₦airaland Forum

Babyvet:
Don’t mind him, I don’t know why immigrants especially Nigerians behave like him because they got citizenship in their host country. For those living in America, don’t worry Donald trump will make you remember where you come from.

IrokoOluwere:
Go to hell! Ipob

jmaine:
And your common sense is to give the lifeless one a second term...
What a sad news..

IrokoOluwere:
Bleep off_ Ipob

ivandragon:
so far, you are the only one who can see through the VP's mind games.

Munzy14:
Lmaooooo, a thread for zombie masturbation.
APC emptied our national wealth to settle where they borrowed campaign money of 2014. and set us into recession.
They have started another futile effort. Ordinary Nigerians on the street are the main deciders come nextyr. We will decide judging from what we have seen last 3yrs.
not online sycophancy.

princetom1:
. I thtoway cap for u sir... Keep it up

Igbokiller:
can u decipher any difference between ur two paragraphs up there

Igbokiller:
this fucking shit hole is the same place where u pray and dig to eat. Lest I forget I'm arguing with someone who has never left the shit hole border and so can't know majority of food stamp "government assistance" beneficiaries hate it.

Whats my own, it will definitely be drug smuggling at ur time of realization

tiredoflife:
So a church allowed them to wed without the traditional rites
Well na dem
Dey can marry without seeing parents
Its common in their tribe
But for a church to support this
And he is called a pastor
So for many years he has been fornicating yet he calls it marriage
No matter the talking terms he claims
A man must pay the dowry of a woman before u can say u are married

Neddyogu:
The courts or registry will issue certificate when customary laws have been fulfilled oo. Except u hire false witnesses to testify that u fulfilled customary laws.

mechanics:
wow, real love, if it were some ladies, they won't marry him, because he's broke, now the woman is really enjoying her marriage, that's to tell us that nothing is permanent, being poor is not permanent.

luluosas:
They were mere sex partners all this while, as there was never any marriage between them. In fact, they only cohabited. If you are living with a man and you have children for him, and he is yet to pay your dowry, just know that you are in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, you don't have any marriage my dear.
You will understand who you really are by the time the man dies. Draw that your boyfriend you called husband to go pay your dowry now. A word is enough for the wise

lefulefu:
so true. B4 i used to think that its only naija calebs who have crashed marriages but the rate i now see ordinary folks having crashed marriages here and there has really opened my eyes.

PastorDannie:
Both from d bible and our culture as Africans....

PastorDannie:
the entire 46 years they were not married.
The is no marriage without dowry...
OP they only co-habbited all those years.

lefulefu:
After 46 yrs together they are still together. True love. How many marriages of today in nigeria can even last two yrs. Even if its now he's paying the dowry he did it cos he loves and appreciates his wife.

oluwaseyi000:


Thumb up to the woman for sticking to the man she love despite him been poor and family pressure, something far away from this new generation ladies

And to some people saying they are cohabiting - NO THEY ARE NOT, he offered to pay the bride price but the IN LAW REJECTED it, and they went ahead on advice of their church to have A STATUTORY WEDDING, rather than killing their beautiful love because of some problematic inlaw

KingSatan:
This was when TRUE LOVE existed. Whenever I say "Older women have my respect" I believe you all now know why.

Sometime ago a New generation Nigerian woman trended online for saying "At this stage of my life, I will not marry a man without a car". I as Satan the Lucifer, I was shocked because that same lady is over 35 years and obviously depreciating. But there she was placing a "Liability" as prerequisite for marriage.





Congrats to the Husband and Wife.


Now to those reading my message. Marriage is the decision of the Man and wife. Do not frustrate intending couples with a great financial burden or bogus traditional rites. Allow them to live happily as man and wife. If they have made a decision then support them and stop demanding for 30 gallons of palm oil when you know deep inside your heart that you can't afford a drop of oil. A woman is not a commodity anymore.


The practice of bride price is archaic and barbaric (Though it's still evident in our various traditions). When such laws were enacted women never had any rights, some were seen as less humans or commodities to be sold. Instead of sending them to school, they train them on home chores and preparation of various dishes. These women were sold out according to their value in the guise of the Bride Price.

A bride should not have a price tag. She is not a commodity. She is a priceless jewel, a rare gemstone.


Let's advocate for the total annihilation of the Bride Price and the regulation of traditional marriage rites by the traditional heads in our communities. As this is the only solution to unlawful cohabitation.

If you so love your sister or daughter then support her decision to get married and do not demand any price for her. Wish her well and celebrate her. Make it clear to the groom that you are not taking any dime from him as your daughter is priceless and has a greater value than money.


Marriage is getting too expensive and it is a threat to lawful cohabitation.

omooba969:
Trash.

Your opinion doesn't count, better to mind your business & be positive.

Biglittlelois:
Op change your topic to "46 years of living together" they were never married, they were living in sin-fornication, without paying bride price or dowry any form of "marriage" is useless.

numbered:
Convince my fellow passengers to subdue one pilot,and then beg the other one to please fly the plane.

Igbokiller:
keep it up. The enlightened few knows.ur points keeps cracking me up if u haven't lived in America and have live experience in exploring most of us. Ur points are dead on arrival to me. Save, travel occasionally and get live experience not reading and watching the work of the media. Perhaps u would know why majority of Americans would say the rich gets richer and the poor gets poorer.

Igbokiller:
wtf. I know ur ur types too much. Can u give verifiable facts to support all those fantasy and assuming points u typed up there? Have u ever lived on the American side to support all ur points, do you know the amount of Americans thats lives on food stamps or coupons? I must be really dumb to try and talk reality into u. I only hope u have the chance to see the reality on the American side not what uwatch on the TV

Igbokiller:
all these assumptions from persons from portorportor side don't tire me. Tens of millions live on government assistance lol.hell of an ambiguous figure. Abegi save hard and travel to enlighten urself of life's reality not superglue urself to ur pauper region sticking to igwu selling without exploring the internet opportunities. Even small niggas at my side here get Change for pocket. Pauper my foot.

Nwadiuto247:
We are very ok with Obi. All these useless and selfish politicians should get out of the way biko.
If Atiku performs well let him do a second term. The main issue at hand is to make Nigeria work again. Let the country be restructured. Not Igbo President nonsense.

iammo:
when fashola openly gave strategy for Yoruba to capture power come 2023 their youths called us names, little did we know they secretly have similar plans only difference is atiku can never agree to single term,
loyalty and first allegiance always goes to your nationality/ethnicity in a multi-ethnic/nationality country it happened in USSR, it happened with the Irish, Scottish, welsh and British. Hypocrites should save us the bigot name calling B.S. 2019 all man for himself

Codedone:
I no won talk again

Igbokiller:
wtf. I know ur ur types too much. Can u give verifiable facts to support all those fantasy and assuming points u typed up there? Have u ever lived on the American side to support all ur points, do you know the amount of Americans thats lives on food stamps or coupons? I must be really dumb to try and talk reality into u. I only hope u have the chance to see the reality on the American side not what uwatch on the TV

Codedone:
Hehehe, me pained over you, am irrelevant stranger whose opinion are also irrelevant to the grand scheme of anything, really?
I really don't know what you want me to say to you, I already prayed into your life that d ideals u currently promote follow you into d home u will birth, If dat isn't supporting your ideals I dnt know what is, U've called my belief backward and I say is fine you dan call it watever you like, why are you still quoting me.

Codedone:
You can go around labeling everyone who doesn't agree with your mentality backward if dat makes you feel good about your choices, it doesn't matter because you as a person don't really matter.

All I needed from you was an Amen, Adios

Codedone:
Leave the backwards Africans, You, your hubby and your kids will also live a liberal life, Amin