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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:26am On Jul 16, 2021 |
justiz5: If your words are backed by hate and curses, i wish them back on you. There is nothing wrong with two adults co-parenting and sharing the bills of their kids just cause to they are not together. It's wickedness. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 11:27am On Jul 16, 2021 |
AyeMoJuba: I feel you. Single mothers are bad news period!!!! I didnt say ALL 50+, I just meant that that is the kind of people that are more amenable to single mama. It's definitely not something for a young man. personally i dont know why a man would marry a single mother period!!! it's not like she has options!!! IMHO single mothers are for companionship, not marraige. they bring nothing to the table except companionship. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Dextre(m): 11:27am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: Abeg go rest, all these one na just English wey u dey speak. If u haven’t lived that kinda life b4, nor come dey give advice about doubling hustle and taking care of kids and all. Let dem dilly dally to whichever way fate carry dem |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Chinny024(f): 11:28am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Please,take care of the kids. They won't forget you. May God bless your hustle!!! |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Reex12(m): 11:29am On Jul 16, 2021 |
grandlexuz:300 dollar benefits when another man Is digging her hole and changing styles on the bed but hey afterall when ur 300dollars come they spend |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:30am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Dextre: I have lived with people in similar situations. One of them let her husband take the kids away. Today, she's alone, miserable and can't even tell where her kids are. For the kids to not reach out to her in these days of social media, I wonder what awful things they must have been told about their mother. Another took her baby daddy to court and got him to pay fees while she handled the rest. Now that the man is even out of job, she's the one hustling to care for them. I run advocacy on issues like these as well as child literacy, legislative processes and SDGs, trust me, I know what I am talking about. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Hallabee1(m): 11:31am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Aje..... why not give the owner of the property back to him...abi you won claim the kids nii |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Allwell96: 11:31am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Let him take his kids, u give birth to your own. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Localordinary: 11:31am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Samson, how is Baruwa? Andrew87: |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by INTEGRITYA1(m): 11:33am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: Forget all these child supports you're talking about, do you think is all Men that are not serious? Even if we are to go through legal processes to settle the issues, there are age the children will attain and the court will allow them to be with their father. If they are still below that age is understandable. I repeat, no woman can take my children away from me. Do you think is all Men will allow women to take their children away in situation this? Forget that. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Juicewrld27: 11:34am On Jul 16, 2021 |
caprini1:the man has shown interest in hijacking the babies. Why not raise the white flag and give him his property whole heatedly than developing fondness for them and they later break your heart by going with their biological father. Blood they say is always thicker than water no matter the case 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Jamesbiodun(m): 11:34am On Jul 16, 2021 |
1. Why did the lady left the wealthy man? 2. Why did you marry her when you know it will be a burden to you? 3. Why did the man want to take his two kids from her? That is the question we need to ask, I cannot judge or side anyone here. The only thing left for you is to take care of the kids if you really love them and their mum |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:35am On Jul 16, 2021 |
INTEGRITYA1: Rotfl. I hear you. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Dextre(m): 11:38am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: This is not about the woman, nor be the woman come complain here. It’s the guy, las las the guy nor wan shoulder any responsibilities and he is right in doing so, life too hard to dey carry another man problem for head. It’s better for them to be adviced to find a common ground with the baby daddy, than tell the couples to double dere hustle and the guy should assume responsibilities. You think taking care of kids is by buying cheese balls and birthday cakes. Nor be so o 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Hezmatosky: 11:38am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Wetin u find go after two yansh? And maybe na two fathers o |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by elpochas: 11:38am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Op you are very funny.I Remember when my married Ex left her Husband and wanted to come back to me,i told point blank that i cnt marry a lady that has a child with another Man.Told her to go settle with her husband,she went and settled with her husband. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by justiz5(m): 11:38am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:If you are convinced that your conclusion is out of love why are you afraid of my prayers? Watch out as this scenario plays out in your life later on. Your son must fall victim to an a cunny mum with kids. The woman will charm him to take care of her kids she had with another man at the expense of you. You will cry but find no solution. You come on nairaland and promote biased judgement at the expense of the men thinking it will not backfire. It will surely do. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:40am On Jul 16, 2021 |
justiz5: Co-parenting ma bias judgement? Wawu. I gave that advice like I would give it to my brother, no hate, just a win win situation. Could be your misogyny speaking out sha. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by torqque7(m): 11:40am On Jul 16, 2021 |
DirtyGold: Baba,funny thing is she wasn't even married to the man,she was just his babys mama,he didn't state it anywhere that she is a divorcee o,the niga married a single ho.e who got fvcked a million times and birthed 2kids and got dumped..simping on a whole new level..make him carry him wahala..him never see anything yet,a lady with 2KIDS..like wtf 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Reelmii: 11:40am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:u have a good point but it would have been better if u looked at it from both sides and not just from the mother's end Two people are involved in birthing a child and this two people are responsible for taking care of that child or children Now u said the kids will not forgive their mum for abandoning them, so that means they will forgive their father for not taking care of them right....just asking Now, talking about child support, this is Nigeria not the US, do u know how much the OP and the wife will spend in court or in getting a lawyer ? The father of the children is wealthy so money is not his problem...except u are ready to sponsor them The op does not have total say in the lives of those kids just because he is married to their mother EXCEPT he adopted them legally, which I am sure he didn't The only thing I feel he can do is to allow the woman and the father of the kids to settle their issues themselves because wen they were making the babies he was not there Since he is not impotent God will give him his own kids, so he should focus on having his own...God will help them both 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Dextre(m): 11:41am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Chinny024: Give him the money to take care of them na, that d koko dere, nor be daddy is home dey take dey take care of kids 4 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:42am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Reelmii: That's why I said they should go to court so they can work on co parenting. The man doesn't have to pay cash to the mother. He can handle the payments himself. Payments like school fees and health insurance. They bother have the kids, taking them away because he has money is just wicked. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by grandlexuz(m): 11:43am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Reex12: Hahaha. I do it for my kids. The deserve the best irrespective. When you have kids who make >19 average and have never been second you feel blessed beyond measure.. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 11:43am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: No you dont, you are talking with female bias. An an aside all children will leave home sometime, this is something women (particularly single mothers) fail to realise. A child is not a recipe for loneliness, a partner is. Secondly women are more prone to poisoning the minds of their children than men. men rarely say anything bad about their wives/ex-wives to their children, in fact i do not know of any case of a man the most a man will do is say i will not pay for achild not under my roof or under the roof of another man. The world is full of incidents where women (even those in marraiges) weaponise their children against their fathers. 7 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Juicewrld27: 11:44am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:the man who impregnated the woman has every right to take em away. If the woman decides to live with him cause of her kids that one is up to her 5 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by uthlaw: 11:45am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:he should be taking responsibility of another man....who well for this Nigeria! 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:45am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Juicewrld27: No. He has no right to take them away. They both own the kids. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:45am On Jul 16, 2021 |
uthlaw: Shey e no know before e marry the woman ni? 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Vireani79: 11:46am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: How do u know he is withdrawing child support so he can take the kids away Is it not possible that like me he is seeing that this man and his wife want to milk him U take sides of this gold digger and his wife and have refused to see the other side of the story Ur take from the start is he must pay the woman So it's ok U guys always love the victim card 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Juicewrld27: 11:47am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:maybe in europe that is applicable but we africans believe the man has every right over his kids. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Comingsoon212: 11:48am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Weedhustler:correct mugu 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ChopAndGo: 11:49am On Jul 16, 2021 |
[s] Romanoff:[/s]Shut up! Ignore this person 2 Likes |
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