₦airaland Forum

isaythetruth:
Oga I disagree with you...all hussle no be hussle! Their are many skills to learn, no be writing articles and emails wey I dey use cash out steady on Upwork and fiveer.

In Nigeria, if you make up to 1000 united states dollars in a month, I don't think you're doing badly.

wait,u de make up to 1kdos every month....abeg make we relate!

isaythetruth:
OP don't ever listen to this idiot, learn a skill and you will make it in life... Look at the advice a fool is giving someone.

EFCC go soon clamp you!

which skill is going to learn to make it in life..... everyone of you will making noise, learn skill,like all the skill learner's got job....no de form cent oga, husstle na Husstle na naija we dey!

SimplyFacts:
Don't mind them.
Na me wan carry one outdated woman put for house? How many heads Ned Nwoko get

once you are above 25,I can't even date you!

PresidentAtiku:
God punish all of una including any SCAMMER reading this

with all the politicians you are worshipping including atiku dat lead this country to this level!

otijah:
Tinubu is still walking free. Na wa oo

Tinubu did not govern any of your father's Father land..... Jonathan and maduake are still walking free!

Emilokoiyawon:
We worship Eledumare the Source of all things. We honor our orishas (mediators) like Sango, Ogun, Osun, Elegba etc. We don't need a religion imposed by Arab slave traders. We are a proud people.

who is Eledumare?
sango don die
ogun n osun are Waters,who created water?

thaoriginator:
If animal comot where him go go? Jungle?

You nevee hear say jungle don mature?

We the keeper of the zoo must do whatever it takes keep the animals sane

there is nothing you can do to keep the zoo as long as gumi and miyatti still alive.... zamfara don mature finish as a jungle, talk to the clown in aso rock before is children (bandits and kidnappers) finish the children of the people in zamfara!

thaoriginator:


Abeg make Bene finish with am send am back to Naija..


We need more animals in our Zoo, we've got one named Cownu already

that is the reason why the Yoruba and Igbo want to leave the zoo for the animals!

Karlovych:
The "strong" boy should spend about 6 months eating watery beans and plantain in jail, by then he must have gotten little sense. We told them that Tinubu's drugs will only lead to nuisance but they are hell bent on becoming owomida in their communities, parents need to monitor their children these days.

Tinubu is one in charge of Calabar now...all the iyamiri boys on death sentence in other countries are sent by tinubu!

doggedfighter:
As a Jss 2 student then, what was I doing?

I was always hiding from those senior girls.

Couldn't talk back at even SS 1.

Here a child is stabbing a prefect.

Some Js 1 students maybe smoking weed, Loud and all sorts.

They just can't be doing these without highness.

Those community schools are worse where you see all vices.

Raising children these days is much more difficult and tasking.

and the parent will keep blaming the government for bad upbringings!

airminem:
This is terible Most of this children are from very poor background and poor upbringing. His parents probarly has like 9 to 12 children, managing the intolerable level of hardship in the country.

is not a lie my sister!

Emilokoiyawon:
I know you are Yoruba and a muslim. You abandoned the gods of your ancestors to embrace a foregin god. Where is your Allah? Where is your Mohammed? In northern Nigeria, some muslim families have resorted to eating grass to survive. If Allah is great why is it happening? Boko Haram has killed uncountable muslims. Where is Allah? Where is Mohammed? It is better to embrace your traditional religion. At least we traditionalists do not bow down to the god of Arab enslavers or European invaders/colonials. Shior. Oniranu.

since the creation of the universe,no single dead person among the traditional worshippers.... at least,they worship Allah,who do traditional worshippers worship?

normal level but night manager will also available for your husband!

Polynek:
Bruno can do His job

we are not talking about penalties.....pogba is not his mate!

Amotolongbo:
If Olusegun Obasanjo is interested in Igboho’s case, he will be freed and won’t be released to the Nigerian Government.

That is the most powerful Nigerian man I know internationally.

most useless president!

harmony75:
How many male children are responsible in the family!? Everything still fall back to the female Child just 3% male children are useful!? God have mercy but 50% female are responsible for their father and mother they will still care for their husbands and kids and go home to care for their siblings how many male children Care!?

so 90% of the female children are running after 3% male children that are doing okay to get married to them.....all the responsible women in Nigeria depends on their husband or family wealth....women do not usually dream to get rich but rather go after rich men!

feldido:
If you want to live longer, Give birth to female children.
I have 2 beautiful girls and I'm very grateful to God for them.
I've always prayed to God to give me a female child.

Men will always take their Family as their primary responsibility over their parents when they get married, but the female child will always take good care of their parents even adding that responsibility to their husbands

oga husstle hard make u no wait 4 pikin b4 u eat....ur daughters will still collect 4rm there husband b4 u eat....male child, anyday anytime!

donbachi:
Some female child is worth more than 10 male children put together.

1 in 1000families.....male na oga 4 any where!

[quote author=donbachi post=103959597]Some female child is worth more than 10 male children put together.[/quot

Preciousgirl:
This is called dokono in Ghana and it's better than all Nigeria meals I tell u
My husband, a Yoruba man always confesses that my food is something else

it sweater when you eat with Titus fish....u Sabi banku?

Fahdiga:
Why do FFK love Igbo women more than the women from his tribe? Is there something wrong with his people that we don't know

love or is using and dumping them like tissue paper!

Oyinlomobambam:
Very clean US used iPhone Xs 64gb going cheap... 100% perfect.

battery is 84%

Price: 185k

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Slightly negotiable please

145k...

Oluwapresley:
So it's a government thing generally then. Anything that has to do with government just get wahala.

you get money to buy federal job!

Oluwapresley:
Why is everything hard in this government kwa? Ordinary to apply for job now, problem upon problem! I have been seeing different threads on application issues with FRSC. Haaaaa!!!! If it's not passport today, it's the site is not opening or that people should try apply by 3am when no be say na vigilante work person wan do.

but in the previous government,you can never see federal job offer to apply freely!

CELEBRITIZ:
I just saw your quote. Bro only broke men reason the way you reason . I tell you stop with this mentality

I can't investment on anything pussy,it not special....you can say anything,na u get ur mouth!

Ohyinyeah:
*Being Nigerian Outside Nigeria: An Extra Burden* by Fr Nash

I've been in and out of South Africa since the last five years. On my first arrival in Johannesburg, January 2014, I was welcomed at the airport by Fr. Terry Nash. He was smiling, I was smiling, too. I was in the company of six other guys who introduced themselves - from Delta State, Akwa-Ibom, Benue, Anambra, etc.

It got to my turn and I said IMO. Fr. Nash's smile ripened into a giggle, "I have heard about Imo, I met many people from Imo State because I've been in prison ministry. Nigerians generally make up a high population in the prison here. And the Imo guys make the church in prison so vibrant, those guys are great", he said, still smiling. My own smile had left me. Years later I would find myself suffering what seems like a stigma that comes with being Nigerian. Every time I found myself in the airport, my identity as a Nigerian is a source of worry: being asked to step aside for extra questions, being delayed by extra protocol because I'm Nigerian.

Three years ago I was returning to Nigeria one holiday. There was a small chaos at the airport: the noise of police whistles and the barking of police dogs filled the air, "get that man", a chubby white police man was screaming. "Somebody has been caught with drugs again", an unknown Black man quickly hinted me, "it is these Nigerians". I quickly became furious.
"You can't be sure it's a Nigerian", I retorted. Well, the guy was caught. Behold, he had a strong Nigerian accent while he was begging the police men, and had the angled shape of my head: Igbo, with a rosary on his neck. I gave up on defending Nigerian reputation.
I gave up because shortly after a Nigerian family volunteered to do clean up in a certain Catholic parish in Johannesburg, the police stormed into the church one day and found drugs hiding behind the terbanacle. I gave up when a Nigerian asked by an immigration officer to step aside, was scolding the officer for the delaying him and raining legal threats, "I know my rights, you can't keep me this long", only for the immigration officer to find that his documents had all been forged.

Once, on returning to South Africa from Nigeria I was with an old Yoruba woman who couldn't speak or read English, her son in Pretoria had a new born baby. She had been invited, they somehow succeeded in making her a passport and got her a visa. She couldn't read anything or understand any information at the airport, so I helped her because my Yoruba is fluent.
When finally we reached Johannesburg the immigration officers had questions about some "strange" things in her bag. I told them those were cooking ingredients, I was the translator between her and the officers. Soon she became worried and whispered into my ear, "Eyi n di isoro. Fun won ni five hundred naira" (this is becoming a problem, give them five hundred).
"Won o kiin gba five hundred", I replied.
"Oya fun won ni one thousand" (then give them one thousand). She squeezed a wrinkled one thousand naira note into my hand. I told her they do not use naira here. "haaaaaah" her mouth opened. I expected that, I smiled.
Bribe is a Nigerian culture, even our old people believe it works, and that there is no other way of moving past an obstacle asides bribe, there is no other means of progress asides bribe. Bribe is a Nigerian salvation.

Weeks later I had a Nigerian friend who was in dire need. He lived with me, he talked about his two million naira which he was expecting from Nigeria, with many proves of the availability of the money. So he borrowed six thousand rand from me. My friend, it's now more than two years, he never paid. He fled to some place else and never returned my calls. I learned later he had borrowed also from a Kenyan who was our neighbor, and this neighbor kept asking where my 'brother' was. Until today he never paid, and it doesn't prick his conscience.
It's important for we Nigerians to ask ourselves serious questions. What is the most important thing to a Nigerian? What kind of factors in our childhood make us desperate and dangerously competitive? Sometimes we are under the pressure of our parents and peers to "prove our selves". When the average Nigerian travels abroad he doesn't travel to merely make a livelihood. His plan is to outshine his peers. I do not find this common among South Africans. They're usually satisfied, they just want to have what they need, they don't kill themselves over what is beyond them.

The first time I had a drive to Durban with a senior brother from Mariannhill we saw a Nigerian suspiciously passing a tightly-folded bag from under the counter, then they made signs to each other, then he sneaked out. Another man entered and sneakily collected it.
The Zambian brother tapped my back, "drugs, they are your brothers". The saddest thing is that those who choose to talk about this are attacked and bullied on social media, they are regarded as unpatriotic citizens. Because Nigerian morality ends with sex and marriage. Finished. Talk about issues on human sexuality and you'll see the bible-thumping Nigeria saying, "hell fire, Adam and Steve, weapons of the devil, it is not our culture", but bribery is our culture. Everything else asides sexual activity is survival, so it's unofficially acceptable. Our mouths are sharp when HIV is mentioned, we often think we are very moral. What shall it profit a virgin who is a thief? Nigerian morality is faux.
"What is your brother doing in Malaysia?"
"He is hustling", that is all you can say. He's just hustling. He comes back to Nigeria and does Thanksgiving and the priest blesses him with chasuble spread out. He pays his tithes and gives huge offering, and his name is announced in church. But nobody notices that poor man at the corner of the church who is a gate man and gives his offering from the little he earned through honest work.
What is your brother doing in Dubai? You give random and vague answers: He's trying to find something, we are praying he succeeds, please put him in prayer. You know that kind of prayer, right?

A South African Bishop once made a joke, "it is easier to trust a stone than to trust a Nigerian. You keep a stone on this table, you'll still find the stone when you come back. Keep a Nigerian and come back later, the Nigerian is gone". And yet we wonder why religious orders outside Africa are afraid of considering Nigerian applications. Our brothers who were admitted into American dioceses arrived the airport and then ran away.

I visited a church in Johannesburg where I heard during the announcements that the guy who teaches the altar servers had been shut dead. A Nigerian. Later the circumstances surrounding his death did not match with a person who would teach mass servers how to serve Holy Mass.

It should make us ask questions about what we value the most as Nigerians: religion or integrity? Perhaps something is wrong with how we have been evangelized.

Back home in Nigeria, Nigerians who are not corrupt are seen as fools by their fellow Nigerians. Their wives mock them. Those Nigerians who studied abroad and now see the world differently, hardly ever come close to political offices in Nigeria, they just won't fit in. And yet we love Jesus the most, we are the bastion of faith in Africa.
Do you know why your visa has been rejected many times? It's because your passport is a Nigerian passport. Ask your friend from Tanzania, he'll tell you how easy it is for him to get a visa.

Do you know why your admission into that European University is taking long? It's because they're still investigating your documents to be sure that they're not fake. Ask your South African friend, he already got an admission.

Now that a new word has been added into the Oxford Dictionary "Nigerian Scam" (please google it) we can be sure that our position in the world is first place. Think Nigerian, but let it be that your reputation is important. Identify as Nigerian, but make sure those who come after you are not denied privileges because of you. Because of those who represent us positively around the globe, because of the many Nigerians who work to earn their living, I am proudly Nigerian. I am proudly Nigerian, because Pius Adesanmi was, Chinua Achebe was, because Anthony Cardinal Okogie is, because Chimamanda Adichie is, because Fela Kuti was, because of people such as Flora Nwapa, Ben Okri, Dora Akunyuli, Bishop Hassan Kukah, etc. There are many models you could choose from instead of adding to our dirty script. Save other Nigerians from stigma, be true.

the scammers are the hardworking nigga while the real husstlers are lazy, nothing special for this life,if the money come (fine)and if I die trying....all glory belongs to God!

uniqueuser:
Any good thing i haven't done to my Mom i wouldn't do it to any bitch

I can't even do for any bitch!

I'm not traveling to the west to become rich but go to a country where the system is working....a graduate will be struggling for a job of #50k in this yeye Zoo called nigeria!

Romanoff:
Shey e no know before e marry the woman ni?

na his own problem b dat!

Romanoff:
To those telling him to let the father take his kids, if you were one of those kids, won't you resent your mother for abandoning you?

Wouldn't you ask that "what type of mother will abandon her kids?"

@Op, you knew she had kids when you married her, I know it's not easy, but you both will have to double your hustle. Get other side businesses, cut your coat according to your material.

If you'll need to downgrade their school, do so, if you'll need to move to a cheaper area, do so.

Do all you can to cut cost.

Those kids will never understand or forgive their mum in the future.

Use two side look the matter.

Another thing your wife can do is to take him to court, especially for child support.

Let her get a good lawyer if she wants him to care for his children.

MODIFIED

She can go through FIDA to sort out Co-parenting and child support agreement.

For those coming for me, if you're not capable of talking like a homosapien, don't mention me, cause I no well. I will drag you from here to Timbuktu. So come correct

he should be taking responsibility of another man....who well for this Nigeria!