₦airaland Forum

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, the guy is right, once you show your Nigerian passport to immigration at different point of entry, border officials look at you like could these guy be clean or he might be a yahoo plus, yahoo minus, yahoo square root or a drug trafficker, Nigeria passport don cast globally, it is placed on the same pedestal with that of failed states like Afghanistan, Yemen, Syria, South Sudan and Libya, it is done and dusted for Nigeria passport in this present generation, nonsense

I'm working towards doing something about the passport

even DANGOTE complains about the passport

I watched the interview with Mo Ibrahim on a friends system.

and I was like

so if Dangote can complain
yet one punk ass nairalander is shouting "naija 4 life"

I just pity that person

matify83:
Our passport and her bearers have always been subjected to ridicule and dehumanizing searches since the late 1980s.

Check your history notebook !

so what is your point?

Does it invalidate what he is saying?


Nigerian passport is one document I REGRET using

my children will not partake in this shame of a passport

story of my life

Khd95:
Somebody is already complaining that he's stingy, the same people that are advising Floyd to spend his money wisely, else he go broke

This life sef

naija people logic dey tire person

Kendumazy:
Sleep box has been in existence for a very long time. Good, he thought of building one for his wife. Men, learn how to support and care for your wife. My uncle and I once met a man, her husband and 5 kids at the airport. Very beautiful woman, if they told you that woman had given birth. You won't believe. Beautiful woman with nice body. The man and my uncle started talking about politics, from there, my uncle told the man his wife has a nice body structure and beautiful. Na there, the man told my uncle the secret, giving her all necessary support he can and best of all is peace of mind. That's the result of the beauty and nice body you are seeing. You treat your wife like a slave at home sotey she looks like a rag, you see another man wife which the man has worked hard to make his wife beautiful, you dey like am.
Since then, my uncle had been taking good care of his wife. If he sees a lady putting on a nice dress and it's beautiful. Instead of admiring the lady, he will also look for that dress or something similar and buy for his wife. In one of his statement. Those dresses even looks more beautiful on my wife than those girls.

that man sabi wassup

xyz123456:
Yes. Absolutely. Do your study and come with your research. It's even basic. That's why they blackmail sex for money . How many women day pay for sex?? Women can cope without sex more than men. Fact

not in my personal experience tho

all the women (or let me say most) were open to sex just as I was, and in a few cases, even more open than I was.

A woman will inhibitions due to cultural / upbringing issues (like its conmon in conservative countries like NIGERIA ) will be less inclined to embrace her sexuality

But like I said, its my personal experience

I had no business with prudes

xyz123456:
You can't just dismiss marriage experience. Like anything in life, experience is very very important. Just take a look at your life and you will see so many opinions you have changed based on experience.
So, until you have spent 10 years in marriage, you might not fully understand what we are saying.

I won't blame men like you 100% for wanting to ne polygamous tho

The women we marry (especially women in Nigeria) share the blame for this.
And when that is the case, I would not blame men in that circumstance who want to try outside

You want to know how wives are to blame?
it's something you know already

xyz123456:
It always surprises me how you ladies think you know about Men/ Or how Men feel. You ladies are just not considerate. You always view life from your own perspective. Men loves sex. They really love it far more than women. Just like an average Women love their children more than an average Men, An average men love sex more than an average Women. So the difference between the age of me and my wife is a year. If i get to 60 and my wife is 59, How do I cope?? She must have reached menopause by around 50 years and will no more be interested in sex. Even if she tries to do it, its no more enjoyable. And the fact is most men cannot do without sex or else we are being hypocritical.

So forcing a Man not to like sex, or have same orientation as woman is like forcing a woman not to like children or have the same feelings a Man has for his child. Its different. We are different specie. We are not the same at all. Na oyinbo dey spread all this nonsense. The earlier we understand, the better for society. Or else there will be continous adultery...

And yes, we are polygamous in nature. Any Man that disagree is either newly wed (At least 10 years in marrage) or weak sexually (very few) or just being hypocritical

men like sex FAR more than women?

That is a new one in hearing

xyz123456:
Men like @Ugosample probably have not been married, so they have very little experience..... In USA that practices monogamy, thy have up to 50% divorce rate

what does my marital status have to do wity anything?

the high divorce rates in the USA has nothing much to do wity monogamy
and kind you, Nevada is an American state, and polygamy is legal there go figure

We have so many dysfunctional marriages in NIGERIA, and its the societal chain that is still keeping so so many marriages.

the moment Nigeria become more liberal (it's here already) you will see more and more dysfunctional marriages crashing in Nigeria.

Multiple women in a man's life is not the best

but its a free world

every man to his own

and get ready for the consequences in future

franchasng:
Any guy hating or condemning this is a FOOL!

Pray to be successful. Every successful man is polygamous, whether publicly or secretly. Some marry multiple wives publicly while some prefer to keep them secretly as concubines and mistresses! So ladies before u desire to marry a rich man, have it in mind or go and marry the broke guys and make sure he remains broke all his life so he won't cheat and so he will be sexing only u very well like a robot

No rich man on earth can swear that he is sleeping with only his wife, I repeat no rich man worth at least 50million can swear that or else he will die

Women are created to satisfy men and keep men company, and so they are created to look appealing to men's eyes, they have different body structure and looks, so beauty is not for men.

If you are a guy reading this and u always waste your time trying to get twelve packs or trying to compete in good looks with ladies, u are a failure, go and focus on making money, u as a man, u are not created to look aesthetic & cute (don't let all these teenage girls & ugly old ladies of easy virtue deceive u ), u are created to look rugged, tough, smart and your beauty is your wisdom, your talent, your ability to create wealth and to provide enough money and comfort for your loved ones; your parents, kids, wives, siblings, friends, relatives, community, society and concubines + well wishers.

As a guy, if u focus so much on looking hot and handsome like ladies, u will most likely end poor and struggling because u will become lazy, shy to work hard, ashamed to till the soil to make wealth, u will rely on your looks to get you women of easy virtue which will make u become comfortable and feel like u have achieved your goal in life.

Guys stop wasting time on trying to outshine ladies in looking physically handsome, go and make money and u will enjoy life even at old age.

Sade Okoya, Bianca Ojukwu, Aisha Buhari, etc are all living happy life, and they all married men way older than them, or u prefer they ended up poor and their families struggling in the name of marrying one broke guy for love

Nonsense!!!

Regina carry go, soon they will forget about your story and face their mumu lives, enjoy and please make sure you help uplift your entire family members from poverty, that's important.

Love ko, love ni, as if her mates will love her better, when they will be busy cheating around with other girls in the name of fine boys, bullcrap

....and to the ladies, keep rejecting those hardworking guys coming your way because of their looks and keep accepting lazy handsome guys because u feel they look hot and will be hot in bed, las las fine boy will put food on you people's table while the wise ladies make their own wise decisions, keep searching for 13 packs ladies, Regina has gone for own 2 packs

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Imagine one of my very rich friend who is completely single saw this pretty young girl from a very poor family and was trying to marry her, the girl refused, what was her reason That my friend doesn't look hot and handsome, we learnt through someone she confided in. This is a girl of 22yrs whose parents are struggling to pay her school fees oh, and this guy would have changed her family story to testimony she refused cos she want fine boy.

Guys guess who she ended up with months later

One very broke, no future ambition handsome boy forming, trouser sagging lazy guy learning how to do yahoo yahoo, ah the day I saw this was the day I knew that many ladies are their family's problem and their own problem in life, they use poverty swear for some women sha, ladies pls continue following lazy handsome guys with 20 packs

I agree with most of your point tho

as it potrays the reality in Nigeria


but I don't agree 100 % with a few points

Monaco2:
For what it’s worth, they look happy

Truth is most people are hypocrites cuz most of these girls bashing her will do same if d opportunity comes their way, some of these girls will sleep with older men for as little as 3000, so wu are u to judge n same goes for the guys, some of the guys bashing her are in their thirties n dating a twenty years old girl some even date teenage girls so wats d difference , besides if u don’t know her there is no way u could guess that she is a teenager cus she looks like someone in her twenties let’s not forget that she is an adult n at liberty to do wat she likes

you have spoken well

Amakavula:
Leave her alone ooh. You small boys can't afford her services.

Ned Nwoko can and is getting return for his investment.

My only pain here is how she passed it off as Nollywood hustle, deceiving everyone.

lmao

ifyalways:
Nothing can be more tacky
And its mostly fake designers. Tacky, fake, cheap and wack.

Im a hater. .. of mgbekezm

lmao @ mgbekeism and iberibeism

no blame our bloda na...

meobizy:
See them, lazy youths. There is never trolling in soccer threads. That shows where our priorities are as a nation. Yet we wonder why this country goes nowhere.

it's a shame

Resurgent2016:
When a country suffers from dead leadership, no where is safe anymore

exactly

Iamicekid:
Their is nothing wrong if my wife have all her properties in her name and I will even have her use our kid as the next of kin not me but what is bad is me not knowing where her property are or trying to hide it from me

you might want to cancel kid from your username

because you sure DO NOT reason like one.

That last statement is the punchline

when couples start hiding assets from each other...

that's not a good omen

But your arrangement is tight too

Jointly owned properties are the best

Kendumazy:
Imagine! Foreigners on Nairaland reading about the bad things happening in this country would just be like "is that really a country or a war zone" smh. Maybe it's high time the Nigeria police needs to go to 1 year mandatory reorientation on civil rights and civil laws.

Nigerians are the ones exposing themselves

odehaj:
When I saw the headline I knew couldn’t be Nigerians because marriage is divine here.

What is divine about Nigerian marriage

mozona:
cool...
the pix portrays the life of the rich.
living life at full... love it

you have said it all

meobizy:
For a fling, maybe. For a marriage a man wants a whole lot more.

not often the case
what makes you think this smoker don't have much more to offer,?
It has nothing to do with appearance tho

nothing wrong with that tho
you have your personally as well, not an appendage of someone else

Hedonini:
That pain/stress is far more bearable and immensely more dignifying than the shame of being emasculated and humiliated by poverty.

The way the system works in Nigeria means that a good name means absolutely nothing. For emphasis, absolutely nothing ... Unless accompanied with money. Not even your own family, not even the church/clergy, not even friends or foes... Nobody would appreciate your so-called good name steeped in poverty. Before your very eyes, they would all bow down to those with less good names, who happen to have loads of money.

wow

Nigeria has sunk that low

Iamgrey5:
First of all, Chairman Mao supervised the rebuilding of China after the war 2; he supervised the rebuilding of trains, power stations, establishment of an agricultural plan of which are many of those plans are cherished in modern China till date.

Xiopein didn't take over from Mao, he took over from Zhoi Len who already had a program for modernisation of China.

Premeir Zhoi was the one who started reform before been interrupted by the Gang of four.

Secondly, it goes back to my earlier point that Nigerian past administrations failed to transform the growth led by higher crude oil prices into economic development by constructing enviable infrastructural facilities.


Thirdly, on South Africa

Are you kidding me right now

Why will the government fail to privatise some utility companies because it doesn't want to sell to South Africa whites, who are South Africans anyway?!.

Government of South Africa doesn't want to sell untily companies like Eskom because

1) it fears that selling it will over expose the country to capital flight which is something similar to what MTN and Airtel is currently doing in Nigeria.


2) it fears that the sales will traslate to higher utility prices for the consumer. South Africa prides itself as a country able to provide some of the cheapest electricity charges in the world.

The South African Government even made sure South Africans (white or black) are major shareholders of the utility companies it managed to privatise.

Hence, it seems you are the one writing something out of your imagination here

Mao policy led to the death of millions of Chinese via starvation

are you sure you got your fact right?

That goes to show that many here got their figures mixed up

martineverest:
the headline shows op is poor mathematically.....our economy is larger than the entire west African countries,do u expect it to grow higher than smaller economics?

analogically,the growth rate of Switzerland,singapore,Korea etc economics is expected to be higher than those of USA, Germany,Japan,china and india

if u do the mathematical calculations,the growth in dollars of Nigeria economy could be larger than the entire growth of those west African economics

this is a VERY IGNORANT statement to make.

very IGNORANT

China's economy grows at a fastee rate than most countries on earth

and they are the second biggest

America economy grows faster than most economies in the eurozone

and the American economy is a behemoth


NIGERIA is led by a useless fool as a president

and that is what is reflecting In the economy

it's all clear

livinbygrace:
Money is money and almost all your leaders today made it by one shady deals or others.Stop this media trash.You can Take it to the market and confirm whether they will ask you either illegal or legal money.So not how you make money that matters but how you spends it.

okay then

suit yourself

but know this....

That saying

""A good name is better than riches" is still applicable, even in today's world (Nigeria)

You don't know the pain/stress of having your name linked with crime/shady deals.
it's not the best


but then, you guys in Nigeria don't care

chiedozie198100:
why dont you interview the kids and see how they like sharing one mom and multiple fathers.

only a sick fool like u will not see anything wrong with that.

oh, and being on minimum wage is actually not a crime. at least the last time i checked.

and u think she found her way to that office by mere harwork?

or do u think she was fvcking average joes?

she was not married to any of the men, and she was foolishly calling that polygamy. u have to be married to claim polygamy.

having a single mum and diffrent fathers is no big deal.

the children had no role to play in that

There is nothing there really

it's because you have not lived in Ghana b4 that is why you are shocked

I had a madam with 5 kids from two diffrent men; no big deal

aariwa:
Ghanaians are more liberally minded than Nigerians. A Nigerian, not to talk of the one in her position would rather die than say this

they are liberal with these things

not like yeye naija that every one issa hypocrite

davodyguy:
Sex is nothing in Ghana

you know what's up

livinbygrace:
These are some of the real men of the underworld back then.From crediting to wash wash but today they shouting their names up and down.We keep telling some folks here on social media to hursle anyhow and makes the money .Nobody cares how you make the money either legit or illegal.The most important is to invest the money wisely.

you encourage illegal money ?

chucsmoore:
Bros U won all these millions and U re still coming to Naira land looking for who to buy fixed or sure games at 50k or something. Common sense tells me anybody wey win this kind money would not bother to come to nairaland looking for who to sell games at chicken change compare to the money he has won. This idea of give me 20k to win 2million Naira is suspicious, I do not support it.

they are all thieves


Nigerians I know will NEVER reveal a good opportunity to make money just like

They, just like other Africans are wicked folks.

if it's not an avenue to exploit or cheat

it will be kept on the low

no mind these thieves

LeopardX:
Legit or fraud, the day you decide to become rich in Nigeria, you put aside tribal and religious differences and work for the greater good.
The greater good of your pocket of course!


And it's a fact. That goes to a long way to tell you that most the tribal and political warlords here on nairaland are economically frustrated people who are trying to have fun.
Most times if they are not in politics section, they are in travel section, looking for how to leave this country

Lmao


you are so right