₦airaland Forum

miclil:
Persecution is part of Christianity as a christ followers you must pass through this process... it our cross of being peace Ambassador to all human race

Go & sit down somewhere.

You’re part of the reasons why Christians are being killed for no reason. You’re a weakling & you don’t need to contribute to topics like this.

realstars:
God is a battle fighter, his ways is simple, they kill us, we forgive them, and God oversee it all.

No oooo. It’s people like you that make Muslims feel they can finish Christians in this country. It’s time we drop this Holy Spirit fighting for us mumbo jumbo talk. All Christian nations are rising up to fight Islam by voting for far right leaders but Christians in Nigeria keep turning the other cheek for Muslims to slap us. Is it until they kill all the Christians in Nigeria before we rise up & arm ourselves?

We have the money & the international support from the west (US & Israel, I don’t know about UK) to fight for our freedom but people like you & men of God who only want to fleece Christians while the Muslims intensify their Jihad.

If not for few courageous Christians like Trump, FFK, Kanu, Wike & Oyedepo that have spoken up against the religious cleansing, I wonder where Christians would have been in this country.

You better be properly guided & snap out of your spirituality, else you’ll be their latest casualty in the ongoing Jihad. The Muslims are not joking with us in Nigeria!

Kingrefreshed:
As a parent with just one child. And as an engineer! I am struggling to fend for my son and give him the best type of life I want in this cursed country asked Nigeria. I tell you the truth, it's not that I can't comfortably provide for my family... No but each time I go to the market the prizes of things keep going up and and up and it bothers me.. The situation of this country can affect the sperm quality of a man. If I have a another child I'm done while I wait for my family visa to Barbados. I don't think I'll return here to live again.


God I've made my final decision.

God bless you. But some idiotic northern hawks want Nigerians to keep giving birth & sinking into poverty so their Islamization plans will be easy.

God will never grant their request to roll back our secularity. It’s either they accept our secularity or they go into a war they will lose shamefully.

Thanks for contributing bro.

femeritus:
The truth is that the country has gone so bad that the ONLY source of joy these poor people have is making love to their spouse.

You may say why don't they go for family planning but many of these people cannot afford the cost of family planning. Even if it's free, some can't even afford to use the only money to buy garri for the family for that day to transport themselves to the hospital and so the cycle continues.

If you've never been poor, you won't understand. God punish poverty. Better I have what some call VANITY than POVERTY.

If a family is that poor, then they have no business being married, let alone bringing children into the world.

maasoap:
For you all to see. That's a kid talking, probably 14 years old.

I am done with you. If my bluntness makes me a child to you, then I am a child.

If our southern leaders had discarded the political correctness to say the truth to the leeching north, Nigeria won’t be where she is today.

I won’t respond to you any longer since you want to play the role of spoiler on this thread.

concept65:
You can get off my dicck now, Im done and thank you.

Why are you angry?

Can you tell me the reason in one sentence?

maasoap:
This is a kid who hasn't even got his bearing right in life telling nairalanders how many kids to have. Just look at his responses, it lacks maturity that comes with age, childish responses

Yes, the Americans will intervene when you bring your jihad down south. Enough of the political correctness. Obama is gone, the republicans have the stage now.

I know you from the politics section & you’re a northern hawk so my thread is bound not to go down well with you.

Get off my thread you terrorist!!!!

Toneyo:
Thanks for the advice. Honestly it has never been any easy for me since I have the fifth one. Plans have been made for all five.

Accounts has been opened for all five for their education as I do strict monthly deposits to their accounts and they are my benefactors on my life insurance policy with AIICO.

I'm planning on going for vasectomy surgery. But I'm just afraid to do it.

OMG!!! 5 kids? It’s well.

Please don’t do the vasectomy, please.

Haddock:
Obviously, you're reeling in childhood fantasy. Enjoy it, it's a stage for all adolescents. So even imagined they'll be like Superman when they grow up.

I don’t care about your insults. I won’t have more than 2 kids. I lay the ground rules before anything happens. You can keep goading people into having more kids than they can cater for, not me.

mrsteel:
It is not harsh
It is even stated in d bible a man that can't provide for his family is worst than an infidel. No need having kids when u are poor. But if u happen to be poor after having them due to unforseen occurrence, then it is a different case

The poor will never understand & they will think they are being victimized for being poor.

Haddock:
But it's OK for your "OP OF THE YEAR", Chief uninspired07, to dictate how many kids Nigerians should have?! If concept65's suggestion offends you, don't you think your OP's opinionated post does same to others?

Why should any sane person be angry at a thread geared toward saving them from poverty & increasing the likelihood of their families escaping one of the worst countries in the world?

I can’t fathom why anybody will be against this thread.

concept65:
The OP is coming from a good place in saying what he is saying, he says people should have a maximum of 2 children, thereafter practice family planning due to the economic challenges facing the country, in the same vein, I am asking him to consider adopting. He will be hitting two birds with one stone - firstly by helping 2 children already in need and 2ndly by not adding to the already over-populated country.

And who says I can’t adopt?

vincentjk:
To southerners? Northerners should be your topic and not any other region because majority of them over there are just breeders

They would never listen anyways so what’s the point?

maasoap:
Rush back and modify your title. Kid wants 180 million people have passports ready in case there is a need to flee Nigeria. Lol. Kid's way of thinking is amusing

A war that will definitely will brought by people from your end of the country. We are ready for the war anyways—-the Americans & the Israelis are also—but within the short time left, I have to educate southerners against bringing too many kids to the unstable shithole.

Now, get lost from this thread.

gentleibraheem:
an aboki man like me would want to have 15 or more children. I don't give a damn about what you think

That’s why you are called Aboki, scourge of Nigeria.

Haddock:
Oga uninspired07, and you still want to have your "one or two kids"? For what?! To become soldiers or nurses in the future war of a failed Nigeria?!

If Nigeria really doesn't have a future & has failed, why don't you just completely understand refrain from bringing any innocent child to the failed State?!

That’s also an option. I can give birth to them abroad. But if I per adventure bear them here, I wouldn’t limit their ability to emigrate by having more kids to elongate my stay here.

Am I making sense?

vincentjk:
I've always wanted to have just 3 kids, I used to say 2 but 3 would be fine long as they'll feed well and go to school just like my dad did for my siblings and I

Is that all? Just food & any kind of education?

I will want my kids to have the kinda education I never had.

Limit child birth & you will do much more.

maasoap:
I'm here to expose your hypocrisy. I'm here to let others realise that you're a kid still living in a world of fantasy. When you are grown up, married and start having kids, come back and tell us your story of ten years in marriage

Get off the thread, it has obviously hit you where it hurts.

My thread is directed at Southerners. Just stop posting on this thread.

We don’t need your kind here.

tumababa:
Some people av just 2 and they will still send them to do househelp.

Outright lie!!!! I do not believe this.

Winneygirl:
You can do a vasectomy after your second child.
Birth control is not only for women

Lol....this is funny. I will pass, thanks.

Biglittlelois:
It's just like me saying all Ogun state people including you are ritualists since they all mine heads and skulls because they are too lazy to do get a legit income paying job, won't that be a stupid generalisation? Get sense next time you type nonsense.

Ok, I apologize to the people of Kwara for painting them with a tar brush.

I am that magnanimous to apologize when I am corrected.

royalvalue:
No. Actually your stupidity struck her sensibility and she had no choice but to help you out of your miserable illusion by knocking your off you high horse.

Please know this, you are not intelligent. Intelligence is not when you can write in English. A common trait of a miseducated is the tendency of a person to stereotype a large community of people as you did. And your ignorance of the things you wrote about is nauseating.

Lesson:
Don't be in a rush to impress yourself by your miseducation and lose track of the need to be sensible.

My observation about kwarans is an objective one, corroborated by the opinions of millions of Nigerians.

When you here about ilorin, what comes to mind if not Islamic alfas?

As for your other insults disguised as an advice, I will pass.

Have a profitable Sunday.

001bumsa:
I have two, a boy and a girl. Do you know at my place of work they told me that i hate children for not wanting to have more. I tried to explain to them that even to take care of these ones is a tug of war, why should i want to bring more into these world to suffer them. I am even segregated for saying two is enough foe me.

Don’t mind them. They want to see you & your kids stuck & suffering in Nigeria.

Take care of those kids & get them a passport so you can all flee out of Nigeria at short notice. At least God has blessed you with a boy so you have nothing to fear.

God bless.

Blueelf:
Then you have even poorer logic too.....you may not even have any logic at all

Everyone has different opinion....Poverty respects no one. Whether you have 2 or 10 kids. When there is poverty, the difference will hardly be noticeable

This is a lie & you know it but I won’t argue with you.

You just want more innocent Nigerians to fall into the poverty hole you’ve dug yourself into.

If my education cannot teach me to fear Nigeria, what have my parents gained in educating me? This is a failed contraption & our children deserve better.

RealMillennial:
OP God bless you.
If you're still hustling, this 2020 ehn your hustle must reach permanent site.

You don't know how happy I am when I chance upon Nigerians that reason well like you. Our land is filled with folks who prefer to live in denial of reality. It's part of the reason for our poverty.

I keep telling people that getting married isn't such a big deal. I think at this age with the little I know about life and my discipline, I can handle marriage.
The real deal is raising kid(s). If that part doesn't scare you, bro/sis I troway salute o. You try pass me.

I think the reason why average people can have many kids in Nigeria is they don’t pay attention to the socio-political condition of Nigeria. They know nothing of Geo politics or national security. They think they are ensconced from the madness in upnorth. They feel Nigeria cannot erupt into war of famine anytime soon.

I just don’t feel comfortable raising many kids in Nigeria as presently constituted.

Willdone5406:
As FOR ME OVER 1.5 CHILDREN IS ENOUGH SIMPLE

Na so oooo Over 1.5 straight.

maasoap:
When you have spent 10 years in marriage, come back and tell us how many kids you have by that time. You're not even qualified to brag for now.

Again, you’re a northerner & you are not qualified to contribute to this discussion because it is against your religion & culture. You can see I directed my message to southerners?

Preetychina22:
I beg to differ. You're the one with a poor logic.
A man who has 2 kids and earns 100k monthly will cater for his kids better than a man who earns the same amount but has 10 kids.
It's simple logic, stop twisting it.

Don’t mind him. Let him keep rationalizing willful poverty.

Psoul:
Hahahahahahahahahaa....Oga leave matter.
The thing wey we dey talk while going to fetch firewood for bush no be the same thing we dey talk on our way back from the bush.

Leave courtship out of this biko.

I will lay the ground rules for any woman I want to marry ooo. If she defies my rule mid-marriage, I might as well exit the union. It seems some of you don’t know the severity of the issue at hand.

davidque:
Get one thing straight. Not all fingers are equal. While your perspective or reality of things is hardship and difficulty, some people are having the time of their lives in this seemingly difficult time. Many can afford the wherewithal and time to raise 5 children. I have 3 daughters and i dont pray extra prayer for bills and other needs. Not everyone as issues with raising children, some have one and life is hard for them

This sounds like a consolatory tale but it’s alright. You can have more kids since you’re yet to have a boy.

Good luck.

Preetychina22:
Wow

You shouldn’t be surprised. He’s a northerner & they have a mandate to overpopulate Nigeria. They can have Nigeria, a backwater, big for nothing shithole to themselves, we would gladly leave the expired contraption to them. It’s the southerners who want to bring plenty children to continually battle with Almajiris that I pity.

Liposure:
One of reasons 4 high birth rate is dat In most communities, people tend 2 hav many kids as dis places them in a special class.another reason is dat families hav a strong conviction dat one or more of the children will become rich n thus change d status of d family.

You see the problem? Does one of the kids have to be rich? What they need is to be comfortable & be able to cater for themselves individually. And what you need to get there is a sound legacy of education. I didn’t get any inheritance from my father other than education & it’s serving me well. I also intend giving my 1 - 2 children good education. They should be able to take things from there.

Nigeria will be worse in 20 years time with northern Almajiri kids storming Lagos from the north. No southerner wants to even imagine the carnage that will happen then. By then, the sane ones will be watching Nigeria on CNN from better nations.