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pamcode:
Your personal theory or a copied theory brah?

Copied from where??

My first line in the message answers your question

Android17:
Hitting any woman does not constitute to abuse. Society generally frowns upon it but if Jay-Z had shoved Solange Knowles it would have been self-defense not abuse.

Spot the difference.

I'm all for transparency in issues like this especially when they highlight multiple failings even if it's by both(multiple) parties.

If you want to be totally honest about the issues, You also have to look at the self defense angle. The man said his life was under threat when she sat on his neck. I mean since we are going by his self confessed account. Why highlight, believe one, push an outcry and ignore the other.

Isnt it fairness we are seeking here, or is this some sort of retribution?

Why would you introduce external accusations to a case?. Create phantom multiple victims just for retributive purpose.

Theflint1:
Lol...what lie has she told though? Jarus admitted to beating his wife, he seems to be doubling down on it, given his attitude towards the whole thing, she says it's possible this isn't his first time and calls for people who might have been victims to come out, where's the lie in all of that?

You don't know if she pursues any issues offline, the only one we can speak on are the ones that make their way online.

The drama post sex for grades story has been over trashed, and I don't think there was a definite crime from her with the reveal from David Hundeyin.

Let it go man

Call for Victims of what?

What does she mean by abuse?

Dometic abuse?, Domestic Violence?. Which person is she calling on if there's a so called "domestic" in the abuse?

Isnt these more about one-upping rather than the facts of the issue?. You think she cares about all that.

P.S Please recheck my post, I have not accused her of any crime. Just a hypocrite and a faux crusader

Android17:
Nigerians in general especially the ones who pretend to be educated are usually emotionally charged but mentally vapid and non-technical.

Domestic violence is NOT the same as abuse of women or even violence against ANY woman. But people will run with it because...Intelleshual feminist and what not.

You know and this is funny, I used to be quite sympathetic towards but cases like this just reminds me it's more about score settling for them and not the actual issue

Theflint1:
How is she a degenerate? People have causes they standby and pursue diligently...women, especially Muslim women get the short end of the stick in society. Jarus beat his wife, admitted to it publicly and seems to be doubling down, it's only logical you think a person like that has a history of abuse, whether her call for likely victims to DM yields evidence or not, doesn't mean the process that led her there is flawed.

Which cause is she pursuing?. Are her values consistent with the so called cause

The one where she has to lie and exaggerate to pursue.

The one where she has to hop on only the public ones and make it about the cause and not the issue. Even introduce external point without any evidence or just to score a silly point.

I mean there's the case of her allegedly stealing the sex for grades story or The case where she secretly hobnobs with the so called misogynist she criticizes and their songs.

If you think she's honestly pursuing the cause, then I have a bridge to sell you. They make a mess of the whole thing and blame people for not pandering towards their "cause"

nihilistjnr:
I don't think it's necessarily crazy to be a hater. Infact I believe it's a fundamental human right to be hating on your opps like Seunnn is doing right now.

That Kiki Mordi post however is super insidious. Husband and Wife are having issues, and then you tweet to invite anybody that has had issues with the husband to come forward to the police.

Firstly, wetin concern DOMESTIC abuse (keyword in caps) with if you've ever been abused by Jarus.

That's diabolical work. These feminist hões fight extremely dirty.

The girl is a clear degenerate and always looking to hop on these sort of publicity induced seeking missions. Never doing her own research or investigations, only hopping on what is already out there. Would even Lie, exaggerate and misrepresent just to gain points

First is domestic abuse, seeing as that is unlikely to fly cos the dispute has been resolved by both parties. Now she's creating another narrative and bringing in external remonstration

I mean it would be noble and upstanding if she actually believes and practices what she preaches. Not someone who's been outed as a hypocrite.

larride:
Reading this Unilag college of medicine stuff on Twitter is heartbreaking.

How can someone who was indicted for sexual assault asked to pay 5k as in 5000 naira fine as punishment? Tf is that.

Unilag authorities better wake up, sexual assault should be dealt with seriously.

There were other conditions set out in the resolution.

Don't think the outcry should be about the amount as that would just put a price on these sort of crimes. Better to focus on the core issues and the management itself

User09:


Please dont get carried away and forget Slovakia is currently ranked 45th.

For all the midfield talk, Based on what I watched today, I think the English defense is one disaster away from exit

Another player that is sneaking his way through is Rice.

But I no wan talk anything make e no be say I get my own agenda

Please dont get carried away and forget Slovakia is currently ranked 45th.

For all the midfield talk, Based on what I watched today, I think the English defense is one disaster away from exit

The force is with this guy

Android17, not much you can do at this time

Actually indifferent.

But England no suppose dey lose to Slovakia

A40:
I don't know man I guess I understand.

Don't get me wrong it's their beliefs but I don't know that a woman has to accept that if she doesn't want to.

Me I find it illogical in this world economy sha. But that's just me. A lot of so called 'devout muslim' na for this several wife them dey ginger. No other aspect of the religion. Even the ones that are struggling to take care of just one. Will be quoting their Quran.

Exactly my point.

The sample size with women meeting such criteria is narrow as it is; so your criticism about her looks wasn't accounting for the biased sample.

I really dont like to speak on religion and politics but one thing I'll say is if there's an agreement in place before hand and all parties did know what they were getting into, then there's no need for all the storm irrespective of how emotional we or the wife may feel about it.

Personally, its not my thing, even raumdeuter wouldn't do it if presented with the opportunity in this day and age - forget what he says

A40:
They all sit to pee fam

This na regular degular girl. And I daresay his first wife is finer. I go even understand if she be significant upgrade. Maybe her Papa na Ote$ or Dantata wey go help am arrange some strong business alliances

Not that you just pick up any skrep cos you no fit hold your preeq

You have to understand there are other criteria being used here; one of which I imagine is being a devout muslim who's also gonna be ok with being the second.

That's a delimiter

GrammarNazi1:
From the screenshot, one of the ladies even has a boyfriend who might really trust her.

Oka ti fo bayi ooo (The secret is in the open)

You can't trust anyone whose WhatsApp you don't have on your laptop's WhatsApp Web.

All boils down fundamentally to the core reality that Twitter is mostly a posturing site.

Take a look at the said ladies in the whole mess.

One works with a Nigerian Bank - HR of all places

One with an NGO and the last; a sane environment which according to them should curb those excesses.

Beyond all the SM brouhaha and the noise/entertainment. People need to know there are actual legal crimes here and thread carefully.

1. Domestic Violence/Assault
2. Sex or Sexual relations with a Minor in any form.
3. Posting nudes or reposting or any form of sharing where the other party is a minor.
4. Revenge porn

Ruining your lives for others entertainment or to settle a score is taking a journey of no return

A40:
My married guys tell me this all the time that marriage for them opened a new world of pussy and I see the proof everyday.

Odanz. Of all people. You can't say it's cos he has money cos some of the transfer I dey see dey amusing.

It's a strange and funny wiring. I almost suspect my newly married friends are trying to get in on the action

I have a theory on the bolded based on what i've observed especially in this modern era

1. Money - The Married guy tends to be older and (likely) richer; and most of all will pay a premium cos of his disadvantage

2. Casting - He has his reputation/marriage to protect, so she feels safer knowing the unlikelihood of her being casted would happen. Almost like how celebrities/famous people cheat with each other rather than with outsiders.

3. Semblance of Perceived experience and care - I mean, he's already married and been there and what not. So why not?

4. Covetousness - A bit of a weak point but this one I've observed in real life. The want/taste of what the other woman has. Psychologist will probably have better explanations

pocohantas:
Lol. So the couple of times led to one beating?
Play the ostritch alone, please.

No Ostrich.

He said "react" a couple of times, then said led to - beating. Why is react leading to beating - Very open to interpretation

He could easily have said "She frustrated me to beat her a couple of times.

Like I said, it's not a slam dunk and to me, Based on what he posted, self defense can be argued.

pocohantas:
Okay. If you take your time to read his now deleted epistle, you would see where he admitted to being provoked a couple of times which led to beating. You will also see the wife post as far as April saying she has been going through DV due to the other woman's call. The midnight own was a counter response to being called out for the initial post. Na Jarùs use im hand type am. Check the links.

To be fair, I have already disclosed my bias/conflict, so there isnt any agenda here. The below is what he posted

"She frustrated me to react a couple of times which led to beating"

Led to beating not beating(s) and further provided context as to the beating that occurred - with the midnight incident. My English isnt great but I'm sure this is open to interpretation

Now this is isolating what he posted alone without taking into account the wife's own which i've just come to see

pocohantas:
Hello, you can scan this thread for the screenshots and links. I believe people have posted them.

Yes I have.

Only saw where he alluded to the midnight own. I haven't seen any one where he admitted to the couple of times you posted

iamoyindamola:
They play
2 policemen held him , one was choking him
But this one your wife sat on you and the only way to defend yourself is by pummeling her and you call it self defense

Bros you go dance soapy for kirikiri if you go that route

Sat on you where? We are still talking about self defense arent we?

pocohantas:
"I beat her [b]a couple of times".[/b]

"She sat on me once in the middle of the night".

"I have tried to be a good husband in the past 3 months"

The remaining times when she wasn't sitting on him, why did he beat her?

Has he been a bad husband for 13yrs and 9months?

Hi,

Can you point me in the bolded direction?. It's important to have a balanced take on these things

iamoyindamola:
No the self defense is faulty
There was no weapon just exchange of words and he was provoked
What is he defending?
Ego obviously

How?

Please explain?

Maybe you need to recheck how George Floyd died

I happen to know Jarus elder brother personally as I have had some professional dealings with him in the past so I may be biased.

Seeing as he's alluded to temper issues. I think he may have quickly reacted with those posts without thoroughly thinking it through.

This can pass off as a case of self defense, if she truly held him down that night. I have not seen anywhere or any evidence of the beating being a multiple occurrence. If there is, maybe someone can point towards it - This may change a lot of things.

This was an advantage for a one-up from him seeing as he has a lot of his customers on there . All he had to do was post his lawyer's response to the entire issue and make it less personal as possible. The entire reactionary thing was in bad taste.

GloriousGbola:
it is not ironic

unrecoverable bankruptcy , hard prison time and a drastic fall from grade [ruling class to beggar level] are things that will make men commit suicide. bernie madoff and elizabeth holmes went from the absolute top of the food chain to prison garb.

for a person like otedola, who was completely mad with power during the obj years [example: he bought over the old oando head office [stallion house] on ajose adeogun because he felt he had something to prove to Wale Tinubu] he had fights with dangote and then started otedola cement. so a fall from grace would have been double or triple humilation for him, as so many enemies he had made would have been laughing at him

I was speaking specifically on the context of them having it all - particularly financially.

And then having to commit suicide for what it could have solved

GloriousGbola:
Femi otedola admitted that he considered suicide at a time. It was when yardua was alive. Yardua cancelled all the concessions that allowed otedola to make his money, and otedola instantly was in debt. Big debt. he had just built zenon head office and he could not move into it because zenith bank had a lien on it. Who knows, if gej had not become president maybe he would have committed suicide.

If I were a betting man, I would say the bolded is also the case here with the Ex-Konga guy - Ironically

LordAdam16:
Its.rm made a factual statement.
The Reserves of the People's Republic of China can be surging while the PBOC is actively intervening.
A reserve balance increase does not in itself preclude ongoing debit activity.

The "evidence all along" were very visible.
First, the rate of decline was unprecedented and nothing could account for the bulk of it besides intervention.
Secondly, there was actual data showing the CBN intervened while publicly disavowing such action.

You were nowhere to be found when data finally emerged and we learned about the actual debt service payments made in March 2024.
We spent $276m on debt servicing. Meanwhile, the reserves declined by $1B in only two weeks in March.
https://nairametrics.com/2024/05/09/nigeria-spends-1-12-billion-on-servicing-foreign-debts-in-q1-2024/
You claimed that the reserves declined because of debt service payments.
No one called you out to explain the discrepancy or make a show of being right.

What you're making a fuss about has been hatched out already on the thread.
Last month I shared this snippet:



By sticking to this script, the rate has stayed stable over the past month, the spread between the official and parallel rates is miniscule, and the CBN has avoided expending billions per month trying to force through a bonkers sub-1000 rate.
The CBN has also been able to increase the reserves like it did at the start of the year before the Apex Bank engaged in its ill-advised adventure.

On a related not, they do need to stack up the reserves because of the impending pressures I've mentioned in earlier comments.
Over the last few days, rates have resumed their ascent. It just crossed 1500 yesterday on the official market after staying below the mark for about a month. Summer just arrived.
The expected minimum wage increase is almost here as well.

1400-1500 has been the fair rate for months. Myself, Itsrm, and many economists have said as much.
It took a while, but it appears Cardi B finally got the memo.
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2024-06-25/-ngn-usd-nigeria-central-bank-head-says-worst-of-naira-volatility-is-over
He could have not wasted billions to find out, but that's past tense now.

When the rate rises too quickly, there will be an intervention.
When it stabilizes, the CBN will ease off.
The reserve uptick and projected inflows (https://money.usnews.com/investing/news/articles/2024-06-13/world-bank-approves-nigerias-2-25-billion-loan-request as well as the proposed bond later in the year) are arrows in the CBN's quiver. If that'll be enough is a question that'll be answered in the coming months.

-Lord

Let's not rehash the whole thing again. My point was extensively and explicitly made the last time around.

Nothing has proven me wrong thus far, quite the contrary

Maybe reread it or let's just agree to disagree. Long verbose without substance isnt my thing.

Itsrm:
Reserves rising is not necessarily evidence that CBN is not interfering/intervening.

Very good .

Exactly where I wanted you. So what was your evidence all along?

We've seen evidence of opposing swings. So which was it?

Not that I like I told you so, you know but I just wanted to for the heck of it

raumdeuter:
Left to David in the heat of the moment he fit don do rubbish, but the dad will always be there to correct those missteps
As long as the dad is alive and making decisions he will protect his son and asset. The dad surely likes Chioma but cant like Chioma more than his own son

Hopefully by the time the dad passes, David sef go don mature more and make decisions like his dad

Doubt lol.

Probably inherited the same genome as the dancing governor

Roland17:
Until Davido comes out to debunk it with proof, agenda must Agend”.

I get your angu though

I'm sure he'll rather the status quo. The actual story may even be worse

raumdeuter:
Most of Davidos assets are domiciled in Nigeria
Davido has a billionaire father who likely has cutthroat lawyers on his payroll in US and Nigeria
His father might be a billionaire but his eyes are always open, He is the partriach of the family and the most sensible person in that clan, He stays grounded even when others are losing their head including Davido (remember when Demola won and Davido was calling the dad the real Jagaban, the dad quickly shut him up)

For Green card application they will either need to file in US embassy in Nigeria or they will stay in Yankee for an extended time to sort themselves out, Does Davido or Chioma look like someone who will stay in boring Yankee straight for 1yr to sort papers

What benefit does Green card give Chioma that she doesnt have currently? And how does that benefit to Chioma benefit Davido?
Chioma can be flown to US on Private jet anytime she needs to be there without needing to stay long to get Green card

Davido base is in Nigeria, he wont live in US for an extended time in the near future, So why will he need to take his wife with him to the US

Which is one of the reasons I said there has to be operational/active support from Davido for it to happen.

The dynamic is quite interesting too. If i remember correctly some years back, she suffered back to back visa rejections and this option wasnt even explored.

Also, you may be correct regarding the dad. He's intervened way too many times in these sort of scandals to let it just happen. But just like life, you never know and anything can happen

raumdeuter:
David likes her a lot, So this is probably compensation for the mud she don carry her rub and some of her female friends don dey sub am as baby mama. So this promotes her from baby momma to wife

Before now Davido dey smash Chioma, dey get kids through her, dey smash other bannies. So what's the motivation to make it official to Chioma besides to just cover her shame

Touche at the bolded.

Plus with the loss of a child and all she's been through, of course he had to do the right thing.

Theflint1:
They were supposed to do their white wedding before sha, it was their son passing that put to bed those plans, and knowing DavidO, he's someone who'd want to pull off a wedding this big, if not for anything, for the rep that comes with a wedding this big.

Correct me if I'm wrong but wasnt it the loss of the child that made it happen.

Given that he had to - to properly bury his son.

Yeah I agree that if he was to do it, he would go all out. My point was I doubt it was majorly his idea, given that he was already married