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SLAP44:


You guys don't know who Peter Obi is, he will always save money in every thing he does, he achieves same or more results with less money spent. An investment guru, financial expert and Street smart billionaire.

Peter Obi will use same Nigeria budget to do all the roads, bridges, hospitals, schools and all institutions while paying workers and contractors well, and still save money in trillions.

Peter Obi is an efficient manager of resources.

inoki247:
Lol SE state.use almost 4days count results when other state don finish already the 2nd day after election....

DWJOBScom:
Naaaaa
You don appear like you want to know

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Go and read the full documents and stop fooling yourself

DriverX:
You're repeating what they posted for you on your Whatsapp group.

Swallow the corn in your mouth first

DWJOBScom:
I do not think you read it

GardenOfGod:
APC criminal Propaganda agent... You are seen... Now go home

OmoGomesIlorin:
I meet this lady in December 2019 and by 2020 we had the opportunity to connect with each other on a friendship level. From my interactions with her and observations, she is cool-headed and calm, intelligent and ambitious. Her skills match someone I dream of marrying. She is from Anambra, state - Umuoji

However, as a low-budget guy, I am weighing my options due to stereotype of demanding for a gargantuan bride price.

I want to know if what people are saying online is true or exaggerated


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Dearlove2me:
The truth is right now, I feel like going somewhere for a while. I feel like I need rest. Somewhere I can forget about all my problems and breathe a fresh air.
My husband has not been honest with me since the beginning of this marriage and I doubt if this is an attitude of a man that loves

He has always been in debt even before I married him. and he wouldn't let me know what he do with the money he keeps borrowing from people. Even my friends I introduced to him, he is owning them and can't pay back.

The bad side is, he borrows and stop picking their calls not respond nicely to them.
He behalves badly to them.
I'm suspecting he's into some kind of addiction that demands money. Maybe gambling but he wouldn't tell me.
He's constantly on his phone.

He is owning loan app everywhere. To the extent that the app had to send hurrible messages to his contact's lists including his bosses, office colleagues and my relatives.
It's so embarrassing and tiring.
He has apologized several times that I should give him time to work on himself to stop an addiction, but he refused to explain what it is. Claiming that I might leave him if I know.
But he has not changed abit.
We are always hungry in this house. No baby food for my 6months old baby, no pampers and everything is total struggle. I quit my job last year but I'll soon start job search once my baby grow a little.
In this house, If I don't look for food, then, we starve, I don't look for means of getting pampers, food, wears,then my baby will suffer, because his daddy is not capable of providing anything for us. It's so annoying.

I have dreams before I married him, but right now, I feel lost. There's no romance, no love, no affection in this marriage anymore, as I wouldn't even let him touch me because of the stress, suffer he constantly brings on us.

Money I raised to start up a business, (340k) I ended up using it to pay for his debt last two months because the people were always coming to embarrass us in the house and neighbors were coming to pleade on our behalf. I had to clear up the loan, yet he couldn't explain what he did with the money.
With that start up capital, I would have been growing by now, but here I am. Still at the zero point.

I'm really tired
I'm so confused here.
What should I do?
What would you advise?

ExAngel007:
Lawyer Shares Before And After Photos Of Herself 6 Years After Walking Out Of Her Marriage

Olasumbo, a Nigerian lawyer, has gone online to talk about the marriage she left.

She took to Twitter to share before and after photos showing her amazing transformation six years after walking out on her marriage with her two children.

The 30-year-old mother of two shared her story via Twitter when she celebrated Mother's Day on Sunday, March 19, 2023.

“This is what I looked like when I walked out of my marriage in 2017 with two toddlers. I just clocked 30, I was mentally,
emotionally and financially drained. I was tired and i knew i had to walk away. Did i know what i was going to do next? No but i walked,” she wrote.

"Okay let me tell you why it looks all shitty, I left my marriage clueless about the next thing to do but knew I had to run for my life yet I has no family support. I was not lucky to come from a stable family background, my ex saw this and capitalised on it.

"The marriage was 4 years old as at when it officially ended but it was dead from the beginning. I know the judginas will ask if I didn't see the red flag...well story for another day but well the deed has been done and now I have two kids who had no fault.

"My entire desire was to protect my kids. I mean they know nothing about the folly and stupidity of the parents that brought them to this world. I saved up and got my own apartment. I remember crying so much the first night I moved into my new home. I was scared.

"I had never gone on this kind of journey before and i don't know how to walk this path. I was totally confused and clueless. I was more afraid for my kids, scared they would suffer which i do not want, what if they fall sick and I can't take care of them? So many what ifs.

"All these was in 2017....this is 2023 and yes it has not been a smooth journey...my life has taken a pause because I was not opportune to have a family support and I had to learn, unlearn and relearn on my own. My career has suffered so much. Yes.

"My wants, desires has all been pushed to the base because I can't afford all at once so my kids come first..it has not been an easy ride doing this alone, no single financial support from the man who bore them even though he has 100% access to these kids.

“I look back today and ask myself if it is all worth it and Yes I am happy I made that decision. I am proud of the pains, the tears, the laughter. I am proud for holding myself strong despite the stigma and backlash that comes with being a single mom. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ME.”

https://www.tori.ng/news/230638/nigerian-lawyer-shares-before-and-after-photos-of.html

bluefilm:
Are you serious?

I thought I saw some videos of people celebrating that El Rufai's APC lost the gubernatorial election in Kaduna?

Felixalex:
Chai

And dem do naming ceremony for this one o

Ijoba85:
Nobody is fighting you guys , you crossed your boundary and then got put in place . You guys are the most intolerant and selfish set of human beings , you overdo a lot. Igbos burnt our lag buses during the endsars saga, that's not fair ...

Karlman:
And what really have you shown them? I don't understand you lots at all...is there any Igbo man or woman on the govs ballot! You people are really brainless!

Pls Let me state categorically here, that all these Yoruba touts crying all over Nairaland here just because Igbos are not as senseless as you are to give you the much craved opportunity to break into Igbo owned superstores, which will even lead to your miserable deaths anyway, the Igbo man will continue to be your source of envy and pain for the rest of your miserable existence. We worked hard to be who we are and you all can choke on that fact.

NB:
All of you Yoruba touts all over Nairaland crying over my mention...I said and I repeat...the Igbo will forever be your source of envy and pain!
We have seen war, been to war, fought war, died in war, survived war and came out of war to stay on top of all life indices against all odds without any government input...that is the spirit of the Igbo man which you will forever admire from the distance of your miserable existence!
Go ahead and choke on this fact.

pocohantas:
Someone that has remarried?

Ceenachi:
Ellu p 79 🙌🙌🙌

Dear nairalander uchins
Can you see the difference between “What I ordered VS What I Got”
The joy is written on their faces

Congratulations To LP families 🙌
Congratulations To Dr. Alex Otti🙌

Congratulations To Ndi Abians, And Everyone Residing In Abia State

Henry22:
A few human in the midst of hyenas.