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Hello Identity, please I need to speak to you about an issue....

letout:
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Like what more do you want to know, there's nothing to hide, that's exactly what I did and I'm just asking for advice.

Born2Breed:
They are charging you for plagiarism. Using other people's intellectual materials to make money without their consent.

Get a lawyer!!!

Thanks for your swift response sis, I have never been involved in any court case because fore, I don't even know how to go about this.. I Mean how do I start?

How do you unfreeze your bank account

I can relate with the feelings of the young man..In my own case it's my mum, If I Begin to narrate her wicked deeds even the pages of Nairaland won't contain it.....So I might just stop here and hand her over to fate ......

Tolexander:
So sweet and cool to accept the above commendation but difficult to admit the "lifeless" comment.

Everyone loves to be praised, and hates being criticized.

Do you love being criticized?

Sharpshooota:
I agree with you.... Now go jump off a cliff Die faster... Your life is worthless

After U....Useless son of a Pig and LovePeddler...
Omo ale jakujaku...

Sharpshooota:
Life is worthless in the country today....
I'm not surprised by this comments

LIfe is worthless bro...We are all living to die. Get that into your thick skull....

RIPE.... SORRY I MEAN R.I.P

Is it your beg?, If she begs you, block her and Waka comot

Alejoc:
Do make decisions when you are mad....

LLCool J....That year with J .Lo

News like this, always make me ask this question: why God chose to create man with so much hatred and anger in him...

roymary:
Your future needs more than N Power and you would not achieve that if you are continually bullied around by the current government.

You're right, but a bird in hand they say is worth more than two in the bush....

There are no other credible contestants just as others have highlighted, so I guess Buhari likely has an upper edge over the rest.

Buhari, cos I have hope of collecting N power stipends for 2 years.

lalasticlala , I think this is front page worthy, let's celebrate our own Snixdave114

It also happened to me around that Pako, Masa Masa, barracks area.......around 2005, when I was processing my admission to Lady Ojo, my dear I almost became their victim, but I was their victim anyways, cos they collected my Sagem phone and 1,000 , they were fair enough to give me 500 naira for transport back to Epe, Ever since that happened , if any modafucker tried approaching me , I give them this fire look in my eyes....
Our people always say. "ONCE BEATEN , TWICE SHY"

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Booboo7:
Obediently do whatever punishment it is they give you once it's not going to be at the expense of your happiness then sweety pie, LEAVE THE CHOIR!

Exactly what I plan doing, leaving the choir is no problem for me even my husband can't force me to stay in the group If I don't want to, but I can't leave the choir and still continue going to church, u too picture it, the same hypocrites will start asking why I left the group when they all know the cause.......I'm still in a fix as regards this.....because leaving the choir and church won't go down well with my hubby.

RandyX:
There is one way to see it, The conditions the church members gave you are not because of your beliefs, it is because of the way you reacted to their own beliefs. So your husband had a point about the reaction aspect, you didn't have to obey but at the same time you didn't have to make him(visiting pastor) look stupid in public, at the end of the day the sheep that follow him would never see anything wrong in his behavior even when he is clearly wrong.

I am not exactly sure what it is you did or how you behaved, but you hinted to the fact you were openly disrespectful to the man, perhaps through something you said or the gestures you made to show your discontent. Let me give you a short example. If some people were to come to your house for husband's birthday ceremony, and your husband asked you to give a toast and you started talking but when you raised the glass, you asked everyone to stand up but someone refused to stand up on account of the fact they don't believe in giving toasts at birthdays, it's okay, they may be right, but if they go further to react in a way that makes your other guests feel uncomfortable and bring you embarrasment, you would feel a certain way. The person could have excused themselves when it was time for the toast so as not to disrespect their hosts (you and husband). Do you get it now? So if you are in that person's shoes you don't have to apologise for not believing in the toast, but the reaction which brought resentment could require one for peace sake.


The good thing is you were asked to tender an apology, but you weren't given a script to read out when you make it. So you can say only what you are sorry for, and in my opinion that is to apologize for the rude way you expressed yourself that evening. You don't have to apologise for not believing in fire for fire prayer. If you are suspended, you have done what you must in front of God and that's what matters.

And about speaking your mind, there are many ways to express yourself. Life has thought me to be very constructive with the truth. So, instead of snatching the microphone from a pastor immediately he says the wrong thing on the pulpit, I would rather seek a private audience with him to discuss what I felt about his sermon. If he disagrees with me, I would leave the congregation quietly and pray for the other followers that are being misled. No one is going to call you to apologise to the church for discussing a problem you spotted with the pastor.

So my dear don't feel bad about apologising. Just remember you are not apologising for not standing up, you are apologising for anything you might have said in response that hurt their feelings. Tell them that although God knows your heart, you realize there are better ways you could have handled the situation. End of discussion.

Do you deserve an apology from the man that made mockery of you? of course you do, but let God be the judge. Do and say what is fair between you and God.

Meanwhile, your husband should start looking for another church if he too doesnt believe in fire for fire prayer. One day they would bring another visiting pastor that would ask him to pray his mother and entire relatives dead and when he refuses they would ask him to apologise.

I didn't even say anything that night....

It was my body language that passed off as being rude....At first I turned but was sitting, then he asked from the altar who was sitting, and enquired If I was pregnant, when people started murmuring besides me saying all sorts,I reluctantly stood and covered myself with the wrapper I was holding because all eyes were on me already, he even made mention of me covering myself up and then said I shouldn't be in the choir, eventually prayers started and immediately I bent my head on the chair's arm rest, after some seconds, my pastor came and started hitting me on my back..., just immediately after he changed the prayer points I sat down and started weeping inwards.....

The rest I call history....


Just like u've admonished, I do not find it difficult apologizing, but I still can't imagine standing in front of the whole church and saying sorry, gush I might just drop dead, even when the church does it on my behalf u know what effect that scenario will have on me mentally, that's why I suggested taking a bow out of the church and group...but then my husband....(I'm still in a dilemma I swear).


Because whether I'm asked to apologize or not.....My total being has far travelled away from the church....I need so much peace and tranquility.....

RandyX:
Your husband said the reality about the situation in your post (bolded).


However, this is not the whole response I expected from Him as I mentioned in my (bolded) earlier statement below.



I see the real situation now. Your husband is more afraid of the people in the church than of pleasing God. I also mentioned in an earlier post that these kind of churches are known for treating you a certain way.



Your husband is as helpless about the situation as you are. They got him the job he has and they feel like they own him and you too.

Exactly........But he has warned me about always acting and speaking out my mind just as exactly how I feel.....