₦airaland Forum

Ykc2:
oga if you come china Japan koran na igbo person go take you around there are no yoruba people in Uganda,Zimbabwe, bostwana, congo,,Zaire,

Aiiyt boss, no p sha. We all one

Ykc2:
so when you hear Zimbabwean ,Ugandan, south african, Tanzania ladies talking about nigerian men which men do you think they talking about before yoruba men or Benin men? You be must out of your mind

Lmao, abeg how many countries have you lived in ? I have been in many countries livee , we Dey see real show… if southy girl hear igbooo, them go runnnn like. Dem still trust yoruba more, funny enough even for asia and Europe una don cast. I have met girls from different nationalities talking from experience.

Ykc2:
The way girls from every race dey love igbo boys dey give me goosebumps for south Africa na igwe dem dey call igbo men

Mumu . Igbo men wey no get reputation for South Africa, yall just come online to cap rubbish

Very necessary my brother

Worst mistake you can ever make in your life is to marry a girl that gets angry/toxic. Mehnn your life will lack peace for years honestly. Even when you get one week of peace, it will be like gold to you.

My partner is the same. Same anger issues. She get gets angry at every little situation, you can never have two days of peace. If she sees there is peace, she always end up having one or two things to complain about. We have been like this for four years. Ive seen hell but the price she will pay is that I ain’t letting her go and i will not Marry her. She must pay that price for the hell she put me through in those four years.

Eazylavezzi:
But come to think of it, You are indirectly cursing your God for creating you and your relatives....Less you forget, It's your God that created this animals for Us to consume, maybe you should read your Bible more often and appreciate what God has done for you. Your insult shows you don't love God and Humanity. Every Animals are for our enjoyment and has been given to us by God himself. Because you don't eat a particular animal does not make another person disgusting...same way, some animals you eat, some
people too will disgust you for eating it. So let us respect each others taste and preferences... nobody is forcing you to eat dog meat.

Shut up jesus boy, I dont even care about those preachings , thats not my field in the religion aspect.

uzoka12:
A very delicious Dog meat paper soup, try it one day and thank me.

Disgusting humans.

suckmedownthere:
Dog meat is delicious, even the white listed it under top 10 delicious meat ever......number 1 was duck meat

Y’all animals in human form. You all lose your senses to the sweetness of something terrible to consume and feel its normal because a little population of jobless white people listed it as delicious? Eating a dog? Mehn fck some humans both in heaven and earth.

ValCon888:
Avoid at all cost if you are in Nigeria.

Why please?

My own personal opinion is that , marriage is seen as a world tradition. A tradition we were born into, found our parents and family members in , and it’s the same thing all around the globe among all races. Whites, blacks , Asians , Etc.

Marriage isn’t gonna favour everyone the same way , good for a few, a lifetime regret for most . And kids ? Fruit of marriage ? Some people will get their greatest joy from their kids while some will be killed or endangered by their kids. Life isn’t balance , let’s just hope for the best in all.

MrCork:
M.0.D....FR0NT PAGE PLEASE!!

Juss saw Nigerian two guys again spekin pegion english in front of white ladies at the bus stop here in South London pekam. I waz so embarrass coz they Nigerian..can u imagine?? This is why we always tell people am Jamaican. U homebase people need to stop this $hit asap.. especially when u come to London. STOP EMBARASSSSIN US...PLEASE!!!! (REAL TALK)

I get your point but only a few can relate

DonroxyII:
There is Never a Human Without Side-Effect .... Never a Perfect Human Being ..... In fact If I see a Human Without Side Effect(The Negative Traits), I Run because That's gonna be a disaster I may not be able to Fathom Once it Pops ....!

You’re right but bro , trust me you don’t wanna deal with her type of person . You’ll spend the rest of your life with a woman who seems bitter and angry about most things , who hold grudges and could talk to you like crap when she’s angry

Holluwhakemmy:
I see the kind of person you are from your comment. So no doubt

I’m glad you can see

Holluwhakemmy:
be deceiving yourself

Lool, deceive my self ? Lmao .. I don’t blame you , this is Nairaland where cats , rats and dogs are kept in the same cage . You must think every guy on here is whack

Her wide hips and big asss, slim thick.. gives the best head, great cook, very clean , met her a virgin so I enjoyed the rubber alone , great cook and her cooking skills were mad. But she get anger issues

Nursepepeye:
you have been meeting escorts

Lmao escorts? lol , proud to say I’ve dated one of the most beautiful,successful and ambitious young women in Nigeria. Even if you were a guy with money , they would still pick me over you !

4 times daily

Maxwell775:
after getting her chicken republic food and drink.. what follows next? don’t lie

Then , they go to Hotel republic for thanks giving.
There will be kneelings to suck , praises of performance and lastly a happy ending .

That 2,200 naira will be fcked outta her body !!!!

Jennyclay:
Biko, Come and carry me out on a date with the money.

Thank you!

(Chicken Republic )

Rice and chicken with salad and drink - 2200 that's all you'll get .

Most women I date always like me more than I like them so I usually make the move on the first day and succeed , they on the other hand would do anything to satisfy me even if they are virgins

DaddyRochie1642:
If he doesn't want it and the offer is still on let me know, I can stream the man city vs Chelsea game and more.

Whatever you're smoking is working perfectly

I didn't buy shit for my girlfriend and I didn't say shit about it.

Only greeted her happy Val and we spent some times together indoors. Why would someone feel different about me over a days event that is Practiced by both , dogs, cats and rats ? And start behaving different over Valentine's, when other days I do good for her when I can.

Mehn I dey watch am make she dare act somehow.... I go turn am to sex object for years till I dumb her

Brandiebird:
It’s not a comparison, rather an analogy to illustrate that people with mental health problems or personality disorders are oblivious to their conditions until the symptoms become dysfunctional.

You have a point. I'm sorry, I did my research.

Brandiebird:
Ask yourself does a schizophrenic know that they are schizophrenic before they are diagnosed and treated? Same thing.

Co

4mee:
it takes one to know one

No fool, it doesn't .

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the red flags are obvious?

Why are men getting weaker? Why whyy

JTCHI:
Does a narcissist ever know that they are one? Will they accept or defend themselves eventually you made them know about it?

Currently, am dating one now. Of course I have read about narcissist behavior but it is quite unusual we have gone far. I doubt she knows herself well cause I want to call her out a narcissist to her face. However, I need some reactions here.

I'm dating one also and trust me , I know all your pains. They will put you through hell on earth. Bitter and angry humans, only happy a few times, manipulative thinking. And they mostly don't like admitting that they are narcissistic.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Hmmm. E be like say tinubulation neva give you correct hug. No be only valentine, you go soon see Bobby Valentino.🥱

Coz tinubulation is hugging you does not mean it's gonna hug him too. Stop being angry

Solofresh2:
So what do you want us to do for you now

To mind you damn business and not to jump into threads that are not meant for you.

You guys are bunch of haters .. why y'all angry? Did he do y'all wrong or y'all just fcking hungry and angry bastards.

C .. mehnn I can trade Nigeria for C