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SarutobiEky:
you're even gloating.. lol. No worry.. pride goeth before the fall. Remember that. You sound like a very proud human being. I wish you good luck.

I didn't See anywhere She gloated in Her write Up don't I See Clearly again?but Somehow Some Frustrated not well to do Guys must stl blame Her even if its a member of their Sex that is at fault that is how One was even Saying it is d Guys Financial Capability that She Craves for as if She aint doing well for Herself. So bcs She is earning high She should lower Her Preferences and standards So that She wud b deemed a Wife material? ask those Hypocritic Guys on Nairaland to choose btw a Loving,Kind,Respectful Lady that is stl Hunting for Jobs and One earning close 2 a Million who lacks Home training, Saucy,mannerless etc and even still will Obtain them Like they won't Choose d latter.
And Yet will blame the Op for having Her Choices.

MufasaLion:
Congratulations. She's ugly.

Na Wa O How is this Chocolate naturally beautiful Singer Ugly now?As if any of ur Sisters Can match Her in Looks this Face less forum gives many People Liver Though!!

LifestyleTonite:
Quickly check the picture below before reading this short piece.

Welcome back.

Laughing out so aloud in red pill language.

It's time for guys to sit down and tell themselves the truth too and not just sit around and slam girls.

Guys have issues too. Many of them look shapeless or out of shape, yet they want a damsel in their life. When a damsel turns them down because they don't look attractive, they start to pour out their frustration on all girls.

Some think everything has to do with money. They think once they get money, they can get any girl for themselves. That's true to some extent, but you cant get love with just money, just sex which is not as good as knowing you are loved to pieces by the opposite sex.

Money is a tool you use to walk up to love. You use money to hit the gym, eat good food and look fit. But some guys think just buying expensive clothes is what matters, disregarding the fact that they need the right physique to accentuate the clothes.

Look at Wizkid and Tems. Wizkid was snubbed on stage by Tems. Why? Man's too short and boyish. Place Trey Songs or Drake on stage with her, which is clearly a match, and watch her fall over them.

Half the time, some rich men are dating or married to women who don't find them sexually attractive, but they don't know. They think all that matters is giving her money. That they do until they realise that one jobless dude is not only sleeping with their woman but also using the money they give their woman to level up.

Guys, lack of money is not the only reason why you can't find a damsel to love you sincerely. The reason why girls don't love you or even notice you passing by is because you don't love yourself. Imagine guys between 20 and 40 already having potbelly with fat body like a woman. I bet you that the expensive clothes you will rock with that kind of body will look normal or abnormal on you, instead of having that dashing effect it had on the model that rocked it on the runway.

So, guys, instead of joining the gang of guys that bash girls on social media, why not join the click of guys that would rather spend that moment working on themselves financially, spiritually, physically and emotionally?

Hit the gym today. A sexy and fit body will cover up your 'ugly face'. Once you start to work out with visible result, bet it that compliments will start to come your way. I'm a living example. I've always had a cute and handsome face, but I thought that was all I needed until I graduated and saw a decline in advances from ladies. That was when I decided to hit the gym and stay fit. Today, female colleagues, both single and married, do compliment me loudly. Male colleagues see me as an inspiration because I stand out from among them. Guess what I've become? I've become the kind of guy both men and women love. Such is whom ladies love, because ladies flock around who others flock around.

So, red pill guys, enough of female bashing, because to be honest, they owe you nothing. A they want in life is a high value man, not necessarily a rich man, but a man others admire without money attached to him.

The day I decided to love myself was the day I went to meet a carpenter and told him to make a local bench for me to use for bench press exercise. I worked out at home for two months before discovering that there was a gym close to my house, which I later registered in. Then I proceeded to get some workout suppliments. The day I stepped out to Ikeja City Mall to get one was the day I met the love of my life, a gorgeous light-skinned lady that looks like she got cropped out of a magazine. Did I mention that she loves me to pieces and calls me thrice a day with each calls lasting over an hour? She exhausts her airtime and immediately converts to Whatsapp call. The day I met her at ICM, I remember I was getting advances from ladies at the mall that day. Did I look rich? No. Did I look attractive? Yes.

Don't get me wrong, I don't look bulked up like Arnold Schwarzenegger, but I look fit and elegant with tones in the right places. I wish I could post pictures but it's not my style. Right now, I'm working on my finances and about to buy a landed property and work towards marriage next year. I'm also thinking about trippling my hustle next year.

Simply put, I spent my little money on myself by hitting the gym and enjoying myself. Same money would have gone into simping for a girl all in a bid to get her attention. These days, I don't hesitate to lavish on myself, buy nice and expensive shoes. So, I don't see it as a big deal to give my chick nice trips.

It's time for boys to learn to be men and stop whining like sissies. Work on yourself and the love you desire will be yours. Don't forget to pray to God too.

Start in this order:

Spiritually - read the Bible
Financially - work and save
Physically - hit the gym
Emotionally - don't let a lady's rejection or anything get on your nerves.

Peace guys

. I have been reading the Replies to this thread from d beginning till the end Page some Phrases from d Ops Write Up struck out and I had 2 log in.
I have never Seen a Simpleton like this Op in my Life Such a deluded Guy I am a Woman but who told you that ur Woman that is below 30 and u Said She is stl with Her Usefulness doesn't get Rods inserted in2 Her Hole outside? U never Could hide your real Colours for Long your real intention was to Slam and mock Women above 30 who aren't married terming them as Evening Newspapers as u were replying to CSTRR Comments up there.
As d Guy replied to you Men have different Choices as Some Men prefers Women above 30 So do Some prefer below 30s na ur type Women they use their Head Clean hand Nansense!!! If after improving urself Physically(Gyming,Buying Expensive Clothes etc) Yet ur Light Skinned Wife will still Sleep with ur not so Physically fit Men Outside for more money so wy shud Men kill their selves as if u fit Satisfy all Women?Look Most Women Wants are insatiable and theirs is not all size fits all though that is no to remove the Fact Men have to Keep Fit for their Health and Confidence Sake and so should Women too but not for acceding to Women Consents who Cares?
Being Over 30 for a Woman and not being married Yet No b Disease,They are trying to Just that they haven't found an hubby and they won't marry their self now will they? Una no Send Women Yet One day won't pass without una Creating thread bashing Women up and down Most Men even Prefer Women Older than them to marry after all getting Married to a Younger Woman may not guarantee a Lasting and Happy Marriage Dare Art Alade,Peter of P Square Governor Rotimi Akeredolu,are good examples of Men married to Older Women and they are stl staying Strong.
That a Woman is married is by Luck not even bcs of Her good attitudes after all their are many ill mannered Women in Marriages around me.

pocohantas:
Hahahahaha! Serious pain! A girlfriend o! How many Nigerian gfs do all this? Anyway, give people an inch and you know the rest.

. Abi o I must Say Nigerian families deserves the Kind of Saucy Daughter in-laws they have that was how my Uncles Wife was overly Respectful,Friendly and Generous to both my immediate,and extended Family to d extent She would Genuflect to greet even d Smallest of my Cousins call them Aunty and Uncle then now She don enter their House She dey Show them Pepper.
Even then I knew She was deceitful,But I had to play along Since She was who they wanted Nigerians love Pretenders no wonder Buhari is their President.

All of you saying She should be traveling back and forth 2 Her In-laws so as to show She is an extrovert I think your head dey Pain You with the High Cost of Transport and Fuel now and the Insecurity (Kidnapping Banditry etc)Someone Living in a far Place to them o and will it be Her Fiance Funding those Trips?
My Younger Brothers Wife that lived Just 4 towns to my Parents Town How many times did She Come visit us b4 She gt married? to my Bro talk more of Caling Or Sending gifts and Cash on my Birthday? then my Mum will even Call and Chat Her Self the Op still Sends Gifts and Cash on dia Birthdays Yet them no Happy which kind Spoilt and entitlement mentality be that self?
My Mum that has been married for 33 Years now how many times has She gone to grace Her In-laws Ceremonies? The Op that isn't even a Wife Yet has gone for their Ceremonies 2wice Spending money and time Yet they are not Satisfied. It is Not as if She is Saucy or Rude what is dia Problem? How is it even Possible to be Cozy wit Pps She wont be Living with everyday of Her Life my Siblings Wife they Call me?
Na wetin See finish they Cause be that when u dye a Guy for many Years it will be as if all ur Hopes are on Him and you don't have other Options So if He lives you you will die The Uncle is already getting tired and He get other Options if not He wouldn't want you bending ur back over for His In-laws b4 marrying Him Him Suppose defend you self.

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out blu Lets ntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

. You are an Indigene of which State? and reside where? Because I am Ekiti based and even lives in Ikole Ekiti right now Can you E-mail me? Let's talk

1forall:
In order to be able to deal with the situation, you should consider and analyze it from the following different perspectives:

1. Your father-in-law (FIL) demonstrated irresponsibility by his actions. He may have his reasons such as being single and lonely, and was possibly getting more attention from the maid than from anyone else before the romance kicked in, but it doesn't justify him sleeping with his son's maid in his son's matrimonial home. But unfortunately, he owns the house and probably doesn't see it so much as his son's matrimonial home, but rather as his house where his son is living with his wife and so feels he can do whatever he wants.

2. It appears you married a Daddy's boy for him to tolerate, accept and even defend his Dad's wrongdoing in his own home. Again, unfortunately, the house belongs to his Dad so it will be difficult; if not impossible, for him to see the situation objectively because he compromised already by living in his father's house. Him asking you to show respect to a staff you hired and who has worked for you for some time tells me that he is trying to please his Dad (maybe he has inheritance somewhere on his mind?). However, a concern this should present to you is that if it is acceptable to him (your husband), then maybe there is a slight chance that he could do something similar in the future.

3. The maid is an opportunist but it is difficult to blame her because in Nigeria, most people are looking for ways to improve their lives and escape poverty. From living under your roof, she saw an opportunity and grabbed it with both hands but put you in an awkward situation in the process.

4. You did not tell us the position of your husband's siblings on this matter.

5. You did not share with us how you may have contributed to the situation; deliberately or otherwise, which is another perspective to view things from.

Having said all that, I should add that I understand and empathize with you on the situation you find yourself. However I believe your living situation (living with your husband and your FIL, in your FIL's house) is mainly responsible for this because:
- if your father lived elsewhere and impregnated his own maid it wouldn't be such a big problem to you,
- if the house was your husband's, either owned or rented, your FIL may have been reluctant to move in with you in the first place and if he did, he may have been more cautious with his affairs in YOUR house.

My advise:
There is no solution to this, you can only try to minimize the effects it has on you/your home since they have already paid dowry. The best mitigation step will be to separate both homes now that Papa has found a wife and loneliness is no longer a problem, and it is left to you to find a way to make that happen.

My suggestions:
1. Since your FIL has many houses all over, he should move with his new wife into one of them so they can 'have their own privacy' and the new wife can 'have her own home'; afterall, they're expecting a baby. You should do all you can to prevent the baby being born into your own place though.

2. Move your home elsewhere. Encourage your husband to build/buy his own house, although I feel he may think it's unnecessary since his father has many, which is a immature mindset. And someone like him won't even be open to the idea of renting a place and being a tenant, so I wish you luck in trying to convince him to buy or build.

3. Get to terms with the situation and find ways to manage your new step-MIL because she's not going anywhere; unfortunately for you, she has become a part of your family. Your husband's compromises will force you to compromise too and the sooner you accept and deal with it, the better for you and your home. Decide on what to call her that will neither upset you, nor offend your husband and FIL. Something neutral like 'our wife', or 'iyawo', or something. Use local language.

PS:
I think your husband is (ignorantly) setting himself up for future problems in his own nuclear family because when Papa's time comes and God calls him home, I foresee your husband and his siblings having problems with their step-mother over inheritance. You say the family is very wealthy - will they be able to handle it when she tries to claim her husband's estate? When your FIL whom your husband is doing everything to please now is no more, that's typically when he will remember that his step-mother was only a maid who his father took from the gutter. And by that time she would have been established in the home with a grown child or children.opefully the Papa writes a will that meets every family. member's expectations. But it won't be easy.

PS2:
Majority of the comments I have read here show just low how values have sunk as a people, and it is so very unfortunate. I dare say virtually every single one of those saying it's OK will react in pretty much the same way as the OP, or even worse, if they find themselves in similar shoes.

. See Entitlement Mentality Abeg!!!She should tell Her Husband to move out of his Dad House and go buy His own or build His own as if She will Contribute to d Cost of Building it?Like U don't knw Nigeria Inflation and Cost of Living now? If Her Husby Can't afford another House She shud Pressure Him 2 go enter debt nah if its d Woman who will shoulder d Cost then not my Palaver.

What is even d wisdom in Erecting Houses Up and down Nigeria when u wont live in more than One? His Dad Already has numerous Houses He should still go build another One So He Can Choke Nigerian Environment More?Yet we complain of Food Scarcity and Low Agricultural Productivity when we av already used all the available Land which shd have been used for Agriculture to build Plenty Houses of which One Can't live in Two of them at Once in His /Her Lifetime.
U even Said The Father-inlaw shd move to another House to live with His Pregnant Nanny Since He has Several Houses as if its the DIL who built the House See if anyone is to leave that House for another One the Father-inlaw built,it should be the aggrieved Lady.bcs,d FIL worked for His Money and He Can do anything with It.We all knw the Woman's grouse isn't about Her formal Nanny being Preggy 4 Her FIL but bcs Women hates anything that didn't Spring Out frm them,are bitchy,Envious and detest anyone getting elevated to their Status too that is why they maltreat anyone not frm dia Loins I am also a woman so I knw better.
Don't Call d Nanny an Opportunist bcs d DIL won't also be better as we weren't involved in Her Thought Process.and the DIL isn't even the Mans Biological Daughter so who is She 2 dictate who Her FIL is to marry?Even Her Husband Siblings aren't Complaining See Gbege O As She was Brought in2 dt House to enjoy wealth so is that Nanny also brought in too.
I don't know how to quote a little Section if ur Post that is why I had to reply after ur whole Comment

Biglittlelois:
See ehn, the hypocrisy of people especially men on this form ehn

Once a narrative doesn't conform with their responses on a thread, they forget all they supported or their previous idealogy, see all of them coming to my mentions forming saints and do-gooders, same people that preach against dating broke girls, class mixing, or marrying someone of lesser level of education as you said, it's the double mouth hypocrisy for me, I got over 70 mentions because of my comment, you can imagine.

. See I am a Woman too even If I may not av Preferred d Father-inlaw to have impregnated the Nanny But Shit happens!!!and So We shud get over it Besides who is she 2 dictate for Her Father-inlaw or Her Husby na Her House or Property? Love Can be found frm any Body be it a Gardener,Nanny or a Maid.The Woman dey very Selfish .
The Yoruba adage will say 'Eni ti a ba Sun ti ni a n jarunpa lu' at that Her Father-in-laws age I don't think He will b that Highly mobile to Scout for other Lady's outside 2 marry So He Used the Opportunity that was Closer to Him.We should Put ourselves in His Shoes too(E je ka fi Oran to ara eni wo) and this is not about following d Crowd if u Check my Past Comments on this forum even As I don't make many,U will see that I don't Subscribe to Public Opinion I am a Deviant not A Conformist. So I Use my thinking Faculty b4 Commenting.

The Daughter in-law is even heartless So She want Her Father-inlaw to be miserable and Lonely till He dies because His Wife died 12 Years ago?as if Body be wood? She no even Happy say no b Her Husby impregnate d Nanny and Him wan marry am.

She no fit Keep Her Father-in-laws Company and She won't allow Him Seek Solace and Comfort in d Bossom of another Woman no be Witchcraft be that?if d Gold digger of a Woman wasn't too indolent She wouldn't hv hired a Nanny in d first place

MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

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Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need a. dvice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

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What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

. Even Though I am a Lady I see no Problem here at all to be Candid Your Father-inlaw deserves to be Happy and not be lonely as you and your Husband are .Ur Father in-law even Owns the House You and ur Husby resides in and if u aren't Okay with it u Can go build ur own House with ur Husband so u Can live in it after all, No law states that a Wife Can't also Join Hand to Build a House wit Her Man.

Are you frm a Wealthy background urself? dt u looked dwn on another Person?maybe You were picked from d Gutter also who knws?Her background may even be more favoured than yours or is it bcs She came to work as a Nanny instead of looking for a wealthy Man to leech on as u did?So ur Husby didn't stoop down 2 marry You as u weren't of d same Social Class wit Him? U are a typical Case Of d Yoruba adage"Omo aijobe ri ti oun wa iru sowo" bcs ur Status has Changed as u hv hooked urself 2 a Rich Man's Son u felt House Chores are beneath you dt u had to hire a Help?
Some of the Mistakes Some Women make is hiring house help that Lives wit them if u must use a help Can't u employ those that won't live with you Like Laundry Man,Cleaners,Chef that will Just Come do their work and go,then get paid monthly or weekly? If God Can butter ur Bread He Can also butter ur Nanny's own after all U are both bloody Opportunist so take am like It ain't even ur Husby House so you can't dictate what goes on there IRe O!!.

ThunderSwitch:
[s]Una dey see thunder for every moniker

nonsense Imbe!!!

Na you be the imbe now Mentally deranged ding bat with Multiple Personality disorder

Pinklygul:
It's the way he put Ashawo21worker to rest so he could focus when he was receiving the heat

Just to bring it back after the fight
Who will be Willing to cure this mental illness?
Odumeje is overwhelmed

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Both Ashawo21 worker and Ashawo 21no be work are the same Person and it is KiddCat/thunder switch Can't u See they have d same manner of typing? Even d Same manner of typing with very dark fonts and Capital Letters Check Thunder switch Old Comments on this BBN Thread ever wondered u haven't been seen Thunder switch Comments since that Ashawo 21 worker Moniker appeared on this thread?
It isn't as if GbegiriSoup Can't Pull off that Stunt too but that isn't Gbegirisoup or Jadentica.in fact that Ashawo21 no be work Moniker was Created Solely for trolling Angel.

All this Weakling of a Men Parents now breed now is very baffling!! even I as a Woman no body can tell me how to spend my money or Spend on my Parents not even my Hubby .
I think it is this Concept of Monogamy foisted on Africans by the Colonial Masters making men weak. in the Olden days when Our Ancestors married many Wives who born Monkey Banana? My Grandpa had 3 Wives yet none of them dared Challenge Him on His State of Finances not as if He didn't provide for His home in His Capacity though.

That's how One Man too Complained on a thread weeks ago that His Wife Burns all His Clothes whenever He Suggested that His Wife siblings leave His House as they were draining His Resources and this was even a Wife who had no source of income o not as if She Contributes to the House Upkeep even I as a Lady no One will burn my Cloth and See if d Person won't be admitted into ICU let alone a Man.
See as a Man you should love ur Wife not to d extent of u making Her See u finish!! d Bible even said D Woman should be Submissive and respectful not d other way round Wisdom is Profitable to direction I rest my Case!!!

[quote author=DOptical post=106454495]My Nini could have hit a jackpot with Whitemoney too but Saga wasn't in between

She almost did tbh.

I mean even though Nini was a friend of Whitemoney and had severally defended him, they weren't always together, she was rather with Saga most of the times. There was even a time she was dancing with Whitemoney yet Saga kept cutting in between them

At times, I had selfishly wanted out Saga in order to ensure Nini would have more time with the likes of Whitemoney and Cross which would have helped her game

But then again, man proposes but God disposes

That being said, I'm happy for Nini. I loved how she played the game regardless. She was transparent, loyal and a stand up beautiful funny girl. I couldn't have asked for more! She is a phenomenal talented natural actress too![/quote.
I woke Up and you are still Crying?

DOptical:
Na you sabi

Keep crying, ultraviolet or is it infrared?

See my beautiful Nini and her friends. She don kolobi Saga's friend, Moshi

Best in beauty. I love her natural look so much!

See flawless shiny skin.

See har natural curly hair

See her fashion look.. Her shoe game!

She's so down to earth too

Overall in beauty

. Where d Beauty She Resemble Scare Crow self

DOptical:
This one keeps crying..

My point is kitchen strategy has always existed and no one complained as far as the person managing it was managing it well. That happened with Rico in the kitchen. Did it make him win? Nah! I mentioned Lilo as an example because no one complained with her whereas they did to Ka3na.

Hence the housemates should always be the determinants, not you the viewers who know next to nothing about what's happening in the house. If the housemates were okay with Whitemoney managing the affairs of the kitchen, then I don't see why Pere should be causing chaos. Funny thing was pere was even eating Whitemoney's food and was enjoying it, so what's the point? Abegi.

The kitchen affair only became an issue because Pere made it an issue! It has always been in existence.

. Who dey Cry? Eediat Na you nah Since the Beginning of This Season till the end that's how u always do and eventually if their is stl another Season of BBN next Year Na so u go stl do I have never Seen a Bigger Nuisance Like You Egbere!!!

DOptical:
This one keeps crying..

My point is kitchen strategy has always existed and no one complained as far as the person managing it was managing it well. That happened with Rico in the kitchen. Did it make him win? Nah! I mentioned Lilo as an example because no one complained with her whereas they did to Ka3na.

Hence the housemates should always be the determinants, not you the viewers who know next to nothing about what's happening in the house. If the housemates were okay with Whitemoney managing the affairs of the kitchen, then I don't see why Pere should be causing chaos. Funny thing was pere was even eating Whitemoney's food and was enjoying it, so what's the point? Abegi.

The kitchen affair only became an issue because Pere made it an issue! It has always been in existence.

. Who dey Cry? Eediat Na you nah Since the Beginning of This Season till the end that's how u always do and eventually if their is stl another Season of BBN next Year Na so u go stl do I have never Seen a Bigger Nuisance Like You Egbere!!!

Teddybliss:
Wrong person ooo

Na doptical you suppose quote

.I am Sorry!! I Rushed to Quote It was meant for that Obsessed Doptical More so my Phone was acting Up Yesterday

ultraviolet27:
. And you had to bring Lilo into this Like the Housemate Knows whether She dey exist?So the Housemate hated Lucy and Katrina Cooking bcs of Monopoly but not Lilos?Everything that involves ur Fave u must bindly and lyingly defend them. I like Lilo and I won't drag Her but this yur Lies u spew every Year to favour ur Fave Something we all watched?
Since you won't rest on Peres Case I wont let you rest too Na so Witch Craft dey start o Since d Beginning of this thread u have been on Peres Case Person wey no even knw if u dey exist

. Sorry this Quote wasn't meant for you it was meant for Doptical that Pere Hater

Teddybliss:
At this point you are obsessed with pere

You must always mention his name even when his character wasn't called out

I am even happy you didn't bring the part where you wish Nini brought Nengi game to the show

Madam/sir rest,the pere you are hating on is a finalist and your Nini is out

. And you had to bring Lilo into this Like the Housemate Knows whether She dey exist?So the Housemate hated Lucy and Katrina Cooking bcs of Monopoly but not Lilos?Everything that involves ur Fave u must bindly and lyingly defend them. I like Lilo and I won't drag Her but this yur Lies u spew every Year to favour ur Fave Something we all watched?
Since you won't rest on Peres Case I wont let you rest too Na so Witch Craft dey start o Since d Beginning of this thread u have been on Peres Case Person wey no even knw if u dey exist

DOptical:
He picked Queen, not Saskay in the previous week.

Pere had a fight with Queen before picking Queen.

Queen was an obvious option for him.

Admittedly Nini disagreed with him but they didn't fight. It wasn't only Nini who disagreed with him on that particular topic sef. Cross', Whitemoney, Angel all did! Hence you can't use that to judge. If you wanna use that to judge, then one of Cross, Angel, Whitemoney, Peace apart from Nini could have been put up.

On the contrary, he was at war with both Nini and Saga after the Sunday eviction revelation. That was before Nini won the veto. He was the obvious option!

. Doptical Zukwanike nah nawah o

ekanx27:
I have gone through your post, you can't do without mentioning the General's name. He is your Oxygen and after tomorrow your wailing will continue because the Agenda is no longer Pere till day 72 nor Pere for the money again. Guess what?, The agenda is now Pere in your face as long as he lives because he will keep choking you by taking roles in movie, signing endorsement and constantly advertising for brands. It is not our fault that you choose to stan someone who thinks she was the people's favorite but her fan base has VAT as their voting Percent.

. Na today you Sabi Doptical? Every Year He must Stan One 2Percenter Housemate and must Hate/Latch on a Housemate who no know If He/She dey exist I don't Even knw Her gender self wheth He or She and must lie to Hype Her fave and rant all through ,Her Bonga Fish d most Preetiest,Bla Bla Bla Bla wetin Marians go Come talk nawah for who dey Carry BBN for Head o.

We just Come here to catch Cruise nah

DOptical:
2% wey go havard ..

Saved your Pere who would have probably gone home if Nini had replaced him with herself

. You this Doptical Why ur Obsession with Pere just like ur Fave?Since the beginning of this thread u hv been ranting about Him Nini saved pere,She gv it to Pere Yen Yen Yen Yen.
Na So Person dey enter market o!!Year in Year out you Stand inconsequential Housemates and u rant frm d Beginning of d Show to the end Same way u were on Frodd's Case in Pepper Dem bvs of Esther moved to Lilo and now Nini and you must lie and give False narrative to Hype ur fave and Blame everything except them blamed Eric for Lilos eviction as if we never watched How they gummed together?still blamed Big Brothers Camera for not doing Justice to Ninis Beauty as if no be the Nini we dey see for Big Brother House?
Nini went to Harvard Bla Bla Bla!! Yet u no go allow d Person wey no go rest If Tueh was a Person!!

Those are shaving Bumps nah if you use shaving stick and ur Skin is Sensitive too I use to have it before when I first started using Shaving stick until my Skin got use to it.

Maybe u should start using Shaving Cream or Scissors though.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

. I hate what I don't Like. Like you Could Raise a Child who is not from ur Loins and treat Him/Her well?I don't why Most Women are insensitive and wicked.I am a Woman too but if Women Cud maltreat Kids from the Street and not from their Loins(Step Kids,House Help,and Relations). Don't See wy u would want to Foist a Bastard on your Husband and for the Rotimi Salami everyone is entitled to His /Her Opinion but a Man has the Right to Conduct DNA on the kids under His Roof as you as a Woman won't even want to share the Bills with Him equally in the House So He Cant be training other Men kids its is His money so He Can do anything with it for u to even Rush and bring Rotimi Salami Opinion here the Joke is on You .If that Guy that died early this Year had done DNA on those two kids earlier on He may still be alive 2day as He won't have been training those FCMB Directors Kids.
Women that are Callous So that they Can Leverage on the fact that another Man is not dragging the Kid with their Husband and give their Hubby Kids from other Men to train to Higher institution? That was how One Woman gave Her Husband 4 Kids frm other Men to train to University Level Had it been One of the Children ddnt need an Organ Donor d Man for no know and who told u the Kids won't go look for their real Dad in the future?or the Woman Cant even Callously take the Kids away as that Moyo of FCMB did So who go Come lose? A Clear Conscience fears no accusation!!!well u Can advise your Brother to be training other Man kids sha as His efforts no go waste.

AsianTotal:
The hypocrisy and idiocy on this thread is annoying.
Since it is very okay for mothers to kiss their sons the All Fathers Here Should Make Sure They Kiss Their Baby Daughters On The Lips Too.

.No mind the Hypocrites

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

. Your wife own even better small Some Mother's deep Kiss their Babies which is very abnormal.

[quote author=Shokoloko post=106298032][/quote]. But what u Googled out implies Mothers kiss their Babies on the Fore Head na not the Lips even d Picture showed the Mum kissing Her Baby on the Forehead or How will kissing a Barbie's Lips Protect His/,Her immunity?

BabaJoe001:
I doubt if you are a mother yet . Wait till you become a mother my dear. There is nothing wrong with a Mother kissing her son that lived in her womb for 9 months. This is a child that grew inside her womb
It just a sign of love and Affection. Don't let us be exaggerating things unnecessary. And the OP needs to grow up. We are proud Fathers.

. Mr not all Mother's Kiss their Babies on the Lips and it doesn't take the Love and Care from the Mother's to their Kids,My Mum never Kissed I and my Siblings on the Lips Yet the Motherly Love and affection is stl there till 2day Kissing Ur Child on the Lips won't mk you emotionally accessible or Responsible to your Kids it ain't that She doesn't like the Feel of the infant lips on Her Skin then, But it was just not to encourage others the other Siblings,Relations,or Neighbours from Practising that in Her absence na from Play Craze they start.

I don't know How Some people on this Forum reason So its okay for a Mother to kiss her Baby on the Lips but not the Father if the Role were to be reversed I know How the Father's Picture would have been Circling round the News Papers and Blogs and even the Wife wud have Created a thread here terming the Father as Peadophile and Child molester. But Since its the Mum So is all well and good I detest Gender inequality What is Good for the Goose should also be good for the Gander O. So the Boys Cheek and Forehead no dey enough for d Mum to kiss?what is always attracting Him to the Babies Lips every time and the Baby?isn't even d same Gender with Her Her Hubby's Lips isn't enough for Her to kiss and Since d Dad has told Her to desist from it Several times and still didn't Listen then Something is wrong at Her well Olosho only they get Sabbatical sha

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Ambber:
Pere is now leading, the gap is too wide for the fat Whitemoney to bridge.. we can afford to do charity now for Whitemoney, all patriots drop pity votes for Whitemoney. let's show them we are charitable.. Pere is leading already

. Don't do any Charity Vote Pere is not Secured Yet it is other Fan Base they won't vote for Pere o An Ha how Can u even be Pouring Water into d Ocean? Don't make Over Confidence Place Pere in the 6th Position o