₦airaland Forum

nick50:
Respect is reciprocal...u will be having an ordinary argument with a woman the next thing na hot slap u go get from her n she will continue boasting that if u argue more she will slap u more n got u locked up in a police cell..dear men this is getting too much I think women all over d world should be lectured on how to address n treat a man...remember d bible/koran said..if someone slap u that u should slap them back twice I have never seen were it was written in d bible DAT if d person DAT slapped u is a woman that we should see her as a weaker sex and run away...revenge is sweet

this woman also a man thing is something I NEVER SUPPORT.

Hollywood has conditioner women to believe that it is okay to slap men anyhow
That is to blame to an extent

no one should also anyone

once it gets to that level

I don't pity the woman anymore.

You punch and hit and attack a man?

whatever comes out of it, you take it (if he is ready to forgive or not)

but then
If a man comes out of the blues hitting you
That is wrong

pkang:
Man no beat woman but women should try to respect men.

You have said it all

erico2k2:
Oga no need 4 this plenty grammar, all I asked for is tell us why you think you were treated differently to another passport. The fact is this, you only know your own case and your case is not a yardstick to measure others, I travel with my Nigerian passport a lot back in the days, you are checked asked same damn question as they will ask everyone else. The fact is this, a fraction of Nigerians travel with no intention of coming back, it is at this point and the few that these immigration controls tend to be an issue,If you watch UK and Australian border force in TV you will get the gist.No need talking about the Nigerian passort etc, you get same treatment as you would have with any visa controled nation.

no need for plenty grammar and you end up talking even more grammar

your own experience is equally not a yardstick to judge others, based on your own logic.

I have been profiled at the point of entry in different occasional (not all the time tho) and those of us here with similar experience can relate

Okay let me give you an instance

have you been taken to a holding room before and your currency scrutinised one by one because they assume that every Nigerian carries fake currency?
yes indeed, I had that experience

how about when we were asked to identify ourselves in a residential complex where me and my friend's rented to stay short term, and on identifying the three of us as NIGERIANS, we were taken to station for further questioning

tho they were polite and professional, and later apologised (apparently there was a jacking in the area and someone must have reported)
the stress and discomfort was too much.

those are just two experiences of more.
I have been denied a rental because I'm Nigerian too (filled it in my application and that was it)

You are our of touch with current happenings so I will not blame you, YOU ARE PROBABLY ABOVR 40 years and look old and
only old people don't get profiled as much

but if you are a man looking 35 below, chances of profiling IS HIGH.

since you insisted on my experience, I have given you two

PetroDollax:
nigerians have had their time. This is Ghana's time, whether nigerians like it or not

had their time to do what?

PetroDollax:
look, you don't have any right to impose your beliefs and ideas on me,right? you believe in pan-Africanism,right? so stick with it. some of us don't and we are entitled to feel that way. That is the reality you have to live with. stop using terms like silly, wrong etc. they are totally needless and uncalled for

on

believe what you want to

Ofemannnu:
You Igbos are too sentimental and emotional.You read meanings... negative meanings into things just too much.
If somebody curtseys,he becomes a slave,somebody becomes president,the others are slaves,celebrate successful prople,ah they have overlooked only Igbos and all sorts of foolish and unimportant rantings.Every group has its criminally minded people but a lot of people are ashamed the way Igbos have taken drug business to a new height that there is almost no passing day that you do not hear of one Igbo person being caught.Yorubas,Edos,Hausas etc all have criminals but Igbos are top notch and it is a shame to everybody.
What will you say about Prof Ellis,a white man who mentioned your names and villages in related to hard drugs,crimes etc.


https://www.researchgate.net/publication/28650775_West_Africa's_International_Drug_Trade

profiling Igbos as criminals is the fav past time of many Nigerians

You know it, hence the backlash.

when others get caught, they are treated as individuals
If an igbo man gets caught, it must have some thing to do wity him being IGBO

That is how many think and you know it, and you also know that it is wrong.


double standards must end in this country

YoungAncient1:
This was what she should have done in the first place. Refer to them as Nigerians shikena. No need for names.

Now everybody wants a pound of flesh.

exactly

she made the mistake and set that precedence

Knowing how Nigerians are sensitive to such issues

she should have been more tactful

but it's too late for all that.

we need to stop making everything abt tribe

grandstar:
Omohayek

Have you lived in a white country as an adult for a year as an adult?

I was in the UK in 2014 and I asked a Romanian about Polish people and he said he didn't like Polish people. And this was general among Romanians.

Northern Ireland is split between the Catholics (who are Irish) and the Protestants (Anglican descendants of the British colonisers). They just barely tolerate each other.

The Brits want to leave the EU because of the massive amount of immigrants who came from Eastern Europe searching for work.

I know that...

compare with what is going on in nigger Africa

and btw who is omohayek?

good
why can't Africans at least try to work out things/tolerate each other
na to destroy each other them sabi

Dangote cannot operate in Benin and that same Benin exposed and allowed China to operate freely and charge more

I wanted to set up some thing with some partners in an African country I will not name
the same thing that they encourage the Lebanese and more recently the Chinese to do, they nail we Africans for it

I just abandoned the idea to set up in a friendlier place (CIV )

If the roles were reversed, You really think a Chinese will skip his neighbours to favour an African?
or a European would?

people like you find it difficult to accept
but black folks have programmed themselves to destroy each other

it's what I have experienced and currebtjy experimenting

GraGra247:
Till a thousand years, I still wonder what he saw in that girl. Nothing stricking or outstanding about her.

Well her luck. Enjoy while it lasts.

That is why it is love

she does not have to be outstanding

grandstar:
It's in all races. Hitler saw the Germans as a super race and looked down on fellow white Polish people as second class.

The white Serbians started ethnic cleansing to kick out white Croats and Muslims from their lands.

In early 20th century America, the Italians and the Poles did not get on. Neither did the Irish with the italians
.
Also in early 20th America, Germans Jews did not get on with Polish Jews

It's in virtually all races. It will never end.

its in all races my black arse.

The Berlin conference in 19th century had them sit and share Africa IN PEACE among themselves
western Europeans see themselves as one in Europe and all whites see themselves as one in the USA, with a few skirmish

Africans on the other hand have decided to fracture themselves in America (AA, Afro carib and Africans on each other neck) and even in Africa we all in each other neck
we can't even share allocations or do things without going at each other throat

the zero sum mentality in black man has destroyed him

there are some bickering in other ethnic groups

But black folks is the WORST.
Look at what Is going on in Nigeria
in Burundi
what happened in Rwanda
etc

the allies had to form a common front to neutralise Hitler

When will Africans form a conmon front to neutralise a common enemy?

SunnyskyTG:
What we need in Nigeria is Reorientation & Enlightenment.

I believe this generation have been prepared for that, Enlightenment. I believe this generation have been prepared for Success, just that the Cosmic dark forces wanna sway our attention off the Heavenly Success.

In case you don't know, the Revolution have started already. I am currently training a number of 15 Nigerians into Financial, Moral & Attitudinal Freedom. As this Nigerians are getting freed up, they'll be involving other Nigerians, Africans in the Freedom process.

Let a Nigerian out there remain Positive!

you have said it all in your first paragraph

PetroDollax:
Blame your nigerian folks. Nigerians have been spiteful of other Africans for as long as I can remover. They think they are the best, yet the most useless you know President Nkrumah was a for3most pan Africanist,right? What did Ghana get out of that. Forget about all this “we are all Africans crap”.

your last statement is VERY wrong and silly

If Africans continue to be stupid and bicker against each other, our common oppressor (or will I say exploiter ) will continue to have a field day at our expense

too bad Africans don't realise that.

vaxx2:
Am a dual citizen's of both country . What i detest is chest beating from my fellow Nigerians

it's painful

musicwriter:
You're actually right on shortermism being our natural problem. I think Obasanjo warned Buhari sometime ago to beware of shortermism.

However, I wasn't blaming white people for that but for the additional mental damaging issues caused by new language, education, new God that they brought us.

the world is a jungle
everyone is out to exploit the weak

A language was imposed on you, how is that a problem ?
there are African countries where you rarely hear people speak/understand English /French, YET are still shithole

Mali and some countries in the COMESA region comes to mind

about the education, I think we need to stop calling it 'western education" but formal education because that is what it is really. the education is an embodiment of the worjd knowledge put together, not just "western people"

That said, if Africans were serious, we should have adapted formal education to suit our needs
how hard can that be?
but then, black man is not interested

Why don't we have a physics curriculum in say igbo or Yoruba?
we might speak and be well educated in English; but we can design these I indigenous things to support(but hey, black man no send; he wants to enjoy; fvck his wife and go to sleep )
about the religion aspect, India was colonised and they NEVER see their religion as inferior
it id seen at par if not higher than others.

and the malevolent nature of these local religions sent people away from it too (Arusi et al)
Foreign religion is not our problem either
many south Koreans are now embracing Christianity

Africans in general ARE not serious people

Look around you, how many people ARE actively searching for knowledge and answers /solutions the way you do?
how many?
when you talk about things we have to change, how many even pay you audience?

That answers it...



And lastly, another damaging thing in Africa is the skewed risk reward system that us bizarre that has plagued Africa for centuries

if you are interested in knowing more, just indicate interest
I will drop it later in the day as I'm a big busy ATM

grandstar:
I'm apolitical and actually wanted to bypass this thread.

Being as apolitical as possible, Nigerians have no agenda. They are just there to make money but sadly, some bad eggs have taken some bad traits from here there. This is just sad.

One of the worst traits is pride. Many still look down on Ghanaians as the paupers in the past who came to Nigerian in order to keep body and soul together.and have something to send to family back home.

In my primary school, virtually all my teachers were Ghanaians. They were good teachers but they flogged a lot which I detested.

The Ghanaian economy won't collapse if we left there.. It's all hubris. However, I know expulsion of Nigerians isn't what you seek but for them to be law abiding.

The real problem is the bad state of the Nigerian economy which has led to the exodus of many to other countries for greener pastures. Nigeria's and Ghana's per capita may soon be the same. If care isn't taken, the Gucci shoe may be on the other foot

indeed...

but still, this bickering among black folks is terrible

vaxx2:
You are speaking more or less like an ignorance now. Where were Nigeria in 1975 and 1983 when Ghana face one of the most hardship of life? GHANA economy is not at the mercy of Nigeria but in the hands of competent management of Ghanaian leader.

How many Nigerians were able to deposit a million dollar capital investment when Ghanaian authority ask forienger to do so when your shops and work was close down last year? Instead, you run to abuja to tell your leaders, Ghanaian goverment are not following the ecowas protocol. If Ghana authority can close your shop without a sign of worries, To deport you lots will be much more easier.

The exchange of cash between south africa and Ghana is far greater than what is obtainable from Nigeria.

all these back and forth and bickering amongst Africans is just sickening

we should be ashamed

PetroDollax:
Who are the “we”? Speak for yourself? Do you represent every Nigerian? Even within your own family, can you vouch for everyone? don’t say things you don’t know,huh?

how do you the agenda id every Nigerian

have you met all Nigerians?

musicwriter:
British people don't know the damage they've done to people in their former colonies. Your ancestors came to a land and gave them a new language, education, new God. And you expect those people to act normal?

How would we act normal with an imposed mentality? This's particularly interesting to me because once I researched the cause of our problem in Africa, I realized it wasn't corruption so I stopped blaming corruption. We're operating on a wrong frequency as a people. In fact, if you abruptly stop corruption for a month, Nigeria would stop working for a while until the new mentality is absolved.

Corruption is merely a by-product of wrong language, wrong education, wrong God. The colonized nations are now disoriented population acting against their own interest. That's why corruption and, in fact, all other problems. See book on my signature.

Now, I am not saying the message is wrong. Indeed, the message is right!. Neither am I blaming white people for our own inability today to clean up the mess. While the message is right but the messenger is wrong. Britain has no moral ground to talk about corruption in any of their former colony because corruption in Nigeria is traceable to them. This may be complicated for some to understand.

You want to blame the foreigners for the foolishness of the African again?


una sef

The key problem is the MENTALITY that is prevalent In Africa which has always been there prior to European incursion and even after they packed their kaya and left

African man is a SHORT TERM thinker and does not plan for the future, from the family unit to the govt level
That is the problem we have always had.

If we can KILL that PROBLEM and we start planning LONG TERM You will see changes


when others are doing their thing, they take a long term perspective but Africans?

Okay okonjo iweala came with that idea of a Medium Term Expenditure Framework.
The plan was to start from a three year framework, expand it to 5 then we can even do ten long into the future

What was the reception to that plan?
Do you hear anything about the MTEF today?
from tgr current bastard we have In aso rock?

Long term thinking /planning is key

Rossikk:
Who is HE to talk about corruption in Nigeria??

He should ask his fellow British colonisers what they did with all the billions of pounds they made from 1897 to 1960, exporting our cocoa, rubber, tin, palm oil, groundnuts, coal, iron ore, timber, aluminium, etc etc, such that at independence in 1960 we were an underdeveloped bush with mass illiteracy, no major power station, no expressways, no major industry, and near zero infrastructure. In fact as late as the 1950s, our national football team travelled to England on a tour and played BAREFOOT because the colonial regime had starved them of basic funds for everything, and they'd never seen football boots...

The audacity of these people....

You have started again

ednut1:
Nigeria too hard abeg. If any business boom everyone rushes it till it casts. From cat fish to events center to mini import to uber. Haba na nigerians

na wetin dey tire me 4 Nigerians

herd mentality

Afospecialk:
Nigeria have every opportunities to diversify nd save for the raining days like this when oil price sells above $112 per barrel but they all squandered nd looted as many as they could nd we ar now expecting BUHARI to perform miracle over night with the current $75 price

One thing is certain. Let this sound clear to all our poloticians, including the current nd ex and just elected nd all millionaires nd billionaires in this country that If we face further or another recession they ar all dead and all their children nd their investments home nd abroad will go for it. We will show them that an hungry man is angary man. Bokohram nd militants nd bandit ar just child play compare to what. will happen if face further depression

hungry man is an angry man indeed.

Afospecialk:
Nigeria have every opportunities to diversify nd save for the raining days like this when oil price sells above $112 per barrel but they all squandered nd looted as many as they could nd we ar now expecting BUHARI to perform miracle over night with the current $75 price

One thing is certain. Let this sound clear to all our poloticians, including the current nd ex and just elected nd all millionaires nd billionaires in this country that If we face further or another recession they ar all dead and all their children nd their investments home nd abroad will go for it. We will show them that an hungry man is angary man. Bokohram nd militants nd bandit ar just child play compare to what. will happen if face further depression

I hope you know that buhari is largely to blame for Nigeria mess

his policy mistakes of 2016 is what is biting the country today

PetroDollax:
They are deluded monkey. Don’t mind the fools. The Nigerians have an agenda in Ghana. They know Ghana is considered peaceful, very peaceful, while their country is in a mess. So what they want to d, ido, is to send nigerian agents to Ghana to cause massive violence and portray Ghana as an unsafe place. Ghanaians should be very very careful with these nigerians. Most of them are evil and have evil intentions towards Ghana.

we have no such agenda

platinum131:
Most of the people making comments are just ignorant....no names mentioned...no proof...and some idiots who claim to be Nigerians are accepting the blame... do you think there are no cases of rituals smong Ghanians?
Other African countries are looking for excuses to kick Nigerians out from their country....you think they know or care if you are from the East,West or North?
A house divided against itself will never stand...

the bad eggs in Ghana have been committing serious crimes.
its a fact that those of us who know, know.


You need to come see things 4 yourself

erico2k2:
Please do you have 1st hand experience? or are you talking about that Bus trip to Ghana??

I'm talking of my travel experiences overtime, and not just a bus trip to Ghana (what does a bus trip I took years ago have to with anything tho?)


and yes, I have had first hand experiences about how this $hithole passport I use, or the mere fact that I'm Nigerian has exposed me to so much discomfort

the fact I even have to apply for a visa to go to certain countries when my.colleagues could just waltz in there is yet another discomfort for me

If you don't experience profiling or whatever, you should thank God for that.

But denying what others go through id disingenuous.

Triniti:
Chaii, Nigerians don finally cast Kasoa. The raid that will take place that axis this coming week will be enormous, how can I go see my babe out there again? 40/40 and London bar will so vacant these days

You guys should link up at hot gossip NA for osu side

You better no need kasoa

Mk93:
I'm summary our politicians only speak when money is not flowing their way while my fellow citizens attack each other defending them on Twitter

No mind them

Marotzke:
Indomie generation will not know DAT one na!
Ali Baba wey go live with Patricia Leon from Trinidad and Tobago ,along with her four children dey service her ,dey do boy boy work .
Na him fey preach now?
Tomorrow sef, RMD go join.

what does all that have to do with any thing?

Donald95:
This is the cause of Xenophobic attacks. Nigerians are good at paying back people that helped and accommodated them with Evil.

this is so shameful

afroniger:
Smh. It seems some ghanaians are becoming hostile toward Nigerians. I heard a lot of them blaming Nigerians for rising crime in their communities during a news report on one of their local stations.

they are largely right

Hmajeed:
Things are hard in Nigeria has always been the excuse for kidnapping, yahoo yahoo etc

You migrated to Ghana and still commit the same atrocities

The problem is more about the people than the economy

the unfortunate truth

chiedozie198100:
u r one of the empty barrel fools recruited by the unseen forces to social engineer the feeble minded to believe that any form of decadence is acceptable.

see how stupid u sound? it's ur daughter's choice to litter ur family with kids she got from different men that she is not even married to any of the men?

and u think if u write that last line of igbo language, then u have made any form of sense?

anu mpam.

look at this one

it's still her choice to make and THAT IS THE TRUTH

You can raise your child how you want, but when she comes of age, SHE MAKES HER CHOICES

and if you don t realise that, then you are on a long thing

You really think you can control the choices of your child in his/her say 20s for example?

You are JOKING