₦airaland Forum

descarado:
The greatest weakness and self deceit that annihilate one is self denial.
Let us know when you wake up from your lululand.

cococandy:
What values are those. Explain please.
Do you mean women who don’t depend on you financially? Because if that’s the value you’re talking about, more Nigerian women are breadwinners than the other nationalities you’re talking about.

You’ll be shocked

cococandy:
Where are you seeing the numerous lazy and entitled ladies? Insert eye roll

ahnie:
So I got my share of our weekly contribution of four months.i decided to pamper myself with an iphone and a laptop.

This isoko bebe needs to pamper herself small,I intended doing something meaningful with the rest 300k left.

This are the evidence and dedication from the combination of my 3 hustles.
It's not grace or on God,it was hardwork.

Sheistoopretty:
Is dis not same person that said her baby died in her belly? now dis again

Spare us the pity party stories pls

First to comment

I dedicate it to the hardworking men around the world except Nigerian men, very unintelligent people all dey know is sex sex sex, Ritual killing, Kidnapping, Banditry, cultism and hard drugs

Nigerian men are Us*less....all of them

CheapHomes1:
How does your links answer the following questions?

1. How does obi governing Anambra for 8years make Anambra "obis Anambra"? Because post military misrule he had the opportunity to lay the foundation of modern Anambra. If that foundation is faulty we will see a dysfunctional state.

2. How does Tinubu governing Lagos for 8years make Lagos "Tinubus Lagos"? Because post military misrule he had the opportunity to lay the foundation of modern Lagos.
3. What master plan did Tinubu leave for lagos' development? Can you show me a copy of the plan? The links I sent is the building Tinubu’s protégés built on what the master planner did.

4. How did you do your comparison of Lagos pre 1999 and post 1999? Because I lived in Lagos for over 40yrs & I know how dirty, unorganized and infrastructurally backward Lagos was then. Even Marwa became a star MILAD because of his attempts to whip lagosians to shape in the 90’s.

5. In my previous post, did I ask you for a comparison of anything? Yes, indirectly

6. What significant influence does Tinubu have on Lagos governance? His efforts birthed a state that is the 4th largest economy in Africa, infrastructural rebirth, functional civil service, and astronomical revenue growth, above par political mentorship, excellent succession planning, amongst many other things.

CheapHomes1:
1. How does obi governing Anambra for 8years make Anambra "obis Anambra"?

2. How does Tinubu governing Lagos for 8years make Lagos "Tinubus Lagos"?

3. What master plan did Tinubu leave for lagos' development? Can you show me a copy of the plan?

4. How did you do your comparison of Lagos pre 1999 and post 1999?

5. In my previous post, did I ask you for a comparison of anything?

6. What significant influence does Tinubu have on Lagos governance?

CheapHomes1:
how is Anambra "obis anambra" and how is the SE "obis SE"? how is Lagos "Tinubus lagos"? how is Tinubu responsible for what lagos is?

Stephen2324:
I went to my girlfriend’s house and the mother served me this food

Is it proper to eat at your girlfriend’s house?

GOFRONT:
Hmm.......Crazy things are really happening.

One of my tribal man who is a family friend happens to work with a reputable construction company and posted to a nearby state for work. He secretely invited their matured househelp over to his place, got her pregnant. Scared of the embarrassment that he would face, he then rent an Apartment for her in the town close to where he works.

That was how housmaid got an apartment of her own and that was also how househelp turn to Madam's CO wife in bearing children. The matter shock all of us by then, but nobody come holy pass.......She should be on her second or third kid by now

Waterbear:
You have so much hate in you, you need to go and heal after this election when your heart is content ...

If up till now you don't know your history, I wouldn't stress to educate you on it..
I also don't need you to win any election, I am not running and I wouldn't be in this country for much longer so it's your game against you...
And also I know not few but many yorubas that are campaigning for PO the world doesn't circulate around you and your hate filled heart...

I wish you perfect recovery against this war between your head and the imaginary attacking tribe ...

We here are busy living our life normally, you over there is carrying arms fighting a war against people that don't know there is a war on them...

AcuraZDX:
What's going on here?

aariwa:
Peter Obi my president… just a few weeks away now

Waterbear:
That's the difference between us...
There is no hate in me, I don't hate you, we in igbo land don't hate yorubas or teach our kids to hate, rather we try to caution you guys even if it sounds like war drum... I have lots of yoruba friends even your musician DaVictim that sang Dear God is a friend of mine and we are like brothers, aside land and language that separates us, what difference is there between you guys and us?
The hate is just too much, how long do you think it would go 4 years, 10, 300 years? What is the benefit of the hate?
Dude, if you want to hate us, it's up to you, igbos would trllbyou the truth no matter how deep it hurts, but when we sit with you we are filled with same love we have for our tribe, and if any igbo man does you harm, trust me it's not cause of tribe, he would do the same to his brother...

Anyways, it's one step at a time, I just hope regardless of who wins , just like a football match everyone returns to normal

Kobojunkie:
Women need to stop dating or even marrying men who do such to them. They open themselves to all forms of ridicule by refusing to have themselves established before marriage. Look at the way this poor man took to insulting this woman simply because she, an adult, refused to make meaningful her life before marriage.

breakthrough22:
Good evenning ,

I came back home from work this night to find out my wife and my son have packed and abandoned me .

My son is 4 years old and I really don't mean to hurt my wife .

She travelled on the 26th of December to her dad house here in Lagos .I missed her so much and I sent her money to come back last Saturday though she said she will be coming on Sunday only for me to call her between 2pm and 8pm without her picking the call .

The phone rang times without number .I later gave the last try and the no was busy answering other call .She later picked and said there was no light .So,she couldn't charge. I was mad because the excuse was too flimsy .I challenged her to tell her but your phone rang .I was mad and I lost trust in her that moment and flashed back to the excuse that she will not come on Saturday.

Seriously ,I was angry and different thoughts came to my mind like May be she went to see another man .

That hour ,I told her I don't want to see her again .I was angry though .She didn't come on Sunday. She came back very early yesterday which was Monday.

I will not lie ,I have been so angry ,ranting and telling her to go back to her parent house that I don't trust her again.

To my surprise ,I came back tonight and she already packed all her loads ,packed my son things without leaving any thing .Her wardrobe and my son wardrobe have been empty as I am typing .She packed everything .

Seriously ,I am depressed cos I love her .I love my son .I can't even allow him to stay over there to start schooling. Me and my wife have been together since 2013 .We have gone through a lot of difficulties together and now ,things are beginning to look good for us .I am so down right now .I called he dad and her brother .It is like they took that decision together .

I have never beaten her before but I do nag especially when bills are weighing me down .His dad and his brother was just shouting at me .Fear of been a single dad or living alone at this stage of my life will make me a walking ghost and the fact that ,I really love my son too and also my wife too will one day kill me .

Imagine ,that Saturday she changed what she saved my no with and saved with my son name.I attached my call history .Check the image of the missed calls.

Please what do I do?I am devastated .


Some of her chats this night ..

[1/10, 9:35 PM] SWEETHEART: Hv always endure with u even though u did not hv money,but u always rain insult on me everyday .am not coming back I want to work and make my own money,u said u hv never achieved anything good bcoz of me!u said I am your biggest mistake in life and now hv made up my mind with you.you pushed me to the wall!u make me carry luggage in the hot sun and cry ,am tired,I cried and cried and endure all bcoz of love so nao am ready to work and earn good for myself and my son.
[1/10, 9:40 PM] SWEETHEART: U can change ur key am not coming again
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: Am not ,u know is too late for me to come back to .... and u urself know is my biggest fear bcoz I don't like coming here but u make me come back,is too late. Even wen u always tell me to go,I will still wait but u make me come back to my fear It is too late.
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: ...will start school on Monday here and just take responsibility of it, if u don't want to loose ur son too.

Waterbear:
Igbos initiated?
Seems someone doesn't know his history