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nightfox01:
Wait o OP na women never make you buy car build house no go Hussle

Botking:
Lol Coming from a grown asshole who don't know how to be civil,
What a wasting of primary education, giving to this dumbo, lol I want to laugh

Bradford111:
I really love the girl thinking about this I couldn't sleep well So I should leave her?

franchasng:
If you want to marry in life and have peaceful marriage with peace of mind devoid of frequent marItal issues, then don't marry any lady you senior with more than 5 years at most.


Forget those cap of I want my wife to look young and pretty as we age, just pray to marry a lady with good gene who also eats well and exercise well.

As a guy of 29 you are, your ideal wife should be ladies of this age range: 24 - 30yrs..

My dad senior my mom with just 3 years and if you see them, they look awesome and young like in their 60s.

All my elder brothers married ladies of their age or those they senior with like 3yrs and they are all having blissful marriages. The only brother I have having marital issue gave his wife around 10yrs.

My friend that his marriage crashed few years after wedding gave his wife 11yrs.

Me I am happily and sweetly married to my heartthrob and I senior my wife with 2yrs+ and she has been more than a wonderful wife to me. If I get cash as much as I am expecting and praying/working for, I will get her a driver and a security guard just to show you how much this awesome lady mean to me.


My point is, don't marry a girl too young as a first wife. Maybe as second wife if you decide to take second wife for any future reason, but as first wife, marry mature ladies with value and understanding for your marriage to work.


Most girls below 27yrs don't know what marital union entails. They don't even have much value to offer to a man other than sex, and maybe cooking and cleaning house. Their girlie attitudes will get you bored and tired with time. Allow them live life and get burnt and appreciate a worthy man when they get one. Don't rush and marry girls below 27yrs if you want peace of mind in your marriage

Petyprincess:
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Trash!!! Will you advice your teenager sister to date a man almost at his thirty? You guys will just be giving advice that you can't give to your sisters!!
Y'all like younger women because they are easy to manipulate nd exploit at the same time! What is stopping him from waiting for her for three more years by that time she will definitely know what she wants if She's truly interested in this age gap shit! A girl at that age have no mind of her own!!

Bradford111:
So I just want your guys' thoughts on this I'm 20 years old and in a relationship with an 18-year-old lady she will soon be going to the university while for me it will be next year we do love each other but I'm just thinking about our relationship won't lead to marriage as there are many hurdles on the way but she told me she loves me more than the challenges ahead of us so what's your thoughts?!

Botking:
Lol, 18 year old female, don't know how to wash her undies, she doesn't even know left, right or center of her body. She is till a kid, for crying out loud, even the boy self is still an kid to be thinking about relationship

Aigbe01:
Guyz please I need advice! Been married for about 8 years now. I can not categorically call my wife bad because she has got some very good attributes every man desires. However, these good attributes only shows when there are no issues at home. When she is angry (which comes up more often these days) she is something else.

She can go for weeks without talking to me and I am sure, if I can stand it, she can go a year without talking to me. Whenever she falls into this mood, it gets me very uncomfortable. Whether I am wrong or right, I always apologize and try to get her to talking terms. In the mornings, I say "Good mornings" to her but she wont respond. When I go out or she goes out , she wont say a simple welcome, even when I say "Welcome" just to be break the silence, she wont respond. This has been going on from our early marriage , I thought it would stop but it is looking I'm going to live like this for the rest of life unless something happens.

Naturally, I don't report her to anyone because I still see her as a good woman. I only report her to her elder sisters, who has tried to resolves issues within us. She gets shock when I inform her that we haven't spoken for days and sometime weeks. I decided not to report her anymore since it hasn't helped but I am unable to take the silent treatment. it breaks me! I practically beg her to talk to me when she starts the silent treatment. I also observed she hardly ever apologize. Instead she will weep. I believe she is emotionally manipulating and torturing me. She often says I apologize too much and that apology means nothing to me , that is why it is so easy for me apologize. but as for her, it is save to say she dislikes apology. Sorry doesn't exist in her dictionary. She likes playing the victims when the malice gets so bad. When I can no longer take the silent treatment anymore, I would go begging her and apologizing. she would rather weep and hug me in reconciliation but will still refuse to apologize even when I say ok I am sorry for allowing this issues stay this long

I am not a perfect man, but I can boldly say I am a good man. I care for her and my family, I believe she loves me but I cant understand why she likes to keep malice even refusing to say just "good morning". Most of the times, what we keep malice for are so irrelevant. The last one, I removed her laptop from the reading desk and dropped it on the bed (which isn't the right place) because I wanted to use the desk. I remembered it wasn't the right place and said babe remove that laptop from the bed before someone sits on it. She replied if I wasn't the one who dropped it there. In all this we were playing in the room and I told her, ok, leave it there na. "Na you they use the laptop do project" and that was it. 2 days and counting , she hasn't spoken to me and answered my greetings.

I have 2 wonderful kids with her and I am so confused. It is easy for me because we re still young. I am 37. I fear for old age, If I can take this silent treatment in old age. I need advise guys. From my experience, she didn't have a good upbringing, from a toxic polygamous home which I think is affecting her. Each time I talk about the past it is war in my house. I bear the burnt from her past, that's what i believe. Your advice would go a long way.

From perosnal experience, I think tht she has a spiritual problem, please go out and find out, I've been in something similar but me I no dey apologize to anybody o, werey full my head

natedroid:
I met a girl I considered a good spec recently, fixed a date with her ,suggested we just go to chill and relax at my place (my sitting) since it offers more privacy, security and comfort after I drove to pick her up from her junction

But She refused and was more interested in us going to some fancy expensive restaurant or Cinema and it was almost 9pm . I had to reversed at the next junction and drive back to drop her at her gate

My concern is what if I decides to play along and take her out on a couple of dates where I’ll definitely spend 30k plus and she still refuses to follow me home or for us to package. She’s an undergraduate and lives off campus alone .

She often calls me on phone but I fear that she’s probably seeing me as her next meal ticket

Is a girl more likely to give you the cookie sooner if you use money and other stuffs to impress her ?

Bluezy13:
A final year undergraduate of Guidance and Counseling in a prominent public University didn't even suggest using condom even when condom was glaringly available. Someone she met about a week. She literally appeared responsible.

Like...she was supposed to be guiding and counseling me and the society, you know...
Well, maybe sex is not included in their entire curricular.

Ikennaford:
My first japa was 2017 turkey, met one philipino olosho,she told me the whole night 150$,,I told her with 150$ I go buy 2 plots of Land for aba,naso I reach my hotel, enter my bathroom, scatter my dick with soap,naso I save my money, imagine ordinary philipino

Candidlady:
If isay men are useless some people will come for my head


Dead incompetent gender

fadilaMaikiriki:
You said earlier that it's blood clots and not infection, now you're saying I should treat infection. Seriously, I don't know how to feel any more.

fadilaMaikiriki:
I don't even know what to believe anymore. The other person below said it's an infection. I'm just confused right now.

sharpwriter:
What are the differences between djinns and demons?

luminouz:
That's how most Nigerians are. Ruled by emotions and never logic. Hypocritical and judgemental yet guilty of the same.


Very few really understood OP's post. Even Ilegend himself messed it up

Ginaz:
you can't turn this table oga. I'm not the centre of discuss, my life got nothing on it. it is you, cos you are a mumu man. extremely shallow and immature, a narcissist and cunny . beating around the bush to sound like you have sense but you always end up sounding like you were not created with a brain.

you decapitated excuse of a man. leave your ex alone and worry about your stupid life.

iLegendd:
Nice reply. Since you're not bothered about your sibling or mom doing such, or even your adult daughter-to-be, why are you so bothered about another man's daughter, your ex and her new man? Is she more important than your blood? No.

So, you don't need to feel for the man. The man may have done worse to other people's daughters. In this life, there is more than 1 bad boy. You may be a bad boy, but her current man may be worse in the bad boy scale. #Smile.

CrownOfClay724:
You're jealous she didn't end up with you?

Despicable shiit you both did together and you're feeling for the dude

Come on!
You should feel for yourself, I think

IceDune:
bros your own Bobo na pro max. Lmao

sexylassie2:
So goats just gathering together made you fear.

Your superstitious believe took over you.

seanwilliam:
that's called a lucid dream

CheedyJ:
Ok..would sure keep that in mind...

Joeeasy:
I swear man! Once in awhile, I do have this super real dreams or should I call it hallucinations or out of body experience?

You know that feeling when you're asleep but fully aware of your environment? Yes, I experience this once in a while.

The first time I experienced this was in 2018 then I was sleeping alone in a very big office which was demarcated into subspaces. I choose this particular space because it has AC and rugs. While I was asleep, I heard someone talking, yes I felt the presence of someone around. The person then opened the door and walked to my head area(I usually sleep backing the door because I love facing the AC). He was so close to my head area and this experience was super real that I could barely tell if it's a dream. But the moment I gather the momentum to get up, everything just dissolves.

I also had another experience like this while I was living in an Airbnb apartment but the most recent one that happens today made me start giving thoughts to it because of the reoccurrence.
Then I stumbled on this post.

I'm currently in a new apartment I rented less than a month ago but I've gotten this trance-like experience twice, first one was with the groceries I bought from spar before the lockdown, I think I was just tired that day I left them in my kitchen inside the polybag, but something was playing with it(wasn't a rat, wasn't roaches) but the moment I decided I want to get up, it just stops.

Today's own, shit I can't remember anymore(will edit once I do) but I felt the presence of something or someone it felt like I was been starred at.

I don't interpret it as anything yet, but what puzzles me is the reoccurrence of this experience and fact that it felt so real that even inside the experience I'll question whether it's a dream.

God1000:
This is unspeakable, you guys have committed the crime of incest, but go and sin no more.