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TV/Movies / Re: Ever Been Emotional While Watching A Movie? by tucker12(m): 1:48pm On Oct 23, 2012
Yup grin grin recommended movies to if you wanna cry as a guy "The Magnificent Seven" "The last Samurai" hmmm Armageddon too
Politics / Re: PHCN & Blackout ,When It Rains: Why? by tucker12(m): 9:28am On Oct 23, 2012
The truth!! They are saving your life grin grin grin

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Romance / Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Ever Work Out????? by tucker12(m): 3:06pm On Oct 22, 2012
Don't know mine broke up undecided undecided
Science/Technology / Re: Benue Zoo Starves Lion, Other Animals To Death by tucker12(m): 6:13pm On Oct 21, 2012
Life of a civil servant animal... Their meal slip couldn't feed them. sad sad They should have requested on time to relocate to abuja and see what their fellow presidential animals dey chop... Too bad

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Kano Releases N1.7Billion For Sallah Rams by tucker12(m): 4:16pm On Oct 21, 2012
kai nigeria !!!!
Politics / Re: Pictures Of Flood In Benin Central , Edo by tucker12(m): 4:40pm On Oct 14, 2012
Am not surprised about benin. Look this things are not rocket science oohhh. Its simply drainage planning.
Phones / Re: How Many Phones Do You Carry At A Time? by tucker12(m): 10:54am On Oct 12, 2012
2...
Crime / Re: Policemen Watched While My Son Was Lynched - Chiadika's Mom by tucker12(m): 11:14am On Oct 11, 2012
The raven of darkness will hunt the people of Aluu... angry angry angry angry while the typical nigerian police will always try to deny.... Its their nature.

Do we have lawyers in Nairaland. Please what are the odds these suspect will be charged for murder? If no witness shows up kon? Again at what point can you find a credible witness to testify against the people?

The little law i know there must sufficient evidence to prove these people are the killers. If not the same law also protects these set of people !!!

Please a lawyer in house should enlighten me.
Sports / Re: Newcastle's New kit: Muslim Stars Told Not To Play by tucker12(m): 6:19pm On Oct 10, 2012
Na wa ooo.... am soo flabbergasted common shirt you cant wear because of logo yet when club accounts send pay slip with bank logo you collect...Common on angry angry

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Romance / Re: Romance Section: Who's Your Crush Of The Week? (2nd Edition) by tucker12(m): 12:36am On Oct 10, 2012
Crush ba woooo undecided undecided... Oya come closer let me tell you grin grin
Politics / Re: Ankio Briggs Condemns Jonathan’s Broadcast by tucker12(m): 11:06pm On Oct 09, 2012
I was practically upset when i watched the interview. Mrs Briggs was spot on and did not spare the pain of how the flood has ravaraged this regions and the pending doom. Look this flood issue is a national disaster that has erupted. and my fear is its about to move to stage two. After the flood comes the epidemic, Cholera outbreak!!!! angry angry angry and if not controls it will open the pandora's box of rage, anger and breakdown of what is left of Law and order. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

Oh did you say Aluu are salvages well you all will be shocked with how people will react when it becomes clear no water to drink, No food, not even bread, no farm, nothing!!!

I like to call on churches to please come to the aid of people affected....
Romance / Re: Fiance Caught Naked 2 Days Before Wedding by tucker12(m): 5:09pm On Oct 09, 2012
joeydozzy: the thread topic doesn't correlate

I agree this is just wishful discussion
Politics / Re: JTF Kill 30 Civilians In Maiduguri In Reprisal Attacks by tucker12(m): 5:06pm On Oct 09, 2012
What do you expect..!!!! these guys are configured for war both fronts!!! and for them they are at war!!! and when the screws get out of hand the trigger is an infallible action that will occur lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Politics / Re: Your Views On GEJ's 7am National Address by tucker12(m): 5:02pm On Oct 09, 2012
Abujafood:

At least others especially the over 1 million people displaced by flood would be glad they listened to him.

The truth Presidio is losing it.... Its either his over whelm or just getting things wrong!!!
Family / Re: Couple Fighting Infront Of Shoprite At Ikeja. . .(Pic) by tucker12(m): 4:56pm On Oct 09, 2012
Oh mine mine !!!they need Jesus!!!!and they should need to be arrested first for fighting in public angry angry angry
Then i will suggest they both go and see shrink!!
Politics / Re: Ondo Electoral Fraud: INEC Confirms Staff Involvement by tucker12(m): 4:52pm On Oct 09, 2012
Its nigeria you can expect that....Its like oh is that newss!!!
Politics / Re: Aviation Minister Paddles A Canoe To Her Flooded Anambra Hometown by tucker12(m): 4:51pm On Oct 09, 2012
shes having fun !!! grin grin On like her PA who is dead scared... cheesy cheesy Dont worry PA i cant swim either soo i will do worst.. hehehe
Crime / Re: Villagers Flee Aluu For Fear Of Arrests by tucker12(m): 4:47pm On Oct 09, 2012
Listen Nigerian agencies should offer just N1 million naira I can promise you People will RAT themselves out.

Furthermore I will appreciate if the Inner police division in ABJ can investigate if the police actually responded to the call as soon as they heard based on their claims.

Its not difficult the state has a hotline. the DP has a reachable line and if all these measures still failed, there where people on duty across aluu community. The telecoms can help us confirm if distress calls where made to the police. Please All this is to measure response time.

Please this is not witch hunting on the police rather lessons learnt can be drawn. If they do not have any cover ups or any form of conspiracy. Its a learning curve. for the police!!

Finally, Can students in UNIPORT or other universities please help us out using graphic experts!! This is the best time to use your friends in computer science department, people studying arts to please step in and reconstruct all the faces of the people in the clips either young and old.

Please put to test all that have been learnt and taught by your lecturers. and if possible lets involve lecturers on this quest to solve a crime together.

God bless

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Phones / Re: New Smartphone Market Thrives In Nigeria by tucker12(m): 2:16pm On Oct 09, 2012
Great information ...Thanks
Crime / Re: Police Begins Manhunt For Killers Of Uniport Students by tucker12(m): 12:22pm On Oct 07, 2012
FAILIED STATE WHAT DO YOU EXPECT!!! sad sad sad

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Politics / Re: Robbery Suspect Caught Among Police Recruits by tucker12(m): 11:28am On Oct 07, 2012
you can't fool the LAW grin grin grin grin
Business / Re: CBN Orders The Use Of Voters Card For Bank Use by tucker12(m): 11:26am On Oct 07, 2012
Its quite disgraceful to see how CBN is enshrining their role into political flopps. This shows that the system is practically faulty.

How can you use voters card for banking use. Its ridiculous. The role of the National identity management commission is to issue out ID to nigerian, however the catch is developing a robust database which can warehouse information management and information sharing across various sectors and agencies.
But to routing ID to banking is just a get rich technique for banks to sell cards. I tell you Non of the banks operate the same platform. and such the integration of the various data will be useless.
I don't buy into this project. I think its going to make the bankers richer, while the cost is push back to the card holder.
Car Talk / Re: Frsc Faults Lagos Policy On Number Plate by tucker12(m): 6:29pm On Oct 05, 2012
I find it very uncomfortable for lagos state government to come up with such laws. frankly I feel that is a bridge to ones fundamental human right! I find such statement ridicules, narrow, and shallow minded.
Crime / Re: Man Jailed And Given 600 Lashes For Offering Himself Online by tucker12(m): 6:21pm On Oct 05, 2012
Well Whatever he wanted to offer, he sure had a taste of it grin grin grin
Politics / Re: FG Uncovers Over 2000 Transformers Hidden By PHCN Officials by tucker12(m): 5:51pm On Oct 03, 2012
Is this minister new on the job!!! Pls his surprise really surprises me angry angry angry angry

The truth guys!!! No one is ever held accountable... so lets stop making it look like an omg news the minister has just discovered.

Go to delta state and you see new generators and transformers wasted in old govt house.
Politics / Re: Abacha's Son Is The Izon-Ebidouwei Of Ijawland : Highest Title by tucker12(m): 10:42am On Oct 03, 2012
Nigerians!!!! ohhhh SMH
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple In £3.8m UK Benefits Scam by tucker12(m): 12:58pm On Oct 01, 2012
You see a thief will always be a thief!!!

Ma mummy will say OLEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
Sports / Re: Nigeria Needs N7bn For 2016 Olympics — Sports Minister by tucker12(m): 12:45pm On Oct 01, 2012
Mr Minister!!!Ha ba The national priority now is to invest in revamping our national economy, education, Health sector, Industrial capacity building and Job creation and Not Gambling in the name of Gaming!!!! This is just ridiculous.... angry angry angry
Celebrities / Re: Domestic Violence: Frank Edoho & Zaki Adzay Abused Ex-wives Speak Out (Video) by tucker12(m): 9:20pm On Sep 23, 2012
Well Its so heart breaking because lots of women are currently undergoing domestic abuse from their husband.
I came across this link in the course of researching of traits of abusive husbands. Am sure Someone also needs to share it with a friend

Signs to Look for in an Abusive Personality
Many people are interested in ways to predict whether they are about to become involved with someone who will be physically abusive. Below is a list of common behaviors that are seen in abusive people. Many victims do not realize that these early behaviors are warning signs of potential future physical abuse, such as the last four (***) behaviors. If the person has several (three or more) of the first 12 listed behaviors, there is a strong potential for physical violence -- the more signs a person has, the more likely the person is a batterer.
1) Jealousy:
At the beginning of a relationship, an abuser will always say that jealousy is a sign of love; jealousy has nothing to do with love, it is a sign of possessiveness and lack of trust. He will question the other person about whom she talks to, accuse her of flirting, or be jealous of the time she spends with her family or friends. As the jealousy progresses, he may call frequently during the day or drop by unexpectedly. He may refuse to let you work for fear you will meet someone else, or even do strange behaviors like checking your car mileage or asking friends to watch you.
2) Controlling Behavior:
At first, the batterer will say that this behavior is because he is concerned with your safety, your need to use your time well, or your need to make good decisions. He will be angry if you are late coming back from an appointment or a class, he will question you closely about where you went and whom you talked to. As this behavior gets worse, he may not let you make personal decisions about your clothing, hair style, appearance.
3) Quick Involvement:
Many people in abusive relationships dated or knew their abusive partners for less than six months before they were married, engaged or living together. He comes on like a whirlwind, claiming, “You are the only person I could ever talk to” or “I’ve never felt like this for anyone before. He will pressure you to commit to the relationship in such a way that you may later feel guilty or that you are “letting him down” if you want to slow down involvement or break up.
4. Unrealistic Expectations:
Abusive people will expect their partner to meet all their needs; he expects you to be the perfect boyfriend/girlfriend, the perfect friend or the perfect lover. He will say things like, “If you love me, I’m all you need and you are all I need.” You are supposed to take care of all of his emotional needs.
5. Isolation:
The abusive person will try to cut you off from all resources. He accuses you of being “tied to your mother’s apron strings,” or your friends of “trying to cause trouble” between you. If you have a friend of the opposite sex, you are “going out on him” and if you have friends of the same sex, he may accuse you of being gay.
6. Blames Others for Problems:
He is chronically unemployed, someone is always waiting for him to do wrong or mess up or someone is always out to get him. He may make mistakes and blame you for upsetting him. He may accuse you of preventing him from concentrating on school. He will tell you that you are at fault for almost anything that goes wrong.
7. Blames Others for Feelings:
He will tell you, “You make me mad,” “You are hurting me by not doing what I want you to do,” or “I can’t help being angry.” He really makes the decisions about how he thinks or feels, but will use feelings to manipulate you.

cool Hypersensitivity:
An abusive person is easily insulted, and claims that their feelings are hurt when really he is very mad. He often takes the slightest setbacks as personal attacks. He will rant about things that are really just part of living like being asked to work overtime, getting a traffic ticket, being asked to help others with chores.
9) Cruelty to Animals or Children:
This is a person who punishes animals brutally or is insensitive to their pain and suffering. He may tease younger brothers or sisters until they cry.
10).“Playful” use of Force in Sex:
This kind of person is likely to throw you down or try to hold you down during making out, or he may want you to act out fantasies in which you are helpless. He is letting you know that the idea of sex is exciting. He may show little concern about whether you want affection and may sulk or use anger to manipulate you into compliance.
11) Verbal Abuse:
In addition to saying things that are meant to be cruel and hurtful, this can be seen when the abusive person tries to degrade you, curses you, calls you names or makes fun of your accomplishments. The abusive person will tell you that you are stupid and unable to function without him. This may involve waking you up to verbally abuse you or not letting you go to sleep until you talk out an argument.
12. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde:
Many people are confused by their abusive partner’s “sudden” changes in mood -- you may think he has a mental problem because he is nice one minute and the next minute he is exploding. Explosiveness and moodiness are typical of people who are abusive to their partners, and these behaviors are related to other characteristics like hypersensitivity.
13. *** Past Battering:
This person may say that he has hit girlfriends in the past but the other person “made him do it.” You may hear from relatives or past girlfriends that he is abusive. An abusive person will be physically abusive to any one they are with if the other person is with them long enough for the violence to begin; situational circumstances do not change a person into an abuser.
14. *** Threats of violence:
This could include any threat of physical force meant to control you: “I’ll slap you,” “I’ll kill you,” or “I’ll break your neck." Most people do not threaten their partners, but the abusive person will try to excuse his threats by saying, “Everybody talks that way.”
15. *** Breaking or Striking Objects:
This behavior is used as a punishment (breaking loved possessions), but is mostly used to terrorize you into submission. The abuser may beat on the table with his fists, throw objects at or near you, kick the car, slam the door or drive at a high rate of speed or recklessly to scare you. Not only is this a sign of extreme emotional immaturity, but there is great danger when someone thinks they have the “right” to punish or frighten you.
16. *** Any Force During an Argument:
This may involve an abusive partner holding you down, physically restraining you from leaving the room, any pushing or shoving. He may hold you against the wall and say, “You are going to listen to me.”

IF YOU WANT MORE INFORMATION PLS READ
http://utpolice.utk.edu/PDF/Victim%20Assistance/Signs%20to%20Look%20for%20in%20an%20Abusive%20Personality.pdf
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm

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Crime / Re: 11-year-old Stabs Dad To Death For Beating Mom by tucker12(m): 3:04pm On Sep 23, 2012
Sad.... An 11 year girl has been destroy to hate Fathers, Men. It will takes years of recovery get her back on path of TRUST.
Religion / Re: What Part Of Church Service Do You Enjoy Mostly And Why? by tucker12(m): 3:02pm On Sep 23, 2012
1)The Worship It lifts the spirit up 2)The Message You get insight in Gods infallible Word. 3) Offering time; no matter how small I commit it to God with a thankful and joyful heart.
Politics / Re: Protesters Burn US Flag In Kano Over Anti-Islam Film by tucker12(m): 2:57pm On Sep 23, 2012
See the thing that strikes me the most is burning of US flags and Israel in Nigeria.Am just full of wonders
Its so clear this protest is a master minded of wicked people. Spiritual heads who have lied that peace peace yet the cloth of bloodshed is their idealogical DNA. What about the killing of the American Ambassador and staffs of US diplomatic mission? meanwhile a muslim government minister in Pakistan declared a bounty for killing of the US movie maker.... undecided undecided undecided. frankly I don't think I wanna belong to such gathering where Hate super imposes all actions.

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