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TooMuchStuff:
Correct Oil nak ya head!! The only way to go

Violence should not be ruled out...

nofin is outta table

This is the crux of the matter. We need to be willing to deploy force because the core north will never allow change to occur.

How can illiterates destroy the lives of over 100 million southerners?

I am a Christian & I think it’s time the Church drops this conciliatory stand. It’s time we got radicalized. The UK, US, India & other nations in the world are fighting against Islam but we just keep spewing grammar. Our leaders are insincere & hypocritical.

Enough of the platitudes & time for action.

Dynamichabby:
It's annoying the way our christians brother's takes this issue without any sense of reasoning.... Firtsly i dont think majority of u takes time to read the content of his message His message is to "CAN" ( christian association of Nigeria) who has been making derogative message about islam... And the correction is this terrorist should be addresses as terrorist not as muslims... And secondly i believe we ought to have grown beyond fighting one another about issues like this, any group that plans to hinder peaceful coexistence of the world should be jointly wiped off not to section it to a certain religion.... No sane person under the pretence of religion will take another life. Thirdly statistics has shown that this people kills more muslim than christians, so this should be joint thing and lastly why are christians quick to jump to conclusion that islam is a religion of wars?? İ advice majority of u to do more research about this religion i know you will find out that the religion is the religion of peace, this people are miss interpreting the verses of the quran to suite their evil act.... Thanks quote author=ebukajay184 post=85278388]

http://igberetvnews.com/1213431/sultan-muslims-will-provoked-take-arms-fight/

Islam is a religion of war, bloodshed & terror. There’s nothing you can tell us to the contrary. Say something else abeg.

drlateef:
You definitely are the greatest terrorists hiding under the cover of christianity and democracy to decimate the muslim countries. Even in Nigeria, you see them forcing their will on muslims by banning hijab in schools, forcing muslim kids to sing the hymms in schools against their will. I was forced to buy hymm book to read. Christian religious studies were forced on muslims by christian fanatic trachers. Yet, muslims have no voice. No matter what you christians do, your religion will be crumbled and crushed by Allah because it is based on fraud and deception. No falsehood will stand for long.

What about dividing the country so we Christians can go our way?

What about that for a deal?

If it’s war you want, you can never win because the West (US & UK) will come in to save Christians. The liberals —who are sympathetic to Islam—have lost power in the West & will not gain it anytime soon. If you want a solely Islamic nation, we can Divide Nigeria no problem but we shall never become an Islamic country. Never!!!

Onoroyiza:
Oh really. Are you talking about the Muslims or the religion?.
It is people like you that use to start world war and later find somewhere to hind until the world is over.
I still don't understand what all these Christians are saying. I am not saying the killing is right yes anybody caught killing should be dealt with in accordance of the law. I know my religion very well and it has never taught anything bad to anyone only good morals and please don't insult my religion again

If he insults your religion again what will you do? Bomb him to death as usual?

Omar09:
To everyone is their own understanding of the redpill. I understood from all ubunja teaching that I can live without a woman. And that it is not a do or die affair I get a girlfriend. It is not a mind game but rather a shield to their mind games. Can you believe it if I tell you that my mum age 55 still uses some manipulation tricks on my father age 64?

Its just a tool that is handy. I have a guy right in my street because he bought a phone for his girlfriend and the girl dumped him immediately after receiving the phone of 55k wanted to round up boys to go collect the phone from her. Of not that I stepped in told him not belittle himself he would have lost his life as to no one knows if the girl has boys install for him.

Like I said to everyone their own understanding.

If I may ask, why did you tell him not to collect his phone back?

Omar09:
Since you have learned how to deal with women, a good number of men don't know how to deal with women. So allow them to learn. If you think ubunja has done too much, and you need to hustle you might as well use the business and investment forum here or better still face the real world.

It’s true though. Maybe I should leave the young ones to learn.

ubunja:
they all think money is magic when the wives of men with money are being screwed by broke guys. Even Jeff bezos, the world's richest man, just lost his wife. Let them chase money and be left holding their money after their women walk. No amount of money will teach any man about women.

You'll get women but they'll play you. Cause you're just an ATM.

This is a lie. I have all your teaching but it won’t work on any Lagos based Nigerian girl. They don’t give a fvck about all the mind games. They just want to see you doing good. Then, you can apply all the red pill principles.

Women hate losers who are doing bad financially. Ubunja, you’re not a Nigerian so you can never know our women more than we do.

Get off your High Horse is SA & come down here to see that our women are beasts when it comes to money issues. Money is all they care about & not some rubbish red pill strategies!!!

Nigerian girls are not South African or Zimbabwean girls. Our girls are the most materialistic in the Africa nay the world. Get off your high horse!!!

Omar09:
Bro I get your point here. There should be more mised. Money is a great factor. I don't have it now. And to be honest with I tried getting girls without the cash true it was girls who are still growing and yet to know the value of cash. But without this mised I would have continued in my foolish ways trying to get this women and woo them. The mised is not to get women, but it is an enlightening book on how women think. You don't have the money, get the mised so that when the money comes, you'd know how to manage it. Men who have that money are suffering heartbreak. Money doesn't shield you from such. If you have the cash and don't know how to behave these leeches will suck you dry and hop to the next guy and maybe the guy knows his onion, they tend to stay. Money answers all things but money isn't all.

You have a point. Personally, I have a catalogue of all Ubunja’s teachings & lessons from wider & better red pill forums. How to deal with girls is not my problem. My immediate need is money. When money comes, any girl I come in contact with will suffer a lot because i won’t value her.

What I am saying in essence is, per Nigerian girls, chase money first & other things will follow. I can’t imagine applying red pill philosophy to any girl at this my age. I am too advanced & mature to use ubunja’s teachings to deal with Nigerian girls of my level as it will not work. All a Nigerian girl needs to see is that you’re doing well financially & she might not collect money from you. She just wants to know that you’re comfortable. In that kinda scenario, all the red pill orientation in this world will not work on her.

The kinda girls that red pill can work on are secondary, Jambites & part 1 year girls. Even part 1 Nigerian girls are on instamessage & CodedRuns doing Olusho work.

The situation in Nigeria is not normal at all.

Americanboy35:
God bless you brother

I keep saying that truth but they hate me for it.

All that red pill stuff won’t work on Nigeria girls. They are immune to it.

sefiureal:
Nigerian Christians need brain overhauling. you see their educated ones behave like a stack illiterate only when Islamic issues creep in.

They will never make a thorough investigation on killings before they jump into conclusion.

Muslims are mostly affected by the killings in Nigeria even around the world.

Go to China, Pakistan, India and those that are yet to be revealed.

May God punish all those that want Islamic monotheism to SINK

Awon Islamophobia.

CAN want to set this country on FIRE. They should continue. I swear they will all regret this.

Sultan of Sokoto has spoken. I love you sir!

I SMH for you. So Christians should sit back & allow Muslims kill all of us?

It’s not your fault sha, it’s Christian & Southern leaders I blame because they have not prepared Christians to militarily ward off Muslim attacks.

drlateef:
Lords Resistance Army are fighting for Allah.
Thr Buddhists in Myanma are muslim terrorists.
The Americans are a nation of muslims killing others in Iraq, Syria, Afghanistan, killing thousands of women and children, raping them. American also nuked Japan, definitely Americans are muslims.

You are an idiot indeed.

You are a terrorist & shall stew in your own jihad. The world’s attention is now turned to Nigeria & you shall fight that war you’ve always wanted. Terrorist!!!

AFONJAPIG:
If Igbo man have a mansion in Lagos, Singapore abuja or kano , expect him to have one in his home town , not those afonjas that Lagos is their heaven and earth while they don't have a befitting house in their undeveloped villages... Aku luo ulo , onowu

I am a Yoruba man & Lagos is my village, same for millions of Yorubas.

What is your point?

OgunLaakaye:
If we remove Christianity and Islam from the world, it would be a better place.


Damn, This two religions get wahala.

Even amongst themselves individually, they are in war.

Why are you like this? Why don’t you say the truth that the Muslims are the violent ones? You’re a muslims & you don’t want it to look like your religion is the culpable one here.

My joy is that the Republicans have taken note of your shenanigans in Nigeria & that war you want with Christians will happen soon. If not for that Muslim shill Obama, we won’t have Buhari in Office. He & the Democrats caused all these Muslim insurrection all around the world & they shall pay for it for many years to come as the American people will never vote for Muslim loving democrats again.

2020 is here & that war Muslims want in Nigeria shall happen & will lose bad. Continue your taqiyya (lying & deceit) you have always engaged in. Your recompense is on the way.

Mindfulness:
Who said you were poor? I have been telling you all along that there is more to dating and attraction than money but you won't hear.



Level up! This is what I have been telling you all along. But while you improve your looks, read some books too.

What gives you the audacity to advice me to level up? Do you know me in person? You have done enough on this thread & you have been noticed. It’s time to let up now. It’s not every man that will bow down to women & no amount of insults from you’ll change someone like me.

Now you can just stay thin thread, you’ve been running around it since yesterday & you must be tired.

MajorWarren:
Lol this is me. You know your self worth bro, just get your money up and you don’t ever have to chase any girl ever again. Girls love money and the security it brings and once you have it you’ll always get them, it’s a tough pill to swallow but that’s reality. I ain’t complaining tho

Thanks jareee.

I don’t know how an individual will just set out to instigate trouble every time on this section. This is supposed to be a place where adults & married people converge but it has been turned into an enclave for men hating feminazis.

My only crime to these hateful beings is my statement that I hate bowing down to & begging any woman for an amorous relationship & prefer getting my money up.

Mindfulness:
Like you said, accomplished guys will have no problem dating anyone. And nobody said only illiterates migrate but in some places you will find more illiterates than educated Nigerians.

All I am saying is that it is not all about money. The people with money have money for a reason and these reasons is what many women are attracted to more than money.

@bold
Yes because your background shows through your demeanor.

These are some of the annoying things you people say that is creating a wide gulf between men and women in the dating scene. So because I made this thread now, you assume I must be poor & so undesirable?


It’s not your fault, it’s because I created this thread.

I have gained what I need from this thread.

Thanks to all the guys that commented. I appreciate you all.

Legionx:
You have many haters but know this, there are many more people who love you and your miseducations... Till 2020

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year

I like ubunja but he behaves like an emperor. He’s not a king & romance section is not an ubunja monarchy.

He’s not infallible & some of us know his teachings don’t work on Nigerian women. They only respond to money.

blowjohn:
Ur a fool.
Keep making them ur reference point.
Nonsense.

You’re clearly bitter. You better take it easy as you’re not the only one facing this Buhari’s Nedt Level.

ubunja:
that's right. Feel sorry for yourself.

I thank God our exchange is documented for all to see. You’re a megalomaniac!!!!

Just continue living your best life on NL romance section.

cassyrooy:
Very smart of you.

Like the OP went on to say, women would like either attention or financial stability. This buttresses the saying that goes thus: with everything we do, there are other things left undone.

Wanting both is looking like an impossible thing to give with the unfolding realities in today's society.

Economy is hard, male folks are trying to up their game, so they try to avoid women who wouldn't be helpful in achieving that goal or who may not be patient enough to see that ambition materialize.

Or they give them attention and after sometime, they no longer measure up to new realities because things have changed.

Finding balance in these extremely polarised life is not easy to come by, men, women, feminists of both gender should be able to see through these and not how bashing or not it is.

They have been more worse things on NL than this one.

Wonderful contribution.

ubunja:
and why does my inconsequentiality bother you?

Ok. Sorry.

moscow406:
Most people don't come here to complain, they come for advice.

No one is an island of knowledge, the thread openers felt they've
encountered a wall and that's because they are inexperienced. All the names Op mentioned are people who have had one or two experiences with women, I don't think one can boast of never falling prey to funny encounters with women.

Experience they say is the best teacher, people grow with experience, it's necessary. Whoever reads Ubunja's miseducation should know this, don't be a loner all in the guise of waiting for ladies to show greenlights. Relate with people, you'll widen your scope, just break out of d norm of talking to every lady you see, set standards, work on yourself, upgrade yourself to a better version, a wiser version.

And I don't see why Op mentioned MrCork, the guy's a nuisance and doesn't have anything to offer, admire him at your peril.

Happy New year..

Nice one. I think in this year we witnessed the highest volume of wailings by guys about women—I wailed a lot too but it didn’t change anything as no woman will pity you because you wailed. Why can’t guys just forget about the issue of women for the meantime & look for money? Does constant rejection feel so good?

2020 is a new year & energy should be channeled to something more productive jaree. It’s getying tiresome & it ridiculed guys before the women here. Enough with the wailing threads.

ubunja:
so what's the problem here?

Learn to take the views of others without seeing it as an affront on your person. Although you’re respected on NL by young people in this section, in real life you’re not so consequential. I don’t mean to insult you, just stating the fact.

Learn to let things go.

blowjohn:
Guy ur lost o I swear.
People like u will even indulge in homosexuality or other fetish methods to make it.
Which one are u shouting 'find ur way' up and down?
if u like don't enjoy the works of ur hand.
Keep 'finding a way'

I normally will insult you but you’re lucky I can’t do that right now.

Just leave all these people alone & drop hating them. They have escaped what you are still battling with so pray for grace.

sassysure:
Then tell us why u created the topic.

Ok, since you want to hear it so desperately, to seek validation for my decision by other brothers in the game. Are you happy now?

ubunja:
do you even know what an insult is? Bossman Stick with what works for you. No need to worry yourself about the Miseducations.

You’re very knowledgeable about female thinking pattern & you have gained fame on this forum for it. But you’ve also become very proud & unyielding to differing opinions & to need work on that. It’s not everybody that will be yes men to you. Your miseducation work for young men dealing with part 1 - 2 Nigerian university girls. As soon as a Nigerian girl gets to part 3 in the university, your miseducation don’t work on them no more. That’s what I am saying but you seem to think I am undermining your work.

Learn to accept the opinion of others. It makes you an all round better person. Safe.

adisababa1234:
OLD MAN FOOD
YOU GO SOON REGRET THAT ONE DECISION WEY U MAKE FOR MARRIAGE.

She has chosen her path ooo & I don’t see her regretting. At worst, she won’t get much out of Ned’s will but she’s enjoying as much as she can while he’s alive.

Overall, I feel she made a good decision. If she had married a young man, na fvck he go take finish her & she will have to build wealth with him—which is not certain.

My brother abeg no blame this women ooo, just Dey look dem & pray to your God.

nijabazaar:
Now we are discussing it.

Something I know is, in the not too distant future , gays will start marrying in Nigeria (that is if she still exists as a country) . Who would ever believe that conservative India of all places will allow same sex marriage.

I made this observation based on these trends
A. People are becoming less subverted by religion and thus much more rational
B. People attitude to gay or LGBTQ pple is becoming more tolerant or else why would Bobrisky be sprouting up and about like a peacock.
C. The Internet is a powerful influence. As the younger generation gets more educated and logically exposed, they shed off stereotypes and transferred presumptions .
D. America will use its soft powers (Hollywood and weapon sales denial) to arm twist Nigeria (if She still exists by then) into amending her laws. Trump won't be there forever. He is above 70

Gays can marry as long as poverty is eradicated in Nigeria ooo. Bobrisky lives a better life than more 85% of Nigerians so of what use is the opposition to gay unions?

Ardar:
Bunch of hypocrites.

Homosexuality have always existed and will continue to exist, the earlier Nigerians start accepting it the better.

Hmmmmmm. I used to be against but I am indifferent now because Nigeria still has plenty problems even after the gay law.

We really shouldn’t concern ourselves with what two consenting adults want to do with their bodies in the privacy of their room.

We need to undo the Buhari years & bring back prosperity & hope to Nigerians.

Litmus:
I have many great expectations and hope for Nigeria; however, only epistles would do them justice here on Niaraland. Since attention spans are limited, I'll share this short thought : I hope everyday Nigerians now realise just how ludicrous the notion is that those who spend huge amounts of time cussing Nigeria mean the country well. Nigerians only have to look at how Davido, Burnaboy, Temi, Yemi, Zlatan and the host of Nigerian singers as well as comedians on Social Media like Emanuella, BrodaShaggi; Vlogers like Tayo, etc have somewhat elivated Nigeria. People that creat and do things instead of cussing have made life a little more bearable for Nigerians. The cussers have done nothing for Nigeria except chase away investors , create ethnic tensions, praised Bokoharam and some might even add, cynically, that they brought Buhari to power. he ran on a ticket of curbing corruptuon , the flagship excuse of those that insult and heap abuse on Nigeria excessively. Don't get me wrong , I hold no grudge for Buhari, Jonathan, or any Nigerian leader, they all had and have their beneficial and disadvantageous parts. Doers help Nigeria cussers destroy Nigeria not help her.

Those that insult Nigeria only want benefits for themselves not ordinary Nigerians. They want ordinary people to rise up and destroy, leaving a vacuum that they may exploit to gain power. It has always been a suspect idea that insulting you is for your own good. Now that we have lived with that cussing for over twenty years it has only brought depression and introduced inferiority complex to the Nigerian psychology.

What are you saying in a nutshell?

Nigerians shouldn’t complain any longer?

ubunja:
your moniker was very telling actually

Ubunja, I respect your teachings but it won’t work in Nigeria.

It will surely work in South Africa, Ghana & Zimbabwe but it can’t work in Nigeria without money.

We are too corruptly exposed.

I won’t respond to your snide remarks. I respect you & your teachings too much to engage your insults.

blowjohn:
See this guy. Nobody is saying we r better.
But we prefer the life we r living to theirs is what we r saying.
Even the bible talks about the wicked being richer than the righteous. But that doesn't bother us one bit.
If we were jealous like u said trust me we would go the same way and the world will be full of filth.
U talk as if committing sin and living a good life is cool as long as poverty is out.

The same way we talk about them is the same way they talk about us so they have to deal with it.

They are not the cause of your predicament bro. Don’t hate them because they have found their way.

The people you should hate are the polite who caused all the poverty & made Nigeria hell on earth.

And about them talking about you, they don’t know you or care about you to talk about you. Just face your hustle in the new year & pray for grace.

Naija no be am oooo. Bobrisky & Tacha don find their way, u sef find your way. No amount of sermonizing will save you from the crushing poverty in Nigeria. Find something to do to escape the anguish.