₦airaland Forum

O.p truth is on this instance you alone can advice urself, and you alone truely know what you want, so sit down and think it true. If you truely love her as u claim give her anoda chance because from ur story two of you actually had notn together when she did that jst crush crush thing...okay wait lemme ask you one simple question what if she never told you? Sometimes some ppl deserve second chance she might really love you though but watch her closely all the same bro...cos (no saint, no devil).

Rangojack:
If she's gone,she's gone! She will even pick on these as reasons why she left you. Girls are complicated beings,thank God if you find one that stick to you.
Girls? Tufiakwa

Chai u need 2 gold star.....ah swear jst spoke my mind all this formula nor deh work.

Danty37:
exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine. I also promise to marry her not knowing I was building my castle in the air. After wasting 6years of relationship, the next thing I got last two weeks was a whatsapp message and I quote " I know I have really offended you but you need someone better than me". " don't bother about me and take care of yourself ". that's the message I got from her. Thank God I have already a good job in a multi national company that always keep me busy.. I would have committed suicide. It's all for good sha..
thank God she left while things are working out for good.. I was deceived by love and the the girls name is LOVETH. Loveth will never know peace in her marriage and life endeavors. I keep having negative thoughts about her and she will meet her match on a good day. I never bleeped her all in the name of keeping myself till marriage. May God will surely punish her. I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family.. so shall it be IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

Hahahahahahaha i feel ur pain but the best u can do na to wish her well.

The tin nor tire person.....everything is just turning upside down. See churches doing it, individual doing same and the question is who should correct who?....giving is suppose to be between two persons and no third party.

propanet:
Don't ever help ladies.
They don't deserve it

Bros this tin u type harsh oooh be like one girl don do u strong thing b4..anywayz u still gat some good ones mayb u jst jam the bad one.

My brother the way u are begging for this advice, smells something is missing....from ur pin pointing on haaving matured meetings ah swear that word sounds like u don bleep her. From ur story u were not aware she was married nor b your fault jare.....let her be now that u know (the way u take get mature meeting with her, sit how down like two mature mind and talk to her simple) if not WAIT FOR KARMA.

Your girlfriend nor sabi cook so u have to bring it out here.sori oooh how old are you?if u love her as u claim teacher her instead.its not a big deal.

Seems someone is scared if being alone......sometimes we jst need to be alone.
To me bro ur relationship jst ended well nor vex ooh don't you tink its better u sit down evaluate tinz out and then work on urself weda u ar the cause of the break-up or not,before jumping or looking anoda.u need sitdown ask urself question"no saint no devil".

What

I dey tire sometimes for the kind advice ppl dey give here.@poster try and relax ur mind ooh so u nor go get b.p.
All u need do as a mature guy is very simple she said its a joke right?
kindly take her (follow her to a clinic not her regular one do a test and confirm if negative,bros warn her never in her life-time not to crack such joke with you, and then watch and observe her closely.
Sometimes shall i wonder why women dey use dem hand dey cause mis-trust(wat a joke).

I wonder why some guyz have dis metality of any little stuf u feel u gt for a girl d nxt tin na sex.....well na as d girls to be shall cos na dem dey put themselves fot were dem go take advantage of dem...back to d issue wat is done is done(d guy own dey front karma)..girls should nvr start wat they can nvr finish moral lesson.

Sapiosexuality:
Stop all these nonsense tacit support. Is it the duty of the sick men SARS to look after that? Is there a provision in the law for immoral appearances? Stop this tacit support for those idiots! For me, I know any day they stop me, not a dime is going to leave my pocket. Why are people scared of these idiots? You guys should grow some self worth and stop supporting nonsense! To even suggest that sanity has to do with your looks places a big question
mark on your intelligence.

Bros pray dem nor stop u nor b better experience cos dis mouth u jst mke so my broda u go beg(my advice no go do anyhw oooh dem fit kill u lie sey u be cultist case closr who don die don die.

[quote author=KaBabs1 post=62988985]And that's a bad thing? I disagree with you. She's just being blunt and telling the guy that she cannot reduce her standard of living and live in the suburbs. A man must be a man and must able to take care of his wife and kids. She is not aware of this man's plans at all and that is probably why she declined his proposal. My advice is the guy should tell the lady his plans. If she rejects him again then I guess she's not just into him. [/
quote
Bros u nor sabi advice person at all.so if na ur brother or u in question na waitn u go do u jst write so,u tested a girl like this she told u her mind straight dis goes a long way that she is not a wife material na...telling her ur plans means that is stupidity cos u ar not suppose to go all out there convincing any gal that u wud do this and that to her before she go marry or accept you...natural good intentions is not somtn u brag about is somtn u show by ur doings my guy forgt that girl.

Ur guy was jst to harsh to judge though nor blame am d tinz girls dey do and d rate dey lie is alarming he actually used that on you wish was wrong e nor trust you....(all girls are not really the same,some still do sensibke tinx) how long have u guyz been together?

If i call u goat u go sey i deh curse up poster well sori......ur problem big oo i swear nor b for village bros free d babe mke she move....reporting her to her uncle u b small pikin abi u don marry her bros oook jst b wise like ur father cos if ur mama do ur papa like dis u for nor dey d pcture.

ultimate77:
I see sense in your response.... She told me ones that non of her ex treats her the way I do.
Like non of them. Gives her advice, non even asks if she prays, non ever cookd, all they do is take her out, and don't care about other parts of her life.
And I do all that. But still wonder why she can't just let pride and hauty responds off.

Most times shall guuz really they dey carried away wit all this talk.trust me she go tell anoda guy dsame tin talk it tru her if she nir listen move on.

Bros sori oooh cos i like dealing with tinz very straight as they are. Looking for am matured way to end your relationship, nor pass"sit her down b plain tel her ur mind on her attititude that u dont like it is simple if she nor change sufri waka.

See another weak guy eh.. Be like suicide be like candy to some people ooo na wa ooh. If dem abort am that time dem for dey laugh e mama see d result.

oprah007:
She is in support of my Dad. Has always been. Its giving me headache but my spirit, body and soul does not move back home. I am only scared of my father's threats of cursing my relationship and working towards my sack.

Bros sori to sey this notn dey happen.... All na empty threat abeg wait we fit swap papa i tink he needs a son like me(no disrespect).

Lalas247:
You are an adult and grown at 30 !
Please DO NOT MOVE BACK home


The only time that should even happen is if you are seriously struggling financially and have no way out ... you can go back home and restart .. at least you’ll have a roof over your head and food ..but if you are doing ok my dear struggle and hustle better..... they will respect u more at the end

I disagree even if financial problem self dts why person na man.

If nor b sey u said ur father nau i swear i for mke i rest at 30 ur papa still want to be feeding you and he is even praying or threatening u with ur job haba d prayer of every parents na to see dem children stand do their thing on their own nor b dis case ooh. All d same am speechless na family mttr

Not wicked per sey it varies like me i try to avoid headache nor find me i nor go find you, most times i try to a very high levrl to bear d excesses of others bt wen e pass hand the person fit nor like d song............ Niger we dey so wen u too quiet dem go take u too much for granted and loud mouth nor good to earn your respect

On thisvonr i nor agree not all shall good onrs still exist bt rear

Ladies should b careful with whom dey decide to settle down with some men na mature children ooh
Mean while let Me come and be going cos na one person don judge make we wait for annie

Na so some girls life just be so she don graduate now go sloop jamb anoda guy, so her boyfriend nor come be her type is aiit lemme pass I can see somebody wanna die

teresafaith:
So just because you gave her ordinary 3000, she must bow to you and succumb to your will.

This why I don't deal with blokes

The problem with girls like u is that you are the ungrateful type who NVR appreciate tinz you see 3k na ordinary she for use her money do am make I nor run judge u anyhw cos I knw you type next time tink before u talk cos u nor b like girl wen fit give e boyfriend money.

I really don't like putting my mouth on issues like dis especially wen it involves Gods work weda d notion is right or wrong or weda d person is fake or not cos am not in such position to judge but one thing I have to sey is that giving is of the mind, and tithing is of the mind and u can give it to anybody like less previledge e.t.c...not abt or must b a church tin PPP should be very wise on tinz like dis.

uboma:
Apostle Suleiman should shut his mouth.


Where are the books written by him whose proceeds he uses to maintain his luxurious lifestyle?


Apostle Suleiman, the Clergyman, who likes to end his love sessions behind.....

U should shut up ur mouth cos i can see u are senseless cant you jst tall without insulting d man of God and who made u God to judge.

U really don't need help cos even d best advicer now u nor go listen to am I have been there before e go only clear tin smtn happen NVR u give ur strength to any woman go read prov.31

Close friend noooo cos there is every tendency of abt 80% sey dem fit straf again... (Una knw sey some of our women for dis generation devil dey sabi use dem do experiment) HELL NO