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EventsRe: Billionaire Wedding Reception In Dubai, See What They Served On Each Table. PICS by utenwuson: 10:01pm On Aug 25, 2018
What rubbish is tha
CelebritiesRe: Davido Stacked Up Wards Of Cash To Be Sprayed At A Wedding In Owerri (Pics) by utenwuson: 9:51pm On Aug 25, 2018
The fat gay man on red is a bloody Cubana ritualist, David don join skull mining.......... Very terrible, them give u with right hand carry left hand collect am.... Evil
HealthRe: Doctor Removes Huge Fibroids, Warns Nigerian Women. Graphic Photos by utenwuson: 7:18am On Aug 24, 2018
EVILFOREST:
Let me make it a little bit comprehensive :
Most Black African ladies start menstruating at the age of 14.
While most white ladies resume such earlier (11yrs)
REASON is because they mature earlier and faster than blacks.
White ladies initiate SEX and Childbearing earlier as well.
The BLACK LADIES who initiate such earlier, are those of poor socioeconomic class, especially those in our rural communities and that’s why you rarely see them suffer from FIBROID or other Infertility related issues.

Blacks have not learnt how to marry EDUCATION, CAREER and FAMILY properly.
A lady graduates as early as 21yrs(BSC) or 25yrs(MBBS), she still tells you, she’s not ready for marriage. Meanwhile she started seeing her PERIOD roughly 12yrs ago, forgetting that the onset of MENSES signifies the end of maturity, after the development of breast and Pubic hairs, which marks the beginning.

If, a lady of 25 yrs will be celebrating 12yrs of uninterrupted menstrual flow, then imagine what a lady of 30 years will be celebrating...??
That’s why some MOTHERS will remain a thorn in the flesh of their daughters till they get married, since you need to get married before pregnancy according to religious inclinations.

However, MEDICAL DOCTORS don’t care about marriage.
They manage your pregnancy irrespective of how the pregnancy came about. They see the pregnancy as your statutory right.
LADIES should always think twice before ABORTING BABIES.
If you are single at 34yrs and still aborting, think again.
If I were you I will keep the pregnancy, yet bear the shame and reproach.
I will put religion, family and every other thing behind me, since it’s my life, and provided I have a source of income.
funny enough.... No source of income as u put it
CelebritiesRe: Falz Hangs Out With American Rapper, P. Diddy (photos & Video) by utenwuson: 7:00am On Aug 24, 2018
At least falz grab near Diddy, not that igbo smoker that looks like small rat close to big cat
NYSCRe: Lolzz: This Guy's Allawee Cannot Be N19,800 by utenwuson: 12:23pm On Aug 19, 2018
Tallesty1:
Alright.




Take everything from this administration with a bag of salt. Don't believe the story until someone close to you receives alert. Tell the person not to believe the alert until s/he withdraws successfully.
give comedy a try.... U making me laugh this hard....
RomanceRe: Hot & Spicy: Nigerian Actress Moyo Lawal Looking As Appealing As Ever (photos) by utenwuson: 7:42pm On Aug 18, 2018
Cover her thigh and all his see is mnkjhgfdghjhffhc
CelebritiesRe: Anita Joseph Shares Throwback Photos Before Her Curves by utenwuson: 9:20am On Aug 18, 2018
Almost all girls grow up to be more fair in complexion, looking at my primary school class group picture, I couldn't recognize even a single girl no more, while the guys remain same in complexion
CelebritiesRe: Mompha: Fine Boys Like Us, Na Dem Dey Rush Us, Na Money Be Fine Bobo (Photo) by utenwuson: 11:50am On Aug 17, 2018
How on earth can one made such huge amount of money legally....... As in, what can one of legally to earn this much? Seeing this money makes me scared and, that's 100 pieces of 100 dollar each,
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Imo Blind Graduates Demand Jobs, Block Government House (Photo) by utenwuson: 11:17am On Aug 14, 2018
How did they got there? Shey de re blind ni
RomanceRe: Am I Doing It Right? (pix) by utenwuson: 3:32am On Aug 13, 2018
BluntBoy:
Skinny arms. You look like a frozen chicken.
hehehehwhehehwh hehehehwhehehwh........... U wicked guy
CrimeRe: South African Orphan Narrates How Pastor Raped Her For 3 Years, Called Her Demon by utenwuson: 1:45pm On Aug 11, 2018
OK... We will read when ever u write...... Sorry
PoliticsRe: When Will Oshimole's Foreign Wife Get Pregnant And Start Giving Birth? - Pics by utenwuson: 11:24am On Aug 06, 2018
An inside source who crave anonymity said the woman said she can't sleep with him cos his ugliness is communicable.... She cannot coman kill herself
FoodRe: What Would You Prepare With This Smoked Fish? by utenwuson: 4:37pm On Aug 02, 2018
mBillz:
Oma Igala chai!!
yes brotherly......
FoodRe: What Would You Prepare With This Smoked Fish? by utenwuson: 1:44pm On Aug 02, 2018
Okpeye rice..... Oh MA God
RomanceRe: Man And His Fiancee Dance 'Shaku Shaku', Do The Doggy Pose In Pre-Wedding Photos by utenwuson: 11:15am On Aug 01, 2018
lepa
RomanceRe: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by utenwuson: 11:14am On Jul 26, 2018
IntrovertedK:
Best friends are best friends irrespective of the gender. Some of them are not meant to be left alone and forgotten just because of marriage. Don't marry who you don't/can't trust. Some best friends are part of us and some of them are bigger than marriage. They are like our blood that we can do without. If you think i'm lying ask jada pinkett smith. She'd choose 2Pac over anyone in life even though they are 'just' best friends. I'm sure even will smith wouldn't have been able to separate them if 2pac should still be alive. Best friends are great gift. Sometimes we need them more than our family cuz most of them are more than that.

The only thing the woman is to do is to try her best to give the husband the reason to trust her. You lots should stop being insecure.
always try to be reasonable at least, and stop talking trash, no best friend can be more than a family, and stop quoting that you read online as evidence, smith this smith that as if u were there, there's every reason for the man to be worried, any little secret about the family is easily said to the best crap, if he had the chance he will sleep with her,
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Man Going For Interview Speaks Rudely To Prospective Employer Inside KEKE NAPEP by utenwuson: 4:31pm On Jul 25, 2018
this is super story........
CelebritiesRe: Emma Ehumadu Carrying Regina Daniels In Throwback Photo by utenwuson: 4:05pm On Jul 23, 2018
now simbi is now a runs girl
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 8:14am On Jul 21, 2018
MarieSucre:
lol So all the stories we see on nairaland nko. Where men beat and abuse their wives because they're the ones who feed and clothe them, those are all women doing those things in men clothes.
it takes by the grace of God for a man to stay in a house with a woman for a while year without hitting her cos she will definitely get at u...... just God grace
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 8:12am On Jul 21, 2018
MarieSucre:
Uncle the only reason we know she is from a well to do background is because he briefly mentioned it, he did not even bring it up as a reason for their quarrel. He said the main reason for their quarrel was because he was doing somethings that made the wife feel he was cheating on her. Face that one and stop all these other jumping up and down. The man needs to check himself and limit whatever action is making his wife feels she is cheating on him. My 2 cents.
u didn't get the gist,

the woman literally was abusing his poor parents cos she s from a well to do background, the genesis of this problem is just cos the guy spends his own share on his sick parent, which the girl wasn't happy about openly.
and that was why the girl didn't say anything in her submit about what lead to the altercations between them cos everyone was gonna blame her... she just stated that it was a heated argument" and concentrated in the park out of my house stuff...

I so love the guy decision and that's the best to fix back his sanity..... he s not enjoying it but it's a hard decision he have to take.
let her eat the house.
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 11:54pm On Jul 20, 2018
Ziggylady:
I laugh at the thought-process of some of you who may not know what life can throw in your faces..So if you are married and lose your job along the line meanwhile your wife is working and making money..you will stop eating because she is the one buying the food??..

Unfortunately your bragaddio ends here because in real life and in this buhari recession and hardship,millions of homes are being sustained by the women...and no one knows except you are told or stay with them
this man isn't hungry, he's smart and working couple with businesses he is into, yet the woman throw it at his face, he bruises hi ego, the thing call man in him dies if he had stayed back, he will be a toothless bulldog, nothing pisses a man off like hearing your wife insult your parents cos there are poor, I love and pray he stand by the decision.

now to what u said, yes, the economy may have turn the pendulum of spending for the home towards the woman in the house that doesn't mean the man will just fold arms, cos eventually the woman will tell him to his face to man up no matter how lovely she is.
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 11:41pm On Jul 20, 2018
dabiton:
I think you Oga are very childish for bringing 'your side of the story' to complete strangers on social media just like your wife did.
I blame you for announcing your home to strangers, mostly unmarried kids to judge. So what did you hope to get by washing your dirty linen in public?
Now go back home, have a re-think, accept where things got wrong on your own path and get to work rebuilding the home YOU destroyed.
I am a married man and the only advice I will give you is that "Not even the closest person(friends, parents etc) to you should know about a problem you have in your home. it is a project you initiated and if it fails you can only have an excuse but you have failed all the same", only ever share the good side/strengths of your partner, NEVER their weakness.

Now get off Nairaland, and call your wife and have a honest conversation, not settle a case oo, because there is not case to settle!

YOU quit using your marriage as a source of entertainment and amusement to complete strangers!

Those kids need to have a MAN in their lives not EXCUSES!
if you wanna talk fine but I am not going to discuss what happened, just HOW YOU SHOULD NEVER LET THINGS SPIRAL OUT OF YOUR CONTROL!!!

Now, Get to work!!!
this is exactly what is causing cardiac arrest, when u keep piling up issues and saying you not gonna tell no one, high BP will kill u, he is a real man, the woman has rubbished his family costume she's from a well to do background, the only to rebuild his sanity and life is to start all over, go rent a new house, while building his, and stay there, if the wife us still interested in the Ed marriage, she knows what to do... meet him in his house not in her house.
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 11:37pm On Jul 20, 2018
tartarus:
And some nairaland males will hop on this thread and support this "husband" cos they see every marital issue as males vs females SMH.

Please guys say the truth and shame the devil! Women are human beings for crying out loud! huh huh
what the hell u talking about...

the man is simply a man that knows his responsibilities, he's working hard, he's got the love of his parents at heart,

the ladies was lucky to be born with a silver spoon, so she should throw tantrums at him reminding him if his poor parents, background and all families and u want him to fold his arms and laugh, ant man who takes such rubbish from a woman is a disgrace to men and a total sisi
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 11:30pm On Jul 20, 2018
Ziggylady:
Really??..and do you know the number of women feeding their husbands??....
those ones aren't men any longer, cos the women feeding them surely will be throwing it at their face and thing is since they are lazy sisi men, they can't react.
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 11:27pm On Jul 20, 2018
Eketem:
This is why sometimes parents insist one should marry within their class to avoid the spouse who will permanently hold your background against you and emotionally blackmail you for every achievement.

He thinks it is her job to keep the marriage, he thinks he can keep her hanging without divorcing her, I blame her because she is begging him and opening posts to ask for advise, if she had womaned up and called his bluff he won't be so rude and arrogant
this is quite simple, and sisi men wouldn't understand, the man has taken a great manly step and has move on, let her move on too, any woman who talks to as man because of his background is bad, that's a nagging wife and no man should tolerate that... I don't know about u
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 11:21pm On Jul 20, 2018
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin grin

Your story corroborated hers sir! You guys are on exactly the same page! Summary, you wanted her to change the name on a property you just confirmed that she owns the lion share of to your name alone! Awwww...you are so smart!

Anyways, my understanding of the story as pulled from your story and hers says you were practically trying to defraud her!

1. She got the property (landed)
2. She did the paper works
3. She started building
4. You spent your own money on your parents's house
5. The remaining money, which you admitted isn't much was used to finish the house.

God is still in heaven, be fair in your dealings oga sir! Whew!
feed a woman for 50 years, no one will know, she feed u for one day, the whole world will know, he has taken a manly decision, he should relocate to a far state and rebuild his ego, his new home and leave the nagging woman, who reminded him of his poor parents and conditions.

he should let her be.... I love being a man.
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Chukwuemeka Ohanaemere Deliverance In Onitsha Got People Talking by utenwuson: 9:50pm On Jul 20, 2018
99 percent of pastors in naija and Africa are all fake
CelebritiesRe: Donald Duke Talks About His Visit To Linda Ikeji's Office by utenwuson: 9:25pm On Jul 20, 2018
yeah... she is just getting started..




nacking.............Indomie belle full.
RomanceRe: Essentials For Nigerian Girls Visiting Their Boyfriends: Eggs Included (Photos) by utenwuson: 3:07pm On Jul 19, 2018
women would never learn.......
RomanceRe: Man Slaps His Girlfriend For Wanting To Fry Four Eggs For Herself (Pic) by utenwuson: 12:47pm On Jul 18, 2018
Sistar:
Sorry to disappoint you have passed that stage already. (Am counting kids)
I respect HIM and HE does me as well.
He is not a poor church rat like you. (Close your eyes let me pray for you)
And if you need cash to buy a crate of egg for a start holla at me aii
Am that nice
keep counting kids until a DNA is done.... probably all your numerous ex's will line up to deprive the poor man who put an uncultured parrot like u in his house the kids he s raising.

Don mind replying cos am off.
RomanceRe: Man Slaps His Girlfriend For Wanting To Fry Four Eggs For Herself (Pic) by utenwuson: 12:28pm On Jul 18, 2018
Sistar:
When a poor mentality is talking.
Smh please go ask PMB how many eggs his been served?
Poverty is speaking from you.
Wait a min how many eggs does your father eats in a meal?
Is it by force to have a girlfriend when you can afford it?
If you need epp please tel us
keep ranting like a rain beaten fowl, until u start counting your ex's in 6 digits,
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With My Bestie... How Do I Tell Her? by utenwuson: 7:59am On Jul 18, 2018
every opposite besties must end up nacking unless u wanna deceive yourself,
there's absolutely nothing like a guy to a lady bestie.
one day eventually Una must nack

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