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Celebrities / Re: Fight As Bobrisky Throws Bottle At Papaya Ex And James Brown At An Event (Video) by usah4(m): 11:54am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Make dem fight till their plastic nyash go fall ahbeg |
Family / Re: Who Is A Responsible Husband? by usah4(m): 12:16pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Due to the absence and lack of communication, I tried to talk to him but he sees it as a form of disrespect from me. I called to talk to him two days back and he told me he's busy that they're preparing men to enter bush and till now I've not received his call for him to listen to me. He's only attended my Baptism and Handing-over program in 2016 as an outgoing YCSN President in my Secondary school and that's all. He was absent at my graduation in Sec Sch, absent at my Matric and Graduation in high school. Sometimes he doesn't even come home for Christmas. Dear Rich Folks, money is not everything; we kids need attention and communication too not just your wives. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Who Is A Responsible Husband? by usah4(m): 11:23am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Thanks. I wish my dad could read this, he's so supportive financially but absent in my life event or is it because he's a military man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Education / Re: Can You Go Back To JSS1 For 300million naira? by usah4(m): 10:44am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Just another 6 years in school? Hell Yeah, even my teachers will respect me. |
Sports / Re: Real Madrid Players Gifted New Electric BMW Cars Worth ₦140m Each (Photos) by usah4(m): 10:43am On Nov 16, 2022 |
God when! God's time na d best. |
Politics / Re: National Theatre, Lagos Wears A New Look (Pictures) by usah4(m): 10:30am On Nov 16, 2022 |
This is beautiful. |
Music/Radio / Re: Burna Boy Bags Two Grammy Nominations at 2023 Grammys by usah4(m): 10:19am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Keep it up. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Baby Squeezes Face In Video After Tasting Something Bitter For The First Time by usah4(m): 3:11pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Another meme |
Family / Re: Please I Need Help On How To Break Free. by usah4(m): 2:53pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Ovieemmanuel: A point though. |
Family / Re: Please I Need Help On How To Break Free. by usah4(m): 8:30pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Ovieemmanuel: Na who wear shoe know where deh pain am, you think my problem is food right. |
Celebrities / Re: DJ Cuppy Celebrates Her 30th Birthday With Her Family On A Yacht by usah4(m): 12:59pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Madam go and marry. She's in white not pink this time. |
Family / Re: Please I Need Help On How To Break Free. by usah4(m): 8:39am On Nov 11, 2022 |
frozen70: It's never easy to stay in a place where you don't have peace of mind, you're either hated or you hate people. I've asked my uncle to summon him this December for a family meeting, cos he respects his brother I know he'll get Pass to come then I'll talk to him face to face but in Africa when you do things like this some of our parents think we're been stupid and stubborn (like in my case he'll say "So you've grown to an extent you want to start asking us questions" and that's why I'm looking for a plan B should in case my plan A fails if it turns sour. |
Family / Re: Please I Need Help On How To Break Free. by usah4(m): 8:25am On Nov 11, 2022 |
DaniDani: I was doing very ok before I left Jos due to the transfer of my dad to another state as it is now I've been home in Benue for the past 7 months doing nothing. I've begged money from friends that anyone I try to call feels I'm here to beg again, cos my symbiotic relationships turned to parasitic ones, and that's why I'm tired of the complains I give to my friends to get money I've decided I want to work something out for myself. But how is the problem. |
Family / Re: Please I Need Help On How To Break Free. by usah4(m): 8:18am On Nov 11, 2022 |
jimmyolasun: I am learning to code on my own but without the reliable resources I find it difficult to move forward and so I'm not consistent at it. I write my codes on paper especially HTML and then Java using an app called Progate but it hasn't been easy. |
Family / Re: Please I Need Help On How To Break Free. by usah4(m): 8:13am On Nov 11, 2022 |
sisisioge: I appreciate it. I am in a place where there's nothing to hold unto, if I need to do that then it has to be another state; Benue is a shit hole where you can't find anything handy to do, I've worked in a cafe in this place with my ND and my pay is just 5k for the month and before the month end transportation must have taken part of it if not all of. But nevertheless I'll do as you've said maybe one way will come out, even where I'm thinking it might not. |
Family / Re: Please I Need Help On How To Break Free. by usah4(m): 8:07am On Nov 11, 2022 |
frozen70: Thank you, my mom is not in the picture because she and my dad separated even before I was 5 and she's doing nothing except farming and she's not married till now, I don't even know why they're apart. He doesn't even send her it's as if she doesn't exist to him, she comes in the picture once; like in this case now he my dad may call her to caution me. The fact still remains I've been so comfortable in my comfort zone that I'm scared of the outside world, like where do I start from, if I leave to earn a living where do I stay to start hustling and my fear is how bad the country is. Gone are the days where people sleep under bridges to hustle but with the current kidnapping, killings and banditry attacks I fear for my life. |
Family / Please I Need Help On How To Break Free. by usah4(m): 11:48am On Nov 10, 2022 |
I have been going through this for like 4 years now and I don't know how to break free as my hands are tight. I got into an argument with my dad over the phone last night because of my sister who's schooling in Lafia as a Community Health Extension Worker (CHEW). She called complaining to me been her elder brother of how my dad sent her 1K for upkeep, according to him (my dad) that my uncle has given my sister some money for upkeep so he sees no reason sending her money, the same Man that paid my sister's tution fee of 200k+ some months back with my dad contributing nothing and him (my dad) as a soldier can't afford to send my sister even 5k for upkeep a girl child; I got mad called him and told him that's pure wickedness and that I've reported him to my uncle and we're to sit this December to iron things out. As a soldier that he is nah got angry and started ranting that this should be the last time that I'll speak to him in that manner, I told him this was the same thing he did to me while I was schooling in the Polytechnic but I could cope because I am a guy (I'm only but 20 years old) and he shouldn't be treating my sister in that manner and if that be the case then I'm leaving the house to go look for something to do and support my sister and myself who they've chosen to domesticate. To my greatest suprise my father told me that if I think I am a man that I should leave the house last night and not even wait till the next day; I felt dead but still alive. I hold National Diploma in Computer Science. I need help on how to break free, I can do any job for a start. I'm losing my sanity and honestly sometimes I see death as a way out. |
Family / Re: What’s Your Opinion About Being Betrothed? by usah4(m): 11:00am On Nov 10, 2022 |
To me right now it's lack of wisdom. |
Family / Re: My Dad And I Aren't In Good Terms by usah4(m): 10:58am On Nov 10, 2022 |
All this people taunting you have never been in such a situation and they'll not know how it feels. We all embrace Africanism forgetting that even our parents are wrong some times. But forgive him and wait on him to claim his forgiveness. Readers know this and know peace, giving birth to children is not an achievement but making sure that they're well trained and become successful people in the society is. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Ran Away From Home With My Sister by usah4(m): 10:42am On Nov 10, 2022 |
Deborah200299:I am going through this same thing you went through, but I don't know how to break free as my hands are tight. I got into an argument with my dad over the phone yesterday because of my sister who's schooling in Lafia as a CHEW. She called complaining to me been her elder brother of how my dad sent her 1K for upkeep, according to him (my dad) that my uncle has given my sister some money for upkeep, the same Man that paid her tution fee of 200k+ with my dad contributing nothing and him (my dad) as a soldier can't afford to send my sister even 5k for upkeep a girl child; I got mad called him and told him that's pure wickedness and that I've reported him to my uncle and we're to sit this December to iron this out. As a soldier that he is nah got angry and started ranting that this should be the last time that I'll speak to him in that manner, I told him this was the same thing he did to me while I was schooling in the Polytechnic but I could cope because I am a guy (I'm only but 20 years old) and he shouldn't be treating my sister in that manner and if that be the case then I'm leaving the house to go look for something to do and support my sister and myself who they've chosen to domesticate. To my greatest suprise my father told me that if I think I am a man that I should leave the house last night and not even wait for the next day; I felt dead but still alive. I am an ND holder in Computer Science with zero account balance and nothing at hand living in my uncle's house. I need help on how to break free, I can do any job for a start. |
Crime / Re: 12-Year-Old Girl Deceived By Her Family And Married Off To A 50-Year-Old Man by usah4(m): 2:46pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
Abbertee2: Muslims have normalize theirs so it ain't a news whenever I see it from them. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Bride Stops Her Husband From Kissing Her At Their Wedding Reception (Pix, Video) by usah4(m): 10:51am On Jul 13, 2022 |
It will end in tears 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Scam Has Become So Normalized That People Don't Even Notice It? � by usah4(m): 3:12pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
VAT |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Which Skill Would You Like To Learn? by usah4(m): 3:11pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
PROGRAMMING (JAVA) 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Heartwarming Video Of Daughter And Father Dancing At Her Wedding by usah4(m): 12:35pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Nice That man na bad good man during him days ooh 7 Likes |
Politics / Re: ADC Nominates Tonto Dikeh As Deputy Governorship Candidate In Rivers by usah4(m): 10:57am On Jun 24, 2022 |
This man don lose already |
Career / Re: Not All Bosses Are Horrible. See Why by usah4(m): 3:04pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
Amen and congratulations to you both. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NERC Recruitment: Please Who Is Setting These Unrealistic Minimum Requirements? by usah4(m): 3:47pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
Please can anyone with ND apply and under which of the category?? |
Fashion / Re: Old Nigerian Hairstyles by usah4(m): 12:22pm On May 30, 2022 |
izzou: I hope you're married sha |
Phones / Re: Boys Wearing Slippers, Tee Shirt And Short Nika With Iphone 11,12,13. by usah4(m): 10:11am On May 26, 2022 |
Don't forget Air Pods too. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: GB Whatsapp Ban by usah4(m): 9:43am On May 26, 2022 |
yankeecoder: I don't even use GBWhatsApp, I use FMWhatsApp |
Politics / Re: How EFCC Broke Into Rochas Okorocha’s House Through The Ceiling by usah4(m): 10:13am On May 25, 2022 |
Redpill1: Why you no catch the bushmeat roast am join?? |
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