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OMOJOHN001:
My Gf that I always take care of base on say she do help me with my hustle and she is loyal, I won't lie she Is a Good girl.

She keeps fighting with me for the past two months now because since the past one and half years we have been dating. I don't allow her to wash my clothe or even cook for me to eat. I have my reasons.

She do insist on cooking my foods or bringing food from her house to my place But I do reject her food. I trust her but its not just part of me at all.

My question is what else can I do to make her understand that I don't want anything from a woman. I do reject her gift as well. I celebrate my birthday last week she bought frame and clothes for me, up till today i refuse to put on the clothes now she is complaining and even keeping malice with me. I LOVE HER

My reason is that I don't want any lady that Is not yet my wife to have any advantage over me but she won't understand.

Is she from Akwa ibom , sounded like my Ex

Impostor:
I am in the right city but those 24/5 girls are too young for late 30s, in my opinion

They are not, you just don't get it. Normally girls dont marry guys thier age, they go for older guys for marriage.

Your age is quite okay and you will easily find a younger girl of 24/25 for marriage, maybe youre in the wrong city

sanesta:
go collect truphy

Suushhh it !

I hit and move, i don't catch feelings. Striked over 150 so far... we move

People are always quick to complain about older Guys dating 17/18 years old girl just because they believe that guys just want to use the girls for sexual needs. But you Because Ned okonkwo is rich , hes old enough to be regina ' grandpa the world sees it as okay. Half of the guys and girls complaining shouting pheodephile up and down, if Ned wants to marry them they will feel like the luckiest human ever and for the guys, they will feel like thier little sister will save thier starving family by marrying Ned

They hot , no lies. 17+ is fine

She get tribal mark ?

QueeenKKfire:
exactly, my prick go dey pepper me. But if she touch am the thing go still rise like mumu.

Same here o , any small thing soldier don rise , morning midnight

I had an ex too that we do go 3 rounds everyday for 3 days , after three days .. my head became bigger than the rest of my body , I became weak and my dick was very sore

Us has a new president and now covid has drastically reduced immediately. Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

New in the game ? LMAO . !!!!!!I'm simply expressing myself, read the thread to understand, just talking about what could happen to any guy, player or not .

stanliwise:
How about looking at it like this.

Anyone could be promiscuous rather than using a gender?
Or are we talking of lesbians here?

You're right, well I was more focused on the female gender because I'm a guy and only talking about possibilities of what could happen to guys in a relationship.

Effulgent:
This dosent look natural

even their faces screams cosmetic surgery

I hate nonsense

True true

stanliwise:
so what is the take home advice?

Trust at your own risk . Life no balance

stanliwise:
At the end of the day what is the advice?

No advice mehn , everything is life is not balanced. Sad reality of life. No matter how handsome or rich you are , one person could still chop someone's wife or girl .

stanliwise:
I don’t get you! Do you mean you feel sorry for fucking the guy’s babe.

Or you’re trying to say something else?

I'm trying to say that its scary what happened between the girl and I because it could also happen to me as well . Her guy was a victim.

So, there is a girl I met not too long ago, a university student we were both in 400l. I just moved to a new hostel . I met her in a shop where she was buying something and we started talking, shes brown skin, very fresh and slim . After a few days of bumping into each other randomly, I finally got her number. Phone calls started. After a week , she started coming to my room

We just usually sit , talk and gist, even some of my male friends comes around and we all start gisting. In less than a month, we started kissing , ass grabbing she does not complain, she sleeps off on my chest sometimes . Long story short. We ended up having one crazy hot s*x one night .. it was such a lovely night though, cool breeze ,nice jams playing on my speaker. We both reached climax. That day went, she started avoiding.

Only for me to find out that she is in a serious relationship and she and her boo talks for hours everyday. Their Family knows each other and all. Funny ,the boyfriend trusts her like crazy and didn't suspect a thing .

This could have been me and someone doing that to my partner that I believe we were both in a serious relationship.

Shortyy:
Yes settling with a virgin is good, and it's the dream of most men.

I wonder who took the virginity of the non virgins, maybe spirits.

Right now somewhere, a lady is at the verge of losing her virginity because her boyfriend has promised her "marriage" or the boyfriend can't commit to a non sexual relationship.

At the end husband she no see, boyfriend she no see too. Deal with it men, they're the monsters you've made.

God will bless you !!!!

AfroKnight:
Lol. I can’t relate. Imagine one babe telling me I can’t break up with her. WTF That sh!t is scary.

It happened to me when I was in University of ilorin, in 400l.. so I was just trying to smash but then she turned it into something super serious..then later I was like sorry I'm not longer interested after a week of dating , I notice she was obsessed. She was like nah babe , we are stuck together for life.. I was like ehnn. She said that and just walked away .. she tormented my life for 1 good month.. 20 calls everyday, unlimited SMS. I use to have headache daily

Exodora:
Those people like sex like food .
Once lived with them Jesus , you need to see and hear real Bleep*ing

True oo .. my ex from akwa ibom is the youngest I've dated but the strongest in bed , even using the craziest sexual enhancement medicine, she will still tackle you and never give up, even with my 6.1 inches hard rod

ZIINI:
You're a nice person bro
Even sex I won't ask from her again cause through sex she can........you already understand some girls are desperate you suppose don dig as I talk am.

I know what you mean and yes you're right!! Those were my exact thoughts too.

Lamanii22:
Like seriously? A girl is saying she'd become your slave and white for money? Or

Well I dress good, I'm caring , great sense of humor , tall , handsome, great cook, speak good English, I was everything she ever wanted..

DhanBaba:
Trying to come back
Will you now accept her back

Incase she also come back

are you chasing clouts this morning? Nooooo

DhanBaba:
Trying to come back
Will you now accept her back

Incase she also come back

No I told her we could only be having sex , she said it's fine, that shes ready to be my slave and satisfy all my desires even though I get married this year, she will still be my LovePeddler. It's been 4 months since the break up and shes still disturbing .

DhanBaba:
This is getting interesting

Two broke person

Proceed boss
Explain more please

Girls fantasies about men in a way, they feel more protected dating a guy with money, they feel more confident and they love and respect him more, they will be the one disturbing your life to make sure you stay loyal , they value you 100% and get scared that you will cheat .

Girls are naturally expensive creature, and let's be honest theres a certain amount of money you should have to take care of a girl even if shes a pepper seller, even pepper seller wont respect you or date you if you're broke to an extent .

Men are mostly see as heads, so most girls expect their men to be decision makers, and taking care of situations especially financial.

For the fact that shes also broke too made matters worse .. if she was rich buoyant enough financially, all she will need is love . But shes not , so shes seeing you and herself drowning when another guy with money could easily safe her.

Begging of this year I was so broke that the girl I was dating was starting to disrespect me , sometimes I cant even afford breakfast. Now I have one a million available balance and she's trying to get back .. I'm not saying a million is that much but way betting then having less than 1k in my account 7 months ago

Buttom line is that, its hard for two broke people to be in a relationship.

Eastside22:
On gays engage in anal sex,you better repent

okay

ibkonekt:
this is the effect of porn, your mind has been corrupted

Okay.

Coldie:
Peverts way dae nairaland no be here

Lmaoooooo , well it's a faceless forum, you'll have no idea of what kind of fathers too we all have

nwaezeemmanuel:
Hope you use condoms?!

yes always