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@ Poster
U would like a guys view if he'll probably do it again? I'd say yes.  All he has 2 do is get drunk n 4get one of his marital vows again has u put it. Then of course come 4 repentance. But then again i might be rarely wrong.

So deal wit it now. If u decide 2 give him a 2nd chance just put it in ur mind dats its 2nd chances.

just tulking.

This is a territorial fight btw 2 rival cult groups i.e. d Icelanders n d Greenlanders it has nothing 2 do with football. The bus might hv been attacked cos some members of the rival group might hv been inside. This cult group originated in Rivers State(encouraged by d govt 4 political purposes) during d Odili era n has since moved their activities to Yenagoa cos the present governor Ameachi who was part of the Odili govt dat supported this boys n has since xperienced 1st hand d nuisance dey became in Rivers State has taken steps since he came into power to stamp out their activities in d state. This made the state unconducive 4 their activities n dey hv since moved base to Yenagoa [s]where d govt is still dining n making merry wit dem cos govt believes they r d only threat dat can hold dem to ransome[/s]

PPLE HAVEN'T U HEARD? THERE'S A VACANCY!
9JA HAS ADVERISE FOR A VACANT POSITION WE R LOOKING 4 OUR OWN MLK IF U R QUALIFIED PLS APPLY IN PERSON IN 9JA .

It's not enuf 2 b faraway n give us all this idealistic theories. _{not bad tho}

if u can come down and practicalise ur ideals mayb then u can undastand y we try 2 save ourselves 4rm d inconveniences of d daily harrasment dey give 2 us.

BAD MISTAKE
dont sit around hoping she's gonna comback.
Like no man would love like u do, she will not find a better man than u n all dat crap. My bros u will just be deluding urself cos if she was fed up n not confused like somebody tried to advice u beta know rite now that SHE AINT COMING BACK!
But if she does comeback it will be a bonus cos by then u woulf either b over her or u can reevalute ur feelings 4 her n guage if she's worth a second chance.

But on a second thot mayb u r d one who drove into anoda man arms, every body is busy feeling sorry 4 u _{i am 2} dey didnt c d part where u tried to make her b submissive n all dat n u pple hv been hving arguments over it. what was ur definition of been "submissive" it could be dat d diff is dat wat u call submissive might mean a slave without a voice to her which finally made her hv a rethink. but dat does not justify wat she did anyway she could hv told u rather let u find out.

yeah, heard both stories d india 99 vs nigeria 1 n the thunder balogun especially the quote remember ur left leg. Word was d goal keeper was best ogendegbe.

Our pali dem been don use our head well well, make dem come try am now c who go fall mugu.

This so true of so many girls in 9ja, ask d married men what makes dem tick _{money & stability} . D sad thing is d poster is correct in his deduction, wat makes it more annoying is,  d girl giving u this bullshit is a 100% liability with no hope of eva adding any value 2 ur life.
If u want a rich husband or boyf come along with ur own fat cheque book then it will b a perfect match otherwise, _{make dem no make me lose my temperature make i no vomit,  cos if i do ehn,}

OfficeGirl:
Na true you talk, Na think you dey think, me sef i know see anything!

thank u officegirl for officially acknowledging dat i no send anybodi msg oo

_{* just wondering out aloud*}

since it takes 2 to tango, and he's justification 4 pressuring u to add weight is 2 sleep wit another fat woman, mayb he needs to c u too with somebody dats is deputising 4 him among ur admirers to make him realize our vain and lame his xcuse 4 cheating is.

u just took 2 much bullshit girl he is pressing home his advantage. just dont stand 4 it.

*_{Na think i just dey think o, i no tulk anything*}

Very sad indeed.

But d irony in this is dat this is just one case out so many perpetrated by this scoundrels in uniform everyday in this country. And they always go scot free.

Even if u raise so much dust that they decide 2 do smthing abt it. they will claim dat the perpetrators can only be tried in a military court which ofcourse they will say will be a secret trial_{( no press, or any kind of publicity).} When it gets 2 dat stage they will delay until when the heat has cooled off, they will let them go.

But we should not be discouraged lets make all d noise we can mayb one day it will 2 loud dat they cant ignore it even if they tried.

20 MINISTERS SACKED!
singing
oga chop i chop
make we no dey chop alone ooo


* Now thinking*
which day my name sef go enter dat book
i go over perform so tay dem go make me minister 4 life like em, em, OJO MADUEKE

i believe the president has done well in saving us 4rm this embarrasment, atleast 4 the IOC and others its a signal dat it will not be biz as usual.

In my candid opinion members of the IOC should be investigated 2 c how they came up with that estimate and prosecuted if they are found wanting as deterent 2 those in authority who might be nursing such greedy ideas.

Baby dont pressurize me , just let things take its natural course.

Personally i hate 2 c women cry, infact anybody 4 dat matta.

But 4 my relationships it depends on why shes's crying.

If i hurt her n she's crying, it breaks my heart, i will do anything 2 pacify her soothe d pains, make it up 2 her somehow 2 let her know dat am really sorry abt what i did 2 hurt her n dat it'll neva happen again.

but if i hurt her n she's crying cos we r breaking up, tho i' ll feel 4 her, i'll hv no choice than to steel my heart against it cos there's no use postponing d evil day.

@ poster
2 add 2 what other posters hv said.

REMEMBER wat they say
" if u r not old enuf 2 bear d consequences of playing adult games then dont play"

if u neva mature enuf to indulge in sex e go be like dat craw craw wey dem dey call SWEET ME DIE, as e dey sweet u wen u dey scratch am na so u go take wound.

n ur friend's friend? , u want 2 start by creating a negative reputaion for urself by being d topic at their hang out. Do not be surprise wen all his friends circle start taking interest in u. it will not b because ur r 2 beatiful or irrestible, its just dat they've heard story n want 2 confirm.

i don tulk my own

d table has turned  n look @ all d ladies hollering _{d ones dat will tell u i'll stick by my man even if he has no money, no job etc. dont worry we know say una just dey yarn}

u said u dont love him _{or abi u still dey think}
u hv been dating him 4 2 yrs now and u dont know if he has prospects, is he educated? does he have skill? _{no be sexual 1 oo , u don confirm dat 1} is he making any kinda effort to change or improve his situation?
u also said u believe there was some sincerity in his feelings 4 u _{if i got d meaning rite}

So in my own opinion d problem is not dat u spend money on him, its d fact dat u dont love him, lost respect 4 him and resent d fact he is asking u 4 money irrespective of the fact that he might actually be asking it 4 a good reason.  Some pple r calling u names dat ur using ur heart n not ur head i differ in dat infernce cos i beleive ur using ur head and not ur heart dats y up keep calculating how much u spend, compare how much money u give to his family to how much he giv es to urs, still using him to fulfill a need, while looking out for someone to spend d rest of ur life with. still keeping him close just incase he strikes gold so dat u can revamp on all ur investment.
And finally be able to dump him in hell and still look like an angel

if ur using ur heart this thread would not have been cos u would have been filled with hope, be blinded by d fact dat he feels no remorse for asking u 4 money

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no b noise
'90 set where una dey?

Rite idea, wrong implementation. d nigerian all time story.
NYSC has not achieved it purpose. In d long run most corper's are beta off not serving at all.
4 those who say dat it absorb fresh graduation from d labour market for 1 year, at d end of the 1 year wouldnt they still be thrown to d labour market? where is d job then? meanwhile most jobs these days comes with age specification.

in my candid opinion scrap is a beta option than overhauling.

To make a naija men feel in love for you and have the mind to marry you , you must play fool and act as stupid.

thats a big laugh.

r u saying we all married stupid and foolish women? u r also invaribly saying dats wat u did 2 make ur naija guy fall 4 u abi?

ur problem is not d fact dat u dont know what u r talking abt but d fact dat u dont know that u dont know wat ur talking abt.

@ poster
no b person wey first go report 4 police dey win case.
ur husband is not a mad man to complain abt this things without reason.
Hv u eva thot abt wat is complaining abt? r they true? if they r wat hv u done 2 correct it?
cos 4rm wat u said he's complaining abt d way u do things _{mayb u b one of this ajebuta wey dem bring up with maids 4 house wey no sabi do anything.} just thinking no dissing

i dey pray make GOd help u sha.

@ Post
Shuo! which kain venom be dis. e don tay wen yansh dey 4 back _{na d same tori evry where say man no good, u no fit trust dem n all dat tori} ask all d sister wey don wear white gown dance for mugu na d song wen dem sing b4 dem gown enter bodi, ask dem again now, u go c say tori don change their song now na "well not all men r like dat".

Girly if evry man be like dat make u check urself well welloo, mayb na d vibe wey u dey give dem.

African men they only play d cards wen u deal dem .

Well it's amazing how this topic has gain a lots of popularity and well meaning and interested men and women has expressed their views in this very matter in the past. And i must confess that am most delighted to opine my views, well before now i have atticulated the minds of some folks on this same issue and i consulted some authors too still was not satisfied with the responds reasons being that they all spoke well and intelligently though i must say but it was from their individual piont of view hence was not absolute. Still with a currious mind i decided to ask the all knowing , God and He referred me to His word the Bible, (the manual for man). When i was done i realize that the popular saying that "you don't give what you don't have" is indeed true which means like what Adekan said it takes God's to be able to 1st love yourself and then some else. Now the joker here is How much do YOU love yourself? will determine how much you can love someone else and when one does not have God inside, he can only love based on conditionalities. Mind you the subject LOVE is different from relationship and friendship. Compatibility and understanding are just the ingredience of friendship, permit me to expain in a second these varrious terms, and how they are related, Love is God as simple as that so outside God what u have could perhaps be reciprocations of mere feeling which could be inspired by lost, infatuation, hormones yes hormones b'because it's this biological component that''s responsible for homesuxuality coupled with evil spirits. And others conditions like facial look, talents and material aquisations (money). Friendship is God's gift to us so we can co relate and co inhabit and the beauty of friendship is that is based on Respect, the Joy of friendship is that based on Trust while the Strenght of friendship is that is based on LOVE. This is what it takes for two to be in relationship and the relation between them is friendship which they share in common just as the relation between you and your biological maternal parent is that she is your mother. In other words relationship simply means to be related, two folks or more having something in common in a ship, And haven given a clear picture of these terms you can now deduce that any friendship or relationship without God (Love) is weak (strenghtless) hence can't stand the test of time or doesn't end well. And if u don't have it then u can't give it to someone else as simple as A.B.C, on this note i rest my case.

thank u.
Conclusively in respect to d topic there is a BIG difference between love and understanding/compatibility.
This explains why people fall in love with d wrong persons and why they say "love is not enough"
and why people marry who they do not love but with whom they r compatible with and understand.

Pls can ne1 tell me if the charge for GTB ATM Cards cos i neva really knew dey charge 4 using ATM.

Pls can anyone tell me if they charge 4 GTB ATM cards cos i neva really knew they charge 4 using ATM.

I do believe we are coming nearer the truth, States should be allowed to manage their own resources and pay taxes to the central government and you will see how ingenuity will spring from no where.

Every part of the country is blessed, but over dependence on oil is simply blinding us to this reality

Exactly! this what true federalism is all about.

@Gamine
No vexiiooo, no b me bring am up ooo, but any way i just dey make my contribution in retrospect _{scratching my head} in short in ARREARS.

hmmmm, bros, thats not technically a kiss, because u are neither aroused by this, nor are u moved to extend your kissing to some spicy TLC.

Its supposse to b a joke. i guess it fell flat.