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tattoos are cool for some while they are not for others, the thing is, it leaves a permanent mark on the skin. What happens when tattoos are no longer in vogue, ever thot of that?

yanga wey go leave permanent mark for body no worth am, if na lie go ask old women wey bein do the crude one with cashew wey no fit comot am as d time don pass.

This one na first time ohhh, wifey dey ban hubby to enter national stadium , but i think say na hubby dey play home anytime wey fixtures dey, e surprise me say na him they go her room instead of inviting her to his room. Anyway that one na by they way.

The problem here no be seperate room cos am oo even if na d same room wetin happen be say she dey on strike period.

In all we can draw some inference here ( i know need to know wetin happen wat am about to say is 90% true)

1. the hubby loves that thing more than wifey
2. the wife is assured that the husband loves her very much cos he expresses it in a way she understands.

And women tends to take advantage of a man if they have the upper hand wen it comes to matters like this hence they use it as their power of negotiation.

Cos no matter wat crime the man has commited she would not use his conjugal rite has a means of solving it if this thing is not true.

Some pple said maybe he was cheating on his wife, if he was why didnt he continue afterall she dey deny am of the thing wey dem dey willingly offer.

Others say maybe he has HIV. Person wey know say him don get HIV that thing na him go be the last thing wey go dey 4 him mind.

But unless she no longer cares for the consequencies of her action, she should be advised to call off her strike b4 he gets used to it.

Let me state clearly here that nobody is perfect, as such theres bound to be grey areas in your life thats y we look for somebody to complement us. With that being said it would be a mistake to try to change somebody, it is beta to accepts the person with all their fault the way they are else na emotional wahala you give urself if u belive say u go fit change that person.

Yes the person might attempt to change for you and by doing that u put that person into alot of pressure because that change is alien and does not come naturally hence there would come a time wen the person would crumble under the pressure of changing for you and bounce back.

take heed b4 u say " U R NOT THE PERSON I MARRIED, YOU HAVE CHANGED" na lie.

The ? is how many is enough, the thing is, it depends on the couple and wat they can AFFORD and not wat they WANT. If they can afford to comfortable take care of a million then its coool go for it. but if u dont have the means to take adequate care of two then pls stick to one and rid our society of abused children that dont know anything but lack.

Secondly it also depends on your spouse (wife), you might want three and her health can only afford two, would still insist on three knowing she might not make it thro the third one?, despite the sex i.e you want a boy and she has two girls and vice versa

For me, it will be difficult to continue the relationship with my wife cos the foundation of our relationship (trust) has hit the rocks. Even if i say i 4give her could i eva 4get? cos even wen she goes to the loo, my mind will be suspecting her and thats no relationship. Secondly, i will begin to wonder how many other lies or secret she's been keeping 4rm me.

For d children, i blive they have rite to know the identity of the real father, so i will ask my wife to reveal the real father of the children and subsequently inform him ( dats if him no already know) so dat we can settle amicably the custody rite. cos u cant deny the children the opportunity to establish a realtionship with their father but they will always be welcomed in my home if they want to stay but with the consent of all parties involved.

I agree that those 49 lecturers have been done some injustices cos they were fighting 4 their rights and should be reinstated. it not abt having job or looking for one its about doing what is rite. and what is rite here is they should be reinstated to forestalled against "dictorial tendencies" .

But one begins to wonder cos this thing has been goin on for six years now. what did the govt tell them b4 they called of the strike . Wat is the guarantee that they wont call off this strike only to threaten another one. Make ASUU no take us play ooo, if govt no meet their demand make dem no call off strike, if dem call off make dem find another issue to go strike cos our sympathy don dey exhaust.

Hi nairaland pple, i just bcame a member, i must say u pple hv a gud thing goin here. So tell me wats popping