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wizygreat2000:
Werey's full this NairaLand i swear my brothers and Sisters that is due and capable of marriage should go and married to feel less about your wife and husband privacy even though we know is not easy but let there be trust first before any other things

marriage is not an achievement!

Lessonteacher:
Who's she to you? Is she your wife?

this your question self,I can't even give any wife 30% of my salary....for what reason!

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Stefenijoan002:
His.but since he has spoilt her what do you expect ?reason I said sit her down n let them both reason like adult .

na true Sha.....

Kingk47:
You don't have to choose.. as a Man you don't need to tell your wife everything and your mother everything. Its wisdom. Even if mum gave such a brilliant Idea you should not tell you fiancee " my mum said" it ho you are still independent

alright sir,na good suggestion!

debbydams:
u see, your choice tho

naso my sister,we move!

debbydams:
I should work on yourself..God created male nd female..all this people shouting dey want baby mama will end up getting married because deep down we want companion..we just com online to pretend..wedding no good nd there's wedding every weekend..

I go marry for sure,but side chick go plenty for me!

debbydams:
even the male among them no complain..marriage is not about money, is not about big ass, big boobs or pretty face its about two people that understand themselves ,ready to take corrections accept their flaws..if na too Marry I'll b married by now but I really don't want to marry the wrong man..money is not love o..understanding is all that matters most of this Married couples thats complaining knew it already how will I be dating someone I don't know, ill make sure I do my findings nd test u..nd see your reactions..a broken relationship is beta Dan a broken marriage o.. When u hear Debby the troublesome girl its a lie,,I'm very calm but if u are dating me forget it Ill disturb u so as to know the real you..

have tried several relationship but I don't seems to love anyone....all the best Sha!

debbydams:
maybe they married the wrong ones oo..all my friends are married nd I'm always jealous of them non has ever complained or envy me o..

because marriage only favour women!

debbydams:
there's if u marry the right person

90% of my guys are complaining about marriage.... always admire we the single ones!

buchi4action:
That's the joy of being married

where is the joy in that!

festacman:
The matter arising here is that loads of people are 'scam bombers' or "drug runners' in their closet while using one visible legit hustle as facade.

And come to think of it, how are we even sure that a strange character like Bobrisky doesn't deceive us and divert our attention with his feminine antics during the day but at night, yanks off all those useless dresses and goes to work with a LAPPY and be bombing out mails to 'clients'.

Just saying, men, just saying!

Bob na Yahoo transgendered!

Stefenijoan002:
Can't really say anything coz I don't know how you both started the ship!maybe you alway lavish on her and this has made her have the impression of my man is capable of anything .
secondly just make her see reasons as to why you obliged to ur mum's opinion besides it for u both good !lastly give her time to think !don't worry she'll come around .

think about what....who owns the money!

Kingk47:
I am not a relationship expert neither am I good in keeping one. But standing as a neutral I can only tell you that If you don't grow up as a man you would end up having issues in your marriage. You have already planted the seed that you can't make your own decisions and you will always need your wife to make good decisions or else na yawa. You have made your wife to think or to know that you are mummy's boy, it is better to be a daddy's boy than a mummy's boy. No woman want to share the love of her man, no matter who, some women even jealous the love of there husbands to there children. Even if your mum gave that super advice , you should have told your fiancee in such a way that she will feel it's your idea. She may even think when you have issues later in your marriage that you will bring third party.

what are you trying to say.....wife over mother abi!

iamDrRhymes:
Maybe you aren’t carrying her along the way you should. Your wife too be should have more say than your mother because it’s her wedding. You guys need to agree

who b dis one again!

Kokaine:
Bro if you use that wedding money to travel to Canada, you will get a finer young and richer girl. Don't be cheap. You are only doing her a favour here. Tell her you don't want to marry again that instead you want to travel abroad and marry a white rich girl with long nose so your kids will be very fine and rich. Let's see who calls back

best advice on nairaland this year!

thundafire:
Immaturity because of peer pressure and also too much money. He is now a superstar and left her who stood by him all dis years,so he can go and eat fresh one.

stood by waiting,alaye no deceive yourself, nobody stand with anybody!

Anuoluwapo23:
I understand you shaaaa, let's just keep getting the money.

yeah.... getting the money and flexing to the fullest....love no de pay bills!

Anuoluwapo23:
but live is beautiful tho

my sister,no Love in this generation again...We don't usually have this emotional feelings
We can't really stand with one another
We all look for what benefits us and make us comfort
Once we no longer get stuffs like that, everything go change!

baralatie:
I just de advice you....one day bush meat must catch the hunter

no bush meat fit catch me aje.....as long as I no fit love,na story can end it!

baralatie:
I no pity you....e go shock you

i just de advice you...me na chop n go I de do....who love help!

Kingcalls:
Juventus never took advantage of his great talent...had very very very weak midfielders that were not good and crossing the ball well or throwing long passes , or deadly thru balls just like most teams do.... Ronaldo always complained about the midfielders not spotting his runs or openings, even when they do , they are never accurate.... Baba hammer 60 league goals in 2 seasons , only Lewandowski bettered that with 75 goals , Messi 54 ... .. abeg, Baba Don try ...the season juve should have won the CL was in his first season , but the rest of the team dint turn up...

For those saying he left it worse are mad in their head.... 82 league goals in 3 seasons and they say he worsened them... out of his 29 league goals this season , 6 na penalty.... 29 league goals in 33 games

if juventus win championsleague now, story go change, Ronaldo single handle Juventus to champions league glory....now is moving to PSG for new challenge!

baralatie:
Nonsense..........trust a man for what?

I no pity you....e go shock you!

Babafash:
Love is a beautiful thing if u find the right person

u still de deceive yourself at this level!

baralatie:
Trusting a woman is never a bad idea!

But not been able to execute a personal plan in life.is a terrible idea.

You can date a lady and at the time of temptation it means nothing because of choices that would be made.

Now how would you feel.if you found out that the new relationship she is in may probably fail in less than a year because of unfulfilled promises

Everyone is battling with one form.of.temptation or another.

So.forgjve,forget and move on with your new found freedom

rubish talk.... trust a woman for what?

doggedfighter:
Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk.

Trusting humans is a risk. It's not gender based . Don't generalize.


Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.

Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.


We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.



Even YOU !

Life's hard ,baby.

A woman that gave you 7 years of her life just for dating should be applauded.


Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head.

don't listen to advise from ladies!

RingRoadMafia:
I've heard that before but na nonsense yarns..

I have a friend that doesn't do any. He's not driven to sex, neither does he smoke or drink. What he loves to do though is play video games. He can play PES from morning till night!

samething with me I swear down....if money de my pocket,games no de tire me aje!

beylinko02:
We plenty wey wan hear the gist. Drop your digit na

make e no drop any digit..... just explain here make everybody see!