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 Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by tulk2mi: 12:31pm On Jun 20, 2018 |
My wife slept with me the first day she came to visit, u would think she was cheap right? she wasn't, she had been celibate for two years b4 then cos of a heartbreak from her ex who married someone else while he was still wit her cos they were not of the same tribe, it was a colleague of his who was disgusted by his action that told her. He was so callous that even on his wedding day he was calling to check on her while she was traveling to Lagos on a business trip. Also at that same time she had about two suitor who were earnestly seeking her hand in marriage ( both of them were well to do) yet she paid her own transport traveled down PH were i was residing then and we did it. When a decent girl does something she would not be too proud to tell her friends just for you, just know that she has fallen in love wit u without realizing dat herself. She spent the remaining 18 months of our courtship trying to prove her love without knowing that i already know. I am glad dat i was matured enough to know the difference btw a cheap girl and one who does crazy things for love. Today am glad i married her, she still does those crazy things and interestingly i dont have trust issues wit her. The lady u described does not look cheap to me, she seems to be an independent lady who has been unlucky to meet pple who cannot see beyond her financial status or beauty, i think u connected with her during ur chat, and she trusted u enough to be dat stupid, i guess she was wrong abt u cos u r a typical nigerian man who equates playing hard to get to decency |
| Phones / Re: Why I Hate GLO Data Service With A Passion: What Of You? by tulk2mi: 12:42pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
am using glo in Yenagoa, every thing the op said is exactly my experiences. it so frustrating when u have data yet cant use it within the period that it is valid. At the end of your validity period they will not compensate u for all the downtimes. am so fed up with them. Even to reply this post took up 2 30min because like normal, it was connected yet could not load d page THUMBS DOWN FOR GLO AND THEIR USELESS HIGH SPEED DATA. |
| Webmasters / Re: Free New E-book On HTML And CSS by tulk2mi: 9:44am On May 28, 2015 |
pls send 2 charityegemu@yahoo.com |
| Politics / Re: Pastors Collected N6b To Campaign Against APC, Buhari – Amaechi Says by tulk2mi: 12:10pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
An accusation that cannot be verified, without prove, hmmm If this is true Amaechi will be singing the names of the pastors that took the bribe. And 6 billion? common this just a cheap blackmail. Amaechi and APC is aware of the influence of this MOG on their followers, the intent is to rubbish their reputation in order to cast some doubt in the minds of their followers. Sadly that is wat all the political parties are doing instead of issues, it's smear campaign. |
| Family / Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by tulk2mi: 12:15am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Ezeanna: Oh she knows shes got so much value in my life, just try to get above the classification.  |
| Family / Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by tulk2mi: 8:33pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Ezeanna:Dont get it twisted my friend, what I meant is this, take for example you take down ur flat screen TV down from d wall where it normally is in ur sitting room. Any time u walk into ur sitting room, u will noticed d void cause by d absence of ur TV. Her absence causes a void. and even if my wife stumble on this and takes offence, she has already 4given me of all my sins even b4 I commit them. Dats how sweet she is * grins* |
| Family / Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by tulk2mi: 4:31pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
I can do every thing. by myself, meaning I can last long without my wife, but she's like part of my furniture, if she's not there it's like something missing. I don't feel complete guess thats how much I will be missing her all the time am doing my gragra 1 Like |
| Religion / Re: Is It Sinful To Wear Trousers As A Christian Lady? by tulk2mi: 10:34am On Sep 12, 2013 |
The Bible clearly states the path to salvation. it has not changed over the years. Christ will not judge u by what u wear, if he does dat then I guess ONLY NIGERIAN Christians will go to heaven. Cos this debate about wearing trousers or not is only in Nigerian preaching. If u are truly born again the spirit will lead u to wear wat is appriopriate for ur gender. Moderation and modesty are the key word. 2 Likes |
| Nairaland / General / Re: Things You Must Never Do In Public by tulk2mi: 3:02pm On Aug 16, 2013 |
By whose rule? the society u live in determines whats improper or wats not. Tell me wat has cutlery and how u use them gat to do with a nigerian man, when we were brought up to use our hand. u 4got opening car doors 4 ladies makes u a gentleman in other countries in nigeria it makes u a woman wrapper. i dont even get the use of face towel to clean ur face rather than a handkerchief,so wats the handkerchief 4? do u know that most british pple do not take their bath for a week? yet they say pickn ur nose in public makes u look dirty, picking just ur nose and not taking ur bath 4 a week which one is dirtier?u choose. Pls lets drop colonial slavery, an embrace our identity |
| Politics / Re: Dickson - People Are Plotting To Destabilise Bayelsa by tulk2mi: 10:52am On Jul 24, 2013 |
psalmdave: u rili want 2 knw.....i cant xplain if u want 2 knw pay transport cum here nd see..forGodsake instead of usin ur time 2 think of insults on d governor,y nt use a little of that ur time(even a second) 2 inquire d on goin projects there...believe me d kind of work wey only julius berger dy do 4 there i neva see 4 my state(ibadan) for a very lng time...atink na rumour mongerin commitee wey him set up be d only development una hear..jes ask d same source of d on-goin development,me no fit start 2 list all wetin d gov dey do bt i knw bayelsa is movin 2 d nxt level despite anytin i hear,i av eyes nd i can see for myself rather than cumin 2 insult a gov who God has in ordaind in nairaland...egberifa(story dn finish) as bayelsa man go talk Guy u just dey rant, some of the respondents including myself live and work in Yenagoa. dem say list his achievement, u write plenty grammer put Julius berger without stating any one project. abi space no dey? the truth is Bayelsa lacks good leaders, and its like the current one makes the past ones look beta. pple will say Alams was the best governor we had ( a man that squandered our resources on frivolities)but the one afta him even did worse. Gov. seriake standard is Sylva that's why for everything he does he always start with " the last administration did not do this but an doing it for you" . when he decided to host AMAA award did he give credit to the last administration? He was also one of the known critics of the AMAA award during the time of Sylva. Some of his policies are an extension of the last administration, why is he not giving credit but always blaming everything he is not doing well on the last administration. now the whole noise about pple trying to destabilse the state, arose from the last pensioners protest where he accused Sylva of not paying them and sylva responded by saying government is a continuum, if he cannot solve the problems he is facing as a governor he should resign rather than blaming him for everything dat goes wrong. |
| Entertainment / Re: Are You Among The Generation That Used This Television? by tulk2mi: 9:02pm On May 04, 2013 |
Yeah, I remember, watched, Love boat, John wayne western, ichoku, village headmaster, tom sawyer & huckleberry finn, cant remember d name of this series where two cops on bike catching bad guys we used to call them back then "expert riders" IWA wrestling, sound of music especially on xmas days, invisible man, bionic woman etc |
| Romance / Re: Plzzz What Is Ur Take On This? by tulk2mi: 9:19am On Jan 31, 2013 |
Here we go again! CALL He didnt call u 4 6days n u 2 did not call 4 6 days, yet he is d one dat commited a crime Which rule says he has 2 b d one 2 call. SUPPOSE dats wat destroys most relationship. STOP ASSIGNING ROLES TO HIM. U want to break up wit him yet it is a problem dat he did not beg. ON HIS BEHALF am sorry 4 d DISAPPOINTMENT. Mayb he's thinking u hv 2 many issues, inasmuch as he loves u mayb its best 4 both of u 2 b apart. Out of curiosity, if he had begged u 4 breaking up wit him ova a call, which sacrifice will he offer wen he has done somthing serious mayb like cheating? 1 Like |
| Family / Re: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by tulk2mi: 11:12am On Jan 16, 2013 |
I can undastand most of d sentiments here both 4 n against. Yes i agree dat d man should hv had a beta self control yet again they say if a human being behaves like a rat den it should not com as surprise when a cat chases him. meaning u get treated d way u represent urself. this situation is very common, where family members feel because, like somebody iterated, they fed u, took care of u , got ur back, been thro thick and thin wit u they have a rite to determine who u should or should not be wit. they want 2 hv a say on wat goes on in your family, this is especially true 4 brodas who bring women home and it is d SILs n MILs dat spear head this rifts. Now 4 me am not asking my family members to like who am wit, they should just respect d fact dat she's d one i wanna b wit no mata their sentiments. if they claim dat they love n wants my happiness, then d fact dat she makes me hapi should b paramount. if they cant love her, they could just be cordial. if they cant manage any of dat then every body should just keep their distance. because i didnot marry my wife 4 dem, i married 4 my self DATS D BOUNDARY. If ANYBODY crosses dat boundary then i agree 100% wit OKIJA JUJU, If a bloodied face is wat its goin to take 2 send dat message across, it may not b pleasant but it will be done whether senior or mum. I hear pple asking wat the husband of the elder sista should do? or like some would say no body beats my wife no mata what. If my wife acts irresponsibly like the elder sista did, then she's on her own, all she's gonna get 4rm me na SORRY. Supposing while trying to defend her honour i get beaten up. Then na 2-0 n i no go get mouth 4 house again cos she no go let me hear word again wen we argue. smthing like "na 4 my side u dey get power no b ur fellow man deal wit u dat day" But if sombody comes to MY house to intimidate my wife, then d person go first cross my dead body cos na only death fit stop me. 7 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Why Are Some Women Exceptionally Manipulative? by tulk2mi: 8:55pm On Jan 12, 2013 |
nothing is wrong wit a man helping is wife out wit house chores. But no mata d reason or circumstances she shouldn't call me and ask me to help out. If am goin to do it, i will do it witout be asked. #JustMYOpinion# 2 Likes |
| Romance / Re: A Woman's Past Relationships by tulk2mi: 2:16pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
*Kails*: I also agree wit u, but it is not everyone dat is matured enuf to deal wit wat they might uncover,thats y i advise to play safe nd trust ur love 4 ur partner. Curiosity kills the cat u know  Let the sleeping dog lie. |
| Romance / Re: A Woman's Past Relationships by tulk2mi: 11:19am On Dec 23, 2012 |
Digging into ur partner's past is a recipe 4 disaster. Trust dem to tell u dat part of their past dat can change the dynamics of ur relationship, if u hear it 4rm any oda source apart 4rm dem. |
| Politics / Re: Closure Of Flood Victims Camps Across Nigeria: How Timely? by tulk2mi: 2:24pm On Nov 23, 2012 |
They r been sent home cos no more money can be made out of them. there was alot of sharp practices that went on where govt officials who are suppose to supervise d distribution of relief materials to d affected persons, cornered such materials and the money involved to themselves while giving the impression thro d media dat they r doin smthing. This is especially true in Rivers State and Bayelsa, if u doubt my story ask any flood victim in this state if govt sincerely came to their aid, In bayelsa the flood victims even protested the move to send back to their various home witout any kind arrangement on how they will b rehabilitated. |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Rafa Benitez Appointed As Chelsea Manager by tulk2mi: 10:23pm On Nov 21, 2012 |
This man took liverpool 4rm top 4 in the EPL to half of the table, used an invincible intermilan dat just won the champions league to chase religation b4 inter chase him out afta only six months. RAFA com a finish d work dat Abrahimovich started with Torres, Ben Anyoun and Meireles. let me go and preparre my mind 4 d agonies dat will follow.  2 Likes |
| Nairaland / General / Re: How Long Do I Have To Continue Playing Before I Win? by tulk2mi: 2:04pm On Nov 20, 2012 |
ebamma: naija promos are scams na so i follow play etisalat promo,i spent over 20k on recharge cards with hope of winning but i was given only a consolation price of 50mb data i almost cried that day,but i never give up one day i will win In addition to banning promos by service providers, pple like u should also be BANNED by NCC. U r part of d "gullible get rich thro try your luck" group dat is encouraging this gsm service providers to spam our fones with their useless promos. |
| Family / Re: Taking 'the Vow' Put A Strain On Relationships? by tulk2mi: 1:30pm On Nov 14, 2012 |
SELFWORTH: Taking the vow is meant to enhance the relationship and take it to the next level. In reality, most couples forget how they got to the 'vow' level once the vow is taken. |
| Romance / Re: Quarrelling In A Relationship Makes It Stronger? by tulk2mi: 12:52pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
[b][/b]Odinaka00: I thought of that too bro buh you knw quarellin in a relationship is inevitable na, we quarel once in a while, d las ┼iϻe we quarelled was juz last week, we didn't talk 4 like 2 days ßŮϯ when I thought of what caused Ŧħåϯ quarel, I realised that I caused it, I had to call her immediately and apologised to her and she was so happy Dats the Danger signal there, supposing u did not realise u were wrong and apologised and she also stood by her gun. what happens? wen quarels become frequent its an indication dat u hv more differences than comon things together, it cannot then translate to a stronger relationship. 4 me less quarrel is wat i blive makes relationship stronger, cos once there is a difference, it becomes unusual so we both know its serious and thrash d mata accordingly. DONT LET QUARRELS AND ARGUMENTS BECOME NORM IN UR RELATIONSHIP cos it will b 2 late by the time u realise u hv crossed the line of no return. |
| Politics / Re: BayelsaTV Ends Live Programme After Guests Criticised Govt's Inefficiency by tulk2mi: 10:59pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
[b][/b] Olaolufred: atleast i know this happens in Nembe.The King and his council of cheifs are d direct benefactors of the oil royalites.Even d skolarship dat shell gives to d community are hijacked by d chiefs for their chiildren and members of their immediate families while some members of the houses they represent cannot afford skool fees. its really sad. |
| Politics / Re: BayelsaTV Ends Live Programme After Guests Criticised Govt's Inefficiency by tulk2mi: 11:12am On Nov 01, 2012 |
Just thinking.[/quote] Classicalman: I have stayed long enough in Bayelsa to know how they reason. The politicians always lord it over the people as if they are slaves. The people follow them like sheeps and goats and cannot express their views. That is why a Bayelsan LGA chairman for just 3month can erect a 5 star hotel and nobody will say anything to him. Go to YENAGOA, all you see are hotels and other big buildings all owned by political appointees. The Government does any shi.t they want. The people never say or do shi.t. I am not surprised this happened. Who are u to criticize d governor. You can even come out in Rivers and openely criticise Amaechi and nothing will happen. Try it in Bayelsa and see. The people are under perpetual slavery by their so called elected officials.I am a bayelsan and dis stmt is truth like d gospel of christ. secondly it is percived dat any opposition 2 goverment is done by those who r not "carried along". this sydrome is worsen by d fact dat even our traditional rulers, cheifs and respected elders subject themselves to dis slavery because of little handouts to them by the governor. everybody wants to curry favour 4rm d govt. [quote author=Olaolufred] A grave indictment to the psyche of all Bayelsans. Ah, My people are perish because of ................. Why would an elected Governor reject his people's opinion. PROBABLY HE WAS SELECTIVELY SELECTED. unfortunately its d way it is. Is it not GEJ who raised Timpire Silva's hand up for work well done during His presidency campaign in Yenagoa, where d pple reacted to bad governance by stoning him (Timipre Silva)Dat came back later to pull those hands down and install Seriake Dickson. If its PDP in Bayelsa then its a SELECTION whether its primaries or election. 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: Getting Married In 2 Months - Why Does He Distrust Me So Much? by tulk2mi: 11:06am On Oct 31, 2012 |
d fact dat u were a virgin at 25 to d point u met him should count 4 somthing, especially with regards to his paranoia. it is an attestation to d fact dat u can handle urself wen it comes to d opposite sex. And u proved dat at the aiport, yet he wasnt convinced even tho he confirmed it thro an independent source. He is saying u should not hv had d converstion with him in d first place,dat if u had fancied him the story would hv been different tells of d fact dat he doesnt trust u even tho he say otherwise. As a woman whether married or not men will always come up 2 u, how r u goin to deal wit it to his SATISFACTION. Wats goin to happen wen an old skool mate, or cousin 4 an example, u hv not seen 4 a long time, sees u an embraces u? His insecurities are deep rooted, its never goin to change no mata the kind of assurances u give him. If somebody is looking 4 an xcuse to get jealous, he is goin to get plenty. its like somebody is looking 4 an avenue 4 u to make a mistake, u'll defintely make one since u r not perfect. d decision to leave or stay is urs, but d question u need to ask ur self is if u can deal with this 4 d rest of ur life? if u r already pissed by his actions now dat u r not married, would u b happy wit it wen u r married and it gets worse? in 20 months u v not been able to convince him dat u will be faithful, how much more time would u need to do dat? remeber its just 2 months to ur wedding. I hope it works at well 4 u wateva decision u make, cos again we might all b wrong. Guess we wont really kno till u get there. :LIFES A RISK. 3 Likes |
| TV/Movies / Re: 22 Important Questions For Nollywood by tulk2mi: 8:20pm On Oct 30, 2012 |
as efry bori dey ask make i join una ask some. why e be say any girl wey vomit don get belle? why e b say wen pple dey in loff either na 4 beach dem go xpress am by runing around or 4 garden? why e b say there tori no dey short, efry bori "its a long story"? na 4 winch country big man daughter dey fall in loff wit mad man ? u don c mad man wey get gf? loff no blind reach dat level why e b say d movie title dey resemble nollywood film their own? abi na d 9ja version? Alagbon Prison Break |
| Crime / Re: Suspected Kidnappers And Victims Trade Blames by tulk2mi: 10:40am On Oct 27, 2012 |
 :DDis tori get as e be. but d one way hard 4 me to beleive pass na, d man offer a N300,000.00 bribe and it was REFUSED by VIGILANTE.Pls na 4 winch contry e happen? 4 9JA? make una post d vigilate pishure and names, make we recomend dem 4 national award. ;DDis tori get as e be. but d one way hard 4 me to beleive pass na, d man offer a N300,000.00 bribe and it was REFUSED by VIGILANTE. Pls na 4 winch contry e happen? 4 9JA? make una post d vigilate pishure and names, make we recomend dem 4 national award. |
| Food / Re: What Do You Call This Food/snack In Your Dialect? by tulk2mi: 12:50pm On Oct 25, 2012 |
 ;Din my dialect we call Tapoica = Imgpi akpa n Coconut = Beke ImgpiYeah u Guess rite am a PROUD NEMBE BOI. ;Din |
| Politics / Re: Aviation: Storm Over Ethnic Agenda by tulk2mi: 5:50pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
| ;DHHmmmmnnn, I LIKE this. breeze don dey blow, fowl yansh don dey open ;DHHmmmmnnn, I LIKE this. breeze don dey blow, fowl yansh don dey open The South South pple neva talk. we no follow 4 d equation even b4 sef. dem say we b educationally disadvantage states so dem no include us. All d names wen dem mention there whether "incoming" or "outgoing" no body name there resemble sombody 4rm any of the SS states. So na wetin we go talk. This fight should continue abegi. |
| Family / Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by tulk2mi: 8:41pm On Oct 18, 2012 |
like one poster said, the harsh reality of dis disussion is dat ur wife is rite. it is ur full responsibility to take care of the family,clothing feeding and all dat. mayb it is me, ur write up does not tell me dat ur wife is unwillingly to assist, she is resisting because u r making it MANDATORY, ur wife can only VOLUNTEER her help. dats wat she wants to know if it is mandatory or voluntary. i guess u r making it mandatory, trying to monitor her income, boss her on how to spend it, is wat i percieve d problem is. Let me ask u a question, women have always argued dat men should help out with the house chores. now is it MANDATORY or VOLUNTARY? I am quite sure dat if ur wife is making it MANDATORY, u will resist with all d fibre in ur bones telling her it is a woman's FULL responsibility to take care of the home, dat u r the HEAD of the house and it is not ur job. So my good friend, go ahead be the HEAD and ask ur wife nucely, am quite sure u will open anoda tread on how women are HELPMEET sent by GOD HIMSELF 5 Likes |
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