Life was good. But she wanted to settle down and you thought that she wanted to imprison you too soon. Marriage is a life- time commitment. Kid notwithstanding, you were not sure about her. She was desperately clingy, hellbent on changing you and your way of life. She considered you too worldly, even though she loved your bad boy charm. But she had made the classical, clichéd assumption that a woman can change a man.
She gave you two options: Marry her, or ship out. You took the ship, but you have since regretted. You never thought that seeing your son will be such an impossible task. You have heard that she even wants to move out of the country, if that can separate your boy from you for good. All for what? Your attempts at reconciliation have not worked, and every day she becomes bitter than all the lemons in the world. All you want your son to know is that you are a cool dad. Your wife Carol, does not mind the son at all, same way you like her daughter with the ingrate lawyer just as much. And Carol does not understand how someone can be too hateful.
"She is jealous, she really loved you. That is why she will never forgive you..." Carol advises you as you try to figure out how hateful one woman can be.
"It is futile, some women are like that, but she should at least let you bond with your son, aki that kid might be affected if her mother raises her with such bitterness," Carol tells you, hoping, forlornly that your ex will ever come around to her senses.
"Hope she finds a better man, she seems stuck with that phase I dated her, will that change her really?" you ask Carol in trying to understand the female psyche. "Truth is, she may never marry again. To some women, their first love, is their last love." "That is deep," you tell Carol.
"True." And you are left wondering how to rescue your son from her poisonous mother. What do do you do?

Let's help This woman pls,she need help ASAP,can't u see she's getting lean,op u ve to donate first follow by FTC den others.thank you

The age is too wide, jeeeeeesu

sotall:
ok

nid to change my lptop casin

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HerPov:
I don't know what's wrong with me, everytime I feel insecure in the relationship or he does something to piss me off, I end the relationship. At that moment I'm overwhelmed with anger and he has a way of blanking me when we argue and because I can't release the anger, I quit the relationship.
I really do love him. He is my dream man, I approached him and introduced myself and we just fit. Except my "It's over" drama every month.
I finish with him every month (when I come on my period, I can't control my emotions). He said he can't take me seriously and if I broke up with him again he won't take me back and I broke up with him last week for the 5th time

What's wrong with me? Do other women feel like this? Men what would you do in his situation?

just like my ex

Afonjashapmouth:
True I love Trump and the reason being, if all citizens can come back home.and we channel our frustration towards the evil doers why won't our country become a better place. You wont bother to fix ur house if your host is always nice to you.

true talk

25-year-old Vicentia Tadagbe Tchranvoukinni, a female preacher, in Benin Republic, has declared that she is God and her mission on earth is to defeat the devil.

She claimed she fell from heaven with the divine mission of tackling devil and his agents in the world and that she is Perfect’ and ‘God’s Holy Spirit’
Five people suffocated to death in her church after she ordered followers to lock themselves inside sealed rooms with burning incense, a ministry of health official said on Tuesday.

The “Very Holy Church of Jesus Christ of Bename”, a controversial sect which claims thousands of members, had told followers to spend Saturday in a sealed room praying for the holy spirit. “These patients were all poisoned with carbon monoxide in the Porto Novo and Adjarra areas,” the health official, who asked to remain anonymous, told AFP. “There are currently five deaths and nine people in intensive care,” the official added. The followers died “after inhaling the incense while they prayed,” he said. “Some may have fallen on the embers placed in the rooms where they locked themselves for the prayer.” The church was founded in 2009 by a young woman, Vicentia Tadagbe Tchranvoukinni, often referred to as “Perfect”, who says she is “God the Holy Spirit.” Tchranvoukinni regularly vilifies other faiths, including voodoo — an official religion in the tiny West African nation — and Roman Catholicism, stoking tension in the community. On January 8, violent clashes broke out between residents in the southern town of Djime and cult followers who had “insulted and offended” traditional leaders during a “mission of evangelisation”, according to one local resident.

No official report has been released but several people were injured and vehicles burned, the

President Yoweri Museveni has urged African leaders to stop what he described as ideological meandering. Leaders, he said, should thoroughly discuss and distill positions which can help their people transform and develop using their natural resources. Museveni added that focus should be on home-based solutions and self reliance. He said new US President Donald Trump’s “America First” policies will jolt Africans into the reality of their situation. “I love Trump. I love that man Trump because that man has told you that he is not your uncle. And I think it is good. For those Africans who feel orphaned, am sorry for them. Let’s come back to our continent and mind our own affairs,” Museveni said. Museveni was speaking Saturday at a discussion on “Managing Natural Resources In Africa: Challenges and Prospects,” at the ongoing 6th High Level Forum on security in Africa at Blue Nile Hotel, Bahir Dar in Ethiopia. The president spoke passionately about processing Africa’s minerals from Africa to create jobs and get more value from their resources, illustrating his point by saying it was “foolish to give your neighbor firewood when you don’t have firewood in your house”.

“We have a lot of Uranium. Canadians came and said they wanted to take to Canada to process it from there and I said it will stay in the ground until we build own nuclear power station because am not a fool to give firewood to my neighbor when I don’t have firewood in my house,” he said.

Education is not only solution

President Museveni who disagreed with some of the presenters who said education was the solution to solving Africa’s problems said policy mistakes by both technocrats and polictical leaders have led to various problems in Africa.

“That if you educate your people, everything will be okay? This was part of mistakes in 1960. This fragmented thinking, fragmented vision is incorrect. If you educate people but you don’t have infrastructure including electricity, where will they work? How will they work”? the president said.

The president used the example of the Phillipines which he said has its citizens working all over the world because they don’t have jobs in their own country while South Korea has its citizens working home.

Kudos op,am planing to go north korea next week together with mr ttrump

[quote author=TrapQueen77 post=56190162]Hang on...im confused with ur story OP...




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thesuave10:
You for just tell us say you dey work for gold circle and Durex. Say you wan advertise

lol. U knw serious atall

A teenager grabbed his father's gun and shot himself in the head after a domestic worker barred him from using a family car. The 18-year-old, son to Maj (Rtd) Michael Kariuki, the head of security at Safaricom, is fighting for his life at a city hospital where he is admitted in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU). The incident happened on Tuesday morning in Nairobi's Lavington Estate while parents of the Form Four student were away. The police said the boy was seriously injured. Officers who visited the scene said they found him in bad shape. There were claims he had been placed on a life-support machine.
The police said Kariuki, a licensed gun owner, was away in London together with his wife at the time of the incident at their Mugumo Terrace home. Witnesses said the bullet went through the right ear before exiting the head, shattering his skull in the process. The student was found lying on the floor of his bathroom.

His brother, who was in the house, reportedly heard a gunshot from boy's bedroom. He went to check what was happening and found him bleeding profusely. The family driver rushed him to hospital where he was said to have been put on life support machine. The police said they took away the Ceska pistol that had 11 bullets and will question his parents. Relatives said the teenager's parents had to cut short their trip in Europe as soon as the news of the tragedy got to them.
The police said they had not recovered any notes that could explain why the boy wanted to take his life. Equally puzzling was how the boy accessed the gun, which witnesses said had been locked up in a safe in his parents' bedroom. He is said to have argued with the house help when he demanded keys to one of the cars. "We don't know if the argument he had with the maid led to the incident but investigations into the incident are ongoing," said Nairobi head of DCI Nicholas Kamwende. After the altercation, he reportedly went to the safe, took out the pistol and shot himself.
The house girl, who was alone in the house yesterday, refused to comment on the issue. "No one is in the house. It is only the parents who can comment on the matter," the maid said before locking the entrance to the home. Guards said they heard a gunshot and an alarm from the house. The police visited yesterday and recorded statements from the house girl, driver and the boy's brother. This is the latest incident to happen involving legally issued weapon. On February 18, 2017 a university student shot himself dead moments after surviving a grisly road accident in Nairobi's Loresho. Police say the man — Brian Kagwe — shot himself in the chest twice using his father's gun. The police said such legally issued weapons were supposed to be surrendered to authorities whenever the owners travel . "Unless the owner is sure of his safe, he or she should surrender the weapon to authorities for custody whenever they travel out of the country," said an officer. Seriously injured
A message sent to Safaricom staff Wednesday said: "Our friend Maj Kariuki's son Josiah, 18, is seriously injured following an incident involving a firearm. He has, as a result, undergone surgery and his condition at this time remains critical. We pray for his full recovery while keeping Major and his family in our prayer."

Janet is working as a Human Resource manager in one of the Insurance company in Nairobi.He confided in me on how the doctor's error, when she visited her for an HIV test costed her his life, career, and education.
: Speaking to me on Sunday after church Janet said she regret every moment she is living because of a simple mistake she and the doctor committed.At one point she blamed the doctor for breaking the sad news

that she was HIV positive yet she was not.On the other hand, she had herself to blame because after being given the wrong results she planned a revenge on each and every man that came seeking for her ‘forbidden fruit’. She defied the doctor’s advice of abstaining and living a positive life and decided to have unprotected sex with each and every man that came her way.It was after doing several other tests that she discovered that she was HIV negative.Three doctors confirmed that indeed she was HIV negative. She then planned to visit the testing centres after three months only to be greeted with a rude shock when she met one of the men he had unprotected sex with at the same centre. Janet learned later that the man was on medication.The man being used to the doctor he casually walked into the testing room without knocking on the door.When their eyes met Janet was lost of words. The man asked her two questions that she says has haunted her for the rest of her life. “Janet, you have started medication already? You don’t want to die young like me?” asked the man.Janet’s worst fears were confirmed. She had been infected by the man.She said that she regretted tearing the condom at the base when she had sex with the man thinking that she was the one infecting the man with the deadly disease.According to her, she dropped out of Kenyatta University after knowing her status because at her tender age she could not shoulder the burden and soldier on with her studies. She only went to college later and a perused a different course and not her dream career -law.Right now she says that she doesn’t see the need of getting married because she doesn’t want to start a family which she will not take care of owing to her health status.