₦airaland Forum

eyinjuege:
You remain the fool you are. If you don't want your generations unborn to partake of this your foolishness, don't ever mention me in your stupidity again.

I maintain my stance that you’re bitter & hateful.

Oya, I have mentioned you, you can swear now.

Kekereekun123:
ugly fat and shapeless. Only God knows which man go want am. Yet she is forming like one high class babe. Common 359k rent in lag she cant afford . See her last topic lol

Don’t mind the girl. I am utterly disappointed in her attitude. She’s supposed to be a virtuous, humble woman given her ugliness.

cutefy:
Your story really touched me. The truth about this life is that, we hardly can tell the true nature of any friend until challenges set in. Money do make people behave like psycohpants in which case, their loyalty remains as long as the money is there. A woman who loves a man will not do this to him. I pray that I don't marry such any of such women.

Anyways, I'm not here to judge ur wife nor say anything bad about her. But what I've got to tell u is this, focus on bouncing back. I'll suggest a biz you can do to bounce back with. You'll need to master the biz for like one month. Once you have mastered it, you can then start with at least $100 capital. If you can master this well, then your financial story will change for good. For the training process, I'll teach you for free without collecting any single dime. One love brother...

Bros, we sef Dey here ooo. We wan learn. Na new year we dey abeg.

ubunja:
it was never about reasoning with women. And you keep saying Nigerian women are different but you don't know how wrong you are. Because you don't know the great things readers of the writeups have achieved with the Nigerian women you seem to dread so much. All women are the same.

All women are not the same bro. Nigerian women are different. I will leave you to argue about that but you can’t convince me otherwise.

freshvine:
I just picture you treating a Male patient as a doctor.

You: Explain your accident to me oga.

Male Patient: I got into an argument with my wife, it degenerate to fisticuffs and she did me this.

You: Is that all cos I presume you must be guilty somehow. Did you kill her in your former life for her to revenge this magnitude?

( mix cyanide and some overdose and hands over to Male patient)

Moment later, "nurse, call the ambulance service this man had gave up the ghost, inform the family while I prepare a medical report for I doubt wife is responsible for cause of death and injury ".

Her medical license needs to be withdrawn. We need to get her details & report her to the Medical Council of Nigeria—if she’s a real docto. I fear for her male patients.

We don’t need such a hateful feminist treating men.

sassysure:
I hear u

Meanwhile don't involve bible here cos u guys never practice what's in the bible. U use that only when it fits your narration.

At least, berate your ideological buddy for her hate & disdain for herself & menfolk before trying to correct me.

Men will be just fine if we want to continue on this path but can the same be said for women?

This scorched earth approach to gender relations will only end up producing more baby mamas than functional families & we ought to nip it in the bud.

Your friend is a completely damaged person who needs help & your whataboutism will not help here.

OP will be fine if he faces his business & children squarely. God will do a miracle in his finances & business.

How I wish we could hear from his wife. My training has taught me not to condemn any person unheard. Everything will be fine.

sassysure:
Who cares
Truth hurts.
If u desire her, do the right thing instead of attacking her.

We always know the reason for such attack.

OMG!!! To be honest, even in my worst financial state, I cannot go for her kind because she is ugly & has an ugly attitude. A woman’s beauty is her character & feministique queen is an uncouth person so I can’t have anything to do with her kind.

I am just disappointed in her because her ugliness didn’t instill a sense of humility in her.

She’s bad news to any man whether rich or poor. She is not a biblically virtuous woman & any man that marries her will end up unfortunate & die in no time.

eyinjuege:
It's like you want to remain unfortunate in life this decade? Your destiny has already been used to play Ludo the previous decade, yet you still don't want to give yourself sense?
Borrow some sense, if nobody in your lineage has any.

Se ofe she oriburuku ni lodun tuntun?


I will curse you oooo. You’re a prominent man hating feminist so I pointed that out.


Did I insult you? I only made a statement of fact.

OP, I am sure you will get on your feet this year & your children will be taken care of.

As for your wife, I don’t blame her. We don’t raise the same kind of women like our mothers anymore.

I have already resigned to fate because no woman can love me like my mother. Our mothers are the best. They are radically different from the kind of women we have these days.

Only God will save menfolk in contemporary Nigeria.

sassysure:
Swerve, when they don't have something better to say, they result to emotional blackmail

If she stays old in her father's house, how is that any of your business?
Why are you eating sand on her behalf?

Emotional tantrums all over this place.

Give your own advice and move on!

Sod off. This is a new year & I don’t wish to spar with you.

I don’t expect you to caution that hateful creature because you share the same ideology. Just free me abeg.

jaafree:
You will not make a good wife, that! I am certain .

Her heart is filled with nails, scorpions & dagggers.

She’s pretty much deranged & steeped in feminist hate. And it’s a pity that her ugliness disqualifies her from being so entitled. Which sensible man will put up with feminist crap from an ugly woman?

That funministique girl is so ugly that I am utterly disappointed that such a creature has tormented this forum for years unend.

Her picture/image is perfect justification for why she’s bitter. I will be circumspect to take the comments of these feminists to heart going forward since it’s clear that most of them are suffering from one defect or another.

Very despicable & deplorable set of individuals who have polluted our cyberspace with their feminist poison.

funmisticqueen:
No

You will stay old in your father’s house!!! Any man that dares marry you has bought death for himself.

You’re damaged goods & you need serious help.

twhy111:
Please I'm curious, are you married?

Who will marry that ugly mutete? Can’t you see she’s bitter because she’s passed her prime?

The fact that she’s ugly & still proud boggles the mind.

I actually thought she was a pretty woman due to her pride but I was left flabbergasted when her picture revealed that she’s an ugly individual with a dark soul. I now perfectly understand her bitterness at menfolk. I think she needs a shrink fast!!!

eyinjuege:
You have entered 2020 on fire, with no time for BS.

This is one of those feminists causing wahala in Nigerian cyberspace. This is a bit fine but she’s still bitter & I don’t know why.

Some of them are just damaged goods who cannot be in a normal loving relationship & it’s sad. I pray God touches them this year.

sassysure:
Now, u are starting to open up.
Listening to what majority of the emotional outburst I saw here will never help you nor your marriage.
The goal.is getting back your wife, children and the respect u once have.
Can u elaborate on your flaws.
Don't sugarcoat it please
I believe some of the women talking to you here are trying to see things from the eyes of your wife and will obviously proffer solution from that angle too.

Think back. Words, actions.
Words affect women more contrary to popular opinions especially words thrown at them carelessly by their spouses

OP, please don’t take relationship/marital advice from women. They will only seek to manipulate you to their advantage. They can never be objective & altruistic.

Just look for a way to bounce back & take care of your kids. As for your wife, I will leave you to take the decision you feel fit. Just concentrate on getting your business going.

Kennedyiheme:
lol i just saw her picture, she's really ugly its the ugly women and old ones that are bitter

Very bitter people. All the feminists causing wahala on romance & family section are failed women whose time have passed but they rather get more frustrated women to their side than repent. I am sure that Pocahontas girl too will be damned ugly. Those people a cancer to this country & generation. Their impact & reach is very wide & they are doing considerable damage to relationships in this country.

itsme01:




eyah.. we all cant have sense or be classy... let the razzoo teenagers also have fun, dont arrest them



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I do not think you’re better than Naira Marley or his fans oooo. And there are levels to this marlians cult. Marlians are represented in all strata of Nigerian society.

funmisticqueen:
Cry me a river

Thank God you didn’t try to disprove my assertion that you are ugly & soaked with bitterness—which means you agree with my assessment.

I have been reading comments on this section for almost 5 years & I actually you were harsh to men because you were beautiful. I was shocked when I saw your picture & I now realized why you are bitter. You’re an ugly person inside & out & it has really damaged you as a person.

You need to see a therapist fast because you might just shoot up a gathering of men given your hate for men.

I pray God heals you this year. Amen.

sassysure:
Stop saying when u married your wife She had nothing.
U guys have been using this misconception for so long it look like the truth now.

As long as she has started school( be it primary or secondary) she has something. She is going somewhere!
She is not statistic. Some of u marry your wives when she is in uni, just finished uni, or finished secondary, or writing jamb or learning handiwork.
She is on the move. Get that into your skull!
U marry her, give her belle, she halts her progress for u and u are saying she has nothing!
Can u stop?

This kind of mentality is what makes u guys think u own a woman like a property.

That u fought your family to marry her is not new. More women have denied their families for the men they love.

Bring yourself low from your high pedestals and enjoy your woman.

Heaven help us if your wife should come here.
Or better still, invite her here so we will have a balanced presentation.

You’ve spoken well here but you got one thing wrong: women don’t love men, because they don’t have the capacity to love— they can only submit.

And in this instance, we are talking about Nigeria women here—the most materialistic & self seeking strain of women in the world.

funmisticqueen:
I am not the one opening a thread here, Op is.

You are ugly & it pains you that you don’t get the attention of men. That’s why you want to destroy the relationships of other Nigerian women by propagating hateful feminist ideologies.

You go old for your Papa house. Ugly mutete.

divineappo:
Dem suppose turn acid inside your vagina

Ashawo kobo kobo

She no even fit be Ashewo. Which normal man go use him money carry that ugly girl?

Person wey Dey craze.

strungup79:
No your words are not meant to heal or help me get back up cos a good relationship is not only dependent on finance. Your words are and designed to make the receiver seek revenge rather than reconciliation. I have received a lot of encouragement here and know I will be back on my feet. I seek not control, if not i would have dominated my wife from the word go. I seek a relationship which from your utterances you know nothing about.

Please ignore her. You can see she’s an ugly, bitter feminist who hates men & she’s clearly disturbed.

Just take the good advice we have given you here & implement it.

ProfKhaycee:
I'm from a very good Christian home oo...but I will keep saying this.... if I can't find true love now dat I'm on my way to greatness or a girl dat completely loves me now Wey pocket Neva full dey troway...wen I blow I no go marry ooo....na just baby mamas I go get or beta still thank God for IVF ..I will have babies through IVF

Na so. Me I go still marry ooo but the girl eye go see pepper. She will know I only love my children.

ProtectMyMoney:
Standards are falling in Nigeria. Men of nowadays are fast turning to Pussy Wimps

If at age 30, Gowon could lead a whole country , how come a man at 42 is coming to cry on Nairaland that he can't take charge of his own home.

Why are you talking like this? Is the Nigeria in Gowon’s time the same Nigeria of today?

chigoizie7:
Lol, with what people are going through in marriages lately. I really do not think that it is worth it.


I do not pray to encounter such women in life ooh. But if it happens and then I finally bounce back. Oh my God, that woman will wish she never came across me in her entire life.

My brother, me sef Dey talk am: if I venture get rich before I marry, any woman I marry will know I resent her & I just married her for children. I Nigerian women so much & I can’t even bring myself to beg or be in a relationship with them without some power of my own (money).

If all goes well, I will rather travel abroad & marry a fellow Nigerian immigrant who I know is on the same level with me, not home based Nigerian girls who are looking for a man to take them out of poverty.

I just tire, this is another year & time dey go. I need that breakthrough more than ever.

0KNM:
Brov, who’s life did he impact? Well, maybe negatively, yes he did.

Have you noticed the number of crying threads created daily by men? If he’s impacted any life, then his progress is a step forward and thousands backward.

Men are losing the game, admit it

Why are they losing the game if not for the economy and the unrealistic expectations of Nigerian women?

Nigeria has defied every logic & theory & we keep sinking deeper in corruption. Keep blaming the men & ubunja, we shall see where all these shall lead us as a society.

Our women are now sluts who trade affection for money, that’s the major problem.

Ubunja’s theories would have worked in Ghana, South Africa, Zimbabwem or any sane country not enmeshed in materialism. The fact that Ubunja failed is not due to the inefficacy of his theories, but due to the unrealistic dreams of our women.

Ubunja is a legend.

0KNM:
you just confirmed my point; he failed

Yea, he might not have been totally successful in his mission but he did impact the lives of many men.

I salute the guy. He’s a great guy. This society just keeps getting worse & minds getting darker.

chigoizie7:
And marriage gets scarier to me by the day.

My brother no be only you ooo. And money no come dey sotey to enter relationship sef na war.

Zeewirld:
..Well,experience and background differs.Your beliefs might have been shaped by the calibre of women in your live, mine are very loyal to a fault.

You lie. There are no loyal Nigerian women. The fact is you may be doing well financially & they have no reason whatsoever to be disloyal.

But to each his own though.

0KNM:
He failed! With his miseducation, 2019 was the year of brothers crying over women.

I think he should step down. He needs to quit

He didn’t fail. Nigerian economy & society has just defied logic. Our women have gone haywire for money. It’s frightening.