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The great marathoner's downfall.

The guy was only 24 years old.He had property all over plus a nice home. He had a lovely wife and 2 kids.
One night he brought home a 'barmaid'! Unfortunately the wife who happened to be in the vicinity ie  neighbourhood, came home and found the 2 on their marital bed!!.Well,she locked the door separating the upper rooms frm the rooms downstairs. This guy, out of shock, ran out into the balcony and jumped to his death!!
Now you will not believe the stories tht followed. The wife became suspect,the barmaid ,the watchman etc etc.
The mother to this dude hates the his wife with passion and doesnt recognise her at all .She was the first one to point fingers accusing her of causing her sons death.
As if that wasnt enough,3 other women showed up! One is expectant with his child.He had promised to marry her after sending his wife away!
Another woman that the 'mom favoured' has a child too'. with him.The mother recognises this other woman and not the legal wife!!
Things turned soo ugly the mom was charged in court 4 causing havoc during funeral arrangements insisting the son wont get buried till postmortem ws done.
It was done yes bt she wasnt satisfied wth results.She wanted the wife blamed 4 the death!
So she dint attend the sons burial!!!.He was buried by the police and there was very tight security.Shes still facing charges.
Now every woman demands a share of this dudes property.estimated at millions of shillings

Now I wonder was it worth it? Women made him jump off the balcony to his death!! and all his dreams died with him.
And now they fight over his property! cz they have his children etc etc.

All he built, has gone to waste!!!!

If Joseph ran from Potiphar's wife,you too can run.She was very beautiful I believe.

@ Natash and Babe lol

you 2 make me laugh.How do u fight and kiss at the same time?

If you the man knows very well what your worth is and your position etc? what exactly happens that very moment that you can't make a sober decision?
When it comes to business decisions 'most men are very good'.Very critical ,analytical and visionary.
Cant you just apply the same to romance?
If you find urself in the hands of 'jezebel' count to 10 and RUN as fast as your legs can. Think about your life,kids,investments,profile.
All that you taken years to build goes down in 5 min! And some stains stay with us for a very loooong timme too come.
Infact it will be told to your future generations.

Again I say. RUN or FALL.

Hey potato,I learnt a new word today,its called,

'MUMURITY' - I guess its a state of foolishness at its climax? Like the saturation point of a MUMU?

@potato

81 is too young!!! See at 81, am on FB,Twitter,Skype,I Blog,etc etc. I have tentacles everywhere.I have to catch up with my great grandkids lol
Old in age young at heart is my policy.
Okay seriously, anything personal, I don't disclose on Public forums. See its not like politics.No,you never know who's out there. I fear the Americans.
I keep private stuff in my private box. Once our friendship gets to another level then is not a big deal anymore.
Now tell me dear.Why do u really want to know my age? You got some dude for me?

What shocks me the more is the calibre of women pulling most of these great,talented,intelligent men down.
They are simple/ordinary women not even their class.At times i even wonder if its a trap they set for the men or the men just cant resist anything

To whom much is given,much is required.
When you are in a high position of authority the society demands a lot in terms of character and Intergrity.
Your fall is gonna be a big one cz of your status.Its not like that of the lowly fellow in the village.
So if you know we demand a lot why not RUN be4 the fall? surely, its not that hard!

@ babe dnt worry i pick out wht i can and wht i dnt know i forward to potato 4 interpretation  
i know mumu.maga,tufiakwa,mua,i tire,go chop.All i learnt here lol
and adding to my list.

@cuddlle
Abrahams story is soo diffrent.His case was was to do with child.Besides it was predestined by God I believe. A good eg wld have bn samson and delilah
so if women stopped provocative dressing men wouldnt fall? ok
When it leads them to their deaths then its serious

^^^^^
lol run to where?!!!  your real funny.
Run to where theres no temptation.You see it coming, you embrace it and give it time to germinate.
Just drop it,look the other way and run wherever just out of temptation zone.
10 min of pleasure destroys and drives all your dreams down the drain!
is it worth it?
African flesh blood soul spirit

^^^

But its pulling down men and causing their dreams,careers to go down the drain.
The interesting bit is that its the lowly/simple women that make them go down
Run pliz Run

Very sad bt we just never learn.

There was Tiger Woods, Strauss-Kahn, Mike Tyson, Arnold the Governor, Samson,(Strongest man in the Bible), David(man after Gods own Heart), Adam(1st Man in bible) and Wanjiru(Best Marathoner in world) all went down due to the Influence of a WOMAN, !! and many many more.

And all I do is ask myself again and again.Is it so hard for a man to just 'run away from a very tight situation? Seriously? Joseph ran so its possible i guess.
The marathoner's death was so tragic, He was only 24 yrs old when he died leaving millons + war behind. The woman that caused his death?a local barmaid.


Why cant u just RUN and run fast like Bolt before you fall victim ?
Would you rather FALL than RUN?

Being the ideal woman God expects you to be is the most rewarding experience.
You only wish you were the opposite sex if you dont know your role/purpose in life
So be the best Wife,Mother,Sister,Aunt,Grandma and you will have a reason to appreciate your womanhood.
Its not complex.

^^^^
Hey give us updates how did ur birthday go?
Dont tell us ur a year older.Tht we know.
Tell us about the party

Only the wife can tell him what to do for real.Sad situation.

@ potato!! TUFIAKWA!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its criminal to ask a lady her age on a public profile like this!! Tufiakwa again!!!!

This word is like a shoot out.'tufiakwa,tufiakwa.'

Its all there on my profile. I am a very very senior citizen. Infact am now a very special senior citizen.

@ BJ

Why do we even say 'till death do us part'? I have come to the realisation that that statementt doesn'tt signify physical death.It means marital death ie those things that cause the marriage to fail. like adultery.etc

And what if the wife did the deed in order to get promoted and improve the family's welfare?
He ought to 4give her on those grounds.She had the 'family's welfare in mind ' and they all benefited
(ok I prefer death by shooting not stoning and aim well)

^^^^
Yeah I hope you are referring to the God of capital 'G' not 'g'

op
she's sooooooooooooooooooo hot so u say?
Then Go Burn. We shall be here to cool u down.
Next thread in NL will read,
She deserted/cheated on me after giving her 20k.
All you people start getting answers ready for him before the year ends.

@ op

LOL.You have a LOT going on up there.I even got dizzy.

1.You dont want relationships
2.You dont want commitments
3.You dont think you will get married
4.You dont want trouble for yourself
5.You dont want trouble for the guy
6.You want Romance
7.You have sexual desire
8.You are not sure whether to hold the desire till u find Mr.Right.!!

I think you need DR.PHIL. Seriously I wish I could help you but I just got dizzy.

nkt

Some topics are very sensitive. All I can finally add is this. Theres different categories of single mothers.

The Widow
The Separated
The Divorced,
The Violated
The one who's boyfriend deserted her on hearing about the pregnancy.

I feel soo saddened by this topic cz all we are doing here is generalizing everything.You only need to hear some stories and understand that single motherhood in most cases is not a choice .
How good is that lady who has had countless abortions cz a) the boyfriend forced her b)she doesnt want to accept responsibility? Shes single yeah,no child yeah,but character?
I'd rather marry that lady that said NO to abortion and gave birth.
That lady that chose to stay around and strong cz the husband left her for another woman.
What about that girl that got violated? yeah violation was bad enough and she couldnt abort either.So she ended up with this innocent child.
Doesnt she deserve Love?

How many beautiful looking ladies are walking around with shredded uterus' cz of countless abortions since they couldnt bear the stigma of the society?
What do u tell that widow whose hubby passed away? she cant be loved?
What about that very irresponsible Father/mother  that chose to desert their family and kids? Doesn't that woman/man  deserve love? Some great leaders are products of single parents/stepmums and dads.
I said b4 that this is no job for the faint hearted.NO.But if you love somebody you will love everything about them and you can work things out.
I have seen lots of carzy stuff I stopped judging.
Evvrybody deserves a chance cz we all have mistkes. But at the end its your choice.
[b]Lets not view single motherhood/fatherhood as a disease. [/b]Goodness Lord. God loves them too.

Thank you wisdom
mugu/maga= not so smart person
mumu=Dullard

Wisdom,what do u call a wise person?

@ Potato lolest You are very funny.

TUFIAKWA LOL I thought it meant something like Jihad! it sounds like war!
okay cool cool.

No Money No Honey!!


Okay start stoning am out of here.

Money Made Man Mad.

lol ur the nigerian from Malaysia! Very unique being u are.You must be some celebrity in Malaysia
I thought MAGA meant MAGGOT.
This english makes me laugh a lot. especially whn one says 'I tire O'

Good that means you wore the mans shoes.
So in ur case u would cry. Then what ?

@ Da Doc,

Look at it this way,

Some people are what they are today because some step mom or step dad sacrificed and loved them as their own ok?
If you really love somebody there's always a way both of you can work things out.
Its not for the faint hearted thats why I salute those who are able to do it.
Kids are not 'excess baggage as people like calling them'
I thank God for all those Mums and Dads who are raising kids that arent their own blood.I salute you BIG style.
You have no idea who that kid may turn out to be. Could save your life later more than your own blood.

Why do I have a funny feeling about you 2??
You seem to follow each other on each thread
Are you conjoined twins?? at the head??

Wahala= problem

Everything else in bold I float


But why you too like wahala na,

YOU WAN DO PRENUP? ABI U DON DO AM B4?

allow make we rest na

Love is like a rumor,
Everyone talks about it,
But no one truly knows.

^^^
Why are u crying now? Are u the husband to the woman?
What will u do? take the cash and calm down?

lol

Okay so you can either be a mumu, a mugu or a maga!!
cool. Adding to my list of newly learnt words.
Unfortunately am only learning the crzy ones first.