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Take a look at these 12 signs that show if your boyfriend truly loves you and make your decision on where exactly is your position in his life and this will help you to be focused as to concentrate on the love or move on to secure a better relationship that has something positive to offer you.
Signs that show if your boyfriend truly loves you


1. Communication: If your guy really loves you, he will want to communicate with you at every point in time no matter what. He will talk more often to you than any other person in his life, even his friends will receive much less communication than he talks to you.

2. He gets captivated by you: Have you ever caught him in the act staring at you when you’re busy doing something else? It’s a sure sign that he really loves you and he want to get more of you and can’t wait till you’re free.

3 He can go all the way for you: if a man truly loves you, he can do all things for you to make you happy at all time even if it’s something he does not enjoy doing ordinarily. He can even go all the way with you to the market and help you in your shopping.

4 Together time matters to him:
A guy will go all the way to look for how he can spend more time with you than any other person in his life, spending time with his best friends or family will surely take a back seat and the time he’ll be spending with you will take the front seat.

5 The impression Continues: The impression he gave you that won you over will not stop after you’ve become his girlfriend, he will continue to make it happen again and again and even extend it to your family members as well.

6. He Loves hugging you: He will hug you for no reason at all and hold you more than a few seconds thanking you for being part of his life though he may not open his mouth to say this but right there in his mind he is making the statement.

8. Your thoughts always on his mind: He can’t stop thinking of you always because he has you as top priority in his life. For you to know this, call on his attention at times when you know he will be busy doing something elsewhere to come assist you in sorting something out, he will go all the way to come around and help you out.

9. He flaunts you: Because he loves you, he can talk about you in the presence of any damsel that he knew before and make you proud because he is sure of his love for you, something guys who don’t really love you cannot do.

10. He let out his secrets: He will share with you the secret he has never shared with anyone before, the secret that he’s afraid of telling his friends so that he will not be mocked. He will be opened to let you know those secrets because he trust and love you.

11. He’s not judgmental: He will not scold you even if you’ve done something wrong, he will just let you understand in a friendly manner what you have done and at times he may even try to pull your leg but is just to make fun of it.

12. He’s changed his world: If a guy truly loves you, he won’t mind changing his lifestyle all because of you, he can miss a crucial game of football that even you yourself know very well that he loves. He can as well miss a movie he wants to watch and put you first to attend to your need before his.


So, if you have a guy that does all these do not think twice about his love for you

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kingsmonology:
Is it relevant to know if your guy or girl loves you? I feel someone's heart is popping, because you agree with me. It is very important you know if he or she loves you, yea! As clarifies, love involved emotional predisposition and disposition. So, how then do I know if she or he loves me? By just reading on the below points, these will enable you to ascertain if he or she actually love you.

Is the person happy being around you?
If a person has had a very bad day but lights up when you come around, that's a sign of love. If he/she is in love with you then the sight of you or your voice is guaranteed to make him or her feel better. To be sure, see how s/he reacts the next time you show up when s/he was in a bad mood.

Does the person say "I love you" and means it?
If your romantic partner really loves you and tells you this much while looking into your eyes, sounding earnest, and not wanting anything from you, then it's likely that s/he really means it. If the person undeniably loves you, then s/he will say it for no reason at all, not just because s/he needs a favor or because it feels like the right thing to say. However, remember that there is a big difference between "Love yea!" and "I love you."

Can the person honestly be him/herself around you?
When someone loves you, he completely opens up to you. If you get to see a whole side of that person that he/she doesn’t show the public that may be a love sign. For instance, if your partner is pretty serious or polite in public, but shows a more goofy and silly side when you're alone, then she or he is really opening up to you and loves you. If the person shares his/her deepest emotions with you and is comfortable with it, then that is love. If the person is also being comfortable not looking perfect, tripping, or having food stuck in his or her teeth around you, that means s/he is okay if you see every side of him or her.

How does the person look at you?
There is that stir that someone gives you that melts your soul. You can check your loved one's face the next time you see him/her… does he/she look at you in a goofy, watery, silly and adorable way that can only be described as "godly-eyed"? You will know it when you see it. You won't get this look all the time — you can spot it in the morning, or randomly across the dinner table. You may also be able to catch the person staring at you with the same expression.

Does the person talk about your future together?
If the person talks about the future and always includes you in it, then there is a good chance s/he truly loves you because true commitment means seeing a forever with another person. If the person routinely talks about what you're going to do in the future, about what your lives will look like one, two, or even ten years in the future together, what your kids will look like, where you will retire together, or where you will go for your honeymoon, then he is probably in love with you.

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tizzyhands:
How to know a guy truly loves you
Signs he loves you truly insanely are the major signs to watch out for to know if he actually cherishes you deeply. Do most women want to be sure if their boyfriend truly loves them by asking them “do you really love me”? Others tend to ask, what really do you love or see in me that makes you get attracted to me?

Signs he loves you truly
Also, no woman wants to waste her precious time in a relationship that appears bleak or a guy who is doesn’t care in giving everything. I can assure you after reading this article, you’ll wish you had known this earlier to be certain that your guy truly loves you to the moon. Here are the 23 signs he loves you truly deeply:

He tends to distance himself from you

You might be thinking this is absurd but I can assure you it is one of those signs he loves you truly madly to the core. A guy who is confused about his feelings or doesn’t understand what is going deep within his heart may see himself giving you more space than usual. Never panic as he is not drifting away from you but he is just preparing to give you that diamond ring to make you his entire world.

He quickly replies your text

Why panic when you just send your hubby a sweet text like “hey my jewel, are you back from work?” and he tends to reply you he is home in less than 2 seconds? He might even tell you he is even preparing delicious delicacy for you both to enjoy the dinner together and eventually ends the text by telling you he misses you. This is one of those clear signs he loves you to the moon and he can’t afford to delay even for a second without replying his pearl.

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importexpert:
Most ladies are confused about the way their partners relate with them. Just as people have always said it is difficult to understand women, it seems women are having a difficult time recognizing if their man loves them or not. If you are a lady, here are a few hints to know that your man is head-over-heels in love with you.

1. He loves to stare at you:

This is not the usual I-want-to-take-you-to-bed-and-get-naughty kind of look. Yes, men have high libido. But when your man loves you, he may not be able to say it repeatedly as he feels it. So instead, he takes a look at you and wonders within himself how lucky he is to be able to have a damsel like you. That is a very little, yet special way he adores you. Don’t freak out if you catch him staring. It’s just one of his weird ways of showing love.

2. He cannot stay angry with you for long:

Most men will agree with this. If you offend your man, sometimes, he gets hurt that you are the one that hurts him. Yea, that’s true. This makes him want to settle with you. But trust we men with ego, we will rarely come out straight. He will find a way to establish communication with you and give you the opportunity to apologize. That’s when you will hear, “I mistakenly dialled your number thinking it was Ebuka. Anyway, how are you?” And once you apologize, he accepts immediately.

3. He shares his future plan with you:

When a man does not love a woman, she has to beg him to know what the future is like about the two of them. You know why he lets her beg? Because he actually doesn’t have one. But if your man loves you, he is the one that will engage you on his future plans. Even if he never had one before, your presence in his life will make him want to sit up. And when he shares that future with you, know that he does so because he sees you in it and wants to build it with you.

4. He creates time for you:

There is a difference between someone who hangs out with you when they are free and someone who creates time to hang out with you. Your man is the first type of man but also the second man. He may be busy, but you’d be surprised at how he creates time out of his busy schedule to talk to you. He has come to enjoy your company that one of the way he relaxes by having you around. If he does that, appreciate him. It means he values you greatly.

5. He starts to like your flaws:

This is weird but it is one of the things that you will see in a man that loves his woman. He will stop trying to change you. He will no longer make an attempt to get angry when he sees your flaws. Instead, he laughs over it and accepts you completely. That’s when you will hear him say, “When you’re angry with me and start talking about it, you need to see your face. You always look so cute.”

6. He shows you off to anybody that cares to listen:

When your man loves you deeply, you are no longer his secret affair. You are now his open secret. He lets you know how precious you are to him. Not only that, he talks so highly of you among his friends that he makes them wish you were theirs. And rarely does he talk you down in the presence of his friends, even if you both have an issue at hand.

7. He is interested in your progress:

That’s right! He will want to know how your day went, what your short term goals are, what dreams you have etc. And he is not just interested in them; he becomes your greatest cheerleader. You can count on him to encourage you to fulfil your dreams. Why? Because deep within him is a satisfaction that comes from seeing the smile on your face when you have achieved your dreams.
So ladies, if you ever find this kind of man as your partner, never let him go because such men are rare.
What do you think? Do you agree with this article? Share your thoughts through the comment box.

I love this post. Thank you for sharing.
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cyprianlah:
1. He treats you well
A guy who loves you is considerate of your feelings, needs and desires. He makes them as important as his desires and needs. He is concerned with your well-being and will do things to make your life better, sometimes going out of his way to do so. Not only does he treat you well, he is also good to your family and friends.

2. He Is Generous with His Time
He doesn’t let too much time go by without seeing you. When he is available, he wants to be with you and chooses to spend his time with you. If you’re in a long distance relationship, he is spending time with you whenever your schedules allow. And you are together during major holidays such as Valentine’s Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s Eve.

3. He Makes You a Priority
You are at the forefront of his mind and he maintains contact in between the times you see each other. He considers you when making decisions and is considerate about doing things you want to do. When speaking, he uses “we” instead of “I”, and includes you in his future plans.

4. He Cares for You
A guy who loves you is genuinely happy for you when good things happen to you. He is compassionate when you’re going through challenges. This guy is there for you in the good and not so good times. He thinks about you and surprises you with tokens of affection outside of your birthday, Christmas and Valentine’s Day. He will also challenge you by calling you out on stuff to help you become a better person.

5. He Wants People to Know About You
He is affectionate with you in public by holding your hand, putting his arm around you and/or hugging you. He is proud to be with you and has introduced you to his family and friends. He brings you to family functions and get-togethers with friends, and takes you to company events.

6. He Treats Your Relationship with Integrity
He is trustworthy and loyal to you and your relationship. He is upfront with you about his past girlfriends and skeletons in his closet. He does what he says and will let you know if he’s not able to. When issues come up, he is willing to work through them. Although he isn’t perfect, he tries to be a better man.

7. He Wants the Best for you
A guy who loves you encourages you to do things you love, even if it means doing these things without him. He wants you to spend time with family and friends. He encourages you to find and live your passions, knowing that if you are happy and engaged with life, you’ll be happy and engaged in your relationship with him.

8. He places less weight on his words and more weight on his behaviors and actions.
A man’s behaviors and actions are more revealing and show if he loves you or not. It’s easier for a man to say, “I love you” because that’s what you want to hear. The true test of whether he loves you is if he exhibits the signs described earlier. When a man loves you, you won’t need to hear the words because you will just know.

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Eye contact: Most guys, when they are not interested in something, #look away. Most of the time, if you watch a guy long enough, you will begin to see the exact moment he loses his interest – his eyes avert. If your man is constantly looking into your eyes, constantly keeping up eye contact, that is one of the first signs he is in love with you!

Interested in you: If your boyfriend starts to really dive deep into who you are on the inside, instead of on the surface, he is
definitely into you. When a man is interested in a girl, he wants to know her deepest secrets, her wants and desires, her
dreams and how she gets inspired. When these questions start to come up, this is one of the signs he loves you – even if he
can't admit it yet!

Cuddling: If he is constantly cuddling you, it's definitely one of the signs he loves you!

Small touches: Cuddling is much different than small little touches. A soft touch to the small of your back, to the crook of your arm, to the back of your neck. Small touches make a huge difference and that is actually how a #guy shows that he is really into you!

Introduces you to his friends: A man in love is not scared to introduce his girlfriend to his friends. He knows that no matter what they think, they are going to see how happy he is
and instantly love her (most of the time). If you get to meet his friends, that is definitely one of the first signs he is in love with you.

Wants you to meet his family: After the friends, the family is next. A lot of the time, guys won't bring home just any girl to their mom and dad. If your guy brings you to his parents' house, that's a really good sign he loves you and he could be getting ready to admit it!

Texts you first: If your boy is constantly calling you, constantly texting you first, you know you've got a good guy and that he really cares about you. There are guys out there that don't leave their girlfriend sweet texts during their work day or in the middle of the night so they will see it in the. morning. If your guy is doing that, he's definitely in love with you!

Makes you laugh: When you are in a relationship, it isn't something that should be boring and stiff all of the time. You should be able to let loose and have fun. If your guy can make you laugh and make you really feel special, he's probably going to be the one that ends up at the end of the aisle for you!

Spends time with you: Typically, if a guy just doesn't feel it and really isn't into you, he won't want to spend any time with you. If your boyfriend is constantly looking for an excuse to spend time with you, he's probably in love. Whether it is seeing you for lunch or just popping over so he can spend some time
with you – make sure that you return the favor and go out of your way to spend time with him too.

Talks about the future: If he is telling you about his plans to move in the future and immediately after that asks if you ever
see yourself moving there, chances are that he is in it for the long run. If he makes long-term plans with you or jokes about what you two would be like ten years from now, he is indirectly stating that he has no intention of letting you go! No guy will start talking about your future together unless he is sure about
his feelings.

He compromises: One of the more obvious signs that he loves you is that he is willing to compromise even if deep down inside he doesn't want to. So if he starts to meet you in the middle without being stubborn then he is really trying!

Selflessness is one of the first signs that he is truly in love with you.

He goes out of his way for you: If he starts feeling that going an extra mile is nothing compared to making you happy, then that's a big sign that he is the one! #Guys usually don't go out of their way for just anyone, and if you are the one who softens his heart then you definitely have a special place in his heart!

By Heather Jensen of All Women Stalk.

I love this post you shared. Really interesting.
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tolaxin:
One of the hardest things for a many men to express is their feeling for a woman, especially a beautiful woman. This is because the average man fears rejection from a woman more than he would fear a suicide bomber — that’s an exaggeration though.

So you could be all friendly with this handsome dude and think he’s not in love with you when he actually is, only held back by the fear that you may say no to his love advances. To make matters worse, some ladies make themselves hard to get with comments that scare him even further when what he needs is just an encouraging look, word or gesture and he will spit out the ‘I LOVE YOU’ line faster than flash. So if you have a male friend, here are the signs to look for to know if he’s madly in love with you:

1. He touches you by mistake every time.
One touch is a mistake but many touches mean the dude is magnetically connected to you and wants to hold you. Those small touches on your arm, back shoulder… mean a lot.

2. He introduces you to his friends.
When man likes a woman, he wants to show her off to his friends. If this is happening, then you should know he’s more than just a friend.

3. He lets you meet his family.
Getting to meet his family is definitely a sign of deep commitment. Even the most randy of guys will not show you off to his family for the fun of it.

4. He acts jealous.
Why would a guy be jealous when he’s not interested? Trust me, when a guy goes cranky when he sees you with another dude, then he’s felling competitive.

5. He includes you in his plans or hints it.
A guy that tells you of his future plans and somehow ropes you inside it. Or
asks you about your plans in line with his, then he’s envisaging a future with you both inside. He might make it like a joke, but its love.

6. He likes to just talk with you.
When a guy can sit with you for hours just talking with you, then he’s hooked. A guy with passing interest has no time to talk for that long. So if he talks, he rocks too.

7. He wants to be with you always.
Truth be told, guys don’t just spend time with every random girl, repeatedly.

If a guy makes excuses to be with you, then he wants to be with you. Those casual meetings, when it’s frequent mean something more.

8. He stares at you.
If a guy stares at you for too long, whether or not you’ve just met, then he’s interested. If this
continues over a long period, then you should know he’s in love with you. Guys don’t stare unless they’re interested.

9. He asks personal questions.
A guy who wants just sex from you or just wants to talk for a while will not bother about intimate questions.

But if you are in a casual/platonic relationship with a guy who asks very personal questions, then you should know the guy is in love or on the way. When a man desires a woman deeply he wants to know her deepest secrets, her inspirations and aspirations.

10. He is protective and defensive of you.< b>
A guy protects what and who he loves. If you find him going out of his way to defend and protect you in different situations, then he sees you as his responsibility. He’s in love.

11. He seeks and respects your opinion.

If your opinion counts in his personal affairs then he’s in love. A man that asks what you think about important decisions and takes your advice wants more of you. If he also compromises for you, then he’s roped. Remember, guys find it very difficult expressing their feelings and you might need to give them a nudge to boost that ego.

Do it when you see the above signs and you both will be happier for it.

I really love this great piece. Thanks for sharing.
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TheHeelStory:
I am a fan of love, no matter the heart break. Love still remains the most living verb in human history. Love is beautiful when shared with the right one.

With love you are not afraid, it endures all things, it is patient, it is kind, it is not envious or boast or arrogant or rude. Love is not selfish or resentful.

Love doesn’t rejoice in wrong doing. Love hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. Love is true embodiment of security, entrusting yourself in someone’s hand and trusting you won’t get hurt, I call love doing “business with no insurance”.

With no much musings ladies, let’s move straight to the signs your man truly loves you, it’s time to ditch the uncertainties.

1) You are on his mind: The way to know is by the frequency of his calls, funny text message, songs and new dramatic way of checking up on you. Where a man’s treasure is, there lays his hearts.

2) He touches you in public: It is one thing to be all over you in private, but to the same in public by initiating hugs and simple hand holding without the thought of sex, is a big sign he loves and is proud of you. It’s a way he tells the world “back off she’s taken”. That it is a protective gesture. I love the public display of affection.

3) He introduces you to friends and family: If he takes you to meet his family then you are the one. It is a close step in getting his name. If he takes you to meet his friends, then you are welcome to his circle and he is truly proud of you.

4) He talks about the future with you in it: He makes jokes about your future children, number to have and where to reside to start a family. If a man starts talking to you this way, he has no intention of letting you go.

5) He says so: He says “I love you” and means it. My sisters, don’t settle with a guy that makes you assume he loves you. He must say it.

6) He makes himself part of your life: He joins you for boring errands, follows you to the salon and listens to the juiciest gossips. Joins you shopping and endure hours of dress fittings. Takes you to your friend’s house and asks you to call him when you are done for pick up.

7) He replaces the I: Love they say is not selfish. When he talks there shouldn’t be I, it shouldn’t be about him anymore, his friends, his life, job, movies, music etc. He replaces the 'I' to 'we'. What are we going to do today? I think we should have pizza for lunch. We have to pray etc.

He is no liar: He will respect you too much to lie. Even if it kills him, he would rather not talk than lie to you.

9) He remembers every date and is there always: From birthdays, to date nights, he becomes a living calendar. Not just for outings and special occasions. He is there when you need him.

10) He lights up when you are around; let’s face the fact it’s not every time you get to hear I love you from your man. There are few times he may not say it, but you see it in his eyes. He is always happy when you are around and maybe you catch him looking your way when he thinks you are not looking. You know those funny things men can do when they are in love *laughing*.

11) He is not afraid to say am sorry: Relationships aren’t always happily ever after. There will be fights and misunderstandings. If the man truly loves you won’t be afraid to apologies when he hurts you, even when you are at fault. The sight of you unhappy makes him unsettled. You are his top priority and you deserve to be happy.

12) He prays for you; This is my favorite and I know it needs no further explanation.

I wish you all true love as it is defined.



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