Romance › Re: Passing By A Group Of Men Drinking: Lion's Den Experience by urchbarbie(op): 5:09pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Hmmmmm. Eziokwu? willi926: my dear, please eeh don't generalise next time. simply put some men. cos even if i take 1 crate if I c u I go do eye like say I no c u |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 5:05pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Nwanyi aaaaa ehn. Kai? Kedu ebe a muru gi? Ure just so funny. Sometimes i wonder if dere is a dull moment with u. Kpo ya lekan esp when u guys r in d throes of passion ma hu onweghi dwn in nigeria via bluetooth. Lolx babyosisi: Even me sef don begin fall for Lekan kwa Maybe I should start calling azubuike Lekan |
Romance › Re: Passing By A Group Of Men Drinking: Lion's Den Experience by urchbarbie(op): 5:01pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Blackett: Da fuq didn't you ask those men at the bar?
I don't drink. I only drink red wine, so I don't know what you're talking about.  Blackett: Da fuq didn't you ask those men at the bar?
I don't drink. I only drink red wine, so I don't know what you're talking about. |
Politics › Re: Nairalanders, What Do You Make Of This Buhari' Statement? by urchbarbie(f): 4:51pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Na wash Jimwalex: General Muhammadu Buhari made a statement in the just concluded interaction session at the Royal Institute of International Affair, Chatham House, in London, the United Kingdom,that caught my attention. He said...
“standing before you is a former military dictator and a democracy convert.”
Would it be safe to say that, with such statement, he has been able answered or convinced those who still see him as a dictator and those that are still skeptical about supporting him for the fear of his antecedents? |
Romance › Re: Passing By A Group Of Men Drinking: Lion's Den Experience by urchbarbie(op): 4:50pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Now am confused. Is orijin not alcoholic  ghost1718: note, not all men, i dont drink alcohol i only take orjin big bottle  ghost1718: note, not all men, i dont drink alcohol i only take orjin big bottle |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 4:41pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Kai! Dis one strong o. Am sure u av put it in prayers. If its going to be mrs herz Lekan, God wld find a way for u nne. Dont cry inu? Herzumpther: Nne how will I start to even forget lakes? That's one impossible mission I can't accomplish.
No lakes, no Igbo man I swear.  |
Romance › Passing By A Group Of Men Drinking: Lion's Den Experience by urchbarbie(op): 4:34pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Just went out to d bar to buy a bottle of chilled drink from d bar and met a group of officers drinking. As i took d bottle of malt to go omo see as one of d officer call me dey yarn plenty tinx. Bfr i knew it all d other officers started trying to get all 'gisty' with me. I culd smell d testeterone oozzing from dis men. I had to flee. My question is why must men behave inappropraitely especially when they av had a bottle or 2  |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 4:28pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Pls dont make me cry ;(((((<<herz>>  ))) pls just tink of it as d best ok. Av got a frnd who her dad also refused her first intended. She cried loads. Today she is married to a better man, not just financially sound, he is responsible n more emotionally tuned to her. Take is dat God is keeping u for someone better Herzumpther: That will be a difficult thing to do dear. 
Biko hold me, I'm not happy at all.  Herzumpther: That will be a difficult thing to do dear. 
Biko hold me, I'm not happy at all. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 4:20pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Chai. Nne. Been secretly waiting n hoping to hear d best of news from d sunday ish. Herz! Its high time u let lekan go. As Babyosisi said once, dere is no 1 particular man for u. Just hapu d tots of lekan, am sure someday uld look back n smile Herzumpther: And finally he decided to talk after a long silence since Sunday. He is still saying No.
Cc: babyosisi Bukatyne Cococandy Moca Formarts........... |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 7:38pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
really it is. green leaves r knwn for dat. sholay2011: Damn! I want some of this food!!!
Wow...the meal must be life-giving  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 1:51pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Nofin beats d idea of living a stone thrw from work. Rushed home to make myself dis dish of eba n okro soup. Bon apetite
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Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by urchbarbie(f): 10:23am On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by urchbarbie(f): 10:17am On Feb 25, 2015 |
yh dear! there shld be a sharing of responsibilites, but a man shldnt be lax in d fact dat his wife pays d bills too. he shld av d mindset dat its his duty, if d woman involves herself, it shldnt be seen as her duty. men wld say its her duty to cook, clean,wash, do any domestic chores in d home. yh some men help out with dese chores, dats d same way a woman shld help out. precisionindepth: I think in every relationship, dere shd b sharing of responsibilities in which each party will contribute and help each other. marriage is not a slave relationship but a partnership but in d case where a man feels in his stupidity and foolishness DT cos he's wife earns money den he shd abandon his responsibilities is so out of it.
I know a cousin of mine who once said DT its better for dem not to v a father cos if dey Dont v , dey might get pple to help dem cos virtually everything at home is provided by their mother and d task became so overwhelming for d woman. |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by urchbarbie(f): 2:50pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
From which point so I can clarify precisionindepth: wao, D's thinking is so out of it. |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by urchbarbie(f): 2:47pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
lolx @ d aye o! men sha. if u touch his atm na iku o. its like uld open anoda account without an atm biko. u need to save for d "rainy" day njays24: Pls help me ask the men o! The day my husband took my ATM without my consent,he checked my account balance and came home and dangled my atm in my face and shouted "aye o",that was the end of extra money for me,just house-keeping money alone,no more extras. |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by urchbarbie(f): 2:38pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
My dear! Pls r u married? If not, can I propose  Ure just d ish dear  Blitz888: A man 'Manning up' is about being alive to your responsibilities. Men who abdicate their responsibilities are not fit to be called men. I was raised in a male dominated environment with brothers and uncles everywhere call it a Testosterone filled atmosphere and you won't be wrong. We were raised to take grt pleasure in catering to and securing our dependents wifey inclusive. How can I ever live with myself if I can't be the man in my house.. I blame it on their fathers who raise them to be this irresponsible. After all, if I don't take care of her who will? o ha ka'm na gbara mbo! |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by urchbarbie(f): 2:34pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Oh dear me! I was just goin to stay ghostmode n enjoy dis thread till I came across dis shittyyy comment. Ure educated, yes dat I can see from ur writeup. Wat I don't understnd is why u ceased to comprehend d bible passage u quoted. Kai! The woman is d asset of her husband? Yes we gree. But whr u lost me is in ur intial argument whr ladies feel a husband is a workhorse and a woman remmitting her earnings cos she is her husbands "horse" My dear, if ure a christain as u quotes d scriptures well, try rembr d encounter in d garden of eden. A man is the "workhorse" of any home, dat was y God says Adam wld toil d earth ..............and d woman wld labour to bring forth her young one. Nna! Take up ur responsiblity. Its been dere since d time of old Votukpa: Most ladies on this thread feel like marriage is equivalent to earning a workhorse (husband).
Stop feeling like that.
When a man maries to himself a women, she now belongs to him. Yall aint gone like this but its true.
Her ability to produce wealth isnt for herself anymore but for him. If I buy a horse to help me do work, of course im gonna feed the horse, care for it, be nice to it and make sure its strong and healthy. If it produces an income, do I not have all the rights to all of it?
Most ladies think marriage is a cakewalk, a blissful bed of roses and a holiday.
No it isnt.
U women were created for men to help them.you are meant to be an asset to men , NOT the other way round. As men we are to derive all sorts of benefits from having a wife. "He who finds a wife finds a GOOD things and Obtains blessings, favour benefits..." dont forget ladies. Men dont actually need women for much but the feminine imperative has made social conventioms to trap men into thinking that the almighty pussy if not had, will bring sjame loneliness and desperation into his life.
Hogwash.
This not women bashing so conceal ur weapons. This is the truth. If you dont want to give ur self sacrificiallly in love to a man and children., please remain in your father's house permanently and watch your flower wither away into oblivion, never to be desired by a man, not even for a cheap bang.
You mad? Sorry. That's the way it is.
Some may ask why does it have to this way? Well, it been given to men to rule over women. Nuff said. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 7:51am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Am glad her husby ddnt o. Let him make it clear dat his wife is not to be trampled on, else, d iyawo won't enjoy her marriage Yadoctora: No. I am yet to be married. I heard this story from the bride in question. Her situation with her MIL was a very bad one. She was quiet but her husband did not take it well. |
Family › Re: Four Year Old Boy Tries To Molest Sister And Mum! by urchbarbie(f): 4:22pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
For d love of me bae, u av done enuf to show dis op dat a child has been abused.....shikena. I dnt seem to understnd y he is on d defensive. Dis is a baby lawd av mercy. 4yrs old. Like u said bringing dis boy close n letting him confide in uncle op wld av done d magic, yet uncle up tinx its a better approach to threaten his dingdong (dis is d point i lol) i was born in d igboro (bush) too n i can relate with dis. @dat age i had a near experience. If its d mothers exposure or some1 z abusing dat kid, or he is d spawn of d devil as some1 said, dat kid needs help. Psychological, spiritual or otherwise. He is just a baby pls sweetcocoa: How funny, climbing on his sister will cost him his thing, how about letting him know it's not just his sister he can't climb on?
Kid probably showed no remorse because he doesn't understand why he's being beaten, force and brutality only makes one hardened, especially children. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 11:40am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Lolx. Just b careful o. Mad ppl ful lagos esp @d time Herzumpther: My dear, my dad was leaving to go arrest a suspect na so I say make I go because I couldn't sleep again. Instead of me to stay inside the barrack and jog round or go to police college I carry myself dey jog go GRA so te I link Maryland con dey shout kidnapper. no mind me o.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 9:50am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Happy bufday cococandy. Gods favor and grace shall remain with u always. Amen |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 9:47am On Feb 23, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 9:53pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
U don see whr he inherit am from  babyosisi: Hahahahaha I was a terrible eater as a kid too |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 9:31pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
 giffty: ;Dhahaha,tnx sure,it does taste great  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 9:28pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Nne! Hapu ya. I was worse. I even hated fired rice then, now na me dey champion d dish now. babyosisi: See what this kid is doing to the food I gave him Look at the salad I will beat somebody o |
Family › Re: Four Year Old Boy Tries To Molest Sister And Mum! by urchbarbie(f): 7:34pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
True! Dat child has been molested. I had same experience one day in church. A lil came to stand in front of me. Aunty tinx o, I tried to carry her. She came dwn, small time she tried to take uop my skirt. She had dis wierd look ppl get when they want to "do bad tin". Na so I jeheli carry myself comot from d hall o. D boy needs prayers n a profsnls help |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 6:23pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
When I was a child, I hated anytin salad, but now dear, I could "kill" for it. I can chew cabbage now like an ewu  I love d outlook and am sure it taste awesome too giffty: lol,dahs a salad.. cabbage carrot sweet corn green pepper kidney beans sausages cream boiled egg nd den of cause turkey |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 6:14pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Am not married o, but nwanne nke a siri ezigbo ike. By Vicar, it must be an anglican church okwa ya? I feel so burdened in my heart and av been having dis vision in my heart to run an ngo to help curtail some of these excesses. Am a very emotional person and feel it would affect me. Nne, ure already married, u won't outrighlty divorce him until he gives u strong reaasons to. As Babyosisi said, gather enuf evidence to confront him with and see his reaction. In d mean time I tink u shld av protective sex too. chisom101: I met him in our church he was a very devoted Christian then,very calm very nice infant very body likes him .he approached me said he love me and want to marry me,our vicar and his wife then told me to marry him that he is a good man.he meet my people and marriage rite take place.to tell u the truth I don't know him well enough to marry him,but he promisedme that very thing will be alright that he will be a good husband to me.and we got married traditionally.after that I got pregnant for him our Reverend called him to fixed our wedding date he told him that he is not ready that we just did our traditional marriage.that was how we leave that Church. Till today |
Politics › Re: Buhari To Speak At Chatam House On Thursday - Premium Times by urchbarbie(f): 2:09pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Oga teacher. U self don blow grama. Its 'birds of a feather.........' korel9: Choi! See grammar 
Birds of the same feather flock together  |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 8:10pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Lolx! Not funny tho. Am in same shoes. But not too worry, someone wld come along soon. kayceemadu9: Nice thread... my question is. this.Is. it weird for a 23 year old lady not to.have suitors.,not..even a single serious guy... |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by urchbarbie(f): 7:53pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
My dinner. Come join me. Palmoil rice/concortion with dry fish fish.
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