₦airaland Forum

ChiefAzubuike:
There's absolutely nothing meaningful that ambode is doing in that Lagos. He doesn't even know the difference between needs and wants. Its a pity lagosians will easily fall for all these mumu flyovers snd terminal he's showing off up and down. How will getting rid of danfo and replacing them with another danfo take Lagos away from the stagnant position it has been all these years? There are one thousand and one things he can do with the state budget.

Why dont you mind your own Lagos or is this your Lagos?

Confiman:
Please this might be a little lengthy but bear with me, everything here is needed to get the story out and ask my questions. Thank you.

This will go down as one of the most embarrassing moments of my life and I'm deeply confused. But before I go on, I'd love a quick intro.

I just created this moniker to chronicle all of my confusions and to feel free asking for help without any of my friends here tracing them to me. I'm 22 and a serving Corp member. I'm a hustler and I can say I'm doing fairly well for a Corp member.

I am still a "virgin" iff that term can be loosely applied to someone who masturbates. I'm deeply disturbed by my masturbation, but that is not the purpose of this thread.

I recently met a girl - also a Corp member - whom I'm really, really fond of. However, I strongly believe that sex is for marriage (I'm a devoted Christian) and so I have always stayed away from it. With this girl tho, we get frisky a lot. I shared my first kiss with her, and we've since gotten more intimate than I'm usually comfortable with. Sadly, that doesn't help my desire to stop masturbation as I always do that after making out with her. When doing so, I imagine all we had done and it gets me off.

However, this is where it gets embarrassing. When making out with her she sometimes gives me a head. Despite all of her efforts tho (and she is sincerely really good), I can't get myself to remain aroused. No, my hands don't give me half the sensations I get from her mouth, but it still doesn't matter as I just can't remain aroused enough to get off as is the case when I'm by myself.

Today was the very worst as I kept shrinking rather than edging towards release. It angers her cos she believes I don't want her, or how else does she explain it? She feels if I wanted her as much as she wanted me that it would be different. I know my conscience pricks me while we're at it but I don't know if that is the cause. She says I think too much about it... but I can't help the thoughts. Now I'm torn.

I need to know just two things:
1. Is it my 'plenty thinking' that's hindering me when with her? I've already put away most of my inhibitions to get that far with her, but I can't seem to go further. And I don't really think I want to.
2. How can I tell her to take away the sexual edge of the relationship without coming across as offensive, and without confirming her belief that I don't want her?

P.S: Before you begin bashing the lady, note that she is also a virgin. Her vagina is still very much sealed. I doubted that at first, but I've seen it and... So I know. I don't want to lose her but I don't want to go so far either...

Lemme help u, buy 50 naira super glue and pour it on your hands anytime the urge for masturbation comes.. the rough friction will not allow ur dick to even rise.
Follow this step and thank me later

Argentina una doo

And u said tips? ??

Sex is good for the body, and can also be very deadly to the body... if u hear you hear

Follygunners:
Ni ojuelegba
They know my story
From holdup studio
I be hustle to work ee
Ni ojuelegba o
Me and CD
From holdup studio
We been hustle to work ee
Ni ojuelegba o
My people dey there
My people suffer
Dem dey pray for blessing eh...

*Mo'Dog Studio* not hold up

ChiefAzubuike1:
I've been living in the USA for the past 7 years. I still come to naija every year during the festive seasons.

Fact is Nigeria is not that bad. Only that Nigerian citizens are very greedy and are never satisfied. If you go to countries like Zimbabwe, Uganda, Tanzania, Bangladesh, India, phillipines , the favelas of brazil etc , you'll see people living in squalor and abject poverty. So why complain when you're in a better situation? You complain of boko haram its worse with the Isis and Taliban of Pakistan and Afghanistan. You complain of kidnapping its worse with the pirates and marauders of somalia. You complain of poor electricity it's worse in countries like Senegal and Mozambique. You complain of crime its worse in countries like south Africa.
Una wahala too much infact wetin una want sef.

Instead of you to think of ways to develop your country you're here complaining . The same complain you dey complain for 1975 na still the same complaint in 2018. No new complaint other than bad governance , light,water , no money etc.
Your government have tried their best. They can't kill themselves. Not even Buhari. At least you go pity his old age.

You must be very stupid for this comment of yours.. no offence* How dare u say such as a Nigerian...? u reside in the states and see how things works and u still open your stinking mouth to say Nigerians are not satisfied.. If Nigeria was a better place what value are u gaining from other countries ure glorifying? So u expect ppl to sit put and watch how their life and their unborn generation's life are all carted away by this unscrupulous politicians.

ChiefAzubuike1:
I've been living in the USA for the past 7 years. I still come to naija every year during the festive seasons.

Fact is Nigeria is not that bad. Only that Nigerian citizens are very greedy and are never satisfied. If you go to countries like Zimbabwe, Uganda, Tanzania, Bangladesh, India, phillipines , the favelas of brazil etc , you'll see people living in squalor and abject poverty. So why complain when you're in a better situation? You complain of boko haram its worse with the Isis and Taliban of Pakistan and Afghanistan. You complain of kidnapping its worse with the pirates and marauders of somalia. You complain of poor electricity it's worse in countries like Senegal and Mozambique. You complain of crime its worse in countries like south Africa.
Una wahala too much infact wetin una want sef.

Instead of you to think of ways to develop your country you're here complaining . The same complain you dey complain for 1975 na still the same complaint in 2018. No new complaint other than bad governance , light,water , no money etc.
Your government have tried their best. They can't kill themselves. Not even Buhari. At least you go pity his old age.

You must be very stewpud for this comment of yours.. no offence* How dare u say such as a Nigerian...? u reside in the states and see how things works and u still open your stinking mouth to say Nigerians are not satisfied.. If Nigeria was a better place what value are u gaining from other countries ure glorifying? So u expect ppl to sit put and watch how their life and their unborn generation's life are all carted away by this unscrupulous politicians.

okwabayi:
The pikin really resemble Bingo.

like boerbel Abi na dubberman

Adasun:
single mother or married?

Single tho... but pls if married what could it lead to?

IamTheAnswers:
That one concern you ba??

Tomorrow I explain not today

NO! Just been recently tempted by this naturally endowed lady, tho with a kid. Just won't let a nigga rest

Metuh:
You no longer saying he can't afford it o, he should show you.

Me never one day underestimates d guy so bleep up

OboOlora:

I know some ppl go still blike... where e dey gan gan, show us

Weyrey ndo weyrey!!!. always in the news for wrong reasons.

Better go and find better song buy instead of losing more of your lost fans aleady

There's this latest framed pic of a white family rocking the new Nigeria jersey, and my Nigerian blogger captioned it White family "including their dog" rocks Nigeria jersey. I took a close look at the said picture and couldn't find any dog except a young girl whom was lapped by apparently her grand mother. Though the girl was snapped facing downward letting her hair waved front covering her face... This is how Nigerian bloggers disgrace Nigerians outside this country because this internet, its global and world wide you never can tell who is reading from where in this world.

And ure glorifying the biggest thief Nigeria ever had Abacha. msg.

Pls elucidate more on the 4th one

Good, its coming to Nigeria!!!

This is the man who modified and created some of the biggest music in africa @ Jigga of Point beat studio, OJB Jazzrell. Thank you for your significant efforts in our muzic industry not only in Nigeria but the whole of Africa and beyond!. KING OJB. Continue to rest in peace

HoodBillionaire:
whats multimillion abt this
fake shiit
window blinds worth...25k
table worth..80k
chairs
tv
lights
tiles
local 8k a day hotel fridge
nor reach 1.5m
abegi

Ignorant! That table alone cost more than 300k... visit any life mate show room to see for ur self.
broke ass mentality.

prettysassygirl:
Wow,that's harsh

I'm sorry tho, that was due to my mood okay.

prettysassygirl:
Any problem??

Problem, is that the best u can come up with?

prettysassygirl:
Are u being trained with us presently?

Hi, do you work with first bank?... Now fllwg u pls fllw back.

Bluezy13:
Na only you dey live for upstairs and downstairs.

Blike say na d netwk wey start with 'G' u dey use...
beta port go mtn or airtel

Bluezy13:
Na only you dey live for upstairs and downstairs at the same time.

Haba!

Bro enuff space dey available na... bq self dey