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Politics › Re: Muslim-Muslim Ticket: Kano Imam Asks Muslims Not To Vote Tinubu (Video) by ttmax09(m): 9:03pm On Jul 11, 2022
Antimarraige:
BMC supervisor how hustle, your finger go don turn red from typing thrash for Tinubu everyday, Sweating under AC in your BMC houses cheesy
grin grin grin don't mind him, in his little mind now he his convincing people to vote tinubu. Pls tell him tinubu's decision just made it easier for PO come 2023. I'm Yoruba by the way.
Politics › Re: With Okowa As Atiku's Running Mate, Will PDP Win The Presidential Election? by ttmax09(m): 6:01pm On Jun 16, 2022
DipWire:
Rivers is a strong ground. PDP has lost atleast 5 Million votes across all south south states by this action.

The bulk of the votes that brought Okowa to power was not political popularity but Apathy from major tribes in Delta that said they wanted his side to rule for ethnic balancing which he betrayed on the way out on the state level. And is now betraying on the federal level too


Okowa can never win south east or south south votes over Peter Obi. Never.


It is a case of the stars aligning for Obi to win by confusing the others to make errors. Tinub will make a VP error. As Atiku has done




Atiku just made the greatest political blunder in his political career. Udom Donald Duke are there, he went to pick who is popular as a traitor. You folks don't know how SS hates betrayal. He isn't winning jack. Not even the votes in Delta state



I congratulate Peter Obi and all Ndigbo worldwide. The election is Obi's own to lose
First of all I'm from the SW and the odds are tilting towards obi massively right now, let APC just make the mistake of picking same religion ticket and obi already has the day.
Politics › Re: With Okowa As Atiku's Running Mate, Will PDP Win The Presidential Election? by ttmax09(m): 5:55pm On Jun 16, 2022
Nnamnugochi:
H.E. Atiku has lost it already. He jettisoned the committee's report to do his bidding showing how he will choose to work without input from others especially other arms of government.

H.E. Okowa betrayed other southern governors to become VP. He will also be betrayed. Rivers will vote PDP as governor but will split their votes for APC and Labour Party for the presidential seat.

The Southern governors' forum declaration will stand. To overcome this, he would had been picked H.E. Wike as VP. Gov Wike has been the backbone of PDP supporting all court cases and also stoutly opposing the federal government.

He will be silent now and concentrate on how to win his home state for governor.
You are so on point with the analysis, ignore those who are saying you know nothing, rather they know nothing. Do they think southerners are fools? The north picked an unpopular puppet has VP, his performance has governor has been woeful, just cos they know controlling wike will be difficult. Peter Obi has got I and my immediate family's vote sha.
Politics › Re: After Two Consecutive Losses, What Next For Gov Wike? by ttmax09(m): 5:48pm On Jun 16, 2022
Bomboiy:
He should come and work for Peter Obi.
That's actually his best play right now, he called PO a man without integrity before, but right now is the time to mend bridges and work against PDP. The northern power brokers wouldn't want wike has vice in the first place cos he will be difficult to control so they just went for a puppet. I hope southern Nigerians are seeing this? It's always about holding unto power for them.
Romance › Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by ttmax09(m): 10:49am On May 12, 2022
rickpat:
bro you are letting her mess with your mind...if she really loves you the way you love her...she won't be doing this to you....be careful though so you don't go into much commitment in a relationship where you are always begging and she sees "loving" you is doing you a favour...BEWARE OF MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE
Exactly what I do tell people, never ever beg to be loved. The moment you do that, you lose your free will. They start thinking they doing you a favour. To me love is a decision, the moment you decide to stop loving someone you get them off your mind, been there and done that.
Romance › Re: Can You Be In An Open Relationship? by ttmax09(m): 9:15pm On Apr 12, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Most relationships way our girls dey do na open relationships on a low key na
First time I will agree with you on here sha, no honest people anymore it's a dog eat dog situation.
Politics › Re: List Of 5 Worst Governors In Nigeria (Opinion) by ttmax09(m): 1:21pm On Feb 04, 2022
Mousup40:
ortom
Ikpeazu
Bello of niger state
na only you Sabi joor, most of those guys complaining will give thanks to God when they visit other states and see for themselves.

Orton
Sani Bello(Niger)
Yahaya Bello
Ikepezu
Taraba ishaiku
Dapo abiodun
Education › Re: Mathematics Challenge: 50% Will Fail This! by ttmax09(m): 10:29am On Jan 26, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Na 9 na



Nor vex for me joor

Weed nor make me see the 3!


Sometimes brother
Even when I see the 3!
I come dey reason sa na exclamation Mark...untill I look am well be fore I realise say factorial
undecided undecided Exclamation mark for mathematical problem, weed is bad indeed.
Romance › Re: I'm So Addicted To Prostitutes. I Feel Suicidal. by ttmax09(m): 10:20am On Jan 26, 2022
Man are you ready to really quit? If yes do the following
1- Get tested first to be sure no std or whatsoever.
2- look for mfm branch around you,( I will suggest a small branch where you can confide in their resident pastor). attend the 3 days fasting and prayer along with deliverance program they usually organize time to time, and please have faith and be serious with it.
3- Find a new hobby
If you can do all these, you should be fine there is nothing new under the sun.
Romance › Re: Tell Us How Your Relationship Life Went In This 2021 by ttmax09(m): 10:38pm On Dec 25, 2021
Emily22:
I told mine I want to collect an apartment next year and rent a workshop so I need to save with strict discipline.


I noticed her reaction.


I also told her if she will handle the kitchen wares cuz I still have to take care of chairs, gadgets and much more.

Next morning, she uploaded a status on her WhatsApp saying "don't date a man that want to make u contribute in everything he ought to be doing alone,don't date a 50/50 man.


I ignored the status and same day, she called to ask for 25k for her hair and I told her I can't date a burden any longer, you are a working class, remove from your December salary and pay for your hair...


We never talk till date.

Starting with a new babe next year after my accommodation/biz is ready.
way to go man. You sabi
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Got A New Job Offer In Niger But I Need Some Help by ttmax09(m): 1:14am On Dec 15, 2021
blinkz4real:
Go to minna and get a house in Bosso area, London Street if you can afford the rent. Water and light is relatively steady and safe too. Don't try working from suleja pls, its dangerous travelling that road regularly and n d road is kind of bad.
Op you see the area @ the bolded, if you can get accomodation there it will be nice, I stayed in that axis for over 8 years while living there. It is close to the state police headquarters, good road network and street lights along the area's major road, However light in minna is strictly 10 hours per day or so.
Education › Re: A Female Celebrity Is The Owner Of Dowen College – Ubi Franklin Reveals by ttmax09(m): 4:44pm On Dec 04, 2021
Danjikanbauchi:
next time you quote me I will slap you.
grin grin grin How do you intend slapping him, E slap?
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Christians Worship On Sundays? by ttmax09(m): 2:27pm On Nov 28, 2021
sotall:
Man wasn't made for the law.

The law was made for man

Hence, man can choose any day of the week to serve his God.
The exact same answer my pastor gave to me years back when I asked same question during a Bible study session, before then I used to wonder why also.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Call Me by ttmax09(m): 12:47pm On Nov 20, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
Watch as you loose a good girl with this.
grin grin you lots are funny, what is good about her? You are in a relationship and you don't call or chat your partner up till he or she does
Business › Re: Why Are Nigerians So Quick To Accept Inflation? by ttmax09(m): 8:44pm On Nov 05, 2021
siofra:
Who still dey eat sardine??

If you're still eating sardine God will judge you angry

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Newcastle United Vs Chelsea (0 - 3) On 30th October, 2021 by ttmax09(m): 5:39pm On Oct 30, 2021
Lamasta:
Na initial gra gra Chelsea dey do wait till February where every team will know their bearings
intitial gragra you say? FYI Chelsea is the most consistent team in the league and of course man city of late.
Business › Re: Why Are Nigerian Banks Not Using The Credit Card System Like Other Countries? by ttmax09(m): 4:50pm On Oct 29, 2021
thesicilian:
You want credit cards, when common online loan apps that people collect money from they'll come here to be looking for lawyers that will help them fight the company instead of just paying up
grin You are absolutely right on this, I'm sure I have seen such topics even on nl here, Nigerians looking for lawyers to help them fight these companies instead of looking for means to pay up the debts.
Politics › Re: PMB Says Digital Currency Will Boost Nigeria's GDP By $29 Billion In 10 Years by ttmax09(m): 4:55pm On Oct 25, 2021
Theunbothered:
I like how optimistic you are about this scam project
cheesy grin cheesy Not cool though
Politics › Re: Nigeria Retains Third Most Attractive Investment Destination In Africa by ttmax09(m): 11:32am On Oct 17, 2021
Cholls:
My brother I find this article really insightful.


Under the cover of counterterrorism, AFRICOM is beefing up Nigeria’s military to ensure the free flow of oil to the West, and using the country as a proxy against China’s influence on the continent.


Last month, Nigeria’s President Muhammadu Buhari wrote an op-ed in the Financial Times. It might as well have been written by the Pentagon. Buhari promoted Brand Nigeria, auctioning the country’s military services to Western powers, telling readers that Nigeria would lead Africa’s “war on terror” in exchange for foreign infrastructure investment. “Though some believe the war on terror [WOT] winds down with the US departure from Afghanistan,” he says, “the threat it was supposed to address burns fiercely on my continent.”

With Boko Haram and Islamic State operating in and near Nigeria, pushing a WOT narrative is easy. But counterterror means imperial intervention. So, why is the Pentagon really interested in Nigeria, a country with a GDP of around $430 billion – some $300 billion less than the Pentagon’s annual budget – a population with a 40 percent absolute poverty rate, and an infant mortality rate of 74 deaths per 1,000 live births, compared to 5.6 per 1,000 in the US?

A US Naval Postgraduate School doctoral thesis from over a decade ago offers a plausible explanation: the Gulf of Guinea, formed in part by Nigeria’s coastline, “has large deposits of hydrocarbons and other natural resources.” It added: “There is now a stiff international competition among industrialized nations including the United States, some European countries, China, Japan, and India.”

Since then, the US has been quietly transforming Nigeria’s police and military into a neo-colonial force that can support missions led by the US Africa Command (AFRICOM). Buhari’s offer makes US involvement in Nigeria appear as if Nigeria is asking for help, when in fact the stage is already set for AFRICOM.

The Pentagon’s broader aim is to stop China and Russia from gaining a foothold in the continent. In the meantime, it aims to crush any and all opposition groups that disrupt energy supplies so that oil giants can continue exploiting Nigeria’s resources.

A brief history of a complex country

It’s important to get an idea of Nigeria’s ethnic and regional complexities. The country’s 206 million people, nearly half of whom are Muslim and nearly half Christian, live north of the equator in West Africa. Their country has 36 states, seven of which are coastal. The country borders Cameroon in the east, Benin in the west, Chad in the northeast, and Niger in the north and northwest.

A US Strategic Studies Institute report from the mid-‘90s describes Nigeria as “an artificial state created according to colonial exigencies rather than ethnic coherence.” Its fragility explains the country’s susceptibility to ethnic, religious, and class warfare. The majority of Nigerian Muslims are Sunni, but Islam in the country spans the spectrum, from Sufism to Salafism. The Christian population is distributed among the Protestant majority as well as Anglicans, Baptists, Evangelicals, Catholics, Methodists, and Roman Catholics. Most of Nigeria’s Muslims live in the north in 12 states whose laws are based on sharia.

Nigeria boasts hundreds of languages and ethnicities, the largest groups being the Hausa (who make up 30 percent of the population), Yoruba (15.5), Igbo (a.k.a., Ibo 15.2), and Fulani (6 percent). There are, of course, exceptions, but in general the Hausa-Fulani and Kanuri peoples tend to be Muslim and the Igbo, Ijaw, and Ogoni Christian. Islam and Christianity tend to be mixed among the Yoruba. During the late-19th century “Scramble for Africa,” the British colonized the region, Christianizing the south and leaving in place the Islamic political structures in the north both for convenience and as a useful divide and rule technique.

Black gold, British rule

Drawing up “contracts” for energy companies, the Foreign Office (FO) created a monopoly for Anglo-Persian oil (later BP) and particularly for Shell. Prospecting contracts were awarded by the FO in the late-1930s, but it was as late as 1956 that financially viable amounts of black gold were struck. Most of the country’s oil is in the southern, Niger Delta region populated by the Ijaw and Ogoni peoples, hence there is little militant Islam in Nigeria’s illicit oil sector. Shell operations began in Ogoniland in 1958.

Nigeria gained slow and painful independence from Britain in 1960. Seven years later, armed Igbo fought a war of secession in the oil-rich south to try to form their own country, the Republic of Biafra. Under a One Nigeria policy, the British supported the central regime of General Yakubu Gowon during the Biafra War (1967-70). Fighting and blockade  led to three million deaths. Biafra failed to secede.

The UK Labour government’s Commonwealth Minister, George Thomas, explained at the time: “The sole immediate British interest in Nigeria is that the Nigerian economy should be brought back to a condition in which our substantial trade and investment in the country can be further developed, and particularly so we can regain access to important oil installations.”

As the British Empire declined, the US gradually pursued the same policy in Nigeria. At first, the US considered supporting Biafra.

The Kennedy administration initiated $170 million in economic and military spending in Nigeria under a plan that continued until 1966, into the Johnson administration. William Haven North, who served as the Director for Central and West African Affairs for the US Agency of International Development (USAID) said: “The issue of supporting Biafra was also tied up with the question of oil interests; the major part of the oil reserves in Nigeria were in the Eastern Region with substantial American oil company investments.” In 1978, the US Navy’s Sixth Fleet began the regular exercises in the Gulf of Guinea that continue to the present.


Indigenous activist Ken Saro-Wiwa was arrested on phony charges and executed by a Nigerian military functioning as a private army for the Shell oil company

Enter Uncle Sam

In 1990, the Nigeria-dominated Economic Community of West African States (ECO) established a military wing, the so-called Monitoring Group (ECOMOG). The George H.W. Bush administration contributed $100 million. The succeeding Clinton White House said that for so-called peace-keeping operations in other African countries like Liberia and Sierra Leone, “Nigeria provided most of the ‘muscle’.” At this point, the seeds were sown for Nigeria’s use as a delegate for US wars in Africa.

By the dawn of the new millennium, the 3rd Special Forces Group (Army Command) was training Nigerian battalions to assist United Nations support missions. The Nigerian military enjoyed tens of millions of dollars-worth of US weapons.

Meanwhile, indigenous activists suffering under oil spills and environmental destruction established the Movement for the Survival of the Ogoni People. Nine of this group’s leaders, including Ken Saro-Wiwa, were later arrested on trumped up charges and executed by the national military that had been funded by Shell to act as its own private army.

The murders sparked international outrage and activists successfully pressured the US to terminate military aid. General Sani Abacha, under whose dictatorship the Ogoni Nine were hanged, established a Multinational Joint Task Force (MNJTF) to fight both activists and gangs. The MNJTF was later centered in Chad and used as a base from which to fight Boko Haram.

In 1999, Nigeria ended its military rule, at least on paper. By the mid-2000s, Human Rights Watch was wrote that, under the façade of parliamentary democracy, “the conduct of many public officials and government institutions is so pervasively marked by violence and corruption as to more resemble criminal activity than democratic governance.”

With the Ogoni, Ijaw, and other Niger Delta peoples crushed with force, some turned to violence. Following lobbying by Shell, Nigeria’s old colonial master, the UK, began spending taxpayer money on military operations to counter armed groups: £12 million between 2001 and 2014, when Campaign Against the Arms Trade (CAAT) co-authored their report. CAAT documents the UK exportation of nearly £500m-worth of weapons to Nigeria in that period, including missiles and grenades. It cites increased UK arms exports as a direct reason for the failure of the southern ceasefire. UK “security contractors” including Control Risks, Erinys, Executive Outcomes, and Saladin Security were embedded with mobile police units to crush protestors.

Nigeria and the “war on terror”

Western propaganda paid less attention to Shell’s systemic violence against the Ogoni and other peoples, focusing instead on the more headline-grabbing resistance, such as high-profile ransom kidnappings and pipeline disruption. State oppression in the drier, less fertile north, meanwhile, fed the narrative pushed by Islamic groups: that Western culture is toxic.

Founded in 2002 and led by Mohammed Yusuf who was later executed by the state, Boko Haram is officially called the Group of the People of Sunnah for Preaching and Jihad (Jamā’at Ahl as-Sunnah lid-Da’wah wa’l-Jihād). It emerged in the northeastern city, Maidugari, close to Chad and Cameroon, where it set up semi-autonomous communities. Religious graduates who studied in Sudan attempted to form similar communes but were attacked by the police. In 2009, Boko Haram members allegedly fired at a police station in Bauchi. The government response was to trigger civil war.

The MNJTF mentioned above, is described as “notorious” in a British House of Commons Library report. It was reactivated, this time to fight the Islamists. The report also notes how the Nigerian Armed Forces terrorized the civilian population with raids, arrests, and indiscriminate shelling.

The UK ramped up its training of Nigeria’s military while the US used Chad as a base for its “war on terror” operations: the Pan-Sahel Initiative (covering Chad, Mali, Mauritania, and Niger) and the Trans-Sahara Counterterrorism Partnership (which included Algeria, Morocco, Nigeria, and Tunisia). AFRICOM’s initial operations in Nigeria involved maritime training and integrating the country’s forces with those of other African nations to foster pan-African military alliances.

In its early years, AFRICOM paid little attention to Boko Haram. But this changed as the profile of attacks got bigger.

In 2011, Boko Haram launched a formal insurgency. A report published that year by the US House of Representatives Homeland Security Subcommittee on Counterterrorism and Intelligence outlined Boko Haram’s roots and the reasons for its popularity. They included “a feeling of alienation from the wealthier, Christian, oil-producing, southern Nigeria, pervasive poverty, rampant government corruption, heavy-handed security measures, and the belief that relations with the West are a corrupting influence.” It added that “[t]hese grievances have led to sympathy among the local Muslim population despite Boko Haram’s violent tactics.”

These grievances were met with the kind of violence that further fuels grievances.

The US escalates involvement

In the context of the “war on terror,” the Pentagon saw Boko Haram as an opportunity to train Nigeria’s military and employ it for its objectives. The primary US goal was ensuring that the oil-rich regions did not fall into enemy hands.

The Congressional Research Service noted that by the time AFRICOM was founded in the late-2000s, Africa “supplie[d] the United States with roughly the same amount of crude oil as the Middle East.” An Armed Services Committee report in 2011 noted: “Nigeria’s oil rich Niger Delta is a major source of oil for the United States outside of the Middle East.” The US Energy Information Administration states: “Nigeria is the largest oil producer in Africa. It holds the largest natural gas reserves on the continent and was the world’s fifth–largest exporter of liquefied natural gas.” The country has 37 billion barrels of proven crude, second only to Libya, which was bombed to pieces by the US and NATO in 2011.

Nigeria’s forces summarily executed Boko Haram’s leader Yusuf in 2009. A thesis published by the US Naval Postgraduate School notes that in addition to the assassination, “security forces killing or displacing thousands of Nigerian Muslims, is credited with swelling [Boko Haram BH]’s ranks.”

Yusuf’s deputy, Abubakar Shekau, took over and escalated a suicide bombing campaign. The Navy thesis also notes that “the actions of BH, along with other militant groups such as the Movement for the Emancipation of the Niger Delta (MEND), have reduced the country’s oil production, displacing Nigeria from 5th to 8th on the list of America’s largest foreign oil suppliers.”

In 2013, the states of Adamawa, Borno, and Yobe imposed emergency powers. The Pentagon announced a $45 million-dollar budget to counter Boko Haram by training troops in Benin, Cameroon, Chad, Niger, and Nigeria. One of the consequences is that Nigeria has been transformed from a peripheral US interest to a proxy force. Years of war, mostly in the north and border regions, have led to 2.1 million internally displaced people. The World Food Program calculates that 3.4 million face hunger and that 300,000 children are malnourished.

Building a Sparta state

In June 2014, it was reported that a 650-person unit, the Nigerian Army’s 143rd Battalion, was set up on the ground and trained by US Special Forces from the California Army National Guard’s Special Operations Detachment-US Northern Command and Company A, 5th Battalion 19th Special Forces Group (Airborne). By then the Nigerian Army was active in 30 out of the country’s 36 states.

Chief of the US Army Africa’s Security Cooperation Division, Colonel John D. Ruffing, said: “It is not peacekeeping … It is every bit of what we call ‘decisive action,’ meaning those soldiers will go in harm’s way to conduct counterinsurgency operation[s].” One US soldier said: “This is a classic Special Forces mission—training an indigenous force in a remote area in an austere environment to face a very real threat.”

In 2015, Boko Haram’s leader Shekau reportedly pledged allegiance to Islamic State, rebranding the organization IS West African Province (ISWAP). A Congressional Research Service report notes that ISWAP “has surpassed Boko Haram in size and capacity, and now ranks among IS’s most active affiliates.”

It’s not as if strategists don’t understand that violence doesn’t work. They understand that violence escalates violence which can then be used as pretexts for more violence. A US Council on Foreign Relations article from 2020 notes: “the last two years have been deadlier than any other period for Nigerian soldiers since the Boko Haram insurgency began.”

As the war against Boko Haram waged on, Niger Delta gangs in the south threatened to resume attacks on oil infrastructure. US “aid” expanded to include training the Nigerian Police Force (NPF) across the country. In November 2016, 66 officers graduated from the Fingerprint Analysis and Forensics training program, an initiative run by the US Embassy in collaboration with the Office of International Narcotics and Law Enforcement and Atlanta Police Department.

In March 2017, 28 Nigerian officers graduated from courses offered by the International Narcotics and Law Enforcement Affairs division, led by US police from Prince William County, Virginia. The program also provided “equipment, training, mentoring, and capacity-building support to various Nigerian law enforcement and justice sector institutions.”


U.S. Army soldiers deployed to Nigeria Army’s School of infantry trained more than 200 Nigerian soldiers in 2018

Expanding AFRICOM’s role

In what the US State Department calls a “whole of government” approach, military operations continued as police training expanded. In early-2018, 12 US Army soldiers, led by Captain Stephen Gouthro, trained 200 Nigerians at the Nigerian Army’s School of Infantry. Facilitated by the US Army Africa, eight Security Assistance and Training Management Organization soldiers and four 1st Brigade Combat Team soldiers shared “ground-combat tactics” with the Nigerian Army’s 26th Infantry Battalion.

In July this year, US Army Special Forces trained 25 officers of the Nigerian Navy Special Boat Service as part of JCET: a five-week Joint Combined Exchange Training program.  The Acting US Consulate Political and Economic Chief, Merrica Heaton, says that the training is designed to help the Nigerian military stop crime in the Gulf of Guinea and “counter violent extremists in the Northeast and enforce the rule of law throughout the region.”

As observers seemingly spotted the top-secret US stealth drone—Northrop Grumman’s RQ-180—over the Philippines, the Department of Defense sold nearly $500 million-worth of propeller planes to Nigeria, marking what the US Embassy and Consulate describes as “an historic level of cooperation …  between the U.S. and Nigerian militaries.” AFRICOM recently confirmed that the inauguration of twelve A-29 Super Tucanos into the Nigerian Air Force will serve a “critical role in furthering regional security and stability.”

The Pentagon allocated $36.1 million to the US Army Corps of Engineers to renovated Kainji Air Base, which will host the Super Tucanos. In addition to training simulator and small arms storage units, the Base includes “aircraft sunshades, a new airfield hot cargo pad, perimeter and security fencing, airfield lights, and various airfield apron, parking, hangar, and entry control point enhancements.”

To be continued on request!!!!!!
I love this, pls continue
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Won't Text Back by ttmax09(m): 7:54pm On Oct 03, 2021
Frank20219:
I was in a relationship with a girl for 8 months. I feel she is too much for me. She has everything I want in a woman but she is just too good to be true. She is intelligent, kind, hardworking, beautiful, she has a good job, earns more than me and she is more educated than I am.

For months, she has maintained consistent behaviour and she did not change. That was when I fell in love with her, even when I misbehaved she never insulted me instead she handled everything maturely despite me being older than her.

From the beginning, I kept a little secret from her. I have a daughter from my other relationship. My daughter is 8 years now and she lives with her mother. I pay something to the mother every month but I have not seen my ex or my daughter for 5 years.

From the beginning, she asked if I had a child before and she told me she hates dishonesty. I told her I don't have a child because I sensed she might not want to pursue a relationship with me.

I started to feel guilty when I realised our relationship was getting serious so I started distancing myself from her and asked her to give me some space. She was not offended instead she still kept interacting with me.

Two weeks ago, I broke up with her over text, she did not respond. This is someone who calls me and texts me regularly, but after seeing my break up message she did not call or text me. She did not even acknowledge the break up.

The truth is that I wanted her to beg so that I can open up about my daughter. I know she is emotionally involved with me and at this stage it will be easier for her to accept me despite having a child.

What can I do for her to want me back and reach out first? I still love her.
Do nothing, you ve lost her, even if she agrees to go back with you which is highly unlikely things will never be the same. But then again people are funny, you broke up with her anticipating she would come and beg you? Why would any sane person beg for a crime they never committed. Lady is an alpha, only know you love her when you let her go should be your chorus now.
Science/Technology › Re: The Animal Or Snake That Sounds Like A Rooster At Night by ttmax09(m): 8:00pm On Sep 17, 2021
TurnNewLeaf:
don't worry when next we kill it I'll tag your moniker
Please tag me too biko, I have heard gist about it some years back. Always thought they where just fabricated lies.
Politics › Re: Which Is The Best HMO In Nigeria? by ttmax09(m): 2:47pm On Sep 10, 2021
Tesie2003:
Dear Friends,

Have used Greenbay, Novo, THT- Liberty Blue, Anchor, and AXA mansard due to different organisations I worked with.
I must confess, AXA Mansard is the best, if you are sick and visit some of the hospitals they have relationship with. You may not want to go home again because of the way you will be taken care of. AXA Mansard has Meal and private room in the hospital as part of their plans for my treatment.

I uses them through my current employer.

They are simply the best for now.

Regards.
do you by any means know the plan your current employer has you under?
Politics › Re: Anambra Officially Gazetted As An Oil Producing State by ttmax09(m): 10:58am On Sep 10, 2021
Ekez:
Ondo is next grin grin grin grin
undecided lipsrsealed undecided As if ondo isn't one before.
Travel › Re: Best African Country To Migrate To by ttmax09(m): 3:24pm On Aug 21, 2021
Highlyrespected:
If that should be the case
Ivory Coast is part of one of beautiful destinations to enjoy your vacation.
hmmm thanks for the recommendations, let me start planning towards it then.
Politics › Re: FFK Pictured with Isa pantami At Yusuf Buhari’s Wedding (Photo) by ttmax09(m): 8:55am On Aug 20, 2021
Flyingngel:
Who has remembered OBJ words abt Ffk?
OBJ really had the best description about him. A bird that sings for the highest bidder.
Travel › Re: Best African Country To Migrate To by ttmax09(m): 4:57pm On Aug 19, 2021
Highlyrespected:
Are you planning to come over here or what guy?
just thinking vacation sometime, but haven't really made up my mind yet on that.
Travel › Re: Best African Country To Migrate To by ttmax09(m): 3:46pm On Aug 17, 2021
Highlyrespected:
Yes of course
With due process
What I mean is that before planing to come to ivory Coast
All your documents must be intact
thanks
Travel › Re: Update On Minna-Bida Road (Photos) by ttmax09(m): 3:17pm On Aug 08, 2021
Hausaman:
The present administration is the worst for we have data's & figures. For those calling PMB baba go slow, they will have a rethink once they visit Niger state under this present administration, & call him usain bolt.
thank you for saying the truth, a governor that rarely spends a week in his state. If we start listing the 5 worst governors in Nigeria, he will confidently make the list.
Travel › Re: Update On Minna-Bida Road (Photos) by ttmax09(m): 3:13pm On Aug 08, 2021
yusufu16:
To be honest this government have tried on infrastructure.

Their only problem now is security, corruption and economy
hmmm infrastructure you say and better than talba's?
Crime › Re: Hameed Ali: Customs Seize $54 Million In Pangolin Parts, Elephant Tusks by ttmax09(m): 2:05pm On Aug 05, 2021
Atticusxsz:
I've come across the pangolin twice or thereabouts. Never knew it's far too important for its unique properties.
they are also carriers of deadly viruses, one similar to covid 19
Business › Re: Mailafia: Banks Can’t Be Trusted, Will Hoard Dollars by ttmax09(m): 8:14pm On Jul 29, 2021
owagbeba:
This is always what I have thought to be a good solution to this dollar issue.

Let the DMBs sell e-dollars for FCY remittance. and for BTA they can issue a travelers cheque or visa/master card with higher daily withdrawal limit. This way nobody needs cash dollars.

For those wanting dollar to pay school fee in Nigerian school, same e-dollar bought at counter and transferred to the schools dormicilliary account.

Why can’t we just find a simple easy way for those dollar issue. This cbn’s back and forth with BDC is just creating problems for the economy. Dollar is now 525... expect another uptick in the price of goods, and eventually price of service; meanwhile salary for the employed remains the same, creating need for the employed to find a “short-cut” means to make up for the deficiencies in their personal finance. Of course, expect more corruption! More agbero harassing truckers and commercial buses, more cases of police extortion, more bureaucracy at government office, and many more.
Brilliant idea, USDT can and will even solve this issue,but then again they have to revisit the crypto ban.
Celebrities › Re: Ayo Animashaun Wants P'square To Reconcile by ttmax09(m): 8:33pm On Jul 28, 2021
GoodIsGod:
Your analysis are borne out of personal sentiments.

Check all guys insulting Peter and Lola on Nairaland, Facebook etc you guys are all Igbo.
I have never seen a tribe full of hatred for other tribes like you.

Can you all bet your lives that you are not Igbo?

What unreasonable outdated parental advice are you talking about. Weak minds like yours are the ones that allow other people to decide their lives for them be they brothers, father or mother.

I am a Nigerian and married to a non Nigerian from another African country. My parents could not have succeeded to interfere with my decision when I was ready to get married. If they had wanted to.
It is my LIFE

What senseless tradition says you can't marry from another tribe or race? Or that your parents have the right to dictate to you who to marry.

You guys are not different from the early cave men with your reasoning and tradition.

Peter is a man and should be commended for standing by his woman.

Even if the woman is a witch.
Is it your witch? ?

You guys should let Peter be. Everyone can't be a pussy like you.
At the bolded is so true, 100%

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