₦airaland Forum

anthonyuncle:
only those that have been to alausa secretariat for something serious can understand dz post

Especially Lands Bureau. I hate going to that place. Everything is manual & you can hardly get a search done.

I don’t know why it is so hard to digitize the whole process.

Buhari, through ethnic chauvinism is inadvertently laying the ground work for the federalism the south has been asking for. He should have disbanded all the hisbah police in the north but he didn’t —thinking he was aiding Arewa north. Now the south west has been given the justification to set up our much awaited state police in our 6 states.

Let’s see how things will pan out.

Gandollaar:
This table you are shaking upandan has fulani on it ooo..

You sound very impatient with this your crazy obsession of an unrealistic oduduwa nation of your dream.

If you guys have a "plan" or are still hatching one, pls ensure to keep very close to your chest for now to enable you go far with it.

If you guys allow fulani to panic over this Amotoekun thingy, they will call for it's disbandment in their most ruthless and sarcastic tone ever

You guys should thread softly not to create more problems trying to solve one.

I don’t understand this your comment ooo. What will the Fulani do when they have hisbah police all over the north?

I think this is a good step by the SW region. Let’s wait for the response of the northerners. We should stop paying attention to the violent threats of northerners because there’s no monopoly of violence anywhere. Things have to change.

oshaosha2014:
That one is sick.

Sure, seems so.

A nice tribute to the legendary film maker. I Stan!!!

Curvinus:
This is clearly why your wife has turned against you. You are belittling her achievements by attributing it to favour and luck instead of acknowledging the efforts and hard work she actually put in to arrive where she is now.

You seem to also have an entitled mentality by expecting her to be nice to you just because you were nice to her in the past. Unfortunately, most humans aren't designed to function this way. Humans are naturally selfish and would think about self before any other consideration. Its how the specie have survived and thrived over the ages.

Yes you were nice to her but you would agree that there may have been some selfish undertone . I dare say that you were also doing that to satisfy some selfish cravings to own another human being or "my beautiful wife" as your put it.

Again, one would also want to believe that your wife bowed to you while you were lord of the manor. May be its time to also swallow your pride and let her dictate the tune now that she pays the piper.

Clearly, you've had your time in the sun and now that it's her turn to shine, you wouldn't want to be seen as being in her her.

So let go of your siege mentality and try to step up your game or you lay low and let her bask in adulation and fame that her breakthrough has brought on her.

What kind of advice is this? Are they not supposed to be a team? Or do I have my understanding of marriage all mixed up cos I am confused with some of the advice I am seeing on this forum.

Op should settle his marital issue in house because we have different kind of people online whose advice will likely not bode well for his marriage.

OgunLaakaye:
She sef know say nobody fit marry am.

Fvck tool for life!

Lol.....never say never ooooo. Plenty money miss road guys dey dis Nigeria wey go marry her ooo.

I am sure she will be expensive to marry & there are plenty yahoo boys that will gladly marry her.

Ilekokonit:
And you say she is a Doctor ??

A Doctor advocating poisoning fellow humans or going Diabolical

I pity her hapless patients.

It wouldn't surprise me since 20% or more of Medical Students cheated their way through Medical School Exams.

A Doctor that dares mention poisoning another human being on a public forum in a Western country will pay for it by having their licence suspended or revoked especially with the recent cases of medics in the West intentionally poisoning and killing patients in their care. Google Dr Harold Shipman.

That’s why the NMA has to swing into action & withdraw the license of the subject here.

I will have to google NMA’s emails & author a petition.

oshaosha2014:
Lmao. What is wrong with being average looking??No matter how I dislike a person I don’t jump to personal attacks, I just attack their idea. I don’t really like most her comments but I would never call her ‘ugly’ because of that. Don’t you know it is good to have divergent views to a particular discuss We all shouldn’t be saying the same things. I appreciate her view to the subject matter but don’t necessarily agree with them. I believe we all can get along without personal attacks. God bless.

Bro, I apologized to her earlier because I realized my comments got to her but for some inexplicable reason, i just feel catharsis knowing I hurt her today because she’s a very vile woman.

I am sure she will reconsider her online conduct & strange ideologies going forward.

OgunLaakaye:
She fvcks big men

No wonder she has a wide Vjayjay.

And someone will marry her in future?

All these politicians don’t care about ordinary Nigerians. There’s no need for Nigerians to fight for them.

pocohantas:
I will like to know the part of feminism that said;

1. Don't fck.
2. Don't cook (for your man).

Maybe that will make me understand the Nigerian male response to topics like this.

Can we see your picture, please.

Put your picture on your profile.

davidadebanjo18:
it was a masturbation video
this is the link for the video
http://misspetitenaijablog.com/2020/01/01/watch-nigerian-actress-ronke-tiamiyu-masturbates-live-on-video/

Damn, she’s got wide & weak pussy wall.

It’s alright, she will be fine in the end.

I don’t even know the girl, what does she do for a living?

Gbemishile1:
Watched the video.it was just about 7 seconds but it was enough to see her vj.

Where’s the video now?

midnighter:
And so have you, unfortunately because I keep being assaulted by your vulgar and otiose posts on every page smh

uninspired indeed smh

Who are you again? Remind me, please.

If there’s one thing I learnt from this thread, it is that insulting women based on their looks gets to them regardless of their pretentions.

I will refrain from attacking them personally as it hurts them deeply.

Jyde89:
wow, just read the wife's response now and I although didn't type it sincerely regret misjudging her. I advice the both of them to part ways for sanity sake.

Part ways? Can’t they try to resolve the issue?

midnighter:
...What is wrong with you? Cant you disagree with somebody without rambling on like a village drunkard?

Wtf I actually thought you were slightly sensible reading through your population thread but youre even worse than the majority of the illiterates here

Ok. You’ve been noticed.

Kampack:
I never wanted to comment on this post, but this your "forehead" part really cracked me up big time!

I also took a cursory look at her profile pic and noticed the ugly biitch had forehead like palmwine gourd

It's one of their very unique physical traits. Such women are usually extremely bitter. But I think this one up there is an ogbanje if you look very closely . She also looks like a psychopath.

Op, please, by all means necessary get back on your feet. Hustle real hard and bounce back. Cheers

Lol. Una no go kill me with laughter this new year ooo

richie240:
Dhur!
She has already commented/responded. Whether she wants a wider coverage is what were talking here; and moreover, this is a faceless forum. No one knows either of them.....neither of the 2 has mentioned their names.

I mean the husband shouldn’t give a rejoinder to his wife’s post.

This is an issue to be settled at home.

The divergent views that will be gotten from anonymous bachelors & spinsters will likely tear their marriage apart. Both parties will do well to settle the matter through clergy & elders in their respective families.

Preshy561:
Woow!! This is why you should always hear from the two parties.
Madam, open a thread and invite the mods.

Cc: pocohantas, funmisticqueen

Madam wife of OP, don’t respond to this thread. The resident demons are being called to tear your marriage apart. Deal with this issue in house, please.

God will not scatter your marriage in a new year.

richie240:
Why not open a counter-thread so DT everyone who saw/commented on his thread can equally see things from ur own side and equally comment as well.
Don't forget to tag the mods/supermods to put it on front page

Madam wife of OP, don’t honor this post. This is the time to settle this issue at home with your husband with elders of both families.

God will restore peace in your marriage.

Oga OP, don’t post any further & go settle your issue with eminently qualified men of God & members of the family.

We don’t want both sides of the gender aisle tearing your marriage apart. There’s always a way to settle family feuds amicably.

Don’t even respond to your wife’s post on Nairaland. We have many crazy people here.

There’s really wisdom in hearing both sides of a dispute before passing judgment.

I think at this point, OP should not post any reply to the his wife’s response to this post. He should take the initiative as the man of the house to settle this in house. We don’t want strangers passing judgment on his wife—further exacerbating the problem.

Truthwillout:
I am Strungup79's wife and I have watched the drama here unfold in silence. Here is a copy of a message I just sent my husband on WhatsApp. I hope it will put things in clearer light.

I'll try to keep this brief. I started this year on a sour note, crying bitterly. Because of you total strangers called me bitch and all sorts of unprintable names. Some even went as far as saying I was diabolical and ¹reversed your fortunes with juju, and you basked in it all, all because of the lies you told them. You have repeatedly told your siblings the same lies. I emasculate you. Really? I emaaculate you yet i led my colleagues, our neighbours and practically everyone I know to believe that you are the breadwinner and doing a marvellous job. I emasculate you, yet when the rent needs to be paid, I pay it into your account first just so no one will know. I earn good money but no one knows it because everything goes into running this family. I don't save a dime. I NEVER complained about you not working these past 4 or 5 years. You complained about me spending a lot of time at my mum's place. I do that so that I can avoid the endless streams of alterations with you, and for other reasons I'll spare everyone here.

Every single time you bring this up, I reassure you that all I want is the best for you. I encourage you, fast and pray for you, yet I'm a bad wife. You actually called our daughter and told her I am a bad wife. She cried her eyes out when she told me all the nasty things you told her. I have never in the 10 years we've been married said anything disparaging to her about you despite your many short comings. You put me through hell and I just take in stride.

You also told your fans I had nothing when you married me. I had a job and I wasn't doing badly. In fact I practically funded our wedding with the help of my family. I could go on forever. Or is it the fact that you used to leave the house for days on end without communication, leaving me to wonder if you met with some misfortune or something. How many times did i show up at your office haggard and scared early in the morning just to confirm you are alright? I actually wear my younger sister's hand me downs just to save enough to keep this family going.

Your siblings all believe I am a bad person thanks to the endless lies you've told them and I've borne it all. During your last visit, you complained about the fact that I always seemed unhappy and heckled and I explained to you the stress I am under. Our rent is due. Our daughter's fees of over a hundred thousand needs to be paid. Utility bills, feeding...these are some of the burdens I have to deal with. I explained how burdened I felt. I also explained that having to clean up after you constantly worsens my stress. While you were here, I battled insomnia for almost two weeks straight, without compassion or help. I could fill a page with all that is wrong with this marriage. It's never you. You are perfect and righteous and I am a wicked woman. We quarrel like every husband and wife and regardless of whether it's my fault or not, I apologise so that peace will reign. I have suffered humiliation at your hands but you go around damaging my character so people will pity you. Guess what? The truth cannot be hidden. It may take time, but it will come out. I take solace in that.

I will beat my chest and tell you that no woman on this earth will bear what I bore at your hands or care for you like I have. Since you are so unhappy, I think you should take out time and find yourself. I also need time to pray and to heal from this emotional trauma, so please let's give ourselves a year at least to decide what to do next. I wish you the best.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.Madam take it easy. Everything will be alright. Please bear with Oga.

Now that you have laid bare your case, we will prevail on Oga to do the necessary as the man of the house to take things back to normal.
Almighty God shall calm the storms in your marriage.

cutefy:
Noted... you'll get some updates starting from next week

Thank you so much.

I eagerly anticipate your email.

Cheers to a wonderful year ahead.

youngestgrad:
I just read through most of the comments on this thread, I have come to the conclusion that majority of the females of this generation are ice-cold with no comparison with women ( our mothers) of the past generation. To them getting Married is a means out of poverty or the desire to check a box in the " Single or Married" option.
Single and Free!!

Some of the comments send a chill down my spine.

Okeytus:
from your advice, you have never hustled! you talk like as if things are scripted

A lot of people don’t know it takes grace to succeed. May we all succeed this year in Jesus Name.

cutefy:
No problem... u are included too.

But bear in mind that just as freely it's given to you, so you should do likewise to others...

reza_persia@protonmail.ch

I will appreciate if I can get the blueprint of the hustle. Thanks.

cutefy:
No problem... u are included too.

But bear in mind that just as freely it's given to you, so you should do likewise to others...

I am loyal oo & I am willing to help others. There’s really nothing better than succeeding in life together. We Nigerian men love our women & are willing to provide if things are right with our economy.

I await your direction.

otipoju:
funmisticqueen

I come dey pity this Doctor Funmi. Please ignore those who say you are physically ugly, God made you beautiful.

She stirred the hornets nest today and una don bash am tire. She sef no dey hear word.

I feel like she has been bitterly dissspointed severally and her line of work also messes with their capacity to feel.

I think they have to numb their feelings to cope with the ugly side of life they see everyday. Pian, trauma, diseases and death of both old and young.

I sense her heart is really soft and her attitude is a coping mechanism to protect herself from being hurt again. She needs to forgive and release all those who hurt her and by so doing create space for someone who can feel the pulse of her soul and make it feel again. The universe will provide.

Eyah Funmi, may you one day gain an elevated perception of life. Where you are at now is not just myopic, its ugly.

People should not be mean to people irrespective of who earns more. If there is love money should be secondary. But Nigerian economy makes people behave in obnoxious ways.

Peace. I wish you well even though i really dont like your comments. They are not coming from a place of enlightenment at all.

God will heal her. We are all hurt but we don’t become callous because of that.

The true beauty of a woman is in her character. What we men need from our wives & female lovers more than sex is support, respect & loyalty like our mothers give us. Any woman that can master these attributes will control her husband like mumu without being a feminist.

This is a new year & we don’t need all the hate.

I apologize to funministiqueen for calling her ugly. She’s God’s creature & she’s beautiful just the way she is.