₦airaland Forum

Lifeseed:
Fellow mummy's in the house, pls welcome me ooo. I've been ttc for 11yrs now. I know God is capable. Still trusting God. Please help me. Have adhesion, failed first ivf. Stopped seeing af after trying to treat adhesion .46yrs this year. Mama's please what do I do? Constantly feeling heat (suspecting menopause). Please house help me. I need my baby.

May this year not pass you and all of us seeking God's mercy. Your testimony is just around the corner please keep trusting in Him. Baby dust to you ma

MPESA:
Please what of CANADA AUSTRALIA etc that pays child benefit and USA That pays unemployed ones.

Like one poster above stated that theirs no excuse for failure

Well, I pray we get it right someday in this country.

positivemummy2:
Good morning all,i don't even understand again o,i am about one week late and I did urine and blood test yesterday,they were both negative.
what could be happening? I have also been having these cramps for almost two weeks now

Have you ever missed your AF for this long? I've had such experience before minus the cramp, I also did both blood and urine test and it came out negative after eight days AF showed on it own. Though yours might be different, maybe the level of HCG in your blood is very low, but what do I know. Let's wait for sabi mamas to come shook mouth.

Congratulations!!! Mumibaby and yessssssss, may Almighty God make you both carry to full term and deliver with ease.

MissRaine69:
I don’t think you are wrong
He treats them differently because of whatever strive he has with his wife.
He particularly emotionally segregates the one who looks like his wife, how is that the child’s fault?
And here you have some cretins saying it’s natural. That shows their level of depth , it’s no deeper than a teaspoon . You choose to have kids treat them the same. Do not rise kids to have low self esteem ,or have kids so that they end up as emotionally damaged adults who seek solace in destructive relationships or polysubstance abuse. Emotional neglect of a parent has far reaching consequences than some people care to acknowledge. If the person who gave you life does not love you, who will?

I wonder o!

Contrary to what peeps on here believe about 'preferred kid' I don't see this a norm, prolly the kind of atmosphere I was brought up in might be a factor to that.; My parents never chose any of us over the other even though my elder sis was super brilliant while growing up, i was the complete opposite of her but my parents treated all of us equally with so much love, they never gave up hope on any of us, they don't even rob it on my face, maybe they knew I was going to turn out better.

All in All, Op, you don't know which one of them would bring laughter to your face when you're of age, pls treat them all equally and find a spot for each of them in your heart.

God neither sleeps nor slumbers. May your testimony on your brother's healing be permanent and those of you looking up to God for one thing or the other, hold fast to the rope of faith and never give up hope, your testimony too is around the corner.

Aww, Op, pls can I adopt your twin girls? I have so much love in my heart to give them.

Are you having doubts that your wife might've cheated on you when she got pregnant with the twins? Cause I see no reason why a father would 'prefer' one kid over the other. Even though some parents feels it is normal to have favorites among them, I still think your feelings towards those innocent kids is borne out of some resentments, I might be wrong though.

Are you saying infidelity is right when committed by a man? I just do not understand this your write up that is giving men soft landing from such despicable act.

Be it a man or a woman perpetrating the act, cheating is very wrong and should be strongly condemned.

I think this is just to encourage them to give birth to more children to increase their population. We don't need that here in Nigeria, all we need is population control... Suffice to say, these doesn't mean we shouldn't put law in place that would help reduce poverty rate to the barest minimum.

Congratulations!!! to you mama towerofgrace and all mamas that have gotten their BFP, may you all carry to full term and birth with ease. None of you will experience loss of any kind. And to the rest of us waiting for God's mercy, we shall testify of the glory of God soon.

neroflo:
I WISH TO SLIDE MY D IN HER V.JAY

You're a rapist. May you be disgraced soon

MamaTuoyo:
So sorry for your loss, your rainbow baby is coming soon.

Please go for a scan to be sure everything is okay. You should have been given some painkillers and anti biotics after the evacuation, please make sure you take them

Mild cramp is normal after a miscarriage but if you're experiencing much discomfort then you should see a doctor.

Like someone asked; where you given antibiotics after the Evacuation?

seunmarytemi:
Teamie Nov, my prince did not make it this morning their was cord round his neck, i put to bed around 3:45am this morning but i loss him. Pls i need ur prayers

cc
cappo
whyworry
November mama

What a sad news. So sorry about your loss, may God Almighty strengthen and comfort you, and give you double for your trouble.

omololaray:
Good day to u my sister in the house,may Almighty God answer our prayers.Please have been silently following this forum for some months ago. Please i need you to advise me as a sister. Am a 27yrs married woman i met my husband june 2011 and we got married dec 2017. Years back when i was still in school i dated another guy around 2013 and 2014 me and this new guy made love and i conceive and that was the first pregnancy i will ever had then, i was confuse cos i dont know who d father of the baby was between the two.I told the two of them,and later after i did my calculation discover that the prevnacy belong to the other guy and not for my husband,i aborted the pregnancy because i was in my 200lvl then my father is very strict. After i aborted the pregnancy i cut off d relationship btwn me and d guy.Fast forward to 2016 i did my introduction and his family were after pregnancy before wedding. we started ttc journey from July 2016, till now nothing good has happened. during course of trying my sis-inlaw called me that she will never make the wedding happen( that was after introduction and after our wedding date had been picked ),She also called me to her house that incase i heard it that my husband has another wife outside our marriage that is better we quite the wedding. Later me and my husband went to hospital we ran series of test in which all my result was ok .but doctor always ask me to escuse him and my husband i dont no what they discussed. we decided to go to register in goverment hospital and we were ask to repeat some test except hsg test,i did and my husband did as well, wot amazed me again is that it was d former doctor we met at my first private hospital we saw and he did the same thing as usuall asked me to escuse him and my husband moreso scan detected that i had PID and he told me not to worry about it. Am Scared i dont no what to do.our TTC joirney is going to 3yrs now and am scared of my sis -inlaw.

Whatever secret the doctor is keeping 'might' be about your husband's health otherwise I see no reasons for him to hide your health issues from you.

Since your hubby is not ready to let you in on the secret, if you're buoyant why don't you go to another hospital to run a full check so as to put your mind at ease.

Flowers95:
If your husband cannot wait a few days to have sex, then that man is not your husband, he’s public property. Men of this generation will still say sex is cheap and useless, but cannot wait a few days without it. Walking contradictions might I say.

For a self-proclaimed 'relationship counsellor', I am quite disappointed at your response. Is this what you tell your clients? Resorting to insults to drive home your point?? So if one of your client with a high libido comes to you for advice you'd call him/her a public property because their problem doesn't fall under your own category of norm. What about seeing things from other people's perspective? If you're this close minded, trying to force your opinion down other peoples throat just because 'your' laid down rule works for you then you're not fit to be a counsellor.

Flowers95:
I’ve been married for more than 10 years, I’m also a marriage counsellor. Those that can read in between the lines, will understand.

Just because it works for you doesn't mean it would work for everyone.

If you deprive your man of sex and if he happens to be the impatient type he will get it elsewhere, which might likely leads to marital problem. Even those that ain't sex-deprived still get tempted to have extra marital affair how much more a deprived man.

Surulady:
in every situation have learnt to give thanks.after the URINARYAND FULL BLOOD COUNT test it shows i have infections that needs to be treated but it will affect the pregnancy even if i decide to leave it that the pregnancy might still result to miscarriage later .its better i treat it now and prepare for a better one.so i decide to start the treatment ystdy lo and behold everything came down i guess i thank God for life and to all the mummies thank you all,i know and believe God has a better plan for me.

Better to treat the underlying cause now than to leave it to chances. May Almighty God bless you with double to make up for the troubles.

Rukkington:
BIRTH STORY


Once again, i thank God for a safe delivery and i pray all GTC mum experience this wonderful feeling. Baby dust to you all

cc joomie

Wow! Your baby is so cute, may she be a source of happiness to you and your household.

Hey babe, if I were to be in your shoes, I will never consider trading my peace of mind for money. We are talking about a lifetime companion here. Though I get that financial freedom should also be considered when thinking of settling down but that to me is something that could be worked on, so far you are financially free yourself and he's also not the lazy type, things will turn around for good.

No 2 get my votes

prettyamebo:
My period is 5 days late and i'm scared to do a pt as I've been disappointed countless times. I haven't done a pt test in over a yr now because I don't want to be disappointed. I did the garlic, ginger, clove and turmeric combo during my last period and I had plenty brown spotting during my ovulation that lasted for about 2 days. I googled and saw that it was a good sign if fertility so we bd during my O. Pit me in your prayers pls. I need a bad now more than ever.

Wow! You're a very patient person, don't think I can wait that long before testing. The anxiety alone can even cause miscarriage.

There's baby in there, pls go and test to confirm your BFP.

gracelush:
Please lovely mamas put me on your prayers, I was having pregnancy symptoms like for a week now, l mild cramp, frequent urination, and sleeping, but it has stopped. I just want to get pregnant my period is meant to come 18th October, i pray not to see it, h d urine pt test it came out negative. God come to my rescue make me a mother.

May God almighty grant your heart desire and perfect all that concerns you.

lapagegirl:
I did hsg in 2016 and the right tube was blocked. I have done etopic operation before so I only have one tube left. And I just started seeing this gyne. Yes the hospital charge 60k for the flushing. Is it too cheap?

60k for flushing? That's on the high side. Do you really have to do it at that hospital? But if you can really afford it, I guess nothing is too much for us to spare for that precious little being, if one is assured of a good result.

lapagegirl:
Yes I have done before it was blocked. But I have been on Serrapeptase for a while now. Wil flushing indicate if tube is blocked or not?

I don't think either of the two (HSG & Flushing) can be done without an x-ray to locate the tubes before carrying out the procedure.

lapagegirl:
Happy Sundays mama. Please what is the difference between hsg and tubal flushing? The new gyno I am seeing said I should do flushing last month, but I could not do it last month. This month when AF showed up, I went yesterday to fix appointed with him for Wednesday and he ask me why I did not come again last month as we agreed, so I told him the cost of the flushing and I did not have the money at that time. Then he said it is too expensive that he don't know they charge that much for it that I should go do hsg that the procedure is almost the something. I should not pay 60k for flushing when hsg is 20k. I want to know if flushing is better so I can go do it somewhere else.
Sorry for my long story.

It depends on why you're been asked to do the flushing? Have you done an HSG before to confirm tubal patency? Are you having tubal blockage? if your answer is No then you should go for HSG.
Though some standard labs (like Echo scan lab) still do the flushing during HSG if the tubes are blocked.

Trippleblessing:
In this journey of TTC I have learnt one thing, trying with consciousness to whatever I am taking will do no harm, this herb might work for some people and might not work for others because we are not battling same issue even though we desire same result, but there is one thing we can do together, as we take any medication let's pray from our hearts that it should work for us.

As par male taking it, I don't think so, what I read on the pack is for female and even pregnant woman don't use it.

It is not bitter, I was scared at first too when I saw the content.

Yes, that's the spirit. May it work for you and many more mamas that will try it too.

omololaray:
Hi,ttc mamas in d house,please ma am new here and i have been following dis thread for a while and find it intresting and also encourage me that we all will carry our babies soon. Have been trying to conceive for about 2years b4 i got married cos my inlaw believe in pregnacy b4 marriage.but unfournately we could nt achieve it till now, we'v been seeing doctor n we ran series of test ,mine was ok ,but husband count is low.please anyone help me on what to do cosmy sis inlaw is on my neck.

Addyzoa and Oligocare combination works wonder. One tab each in the morning and night.

May God almighty dry your tears and bless you with double soon

Thanks to you all for the mentions and prayers. I am now working closely with my Gynea to avoid a repeat.

Wish you all a wonderful and supernatural delivery.

rabluk:
Ummufareed may Allah give you triple for your stress. You're surely coming to testify

Allahumo Amin

BlessedDiva:
Oh dear, very sad....but just dust yourself up, rejoice in the Lord for proving His mighty work in your life, that same God that did it before will certainly do it again, He'll manifest again, this time around till full term with double for your trouble you hear?
Mama next time don't even think about your mockers, don't let that thought of 'lemme see how they will feel' ever take over your mind, they aren't relevant.....just think about the growing miracle in your womb and keep praising God and He'll take care of the mockers because no one can cover pregnancy when it shows.
It is well!

Sincerely, that thought really crossed my mind; I thought to myself maybe it actually isn't right thinking about my mockers when I should've been celebrating Gods wonder in my life. I now know better! Thanks ma

Thanks to you all for your wonderful messages, may you all carry to full term and deliver with ease. There shall be no more loss.

claseek:
congratulations in advance. Don't despair. You're already in the league of mothers. Very soon, we will be saying congrats on the arrival of your babies. It is well dear

You know this actually brought hope and smile to my face.. I've always wanted to be in that 'mothers league', I've been following this thread for a very long time cause I love the way mothers relate with one another on here and I've always wanted to feel among and to be called a MOM too by my LO. I know it will happen in due time.

It felt just like a dream when I got my BFP. I was over the moon with so many thoughts flooding my mind, like how the baby would look like. I couldn't even wait for the bump to start showing early enough to make my mockers see how my God haven't forgotten me, but God knows best.

I'm happy for that wonderful experience.

For the FTM; if you feel any discomfort please talk to your doc. I didn't listen to my body when I started feeling mild cramping thinking it was normal, it went on for almost 2wks before I decided to check with my doctor who confirmed my greatest fear. But all in all, I'm happy for this journey thus far which shows I am fertile.