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immortalcrown:
What is the purpose of men sleeping around before marriage?

Until you explain the purpose of virginity, you are a sentimental noisemaker.

Only a hypocrite like you will openly use virginity against women but will not be bold enough to state the purpose of virginity.

Tell us what you know as the purpose of virginity, let us see how virginity applies to only women.

I don't like discussing about this, but, the importance of virginity for women comes from cultural, religious, and health perspectives.

In terms of health:
1. You are marrying a woman with intact uterus and fallopian tube. Ones not damaged by endless abortions.
2. Hormonal imbalance is most common in women who are nonvirgins.
3. The risk of STI/STD is very low in virgins.
4. Virgins are not incurable viral disease carriers. The risk of HIV, herpes, is reduced, (even arguably, hepatitis).

Culturally:
1. The risk of children outside wedlock is reduced (Yorubas call these children bastards).
2. There is no culture that I know in Nigeria that celebrates whoreism. But in the past, our culture celebrates virgins as a sign of home training, determination, dependability, integrity, and self-respect.
3. Keeping your virginity shows that you uphold cultural values.
4. There are some African monarchs who only marry virgins even till today as a cultural tradition.
5. Children inside wedlock reduce the likelihood of occurrence of social vices, rebellion, and thuggery.
6. The risk of fathering other people's children reduces.
7. The risk of poisoning you to bury secrets reduces.
8. The risk of you hanging yourself, having a HBP or stroke after fathering other people's children reduces.
10. There will be no dick measuring contest, since your woman will be satisfied, having not tasted all the men in your community before settling with you.
11. Etc.

Religious view:
1a. This is my own perspective, but I think virginity should be the number one criteria for determining religious hypocrites.
1b. If you can keep your virginity, it'll not be too difficult to keep other commandments.
2. Women who uphold the sexual purity values are good enough to born a Messiah. Think about it.
3. For Christians, God demands virginity for both gender. It is a demand, an instruction, even a command.
4. Sexual perversion is a sin against self. The same "self" that is the temple of God.

Puss360:
Lol.. see talk o...
When u left home u didn't bother to check for your wallet...
Lol
I'll pay for my own meal, get up and go...
Anyhow you sort yourself out I don't care, and you will still pay me back for what I spent on my meal...

Irresponsible men out there!!!

Why should he pay you back for your own meal, after you paid only for yours, got up and left him?

Maybe you can justify your reason.

Abeg, who don collect bachelorhood/spinsterhood certificate here? The affidavit you did, was the declaration made by you or it was made by someone older (parents, uncle, etc)?

Hannania:
You're legalizing only the documents your school needs for admission purposes. People are just wasting money.

1. Bachelor certificate
2. Transcripts
3. O'level certificate

English language certificate is already official(IELTS or TOfEL).

So basically €240 instead of over €640 people are wasting money on.

For verification which cost €400 for all documents, you'll pay that once. You'll only legalize after the verification

Thanks for the insight.

Hannania:
The most difficult part of these whole process is the verification and legalization. Cost over €600. €400 for verification, and €80 per document for legalization. You need just 3 docs legalized though

What are the three documents required for legalization?

Because, personally I thought I'll have to legalize all academic documents. In my case, that is about 8-10 documents.

Post the pictures of each product and their prices, so that we can know if your products are affordable. It also shows that you are a serious seller.

All will be well with this country.

BeyondCertainty:
This is BS! Women are not meant to work. Their place is the HOME taking care of children.

Can you show a text or reference from any book, history, constitution, educational system, government policies, or country policies that says *a woman must not work?*

OluwasureGig:
Send me an email bro

I just sent a connect through Nairaland to your email. Check the email you used to register on NL.
However, in case you don't have access to it, you can reach me on
tundexbasics@yahoo.com.

OluwasureGig:
Lol buying a car now is by the special grace of God it’s unnecessarily expensive

Hello,
How far with your Austria travel process? Are you in Austria already?

I want to get a feedback on success after authentication/legalization.

If one gets admission, is their hope of being successful in the remaining part of the journey?

Hoping to get your feedback.
Yours,

neutraldesignx:
you get luck I no fit see you right now. I for remove your teeth because of this useless comment I promise . Whoever you are

Wanted to ask a question. But, that should be later.

RealityKings:
Its not a male/female competition thing

Like I posited, it's because the woman has something to sell, if she doesn't, she would have gone out to look for work.

What I see up there is an excuse for prostitution. Work was not labelled for any species.

RealityKings:
I used to judge and abuse some women into commercial sex way back then. It was an absurd activity that I tried not to hear or understand back then. But as time went on, I started understanding society and life on a larger scale.

Most of them are single mothers who have no job or business to rely on. Life isn't the same for everyone so you can't do the pretentious preaching without providing a way to feed them and their kids.

Its also true some of them young unmarried girls who are not content with what their parents has to offer. Some also believe their bodies are a tool that can fetch some funds for an iPhone and a room self contain and several infinitesimals.

You cant tell them not to engage in professional prostitution without giving them a man to keep them in line with societal standards: and also a job or business to feed them and provide for their needs.

So consider all these before talking against women commercializing sex Cuz even the government isn't fighting them.
Not that the government gives them a soft Landing, they just chose to turn a blind eye because you can't solve everything considered anti social.. After all, they are still members of the society itself

This post is funny. However, if those females who sell their bodies were males, what would they have done?

Any woman who goes into prostitution using hardship as an excuse, should think about men who don't have anything to sell, and are in the same situation.

exnovio:
Now for the sake of my kids I decided to relocate from Spain, because I want my kids to be English orientated because here in Spain the chances for them to succeed is slim ,first choice was Scotland but I ruled it out because of this brexit thing,so settled for Ireland because its the only English speaking country in the EU where I can easily settle and start work as European passport holder.

Well, in my own view, there are many TEFL schools in Spain! I was wondering why speaking the English language would be a hassle for children that can attend TEFL/ESL schools.

You can also enroll your children in high schools that teach English language.

Your children can sit for SAT, TOEFL, or IELTS, and apply for their first/second degree in anglophone countries.

PeterObi4LP:
I have spent 3/4 of this already for a 2yrs study (Ph.D), I still have 9 months to graduate. I work while studying too. The amount worth it and guarantee you a job after study.

Me come back to Nigeria to do wetin? I can't come back unless my constituency single handedly ask me to come represent them at HoR or Senate.

Do you mean your Ph.D is just 2 years? If you don't mind, I'll like to know the course, and which school?

happiness440:
Alteration of Memorandum

Annual Returns

Certified True Copy/Certified Extracts

Change in Allotment of Shares

Change of Proprietor/Partner

Increase in Issued Share Capital

Request for Letter of Good standing

Reduction in Issued Share Capital

Business status Report

Notice/change in details of person with significant control

Hi,
For someone that registered a company (business name) in 2016, but the owner wasn't making sales again after 2018. He also wasn't filling tax return since 2016 that he registered.

The company registration (business name) is now inactive.

Can the owner reactivate the business registration?

2016 - 2024 is eight years. Do you think the penalty to pay will be worth it, since the owner just wants to reactive for personal reasons, not because he wants to go back into business?

travelconsult12:
It depends on the university you finish from because not all university responds to there mail on the issue of confirmation letter there's always a way around it

2. Is always advisable to go first is not the issue of maybe having enough funds there's something they always call family and home ties if you don't have any of the two to show that after your studies you will return back that's always a red flag for them and the embassy and you make it easier for them to deny the visa

3. Is advisable to legalize all your documents at once if you have the funds for future purpose

For a student going for a masters programme, not yet married, but older than 35 years, what can be used to prove family and home ties?

1. Will having a land be enough?
2. Land and company registration?
3. Any other way to prove home ties?

hammer567:
IF PERSON AND HIM WIFE JUST EXCHANGE WORD, NEXT THING NA TO LOAD THE KIDS INSIDE CAR TO DO DNA.


GOVERNMENT SHOULD BAN DNA.

Nobody should take this one seriously.

Someone prayed for you up there that your wife will give birth to all five children outside and bring them to you. You could not say "amen", instead you replied that you're a "sharp shooter".

You don't want to father other people's children but you want other men to do the same.

Man, you should cover your face in shame and stop disturbing the media space because you are preaching what you don't want to experience.

Sometimes you read some things online and wonder what the writer was thinking while writing them.

Anyways, I began to know humans are funny beings who will complain at everything, after a guy advised some adults to brush their teeth before eating, they refused, while arguing that their teeth was whiter than that of the advisor .

So, you mentioned unrealistic expectations, and you said they are:

" She must be beautiful, slim, educated, respectful, and of course, able to cook like a gourmet chef ".

Let's flip the statement.

She must be ugly, uneducated, disrespectful, and of course, a bad cook!

You don't even want the above as your sister, let alone, a mother!

In the AI age, where machines and robots are even increasing their IQ, a woman, a supposed wife, wants to remain uneducated?

The international community, women organizations, and nonprofits are fighting for women education and empowerment, this one, a Nigerian woman, is saying education is unrealistic for women?

LadyAyowumi:
On my WAEC certificate, one of my names was abbreviated, I have the affidavit, do I take that to the mofa too?
Do I need to legalise this at the embassy too?

Can someone explain the visa application process please?
Is Salzburg a good place?
How many days does a Masters student go to school and from what time to what time?

Hello, you guys are doing some good works here. This thread has a lot of valuable information.

I have a similar challenge to this. My name was written as Adegboye Bimbo on my WAEC certificate. But the name in my birth certificate is Adegboye Abimbola Victor. I didn't have any issues with this in school. But, my questions are:

1. Do I need to make an affidavit to that effect, with respect to Austria's verification/legalization requirements?

2. Should I authenticate the affidavit at MOE or MOFA or both?

Psoul:
You can't stand flowing rational argument.
You cannot handle and process it well cos you will keep deviating just to bring in something else to grab when ur factless points start to fail u.

This was ur question, "So, a pastor cannot be a devil! You are funny."

This was my response; "Can your devil be a child of God or a Christian?"

Now you are talking of Lucifer.
What is the correlation between that devil u talked about and the Lucifer as a child of God?

Oga, swerve one side. If Lucifer himself can be a child of God. Then, which devil are you asking about again? No human can be as devilish as Lucifer. The most devilish of humans took their traits from him.

Also, you win, so stop quoting me.

Psoul:
Can your devil be a child of God or a Christian?

The devil (I mean Lucifer) is a child of God. Don't let us even go there!

Psoul:
Yes, Pastors are using my head just the same way devil and his messengers are using your miserable life.

So, a pastor cannot be a devil! You are funny.

johnog4sure:
You just ended up using those verses to further expose yourself:

1. Your first example Jesus did not ask(collect), they chose to minister(serve) him with their substance, they could have serve in any other way they choose.

2. The purse was originally meant for the poor, Judas was even suspected to have ulterior motive, Jesus knew very well you cannot go about speaking grammar without giving to the poor, so the purse was there for the poor. Please recall they have a financier Luke and not the poor people they are ministering to.

3. here you quoted the bible and maliciously decided to give it your own meaning, the exact things Nigerian pastors do always. that verse clearly said for the feast and needy. You refuse to accept it, you said its for pastors because the money is much, I assume you were with Judas then.

4. Most of you pastors say God called you to work, God should pay you as his labourer or are you saying God is not faithful enough? The labourer the writer is refering to here is not just preachers, they include cleaners, masons, transporters etc. including those outside the church. But in Nigerian churches is only the GOs that swallow the money and still have the audacity to brag for being rich, right in front of those who donated the funds.

Finally you repeated the same thing, read a bible verse then choose to maliciously interpret to suit you. God go punish those who add or remove from his word. Say Amen! if this is scriptural.

I wanted to reply him, but this is good enough. That passage showed Jesus ministered to people outside the church (synagogue), and they gave him their substance (willingly and they were not asked, threatened, or coaxed).

But according to him, he meant Jesus took offering basket to people's homes and was collecting offerings from them?

Also, he said the money with Judas was huge. Wait! Was he with Judas at the time?

I'm not against offering giving, but, in the new testament, it not meant only for pastors or ministers. It is meant for the church (the church is not a building or an individual).

PaperWorld:
I deal with large quantities of waste papers and I can also handle your customized university notes and exercise books.

Your contact and location?
Let's discuss business

Almunjid:
Are u trying to say that the Bible contradicts itself?

Oga, go and read your Bible, and stop quoting me.

Almunjid:
Lol, u write full everywhere, yet u no even understand wetin u dey write. Where u learn ur own Christianity from?
Na contradictions wey dey ur comment make me dey qoute u. U said:

You're wrong. Matthew 5:17 says:
Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets. I have not come to abolish them, but to fulfill them.

The same bible said in Hebrews....

Heb.7.11 And finally, if the priesthood of Levi could have achieved God's purposes--and it was that priesthood on which the law was based--why did God need to send a different priest from the line of Melchizedek, instead of from the line of Levi and Aaron? (NLT)

Heb.7.18 Yes, the old requirement about the priesthood was set aside because it was weak and useless. (NLT)

Heb.7.19 the law brought nothing to maturity. Another way--Jesus!-a way that does work, that brings us right into the presence of God, is put in its place. (MSB)

gohf:
if you are no the same page like you are saying why not edit your original post


Why haven't you answered what was answered or responded to Hebrew 7

You're spot on. Hebrews 7 has answered the law of tithing. Actually, I think Paul wrote that chapter to address the issue of tithing.sd relating to Christianity.

michaelbiz:
The work of God needs finance and you are the one God asked to finance it with TITHE?

Where are you people reading in your Bible, I don't understand. Tithes and Offerings (yes both) have been abolished, you know why?

Nobody has the office to collect tithes and offerings.
Read my lips.
NOBODY.

Offerings is a ritual of the old law for different purposes.
Tithes was a command in the old law of a tenth of all your increase.
Take note OLD LAW.

The High Priest was in the office of collecting tithes and offerings in the old law. The law has been fulfilled by the coming of Jesus Christ, whose blood replaced the need to offer God anything in exchange. Jesus OFFERED himself as the ultimate SACRIFICE. He is now the High Priest FOREVER in the order of Melchizedek (that is, having no beginning of days or end of days). Hebrews 6:20

This means, NO OTHER PERSON can collect TITHE. Your pastors and apostles know it. They don't have the authority to collect both "tithes and offerings" because it is no longer a requirement for blessings, remission of sins, protection and so on. And Jesus Christ who is the NEW High Priest DOES NOT require it. So why should anyone collect it? This is why Creflo Dollar and some other pastors came out openly to say the truth about it because it is not possible for a new testament pastor to be in the office of a High Priest.

Go and study the entire Book of Hebrews.

There are only two commands that Jesus Christ gave which fulfils ALL OF THE COMMANDMENTS

Matthew 22:36-40
Galatians 5:14
1. Thou shalt love the Lord thy God....
2. Love your neighbor as yourself.

The rest will sort itself out in those two commands because you will give willingly to help others, not grudgingly. And Christ Himself said, in Matthew 25:40 "And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me."

May the Holy Spirit grant you understanding.

Wow? You got it.
In fact, I got a new insight about tithe, and it's in Hebrews. I was wondering why pastors keep asking for tithes. It's like they deliberately don't teach the truth about it since it involves money.

Babatwo2:
Tithing is obaying God's commandments, it is not for the pastors to become rich.

Tithing is obeying God's law through the law of Moses enacted for descendants of Levi and Aaron. Not Jesus Christ and gentiles.

CorperKola:
Are u saying the levites were not allowed to own property

Yes, you didn't read your Bible no?
Levites are not allowed to own properties.