₦airaland Forum

klassyguy:
I have two lovely kids with my wife - a girl and a boy. My son is six years old while his sister is eight. Both were born here in the US. I’ve done what I feel is right as a father to train these kids, but I know not everything can be done accordingly.

My son is restless. He has the attention span of three seconds before he gets distracted by something else. My mum tells says he is a copy of me when I was his age, but that was in the eighties and the way children were handled back then is totally different from today. He hardly wants to do anything in terms of school work and almost every day I get complaints from his teacher that he does not do his work or he is disruptive in class. When other students are doing their work, my son will be the one falling off his chair or hiding under his desk. His teacher told me he acts out when being corrected. Only yesterday my wife told me the teacher met her when she went to pick them up in school and told her that my son started yelling when the lights in the class started flickering. His behavior got so bad, they had to call the school security officer before he calmed down.

This behavior is really bothering me. I know my son is smart. His pre-school teacher once told me he was the smartest student she had. My son can do complex mathematical equations off the top of his head that even his older sister struggles to do. He has a very good memory and can list off all the types of trains that exist in the US, things that even I don’t know. It’s sitting down to be serious about work that he can’t do and can’t seem to focus on.

I enrolled him in a soccer club to see if that would help him expel his excess energy. At first he seemed to be lazy as he gets frustrated easily, and rather try harder, my son would rather give up and cry. I mostly have to encourage him to put in more effort, and most of the time he does not pay attention to what the coach says. The coach told me a couple of days ago that he wants to move him to a lower group level to see if he can build his confidence there.

I want to believe it’s his being the last born for now that’s worrying him. He seemed to start being a bit more mature when my wife got pregnant last year and he learnt they had a younger sibling on the way, but unfortunately, she miscarried and we lost the baby. I’ve been thinking for a while now whether to move back to Nigeria with everyone so that we can build some sense into both of them (my daughter’s story is another one). I’ve thought of taking them both for an ADHD test, but my wife is against that. The only time my son pays attention is when he’s doing something he likes, and that is when he’s playing the PS5 I got them or watching videos on YouTube Kids.

Any advice would be welcome from parents out there.

KILLTHECOWS:
He made valid points..
A case of what happened in beyalsa..
He also stated that he became a billionaire at age 25,worked all his life to present.and that he dont take alcohol....I'm waiting for the Rivers governor's response to all this.

Kestolove:
Wike from south south, ortom from north central and darus ishaku from north east. We sabi dem

nwekeugochukwu:
A Nigerian mum lost her three-month-old baby after leaving the child at a crèche, IGBERETV reports.

Twitter user @Lolo_cy who shared the sad story online said no one knows what happened to the baby only that the mother came back to pick her baby's dead body.

She wrote;



https://twitter.com/Lolo_cy/status/1500387723064057857?t=rpOIKoXPwMkvP7UhpEqb5Q&s=19[/quote]This is most likely caused by SIDS (Sudden infant death syndrome)

It is associated with placing infants wrongly on baby cotts.

So sad..

Rostikol:
You have to wonder what's going through Macron's head as he sits there.

ifytrik:
So a friend of mine who is based in Lagos state called me few weeks back and was telling about how he is earning 225$ per week working for a foreign company in Lagos, I converted the money to naira and it was almost 130thousand naira per week

I asked him if there is vacancy in the company so I will apply and he said he will do something about it, he called me yesterday and said there is vacant for two workers and he has already collected one form for me, he said I should prepare myself make sure i come over to lagos between today (Friday 26th Nov 2021) to(Monday 29th Nov 2021)

He said the registration fee is 450thound naira, and I must come with the money, he also said if I fail to come before or on Tuesday morning next week then they will give the job to someone else.

Nairalanders based in Lagos state please help a brother, I don't want to be scammed, do you know of such company? Could this be real or another mmm?

ninocia18:
Hahaha! We saw it coming before he won the election. They put a sick man there so that after a while, he will step down and the chick will be president. We'll played, democrats. Well played, globalists. Unfortunately, this scripted was well known before now. This is either warm up or the real deal. America una never see anything.


Quote me at your peril.

Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.

I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.

I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her.

A305:
STOP the Doctors from performing that operation.

Get Astragulus to reverse your mom's kidney failure and when it's reversed, Get her on a low sugar diet and intermittent fasting.

I promise she will live very long and healthier.


And just so you know high Creatinine is a sign of failing kidney. The damage needs to be reversed ASAP.

izombie:
My friend, if you have money send your mom abroad immediately. Don't send her to India o. Because 90% of doctors in Nigeria are quacks. When they can't diagnose malaria, typhoid, diabetes and pneumonia they go for the kill. Never trust a Nigeria doctor. Send your mom to Europe or America, even south africa. Na beg I dey beg you o. Get a proper second opinion.

Faber:
Naeto C is not an Owerri man. He is Mbaise man. All Mbaise people claiming Owerri. There's no connection between Mbaise and Owerri. Mbaitolu and Ikeduru can claim Owerri cos their local dialect is almost the same, but not Mbaise. Mbaise have no borders with the 3 local governmens of Owerri. Ngor Okapala is their closest Neighbor on the Aba-Owerri axis and Mbanọ is their Closest Neighbors on the Okigwe-Owerri axis

Be proud of where you are married to Mrs Naeto Chikwe


Although Madam post no get meaning, Nevertheless, Mbaise men are the worst men in South East..as for their ladies omoh...very horrible. They are just meant to marry themselves. Them and Ngwa people are the same. Never ever allow Ngwa and Mbaise man marry your daughter, na suffering dey await her. I don talk my own finish.

Offpointng:
Their usual act of rejection can either be sued vertically or horizontally but when you compare the monetary value of cowries and silver coins, the sense-able distance btwn the manager and their workers is much more lower than a tuber of beans but atm we really can't blame anyone, CBN was once built with bamboo sticks

ProfAmaben:
You guys should keep pushing young folks into crime, I wonder what's the motive behind posting stuff like this.

emmykk:
Olusengu Obasanjo and Goodluck Jonathan enjoyed and benefited when PDP zone it to the south.it is time it is zone to the north.

Those that will not like this information are the yorubas who are glamouring for power to shift to the south but must be them that will get it.

How the yoruba went for VP over Southern president is the problem everyone is enjoying now.

Since they already claimed they helped the current president get to power by voting failure PRO MAX back to back and as such should be rewarded with the presidency come 2023 .
There is smart sense in that. The APC will surely give them the ticket as expected.
However that is if this new PDP northern candidate joker of 2023 don't scare APC Northern Cabal.

Now how a kano , kaduna,Bornu,sokoto and etc of Northern state will vote a yoruba over and hausa/fulani man in 2023 will be very interesting and not to mention that the South south and south east may not vote a yoruba either.

The yorubas will be quick to mention MKO and Tofa election yet MKO never become president neither will they recalled that that annulled victory was the common determination of all Nigerians north and south to kick out military rule that was enjoyed by northern then.

As a political follower of Nigerian politics
The southern components of Nigeria must agree on something otherwise the north will continue to rule.
They have the numbers,tricks and united.
While the south are divided.

I m from Delta state in south south.

greatbrian:
This happened yesterday morning, I had a flight to catch at the airport by 9 and I left Ibadan past 7 with my Toyota corolla sport. Las las Ibadan traffic dey mild and as I entered that Lagos Ibadan express way oboy Audi mode activated. I was doing around 140 to 150 when I heard a loud bang and gbagbagbagbagbahba. In sub seconds my brain processed that na tyre and if I match break oboy the car go start acrobatic display. Las las I drag gear for neutral and car came to stop after few seconds. Damaged my bumper, sand protector and some part of the rim.


Next time I will make sure I don't go above 100 with a corolla that's if there will be a next time with one.




And the breaking system is just so stupid and all. I wonder how corolla lovers cope