Family › Re: Marriage: Specs Or Peace Of Mind? by ttmax09(m): 6:46pm On Apr 17, 2021 |
Klass99: Your post had me smiling from ear to ear. I like your outlook on life but what do you mean by public commitment?
I needed that self awareness and to discover myself before getting married. Marrying @ 22 just didn't feel right to me, thankfully I had (and still have) enlightened parents who didn't push or force the issue of marriage on any of their kids.
Now that I'm older, more self aware and I think independently (I've always had a mind of my own and was a non-conformist as far back as secondary school & university anyway ) I know that;
1. I want to love and be loved.
2. I'm not crazy about having kids of my own. The thought of it exhausts me, more than it excites me.
3. I want a man who understands that even though we may be married, we do not lose ourselves or individuality. On point 3, the lyrics from one of Neyo's says songs comes to mind - I'm a movement by myself but we are a force when we are together.
4. I want companionship, good and authentic companionship with lots of quality time with my man, like just cuddling him in front of the TV, while we watch our favourite programs and me running my hands over his bare chest, occasionally massaging his neck and shoulders. I don't think you love love more than me o especially when the feeling is mutual.
5. I want a married life experience where he'll be my baby and I'll be his. We will be two adults just taking care of each other and doing the good we can in our community and to the people in our lives and space (whether we know them personally or not)
Younger me may have gotten married simply because;
1. My suitor was good looking, he wanted it and was mounting the pressure like kilode?
2. The so called society expected it of me as a woman and......
3. Who knows I may have been one of your case studies today if not divorced sef 
Older me has the presence of mind to make well thought out decisions on the basis of my self awareness. Decisions that help rather than hurt me, in the short or long run.
I'm good. I hope you are too. wow, I really do like your idea of marriage. It's beautiful, the only NO for me is your take on having kids. |
Technology Market › Re: MAKE ORDER, WE SHIP 4 YOU, BUY FROM USA/CHINA ebay,amazon,$4/Ibs MAYORALL by ttmax09(m): 6:37pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
And My first business with mayorall is a success, Alas their are still some honest and trustworthy business men on nairaland. Thanks for a job well done boss. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Tony Elumelu Foundation 2021 Entrepreneurship Programme Application Opens by ttmax09(m): 5:02am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Lagoon0: thank bro, wasn't eligible now, was advice to come back next year Alright wish you all the best bro. |
Romance › Re: Are Guys Really Scared Of Dating Ladies That Attend White Garment Churches?? by ttmax09(m): 5:46pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
ScamHunter: Hmmm ... DANGER
Unless you don't care about your soul, you're imperiled if you date any white garment lady. They're practically worshiping or playing around with demons. Other cults to beware of are:
Ekankar Grail Message Synagogues of Satan Cele
Oshoffa is the founder of Cele. I encourage you to read the book "The Mysterious Secrets of The Dark Kingdom" . Someone had a revelation about Oshoffa in it.
Chrubim Church of Satan Brotherhood of Cross and Star Latter Days Saints Jehovah's Witnesses
There are many more that don't even wear whites. Many more that look like churches. Just pray for discernment and do not allow stupid love to becloud the leading of the Holy Spirit. That's if you're a Christian. For the unbeliever dating and marrying them. Their own don finish...
Any man or woman that belong to these modern cults that you encounter, FLEE.... They're practically working for fallen angels and demons
Finally, I must add one more subtle demonic activity: Valentine Day's Celebration. Don't think you're not worshipping a demon if you celebrate Valentine in any guise of form. Can you kindly brief us about the revelation that seen towards the man, atleast for some of us who have never seen or heard about the book. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Tony Elumelu Foundation 2021 Entrepreneurship Programme Application Opens by ttmax09(m): 12:52am On Feb 14, 2021 |
Lagoon0: I went to the site then I didn't understand what was going on. The link I click was not opening. Please if you can provide me the link I'll appreciate www.tefconnect.com. that's what I could find, and the link is going through. Best of luck |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Tony Elumelu Foundation 2021 Entrepreneurship Programme Application Opens by ttmax09(m): 7:51pm On Feb 13, 2021 |
Lagoon0:
I don't know if I should apply, I have plan on opening a tech company producing IoT based home appliances .
I've worked on the code in the past did some working but later abandoned the whole stuff I think the application is usually done January, but still check it out. Do you mean internet of things by iot or what. |
Celebrities › Re: Peter Okoye Shows The Kind Of Valentine Gift Men Will Get From Their Women by ttmax09(m): 6:11pm On Feb 13, 2021 |
Mokason288: See Peter saying men #meahavesuffered”
Who suffer reach you?
That fought with your brothers and took a video of it to go show his wife
You destroyed a brand that became a household name... just because of your wife
Show us what your wife got for you 
Anu Inchi like you
Mstheeeew 
I HOPE I MADE SENSE Nah you made no sense man.
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Romance › Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by ttmax09(m): 5:59pm On Feb 13, 2021 |
OlawaleBammie: Zzor
Fati2001
Saphire
Onyi22
Chi59
It can not be bukatyne
Prettyprincess
It can not be fatymore
I dont tink its Bola ibadan 
Talotunku oooo lol think harder, you almost there. |
Politics › Re: Kogi Pays, Begins Site Clearing, To Deliver Ganaja Flyover Project This Year by ttmax09(m): 11:11am On Feb 06, 2021 |
Simeonee111: This guy is now topping list of top 3 Governors for me. So many great strides of late Kudos! Man is looking to be your president in 2023, what do you expect. |
Travel › Re: Update On Lagos Metro Rail Project: Pictures & Video by ttmax09(m): 10:52pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
post=98406125: Shamelessness! Something the criminals y'all support couldn't do for 16 years. Y'all should hide your heads somewhere.....(trying to be polite) 
Nothing to counter our post with, just their chidish insults. This is what all the criminals you support for 16 wasted years couldn't do, they rather looted them money amongst themselves. But all you can type is 'go and sit down jare'. Wailers usual tantrums, no sensible thing to counter with. Gone are the days when you have mature political discussions on Nairaland, now politics section have been overtaken by kids, uncultured kids.
What a Shame....a COLOSSAL shame! PDP: Shameless party of looters and supporters. You should bury your head where no one will see you  Ogbeni your comments are beginning to stink honestly. What are u trying to prove? Or achieve with all these trash you always spilling. Our naira is at its weakest point, inflation is at an all time high, more people are falling into poverty every minute and so many ills every where and yet you keep throwing words at people for speaking out. Seems you are jobless to have time to read and comment on every single thread. |
Politics › Re: Vacation Order: Akeredolu, South-West Governors To Meet Miyetti Allah On Monday by ttmax09(m): 11:58am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Kaduna1stson: How can they order us out of Nigeria space when we have freedom of movement? Hypocrite, all these years your people have been killing, kidnapping and destroying farmlands all over yet you guys where cool with it and "error 404" was your status, now vacate the forests and go ranch your cows and then boom you guys suddenly pop out of nowhere, running about like goats on heat. Someone said up there the forest is meant for animals and not humans.
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Investment › Re: Fisayo Fosudo: Nigerian Tech Apps That Helped Me Make Money In 2020 by ttmax09(m): 11:34am On Jan 25, 2021 |
Joeadamxx: My grouse with a lot of Nigerians especially the youth, is the fact they are quick to discount any progress that is not quick enough or requires any bit of mental exercise! The gentleman says he made $10,000 in a year and some are saying it is misleading because he did not draw out a per minute chart of how he made the money! He said he invested in cryptos. Have you done the mental exercise of checking the unit price of Bitcoin from the beginning of 2020 and compared it to the price at the end of that year? He also mentioned he invested in Nigerian and US stocks and still some airheads are questioning the veracity of his claims without doing the simple mental exercise of checking what gains the stock markets made in that year. I invested about $8000+ in cryptos and US stocks between September 2020 and now and my portfolio is presently in excess of $20,000+. Of course, there will be some dimwits on this forum that will claim it is false but I will give you an indication; I bought shares in a blockchain company with code HIVE for $0.46 and sold 1500 shares for $3.01 each with a profit of $3,960! But again, maybe I am also lying!! Hlo boss good day, plz how do I get started with US stocks. Since the start of this year been thinking about going into it. Though I trade forex and crypto already, adding stocks into the mix won't be bad I think. Any lead will be appreciated |
Travel › Re: Calabar's Monorail Shows A Glimpse Of Nigeria's Intracity Public Transit System by ttmax09(m): 7:05pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
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Properties › Re: Cost Of Buying A Land Around Ibadan And Oyo by ttmax09(m): 6:08pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
CaptainPrice1: An Average price should be around 50M there. Not really sure , but properties in that estate are expensive.
Kolapo Ishola GRA and Carlton gate estate are also top Notch.. ok thanks for the heads up |
Properties › Re: Cost Of Buying A Land Around Ibadan And Oyo by ttmax09(m): 5:20pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
CaptainPrice1: They usually call Ibadan brown roof city, but many of them don't know that Ibadan is one among the fastest developing state in Nigeria. If you have money for real estate, It's advisable to go to Ibadan or Abeokuta. IMO! Aerodrome estate is the most expensive place in Ibadan. Any idea about price of properties in that estate, the location is cool. |
Travel › Re: Calabar's Monorail Shows A Glimpse Of Nigeria's Intracity Public Transit System by ttmax09(m): 1:37pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
nams77: There are three places I want to visit this year by God's grace.
Calabar Akwa ibom That resort park at anambra state( abeg helep me with the name of this place)
Buy genuine Land in Delta/Edo.
Talk to us pls mention me once u remember the name of the resort, might try it out during easter. |
Politics › Re: Bashir El-Rufai Tweets About Tinubu And El-Rufai's Alliance by ttmax09(m): 12:25pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
waslag11: not at all, I still prefer osinbajo\zulum ,or tinubu/zulum God bless u for this, I also want tinubu on the ballot. |
Politics › Re: Bashir El-Rufai Tweets About Tinubu And El-Rufai's Alliance by ttmax09(m): 12:18pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
Philipponzaghi: It’s not possible.
APC would not be that inconsiderate to offset the political space with a Muslim-Muslim ticket.
However if they eventually succeed with that ticket, it will be a game of religious numerical strength between Christians and Muslims coz people will vote along religious lines except the SW.
Even SW to an extent will be polarized under such circumstances.
Maybe that will clear the doubt about the most populous religion in Nigeria shar. Are you aware the SW as quiet a large number of Christians, besides same religion ticket would not work in Nigeria. It didn't work in 2015 and it won't work in 2023 most especially. |
Politics › Re: Bashir El-Rufai Tweets About Tinubu And El-Rufai's Alliance by ttmax09(m): 12:15pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
Arewa1stSon: I have no problem with Osibanjo... He is capable of piloting the affair of Nigeria!!
But I am sorry the north will never support him!!
We are now seeing very clear that the reason why most of you southerners are pushing for Osibanjo is because of religious reasons not because of competence or his political capacity!!
The north will stand with Asiwaju Ahmed Bola Tinubu!!
There's nothing Osibanjo can do that Tinubu can not do!
The north will not vote for a pastor... That's the bitter truth!!
Same way the south would not vote for a malam or any imam regardless of his competence!!
So the Christian bigots should stop deceiving each other and support Jagaban and Elrufai.
Those are the only candidates that would beat Atiku in the North!!
I am just saying the truth you don't want to hear  same religion ticket can never work in Nigeria, you had better stop massaging your ego. |
Travel › Re: My Trip From Lagos To Ethiopia, Kenya And Mauritius Island by ttmax09(m): 10:47pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ttmax09(m): 8:02pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Zeemuthafuka: 12500 is actually cheap at 1k+ per month considering you would be getting content from all the streaming apps you would have paid individually for at a higher price and some are not even available yet in Nigeria...
Download the app, use HUHU.TO as the bundle URL and then pay with your card...
I still need the free version tho, I don't know how to go about it Ok thanks for the reply. You could ask about the free version on reddit though |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ttmax09(m): 4:23pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
StPete: What if it's $12.5k for a year cos it's a combination of premium services $12k for an entertainment service on TV? Nah can't be, besides I checked it on quora seems to be a new service and not licensed. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ttmax09(m): 1:23pm On Jan 17, 2021 |
Zeemuthafuka: An app that has all the shows and movies from all the streaming apps like Disney+ and HBOmax and Netflix all in 1 instead of paying for them individually...and they drop the same day...the paid version is called watched(12500 per yr) but watched++ is the free hacked version that people are using now Hlo, plz how do I go about the paid version. I don't think 12500/year is bad though, except I'm not getting the figures right. |
Phones › Re: Samsung Unveils the Galaxy S21 Series by ttmax09(m): 3:41pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Chatflick: Note 7. Running Android 10, MIUI 12. I'd say go for Note 9 Thanks I will definitely go note 9 |
Phones › Re: Samsung Unveils the Galaxy S21 Series by ttmax09(m): 5:56pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Chatflick: Xiaomi is just like iPhone. Without my Xiaomi cloud details, my phone is useless to you if it gets stolen. I don't know if old models have this feature though what model are you using if I may ask? Want to upgrade but Samsung screen is my fear |
Politics › Re: Updates On Development In Kano State (Photos) by ttmax09(m): 7:50pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Arrewa: Minjibir park in Kano is a nice destination away from the hustle and bustle of d city. It is so large that they provide vehicles (vintage cars) as well as coach-like carts 2 convey people from one part to another. It harbors: - Children hangout spots - Polo & Golf course -Gaming areas. arrewa pls which Lga is this minjibir park located and how safe it is for vacation. |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Drinking As Davido And Burna Boy Fight In Ghana (Video) by ttmax09(m): 9:26pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Jennycoolz: What makes you think every female must be cheap as your mother Mehn you really got time oooo, This NL alot of frustrated and angrybirds on this platform. The best pill is to ignore. |
TV/Movies › Re: ‘Omo Ghetto: The Saga’ - Funke Akindele Returns To Street (Pictures) by ttmax09(m): 10:01pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
The movie was dope. Everyone played his/her role nicely. But funke akindele and zubby Micheal role really stood out. I rate 8/10 |
Travel › Re: Recommend A Nice Place For Vacation In Lagos Please by ttmax09(m): 4:36pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Traviscottt: From your exchanges with the girl, its obvious she's the reserved/naive type, she's not wayward.. Make sure you fvck her raw, I sure say she no get STI.  Chairman free them naaaaa |
Crime › Re: EndSARS Protesters Sold Two Policemen’s Skulls For N1,000 by ttmax09(m): 4:58pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: What is happening in south west? Reorientation and stiff swift punishments(death penalty/life imprisonment) for ritualists caught with human parts or trading and eating them should go a long way in curbing this menace. those in government know these things, but they won't implement it simply cos they are the beneficiaries. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Dangote Refinery To Create 250,000 Jobs by ttmax09(m): 5:26pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
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Family › Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by ttmax09(m): 11:36am On Nov 18, 2020 |
iamloyalty: Gud criteria. same as mine, I only consider guys with good history. He must have a with decent past I can't entangle myself with consequences of anyones past deeds. Coming from a lady, I'm quite surprised. Never settle for less your criterias are valid, I'm sure you ve found the one that tick all your boxes. Wishing you the best. |