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@ Ishillove

But u know evn the bible says that dreams are as a result of our day to day activities. You are likely to dream what you been so busy doing or thinking abt the whole day.
A dream must be backed up with the word of God.Othrwise you lose direction very easily. Thts how sister and bros 'in the lord' mess  up with relationship issues cz they want to marry the person they only dreamt about.
Then rem.God speaks in many ways even thru professional not just dreams.
Let him try everything lol,prayers talking, W90 ,whatevr that can help him

@horny4u?? LMAO

did u say, 'Pretend you have convulsion.'

ah! u made my day.
now my ribs cracked
Good luck.

R u sure the food dint cloud your vision? Now your making my heart go 'Gbam gbam' LOLEST.
Do u realise this is a public forum and I keep private things where they belong? lol
I can only talk to you 'under the mango tree behind mama nkirus store'
This nkiru thing will kill me . ' 4 real.
Get out tht Golden pen from the basket of love and talk 'dittology and doxology'
Lets c if you succeed in making me go to that tree!!!
I dont want you to 'DEAD' U u know?
oooh nkiru

@ isholleve!!
Oh God u asked him if he ever dreams at all eat regularly in the dream??ooooh my ribs
All wl be well .your stil young.

^^^^
You are right in saying that.You only need to see the drama in those courts and as I always say, at times its good to hear it from smbody whos been there and done that,Tht way u stop listening to fairy tales.'
But truth is,while in the marriage it will always be hard to look at what you own as belonging to both of you.I look and say its my house' while the woman says 'thats is furniture. Its like theres already a line separating your stuff and you each work zealously to protect ur own.

^^^^ lol
dont take some things I say seriously

@souleymoon

Some problems have nothing to do with our being'possesed by evil spirits' lets be real surely
Its always good to know what needs deliverance and wht is just a normal relationship issue.
If he tried the[b] normal[/b], like change talk,nice grooming u know those lil things tht impress women and they fail then he can go for that deliverance./professional help
Its weird women running away from you.

Av nver cried on NL bt your story dude brought tears lol
Check out what words u say to them. Maybe theres a line you use that just puts them off.
A man tht knows how to win a woman knows how to speak to her heart.Thts why u see not 'very well' looking dudes with pretty ladies.

99% of men have said they prefer a prenup. I would like to believe they support that cz in most cases the man has more assets at the tyme of marriage thn the woman. Now men try and reverse the situation. Will you be willing to sign it if the woman has more in terms of wealth?? if all u have is say a bicycle and she truly loves you.
Are you sure you won't label her 'wicked,selfish and mean?' will u still sign?

@ emeka
oops so u were serious abt the bthday?. thought u lied. well have fun.

@ MMM
now u? how cn u be helped? who will help you?
first get rid of that lesbian nonsense when u come close to my name ok??
some things hv a way of rubbing on to someone if u dint know tht. Dont corrupt minds ok?

I think u need prayers more than emeka.

@ the 3 of you

I have officially closed the thread. lets concentrate our energies elsewhere.

W90 you always are.confused ie .Not breaking news. so take a break. your answers can be found in that other thread jaybee posted.
go ahead and open

Just asking. MMM,W90 and Dsense.R u related ??
You tend to speak the same language u know
And PLEASE.Stop posting here cz ul make it a very long thread. see its already on page 2 cz of your smileys!!!

D sense

now u just diluted the thread u nerd.
I sign off.
Jaybee already referred me a thread. thts wht u ought to have done.
Now with all these millon threads, searching takes 4eva.
let me read that thread.

@ jaybee

I now understand wht ur pointing at.
'Your quote again' The saying comparison between a city girl to a village girl doesn't have anything to do with the actual location but more of the habits and behaviours that comes with living at such locations.

So you mean to say that if you took the village gal to the city,then her habits and behaviours will automatically change? what about the city one? will she change if u took her to the village?
you read where i said,'you can take a man out of the vilage but nt take the village out of a man?'

Dsense,W9O and MMM am starting another thread for u .Title is 'understanding Upendo's thread.Jaybee will sort you out there okay?
for the time being.you may wish to take a coffee break then resume when your minds are really fresh

serioulsy D sense and W90 go rest ok? u have my permission.
Leave the thread to those that understand.

@jaybee I quote you

'The saying comparison between a city girl to a village girl doesn't have anything to do with the actual location but more of the habits and behaviours that comes with living at such locations.'

My answer is yes they do.Thats why we call them 'city'or 'village gal' bcz those habits, behaviour,attitudes etc have been shaped by the actual environment.

village's habits+behaviours= a village gal
city's habits +behaviours = city gal

Isnt that how we classify them??

@ jaybee.
That's EXACTLY what am trying to find out . At least you put it well.
I want to know why somebody would prefer to marry a village gal over a city one?
see u can answer and say. a) coz she well mannered. why? cz shes not been exposed to the city
then i would ask you .Are u telling me we dont have well mannered gals in the city?

so back to my question.do u think the village tames the gal and the city makes a gal wild?

okay i have narrowed it. i guess MMM and crew understand now

@ Dsense

W-90 is 190 reincarnate. He did that 4 a reason I know.I knew cz hes the only one tht types 'DEAD'in colours. besides its even in the name 'w90'
@ 190 or W90  why are u looking for nice 9ja gals from home instead of marrying those oyibos your used to

MANMADEMADE

I can read your mind very very well.Now proceed and write the novel.Not a page ok
I hate one line statements that give rise to a million other questions.
Answer mine in book form if u can

IS IT CLEAR NOW??

CAN SOMEBODY PLIZ BRING SANITY HERE B4 THIS TRAIN DERAILS??
@POTATO WHERE ARE YOU??
Theres pple that have mastered the art of thread derailment. I fear them a lot especially when they appear at the same time.

@MMM
Stop being stubborn
my title is as it is.
It means,what has the village or city life got to do whn it comes to choosing your spouse. most threads lay emphasis on village gal.
so i wonder does a village or a city make a good wife?? why do u prefer the village over the city gal or why city gal over the village? why nt choose smone u love even if shes born and bread in NYC?

@ManMadeMad IS IT CLEAR NOW??

I modified it so tht its easy to understand. du u get it now??

A guy hes studied and now works abroad.Hes reached the age of settling down and theres pressure from back home to go get a village gal to marry.some are even handpicked picked for them.
Now city and village life are very hard to reconcile. Most dudes worry tht the village gal may metamorphosise into a butterfly if taken to the city and 4get the dude altogether.
On the other hand he thinks the city gal cant make a 'good' wife and worse still the society approves village!

now my question

@ Are you marrying a village,a city or a wife?
@ Is the environment ie city or village a good measure for a perfect wife?

NOTE; You can take a man out of the village but cant take village out of a man.i think the reverse is true. you take a man out of the city to village but not take the city out of them.

@ tell wisdom, everytime i replied to you the pic tht popped up was tht big bowl full of food and the 200 pieces of meat in the soup
I now understand the reason behind the 'appetite' FB need to eat.
Can you make my heart go 'GBAM GBAM'? . If so then can we meet under the mango tree behind mama nkiru's store 
find out from silvertuke if she's still alive anyway?

oh this is one hell of a letter wth all the necessary decorations and heavy wrds (doxology)
We need to speak to mama Nkiru as she a story to tell us.
A story of 2 love birds tht used to meet behind her store

ope he dint 'dead'
Broken english can be soo romantic 

Damn emails,fb,skype,twitter and evry other litter.

This is expression of true love. 'golden pen from the basket of love' ahwww how sweet 

hope they met under the mango tree behind mama nkiru's kiosk! lmao

Now this is what I call 'throwing wood'
Like you've totally lost it.Let me check this persons profile.Am a mind reader you know
Oh so u play the electric base guitar.Good.
Keep it up.But I know that person playing is nt ur mind.

Marry your best friend who is also your lover.
Love in marriage is more than just a feeling.It becomes a strong solid foundation,upon which everything is built upon.so if its weak then evrything falls.
Thts why some people stay 99 yrs married. You only need to hear their stories.

Why do I have a feeling that this is a direct translation from mothertongue to English and she dint really mean it the way you describe it.
You know what I think she meant? Shes addressing the 2 of you and not one party alone.
In other words both parties must apply it for it to make sense, So it plays both ways.Ok pic this

1.Man marries woman cz woman loves him
2.Woman marries man coz man loves her.

In the end you both love each other!!.Its just a reverse thing.Its not a statement meant for one party only but both people contemplating marriage.

Imagine this,You asking the man,why do u marry this woman? he says 'coz she loves me.
Next ask the woman,why do u marry this man? she says' coz he loves me.
Now tell me who doenst love the other?? Nobody.Thy both marry cz they love each other more than themselves.
Do I make sense?

Now tell me is that a 9ja proverb or what?

@obowunmi LMAO

very funny

@kokoye
I will admmit i check out 4 3 reasons.
@If the poster impressed me with his/her answer.I just wnt to connect tht to the profile.Now thts my mind
@If the poster made a very very silly remark.I check the profile out of shock and disbelief.Again its my mind
@If the poster made a very funny remark.I wnat to see where that crzy comment came from. My mind again

I just decided for the first time to take a walk around nairaland .First stopover was the Dating section and I just cant believ my name is here!! Seriously I was soo bored and tired but I cant stop laughing.    my ribs !! Let me first answer Emeka.
You didnt read the post well.I was very clear that it was a story by a lady calling an fm station and airing her dirty linen in public. Its a daily show.

@Potato .I am 100% african of course not an oyibo  . neither am I 9ja. But I do have them as friends.I am also not that lol.Sounds soo weird. I hate singing am a christisn cz its been corrupted so much.I prefer living it than screaming it. So just so you know I love God too much.The reason I live anyway.
I am just me.  Seriously I hate hypocrisy,vanity,stupidity,arrogance and ignorance.
I like encouraging people.Life is too complex and stressful so why dance to its tune? Theres no way you will be close to me and nt be happy cz I chose to be happy regardles and I try to make my sorroundings happy too.

@ DYT thank u I love your short and precise answers too.Straight to the point
@ Potato thank you dear I love you too.
@ Tell wisdom Finish tht food then send me your cv.I will c if u qualify lol 


You all made my day lol
Thank you.

@ BJ
Okay . Its true what u say.
Unfortunately and this I say after being in NL for few weeks,almost all posters touching on marriage tend to equate it wth age.
And worse still they say its a society thing.No wonder the moment the woman hits 23 panic sets in and by 30 if not married shes labelled old/perishable cargo.