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Crime › Re: Woman Brutalized By Her Husband In Ondo, Lands In Hospital (Disturbing Photos) by UDUJ(m): 9:10pm On Jun 23, 2020
I don't know what transpired between them to result to this but I think as men we should learn to control our temper.

When a womans nagging is too much just quietly leave the house and go cool off somewhere and return when there is less heat. If the nagging and quarreling is now becoming a daily occurrence and you guys cannot stand eachother anymore then you guys should peacefully part ways and if you have kids come up with an arrangement for upkeep et al.

Life is too short to be constantly unhappy
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri To Provide Free Bus Rides For Nigerians Ahead Of Elections by UDUJ(m): 4:01pm On Feb 18, 2019
QuickStandard:
He said irrespective of who you're voting for
Cool
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri To Provide Free Bus Rides For Nigerians Ahead Of Elections by UDUJ(m): 3:33pm On Feb 18, 2019
KikBuhari2Daura:
2019 Presidential Elections: Reno Omokri To Provide Free Bus Rides For Nigerians

Former Presidential Aide Reno Omokri has pledged to provide free bus rides for Nigerians intending on travelling to vote after last week's postponement. The best selling author in several tweets wrote :

1-I read on my TL many Nigerians who say they traveled to vote and were frustrated by the postponement and cant afford to travel again. God willing, I‘ll provide buses to and fro 4 of the geopolitical zones for such people IRRESPECTIVE of how you intend to vote #BusesForDemocracy

2-It is the intention of President @MBuhari, in instigating the postponement, to frustrate voters and cause a low voter turnout. We must not allow that to happen. I call on other wealthy Nigerians to help facilitate a high turnout by providing #BusesForDemocracy to ALL Nigerians

3-God willing, I‘ll provide modalities/logistics for the buses. I wish I was rich enough to provide buses to and from all the geopolitical zones, but for now my pocket can only afford 4 zones. But if you can help, please do something. Frustrate the frustraters #BusesForDemocracy

Source :https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1097488069803077632?s=19[/quote]I hope he will also provide bus rides for those going to vote APC? huh huh grin
Romance › Re: Closed by UDUJ(m): 8:34pm On Jan 17, 2019
marvin906:
those wire's for your head don dey spark again abi undecided

UDUJ,heendrix where you guy's
Hey bro. Happy New Year

Romance › Re: I Found This When I Checked My Girlfriend's Inbox! I'm Heartbroken! by UDUJ(m): 11:03pm On May 27, 2018
Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages.

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
________________
donstan18:
Did you just ask what you should do?

Well, you won't hear it from my mouth that you are foolish and stupid for asking such question.
grin grin The Boldfaced, donstan is even too polite. I feel like telling you harsher words angry

Grow up, move on. There is someone better out there angry

Romance › Re: The First Independant Woman: Adam's First Wife Lillith by UDUJ(m): 10:23pm On May 27, 2018
Ivorianaija:
You must be a shell of a man to not be able to go out and actually think, research, and consider new information.
If you say so.

Please read the text below and pay particular attention to the coloured boldfaces:

In an effort to explain inconsistencies in the Old Testament, there developed in Jewish literature a complex interpretive system called the midrash which attempts [/b]to reconcile biblical contradictions and bring new meaning to the scriptural text.

[b]Employing both a philological method and often an ingenious imagination, midrashic writings, which reached their height in the 2nd century CE, influenced later Christian interpretations of the Bible
. Inconsistencies in the story of Genesis, especially the two separate accounts of creation, received particular attention. Later, beginning in the 13th century CE, such questions were also taken up in Jewish mystical literature known as the Kabbalah.

According to midrashic literature, Adam's first wife was not Eve but a woman named Lilith, who was created in the first Genesis account. Only when Lilith rebelled and abandoned Adam did God create Eve, in the second account, as a replacement. In an important 13th century Kabbalah text, the Sefer ha-Zohar ("The Book of Splendour"wink written by the Spaniard Moses de Leon (c. 1240-1305), it is explained that:


At the same time Jehovah created Adam, he created a woman, Lilith, who like Adam was taken from the earth. She was given to Adam as his wife. But there was a dispute between them about a matter that when it came before the judges had to be discussed behind closed doors. She spoke the unspeakable name of Jehovah and vanished.
In the Alpha Betha of Ben Sira (Alphabetum Siracidis, or Sepher Ben Sira), an anonymous collection of midrashic proverbs probably compiled in the 11th century C.E., it is explained more explicitly that the conflict arose because Adam, as a way of asserting his authority over Lilith, insisted that she lie beneath him during sexual intercourse (23 A-B). Lilith, however, considering herself to be Adam's equal, refused, and after pronouncing the Ineffable Name (i.e. the magic name of God) flew off into the air.

Adam, distraught and no doubt also angered by her insolent behaviour, wanted her back. On Adam's request, God sent three angels, named Senoy, Sansenoy, and Semangelof, who found her in the Red Sea. Despite the threat from the three angels that if she didn't return to Adam one hundred of her sons would die every day, she refused, claiming that she was created expressly to harm newborn infants. However, she did swear that she would not harm any infant wearing an amulet with the images and/or names of the three angels on it.

At this point, the legend of Lilith as the "first Eve" merges with the earlier legend of Sumero-Babylonian origin, dating from around 3,500 BCE, of Lilith as a winged female demon who kills infants and endangers women in childbirth. In this role, she was one of several mazakim or "harmful spirits" known from incantation formulas preserved in Assyrian, Hebrew, and Canaanite inscriptions intended to protect against them. As a female demon, she is closely related to Lamashtu whose evilness included killing children, drinking the blood of men, and eating their flesh. Lamashtu also caused pregnant women to miscarry, disturbed sleep and brought nightmares.

In turn, Lamashtu is like another demonized female called Lamia, a Libyan serpent goddess, whose name is probably a Greek variant of Lamashtu. Like Lamashtu, Lamia also killed children. In the guise of a beautiful woman, she also seduced young men. In the Latin Vulgate Bible, Lamia is given as the translation of the Hebrew Lilith (and in other translations it is given as "screech owl" and "night monster"wink.

It needs to be remembered that these demonic "women" are essentially personifications of unseen forces invented to account for otherwise inexplicable events and phenomena which occur in the real world. Lilith, Lamashtu, Lamia and other female demons like them are all associated with the death of children and especially with the death of newborn infants.
Romance › Re: The First Independant Woman: Adam's First Wife Lillith by UDUJ(m): 10:03pm On May 27, 2018
Ivorianaija:
Who is the author? What are the sources? Are you aware that Wikipedia is a community driven website, which can lead information to be inaccurate? This could have been written by any regular person. Wikipedia is unreliable.
I am well read on religious doctrines. Please take this demonic stuff elsewhere. We don't need it here. Thanks.
Romance › Re: The First Independant Woman: Adam's First Wife Lillith by UDUJ(m): 10:00pm On May 27, 2018
Ivorianaija:
Lilith Was Banished By God For Being More Willful

Lilith is said to have been the first woman in the world and was created by God at the same time as he created Adam from the dust. It is said that Lilith was then banished and rejected by God after Adam complained that she was stronger and more intelligent than Adam and she would not obey the commands of Adam.

The character was not mentioned in the modern Bible we use today because the story was said to go against the tradition of the European catholic church in that women must obey a man and women were in a lower position than men.
The traditional Bible has gone through many religious filters to ensure that it loses some of the important sections and pieces. However, there is a part that has been left in it that suggests God created not only a man but a woman, both being from the dust instead of the woman being from the rib as it has been suggested in the modern Bible.

Catholic churches censored the apocryphal texts. Lilith had been a woman who had a character that was firm, and she was intelligent and seemed to be superior to Adam. However, Adam was more dominant in character and had a carnal appetite. In intimacy, Lilith demanded that Adam be on her, and she could be on him, but Adam refused.

This was said to have caused conflict and so there was a separation of the two and Lilith was banned by God when Adam asked. The apocryphal book of Genesis states “Why should I lie beneath you? He asked: I was also made with dust, and therefore I am your equal … As Adam tried to force her to obey, Lilith, angry, pronounced the name of God, and left.”

When Lilith was gone, God realized that Adam was all alone again and chose to make him a companion. This time in order to ensure that is companion would be obedient he took one of Adams own ribs and created Eve.

Eve was the second wife of Adam and in the Bible was said to be the one behind the sin of the forbidden fruit. Adam was said to have lived with Eve without issue until they both got expelled from paradise and this was when humanity in permanent sin started.

Lilith was the first woman, before Eve, to exist but she was more intelligent and rebellious and had a better character than man, so she was punished and censored.
Please be careful what you post here. Lilith is a Demon.

From Wikipedia: Lilith (/ˈlɪlɪθ/; Hebrew: לִילִית‎ Lîlîṯ) is a figure in Jewish mythology, developed earliest in the Babylonian Talmud (3rd to 5th centuries). Lilith is often envisioned as a dangerous demon of the night, who is sexually wanton, and who steals babies in the darkness.[1] The character is generally thought to derive in part from a historically far earlier class of female demons (lilītu) in ancient Mesopotamian religion, found in cuneiform texts of Sumer, the Akkadian Empire, Assyria, and Babylonia.
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 9:28pm On May 27, 2018
hopefulLandlord:
don't mean to rain on your parade though but you don't call a woman "Dashing"
Dashing is less commonly used to refer to women but it's not entirely wrong.

Dashing: Synonyms - make a striking appearance, attractive

May be I should have just said pretty or beautiful but those words feel too common to me.

Thanks for pointing that out. smiley
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 9:23pm On May 27, 2018
LivingFree:
I see the thread went to the dogs... I guess I came late tongue
Yeah you missed out on the good stuff
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 9:18pm On May 27, 2018
LivingFree:
There's 7b of us and growing... nature is just working with 'us' grin
Yeah. Is that you on your profile page? shocked

You are dashing wink
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 9:00pm On May 27, 2018
IamPlato:
...


Awon Baba fro The Girls.


Active Energetic Servicing Tonight
grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Class And Decency: The Royal Wedding. by UDUJ(m): 8:59pm On May 27, 2018
DrinkLimca:
Lol hahaha shades of the century...

I haff died..

[b]Ghanian ladies
are kind of intelligent. [/b]
She is very intelligent. I tend to pay particular attention to posts from Makydebbie and Ruthdaniels cause I always end up picking a thing or two. smiley
Romance › Re: A COUNTER Thread To Homosexuality Being Unnatural By Mhizblss by UDUJ(m): 8:50pm On May 27, 2018
lefulefu:
cheesy cheesy always on pink sneakers and pink extra tight micheal jackson jumping trousers cheesy cheesy..i know some straight guys dress up like this asper fashion scene but na gay attire and its one of their flags
some guys ignorantly apply lipstick on their lips and even eyebrow liner with the intention of looking more handsome but guy..if a gay notices u use a little makeup,he will stalk u cheesy
this one na few of their flags wey some guys dey ignorantly dey fly in the name of fashion cheesy
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin very very true grin grin
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 8:43pm On May 27, 2018
iamJ:
that's why lesbians scissors works well na grin that's what hopeful landlord is teaching that small girl, the outside of a woman's pussy is the real stimulator, na why sometimes after filling try and grind on that part and see how she go smile
True talk bro. Time to put it to practice tonight smiley
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 8:42pm On May 27, 2018
Ivorianaija:
Some women tend to fake their orgasms as a way to make their partner feel better. wink
grin Subtle diss, nice one.

You're lucky I am in a good mood today wink
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 8:37pm On May 27, 2018
iamJ:
some women climax by just riding, na why those virgins like horse riding

Google horse riding and climax and see cheesy
grin grin I just googled it, found stories of women who achieved orgasm just from riding a horse, interesting. We learn everyday smiley
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 8:35pm On May 27, 2018
Ivorianaija:
Notice I said "just" meaning it isn't the only way.
Good you cleared that up. Was starting to feel all my years of thrusting was all in vain grin grin
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 8:31pm On May 27, 2018
Ivorianaija:
Any contact with the clitoris is stimulating, whether it be a finger, a penis, a vagina, or even somebody's foot. The main purpose of the clitoris is just pleasure, which is not just produced through penis to vagina contact.
shocked Are you very sure about this? You mean thrusting will not make a woman climax? First time I am hearing this undecided
Romance › Re: A COUNTER Thread To Homosexuality Being Unnatural By Mhizblss by UDUJ(m): 8:29pm On May 27, 2018
lefulefu:
pray not to have an encounter with a lesbian.they are very aggressive with straight females..how do i know? One of friends was telling me about a lesbian who was stalking her. The babe was threatening her and all for her to give in to her. I didn't believe her until she showed me her whatsap chats. This is a girl that knows her. It was not until we threatened to report the police on her that the lesbo left d poor girl alone. Unlike for we guys .. A gay dude is always extra careful in approaching a straight guy. Its only when a straight guy flies their flag ignorantly that they come callingcheesy.
grin cheesy Lefu how does a straight guy fly his flag ignorantly and in the process gets the attention of gays?
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m):
iamJ:
Uduj u're wrong oga, even B4 porn existed there were gays

Hitler was gay, some people don't just like women is not a big deal jor, people should stop looking at it like an abnormality it's their nature, there are things u like that people don't like, even the way people have sex, some people like girls that are Tomboys, some like fat girls, some like ugly girls spit, some like s&m


People should be allowed to enjoy what they like
grin grin At the bold faced, no arguments there Oga. cheesy

That was why I started my write-up by saying I meant no offence. The truth is the whole homosexuality talk is one that will never end as both sides will never give in. smiley
Family › Re: Is It Necessary To Have Children Or Make A Good Marriage Instead? by UDUJ(m): 7:37pm On May 27, 2018
Rubbiish:
U really look like those America hip hop artist...like 50 cent, Lloyd banks & d likes...i am sure u are a hip hop fan...
grin Yeah I get that a lot bro
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 7:34pm On May 27, 2018
I say this as someone whose view may be lacking some understanding on the subject, so I mean no offense for my assumptions.

You see the world is changing and there’s a reason to why everything is happening. I do think being gay is a mental issue, here's how I got to the conclusion:

Now, while you read this try to understand what I meant because I’m not trying to offend/insult anyone -

A lot of our human norms and needs evolve as we grow and one of the things that do is our sexuality. In this process of the evolving of our sexuality, things can be altered and different results will show up. In terms of sexuality, many things play a role in altering someone's sexuality. A great example would be an early access to pornographic material and the subsequent mind play it brings.

This is just a simple example, another example would be the many prisoners that turn gay during their time in jail with no access to a different sex, their sexuality had to go somewhere.

This is a tough one but there’s a reason why the percentage of gay people in the world is increasing everyday compared to say 20 years ago. It's not because the world population is increasing. There isn’t really a specific reason other than sexual redirection that I am aware of.

But in the animal world you have aphenomenon where 1 in 10 rams are gay or 3 in 10 penguins etc. That’s a very interesting fact (I suppose). This starts the argument that being gay is a natural thing and not a misdirection of sexuality.

Some animals have shown homosexual behaviours even when the different sex is around. And that's even more interesting.

Is this the case?

I would argue the contrary. Animals do stuff extrictly for their physical and emotional survival. How? A bear mom would leave her kids if she’s sure there's no way of running away. A chicken eats her egg if it couldn’t find any food. Female spider kills and eats male spider after mating. Etc.

But why would an animal have a same-sex partner if the opposite-sex is around?

I think it's more of an animal's simple instincts to do things, some animals like wolves have only one partner through their lives even if the other died. And they can be over-programmed too. A dog that used to enter a door after the owner opens the glass door. One day the glass door was open, the dog waited outside until the owner actually closed it and re-opened it in view of the dog

This means that some animals are wired to do stuff in a way that don’t change. And if this programming got altered this results in weird behaviours.

For example, when female spiders eat their mates, they do it because during the process of their evolution something changed in a way that forced their brains to break the rules because they couldn’t find an alternative. Therefore when the natural process of evolving gets altered weird results show up.

But the above example can’t apply to humans because the evolving disruption of the natural process of sexual evolution happens in someone’s life not during the early evolution. Why? Because the number of gay people is increasing each year.

This does not necessarily prove that being gay is a mental illness, although I prefer calling it sexual misdirection. From my little understanding this proves that the increase of gay people isn’t linked to a biological fact but to altering of a man/woman’s sexual nurturing process. However the existence of gay people isn’t all linked to that but part of evolution.

Conclusion: There are gay people because of evolution, but being gay doesn’t mean you’re born with it, it just means your sexuality was being altered in the background. smiley
Family › Re: Is It Necessary To Have Children Or Make A Good Marriage Instead? by UDUJ(m): 7:16pm On May 27, 2018
Rubbiish:
Sir is that u @dp?
Yes, why?
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 6:39pm On May 27, 2018
OneSentence:
the first thing we must all accept is that it is an abnormality irrespective of the cause, whether a person is born like that or whether it's by exposure or genetic...it is an abnormality. it might not be a person's fault that he/she is like that but it is a deviation from the norm.
The bold faced, that's just what I've been waiting to read. Good one smiley

Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 6:29pm On May 27, 2018
Henkor:
I came across a post on the homepage regarding the "unnaturalness" of homosexuality. The post was predicated on the assertion that nobody is born gay, and this claim seemed to be well subscribed by lots of the people who viewed the post, despite the fact that majority of the arguments made in favor of this claim emerged from a place of rational muddiness, insufficient knowledge, and weren't put forward in a particularly convincing fashion.

I created this post in order to have a civil and open minded conversation with Mhisbliss, so that I can really understand her position, air my disagreements and see if we can both enlighten ourselves on this slippery subject.
There is something called Hume's Guillotine. It's also known as the naturalistic fallacy or the is-ought problem.

Very simply put, just because something is the way it is, doesn't mean it ought to be that way. What is viewed as "natural" is not moral guidance.

Other moral guidelines are not based on what's natural, why think this is any different?
Family › Re: Is It Necessary To Have Children Or Make A Good Marriage Instead? by UDUJ(m): 6:24pm On May 27, 2018
[quote author=mistyebby post=67925892][/quote]Thanks dear. I hope you're doing good!
Romance › Re: A Conversation With Mhisbliss On The Subject Of Homosexuality. by UDUJ(m): 6:23pm On May 27, 2018
IamPlato:
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